#make him want you

[guyadviceforher]

Whisper Your Way Into His Heart: Affirmations to Make Him Fall Under Your Spell

Are you ready to take control of your love life and make him absolutely obsessed with you? Look no further, because we have the secret weapon you've been waiting for: affirmations. Affirmations are powerful statements that help reprogram your subconscious mind, allowing you to attract love, boost confidence, and create strong connections. In this article, we will show you exactly how to use affirmations to make him obsessed with you.

Understanding affirmations and their impact on relationships

Affirmations are positive statements that you repeat to yourself, either silently or out loud, to reinforce a desired belief or outcome. They work by reshaping your mindset and rewiring your subconscious, paving the way for new patterns of thinking and behaving. In the context of relationships, affirmations can be a game-changer. By focusing on affirmations that align with your desire to make him obsessed with you, you can amplify your self-confidence, radiate positive energy, and create an irresistible aura that draws him closer.

Using affirmations in your love life is not about manipulation or control, but rather about embracing your own power and attracting the love and attention you deserve. When you believe in yourself and exude self-assurance, it becomes magnetic and captivating to others. Affirmations help you tap into this inner confidence, enabling you to become the best version of yourself and effortlessly captivate his heart and mind.

The power of positive affirmations in attracting love and connection

Positive affirmations have been proven to be a powerful tool in attracting love and creating deeper connections. When you consistently repeat positive statements about yourself and your desired outcomes, you activate the law of attraction and align yourself with the energy you want to attract. By shifting your focus from doubts and insecurities to affirmations that empower and uplift you, you create a powerful shift in your mindset and energy.

When it comes to making him obsessed with you, positive affirmations play a crucial role. They help you cultivate self-love and confidence, which are attractive qualities that naturally draw people towards you. By consistently affirming your worth, desirability, and magnetic energy, you create a strong foundation for an intense and passionate connection. Positive affirmations act as a powerful catalyst, allowing you to tap into your innate ability to attract love and create the relationship you desire.

How affirmations can help make him obsessed with you

Affirmations can work wonders in making him obsessed with you. By focusing on affirmations that align with your desired outcome, you can send powerful messages to your subconscious mind, which in turn influences your thoughts, emotions, and actions. Here are some key ways affirmations can help make him obsessed with you:

Boosting self-confidence: Affirmations that reinforce your self-worth and attractiveness can have a profound impact on your confidence levels. When you truly believe in your own value and desirability, you radiate an irresistible energy that captivates him and makes him see you in a new light.

Attracting love and connection: Affirmations that focus on love, connection, and deepening your bond can help foster a strong emotional connection with him. By consistently affirming your ability to attract and maintain a loving relationship, you create an energetic pull that draws him closer to you.

Igniting intense attraction: Affirmations that tap into your sensual energy and magnetism can spark intense attraction between you and him. By affirming your allure, charisma, and sexiness, you awaken a deep desire within him, making him unable to resist your irresistible charm.

Crafting effective affirmations for attracting love and obsession

Crafting effective affirmations requires intention and specificity. To make him obsessed with you, it's important to create affirmations that resonate with your desired outcome. Here are some tips for crafting effective affirmations:

Be specific: Instead of general affirmations, be specific about the qualities or actions you want to cultivate in your relationship. For example, instead of saying "I am loved," you can say "I am deeply cherished and adored by him."

Use present tense: Frame your affirmations in the present tense to signal to your subconscious mind that your desired outcome is already a reality. For instance, say "I am irresistibly attractive to him" rather than "I will be attractive to him."

Keep it positive: Focus on positive statements that highlight your strengths and desirability. Avoid using negative language or affirmations that reflect doubt or fear. For example, say "I am confident and deserving of his love" instead of "I am not insecure anymore."

Remember, the key to effective affirmations is repetition and consistency. Repeat your affirmations daily, preferably multiple times a day, to reinforce the desired beliefs and outcomes in your subconscious mind.

Incorporating affirmations into your daily routine

To make affirmations a powerful tool in making him obsessed with you, it's important to incorporate them into your daily routine. Here are some suggestions on how to do that:

Morning ritual: Start your day by reciting your affirmations while looking at yourself in the mirror. This practice helps reinforce positive self-perception and sets the tone for the rest of your day.

Affirmation journaling: Write down your affirmations in a journal, allowing yourself to reflect on them and connect with their meaning on a deeper level. This practice helps anchor your affirmations in your subconscious mind.

Visualization: While reciting your affirmations, visualize yourself embodying the qualities and outcomes you desire. Visualization enhances the power of affirmations by creating a vivid mental image of your desired reality.

Bedtime routine: Before going to sleep, repeat your affirmations, allowing your subconscious mind to work on them while you sleep. This practice helps reinforce the positive beliefs and outcomes in your mind.

Remember that consistency is key. The more you practice your affirmations, the more they will become ingrained in your subconscious, and the more powerful their impact will be.

Additional techniques to enhance the effectiveness of affirmations

While affirmations on their own can be powerful, combining them with other techniques can further enhance their effectiveness in making him obsessed with you. Here are some additional techniques to consider:

Meditation: Incorporate meditation into your daily routine to calm your mind and create a receptive state for affirmations. Meditation helps quiet the noise and distractions, allowing your affirmations to sink deeper into your subconscious.

Gratitude practice: Cultivate an attitude of gratitude by expressing appreciation for the love and connection you have or are about to experience. Gratitude amplifies the positive energy and emotions associated with your affirmations.

Self-care and self-love: Prioritize self-care activities that make you feel good about yourself. Engage in activities that boost your self-esteem and reinforce the positive beliefs underlying your affirmations.

Visual cues: Create visual cues, such as vision boards or affirmations written on sticky notes, to remind yourself of your affirmations throughout the day. Visual cues act as constant reminders and reinforce the desired beliefs and outcomes.

Combining these techniques with your affirmations can create a powerful synergy that accelerates the manifestation of your desired outcome.

Real-life success stories of using affirmations to create obsession

To further inspire and motivate you on your journey to make him obsessed with you, here are some real-life success stories of individuals who have used affirmations to create intense and passionate connections:

Sarah's story: Sarah had always struggled with self-confidence in relationships. Through consistent affirmation practice, she transformed her self-perception and radiated a newfound confidence. As a result, she attracted a partner who was captivated by her irresistible energy and became obsessed with her.

Mike's story: Mike had been in a long-term relationship that had lost its spark. By incorporating affirmations into his daily routine, he shifted his focus from the negative aspects of the relationship to the positive. This shift in mindset reignited the passion and obsession between him and his partner, leading to a renewed and vibrant connection.

These success stories demonstrate the transformative power of affirmations in relationships. By harnessing the power of positive affirmations, you too can create a passionate and connected relationship that leaves him obsessed with you.

Recommended resources for affirmations and relationship enhancement

If you're looking for additional resources to support your affirmation practice and enhance your relationship, here are some recommendations:

Books: "You Are a Badass" by Jen Sincero and "The Power of Positive Thinking" by Norman Vincent Peale are excellent books that delve into the power of affirmations and mindset shifts.

Online communities: Join online communities or forums where like-minded individuals share their experiences and provide support in their affirmation journeys. These communities can be a great source of inspiration and guidance.

Guided meditation apps: Apps like Headspace and Calm offer guided meditations that can complement your affirmation practice and help create a calm and receptive state for affirmations to work their magic.

Remember to choose resources that resonate with you and align with your specific needs and goals. Everyone's journey is unique, so find what works best for you.

Common pitfalls to avoid when using affirmations for obsession

While affirmations can be incredibly effective in making him obsessed with you, there are some common pitfalls to be aware of. Avoid these pitfalls to ensure your affirmation practice yields the desired results:

Lack of belief: It's crucial to genuinely believe in the affirmations you're using. If you struggle to believe in the statements you're repeating, it may be helpful to start with smaller, more attainable affirmations and gradually work your way up.

Inconsistent practice: Consistency is key when it comes to affirmations. Skipping days or being inconsistent in your practice can diminish their effectiveness. Make a commitment to practice your affirmations daily, even when you don't feel like it.

Neglecting action: While affirmations are a powerful tool, they are not a substitute for taking action. It's important to put yourself out there, engage in activities that align with your desired outcome, and actively participate in building the relationship you desire.

By avoiding these pitfalls and staying committed to your affirmation practice, you can maximize the impact and create the obsession you desire.

Conclusion: Embracing the power of affirmations in creating a passionate and connected relationship

Congratulations! You have now learned how to make him obsessed with you through the power of affirmations. By understanding the impact of affirmations on relationships, crafting effective affirmations, incorporating them into your daily routine, and utilizing additional techniques, you have the tools to create a passionate and connected relationship that leaves him obsessed with you.

Remember, the key to success with affirmations lies in consistency, belief, and taking aligned action. Embrace your own power, radiate confidence, and allow the magic of positive affirmations to work in your favor. You have the ability to transform your love life and make him absolutely obsessed with you. Now, go out there and captivate his heart and mind with the power of affirmations!

[g0ddess-r4ni]

Remember: he will want to fuck you more when you are skinny. He will love you more when there is less of you.

[hinamie]

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[tcarr]

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[millificent]

Every Nico Di Angelo fan focusing more on the background of the episode than the actual plot

[pianokantzart]

A little obsessed with the "utterly burnt out & can't quite figure out how to make it work in this economy" depiction of Mario in the concept art.

Look at him. He's so tired.

[cidnangarlond]

[shadowtraveled]

"mithrun is the only real monsterfucker in dungeon meshi" is objectively the funniest bit you can get out of his everything, but in all seriousness i think his attraction to his love interest is deliberately overstated—and that makes sense, because romantic jealousy is a classic and digestible motive, which is explicitly what kabru was aiming for in condensing mithrun's backstory, and also because until chapter 94, mithrun wasn't willing to admit to the true nature of his desires.

but because romantic envy is both classic and digestible, it probably isn’t a unique enough or complicated enough desire to tempt a demon’s appetite. mithrun’s wish, as far as we can figure from kabru’s reduced retelling, was to have a life in which he had never become one of the canaries, and that carries like 3857 implications and desires within it. that’s delicious. his love interest acts as sort of a red herring to his motivation for making it, though. (side note: i'm saying "love interest" here because, keeping in mind that i barely speak japanese on a good day anymore, "想い人" is something i'd usually take as just kind of an old-fashioned and romantic way to refer to a lover, but in context i wonder if both the connotation of yearning and the vagueness are intentional, and i think this phrasing gets those aspects of it more effectively. anyway.)

mithrun considered his love interest to be untrustworthy. there was a minute where i thought that comment might be about a similar-looking elf (yugin, one of his squad members), but comparing the two…

the "sketchy" arrow is definitely referring to the elf we know as his love interest—the bangs go toward her right, she only has the one forehead ornament, and, most notably, her ears aren't notched.

every time she’s given a full-body depiction in his dungeon, she’s drawn as a chimera, with the body of a snake from the waist down. (side note: the “what if a dungeon has chimeras before reaching level 4?”/“then the dungeon lord is unstable” exchange just being mithrun grilling his past self alive is so funny. he’s so. but anyway) there are a couple things about this.

first, the snake part of the chimera appears to be modeled after some species of coral snake mimic

which, in the biology-for-fun manga, i… doubt is a coincidence, especially with the added context of the “untrustworthy” comment. the dungeon’s conjured illusion of mithrun’s love interest was a harmless copycat of a venomous original. for whatever reason, he felt this person was a threat and made up a "safe" version of her to be in a relationship with, and while it’s definitely possible to be attracted to or even love someone you find to be toxic and/or intimidating, when you take that into consideration alongside the configuration of her body, you get some interesting implications.

which brings us to our second point: if we assume that mithrun was not in fact fucking a snake, then sexual attraction, at least, was so far removed from his idea of a relationship with this person that he did not even bother to keep her dungeon copy human enough to maintain the illusion of the option of a sexual relationship. this is somewhat echoed in the depictions of their interactions, which also imply a frankly unexpected romantic distance. she kisses his cheek and he doesn't seem to react; she's at the edge of a narrow bed with only one set of pillows, on top of his blankets while he's underneath them.

the kiss is particularly interesting because it seems to contrast the text. kabru's narration tells us this was everything mithrun could have asked for, but mithrun is there looking unreadable to pensive, likely because this is right before the panel that makes it clear things in the dungeon are beginning to go wrong.

walking through this backwards for a minute, we have the physical barrier of his bedding and the spatial separation inherent in a bed made for one person, the emotional barrier of his mounting anxiety getting in the way of his ability to enjoy the affection he sought, and... the snake, which historically carries the connotation of temptation, yes, but also mistrust, barring physical intimacy. okay. ok. if a dungeon reflects the mentality of its lord, all of this might suggest that mithrun was not able to have any real desire for a relationship with this person. his unwillingness to be vulnerable or let another person in was insurmountable. but in that case, why was she such a focal point that she remained to the end, after his dungeon had stopped creating iterations of his friends to come and visit him? why would he get so upset over her meeting with his brother that he became lord of a dungeon about it?

well. mithrun's brother was also interested in her, probably genuinely. and mithrun had to win.

you have an older brother who your parents completely ignore, probably in part because he is chronically ill/disabled and almost definitely in part because he received a ton of recessive traits that resulted in rumors that he was an illegitimate child. you are aware, most likely because those same parents fucking told you, that you actually are an illegitimate child. but they keep you around because you had the good fortune of looking just like your mother. what can that possibly teach you but that you, like your brother, are disposable?

it's utterly unsurprising that mithrun, under these circumstances, developed a pathological need to be better than everyone around him. people don't keep you otherwise. i'd argue this is also why he says he looked down on everyone he knew while milsiril claims his dungeon reeked of feelings of inferiority—he sought out people's worst traits and prioritized them in his mind to protect his already extremely fragile sense of self-worth, and all the while he tried to be as likable and high-performing as he possibly could be. his parents disposed of him anyway, but even then he tried to keep up the performance. he was kind to everyone. he never once lost to a dungeon.

when he saw his "love interest" meeting up with his brother, what he saw was himself being replaced by a person his parents had always treated as worthless, and if that was what they thought of the child they'd kept, what value could anyone possibly see in the bastard they'd given away to die? mithrun and kabru tell the story like he wanted to win this unnamed elf's heart, but it was never about being with her. it was about cementing his worth, proving that he didn't deserve to be thrown away.

and so it's particularly cruel that his demon discarded him, too. but maybe it's also particularly gentle that, in the end, there was someone who refused to even consider giving up on him.

kui laid it out in three panels better than i could hope to.

yeah. it's love. you wanted to be loved, even when the only way you were able to understand it was through the desire to be wanted, and you wanted that so badly that the idea of being consumed felt like the promise of finally mattering to someone.

[hinamie]

mentor

[chloesimaginationthings]

These clown animatronics in FNAF wild as hell..

[tojisun]

thinking about the way simon leans into you for a kiss like this— he curls his hand around your throat, and he doesn’t really tug or tighten it, instead uses his hold as a leverage to push himself close to you, like he is sucked into your gravitational force, always orbiting. always tethered.

he doesn’t know how it is to not be with you.

and this kiss, just one of many, shows the attraction he always succumbs to. he holds onto you like the way one would clap their hands around a glittering firefly, snuffing its way out to force it to sparkle only for themselves, and folds himself close like he is about to whisper a wish.

the kiss becomes a prayer; it is his offering to you.

and when he pulls back, you see the way your lips had burned him, leaving him all pinked cheeks and twitching nose. you feel breathless at the weight of his adoration, his reverence, because simon looks at you like you are worth more than the flesh that holds you up.

you swallow, throat bobbing, and simon’s fingers twitch on your skin. his hand around your throat feels like an anchor but you watch the way he still sinks into you.

[vistarya]

May I have this dance, Mrs Tims?

[datcravat]

Ace Attorney Investigations Collection X Among Us Collaboration promotional artwork by Datcravat (me haha)

[theoldkyokodied]

The Allegiance of the Ascended Vampire and the New God of Magic

[theerurishipper]

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