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would barty and regulus date in obx?
good question. it’s a bit deeper than that though/more complicated. so, they’re not really dating in the sense of going on dates and they’re also not really girlfriend and boyfriend. but they are sort of…with each other. at least for a good amount of time. and it’s widely known. barty is very protective over her, she is the most precious thing to barty for a while. he’s her guard dog, he’s her shadow, he’s her knight, he’s her partner in crime. they’re a little too PDA to be just friends/have a sibling bond and people think it’s,, weird. at first. in the same sense that all the couples in twilight were looked upon because they’re all “adoptive siblings”. whenever it gets mentioned to tom riddle he brings up the argument that if childhood bsfs growing up together becoming a couple can be a sweet thing, so can reg and barty. it’s still a bit strange though, especially because they’re still quite young (13,14,15). and it gets even weirder when evan joins the picture when reg turns 15 and they two actually start dating. there’s mean things being whispered in the shadows about evan and barty sharing and passing reg around which is vile for multiple reasons but obviously theyre so high class no one would dare say it to their faces. they know about the rumors though. reg tries not to care because she does love them both in one way or the other but it does affect her to be seen/talked abt like that. people dont know, it’s a secret, but barty and regulus have actually kissed a few times. often in bed at night, reg creeping into bartys room whenever she cant sleep and he would hold her, stroke her hair and sometimes they would kiss. nothing too heavy,, but still. it’s all a bit warped and unconventional and a little bit weird. very grey zone. but that’s life yknow. they’re both kids and they live together and it’s sort of like dormmates. they live together but they dont see each other as siblings, even though on paper they are. they’re both a Riddle.
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requested by: @skatingthinandice: 7.02 + 7.08 "don't deserve a second chance" parallel
#911#911 abc#911edit#requestsedit#@skatingthinandice#7.02#7x08#athena grant#bobby nash#bathena#bathenaedit#amir casey#gifs#mine#thank you for the request🫶🏽#hope you like it😊#i just 😭😭😭😭#he really believes he doesnt deserve a second chance#BUT YOU SO DO BOBBY NASH YOU DESERVE EVERYTHING GOOD#also im really loving the dynamic between Bobby and Amir#this isnt just a redemption for Bobby but also Amir as well#in the way that Amir forgives himself for surviving the fire and losing his wife#but also that it doesn’t necessarily mean he has to forgive Bobby and thats ok too#sometimes things arent always black and white and its much more complicated esp when it comes to forgiveness and second chances
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I so desperately wanna know what lee sookyung and persephone's relationship is like. they share a son, I have GOT to know how lsk feels about that. is there grief that her son allowed himself to be adopted by another set of parents, when he struggles to connect with her? is she relieved that he has someone at all? does she try to tell persephone stories about his childhood, only to find there's only a small pool of stories she can tell, the rest of them colored by suffering and her absence? did they mourn him together?
#orv#you can't hand me a complicated parent and child dynamic and expect me to feel normal about it#i think about kdj and lsk and i CRY#him getting adult adopted by hades and persephone makes me so emotional#because he gets to feel the experience of reliable parents that are in his corner supporting him and protecting him#but at the same time i really feel sad for lsk about it#because she does love her son and want good things for him#and they both want to connect with each other but there's this wall between them#they want to break down they wall but they don't know how#so how does she feel about him getting another set of parents? does she feel replaced?#or is she glad to be replaced because at least that means he has someone?#god. i don't know. im just haunted by them
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Seeing the flashbacks in 7x08 sheds so much light on Bobby's reaction to certain events during the show.
Why Bobby treated Buck the way he did after the embolism and the lightning strike. It's so much more than just being an overprotective parental figure.
The first time was this fear that Buck was in front of him, coughing up blood and dying. He couldn't save his father from dying, but he sure as hell could try and save Buck. And do everything in his power to make sure he remains safe and out of danger.
And then Buck dies after being struck by lightning. He sits vigil at his bedside when he knows there's a chance that Buck will pull through. And he comes back. So, of course, this time, he treats him differently; of course, he overcorrects and gives him slack in his performance review. Of course, he's gentler with him, Buck woke up. And his father didn't.
Their relationship is so complicated in that Bobby views Buck as his son, but he's also been this trigger for the trauma he experienced with his father.
What happened with his father also reinforces why Bobby struggled so much with being unable to sus out Jonah. Bobby put on his headphones and didn't notice what was happening in his house.
#911 on abc#911 spoilers#911#911 abc#bobby nash#evan buck buckely#all this to say really that this was one of my favourite episodes of this season#The parallels abound#and it makes the Bobby and Buck dynamic that much more intense and complicated and good#I also would love to see Bobby being able to give Eddie more advice in the future about the ones you cannot save#and how you cannot use people to fix your guilt over the losses you've suffered and things you wish you did differently
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i thought it’ll be interesting to sketch svsss demon fam cause it’s kinda fun to try to picture their family resemblance
#svsss#mxtx svsss#luo binghe#tianlang jun#zhuzhi lang#lbh&tlj&zzl are my favourite complicated family tbh#i just love their dynamics so much#lbh is so tense zzl is alarmed and tlj is just chilling#good for him#scum villian self saving system#art#人渣反派自救系统#ilaneya#fanart
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"I wanted, more than anything, to make you proud." No longer does his son bend his head. He meets him in his eyes - richest brown to clearest blue. Zeus cannot help but search for that little toddling thing that once sough refuge at his knees. When did Ares grow so large? When did his shoulders get so broad? "Why can't you just be proud of me?" What is it that Phoebus always says? That children can tell their parents have favourites even when they themselves don't know? It almost brings a smile to his face. How alike they both are, even now. Mirrors, the two of them, and they don't even know it. "What good would my pride do you now, Ares?" Ares recoils as though he's been struck. As ever, it is the wrong thing to say. Maybe there's never been a right thing to say. Or maybe the both of them are fools. Caught up in this perpetual dog-and-horse show; the son who wants his father's approval and the father who does not know what that means. All the wisdom in the cosmos can't give him that knowledge. "...Good talk, Father. Truly." That blood-red hair is a windswept flag as Ares leaves. Zeus swears it had been only up to his nape when they'd started speaking. The door slams shut, it rattles all his charts and maps, the vases with Hera's flowers sat pretty on his table. Then, there is silence. Then, there is regret. Well, Metis, look what a mess he's made now.
#ginger writes#zeus#ares#greek mythology#Somewhat of a continuation of the first Zeus and Ares (and Apollo) bit but it's really just a fragment#I'm going to keep chipping away at this actually - I think it's grand#NO BECAUSE THIS WHOLE DYNAMIC IS SO GOOD UGH#I want to keep digging at this - who teaches parents how to parent?#How can they learn if they had no example?#The inherent tragedy of the shortcoming of a parent who does not know what is the right way to love their child#“It worked for all the others - why doesn't it work for you?”#“Man Ginger I thought you were an Apolline girlie?” There is nothing more Apollonian#than complicated Father-Son relationships built upon generational trauma and the untenable bonds of fate#pursuing daybreak posting
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i’m so here for the complicated feelings that are gonna arise. i’m so here for enzo being vastly different from owen and them butting heads but putting that aside for their love for tk. i’m so here for tk getting to see this dynamic with a fresh set of eyes. i’m so here for him to be both the kiddo and the thirty-year old man who’s life vastly changed for the better since enzo last saw him and what that means for their dynamic, his dynamic with jonah, and his dynamic with his dad.
#like the way enzo was presented there…..if he’s always been the flashy cool step-dad it’ll be cool to see tk see through that a bit now#it’ll be cool to see enzo beyond the flashiness and see what drew gwyn to him and made him this good guy tk loves#it’ll be cool to see tk insist to his dad he’ll always need him and the excess doesn’t matter to him#i hope we get to see the enzo who was there when owen couldn’t be#idk idk these complicated dynamics are gonna be !!!! so interesting#911ls#lone star spoilers
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anyways cause i love hair headcanons and minor pieces of symbolism in things like inherited appearance--
mae (may?) ferin has brown hair, but it's very curly.
jayson ferin has the fiery orange hair that's the signature of the ferins, but it's straight.
thinking about ava ferin having the same hair as her father, because she took after him and fit the role she was meant to. became a navy captain(?) and allat
thinking about jay ferin having her father's red hair, but her mother's curls because she doesn't fit the mold of being a ferin in the way her sister did. she's a pirate, first of all-- she never becomes the navy icon she was meant to, but she still has that lingering loyalty that comes from family. she's caught between her rebellion and her love for her family and i love how her alignment isn't black-and-white.
#vixen rambles#jrwi riptide#im sure that mae actually has a canon hair color/type i just cant remember it and#yk headcanons are headcanons so if you dont agree with it that's totally fine bc we all have different viewing experiences :D#like jay's hair is straight in fanon but to me her hair is fucking curly as shit. like im talking 3b or 3c#jay ferin#ava ferin#jayson ferin#may ferin#auuguhghg i love the ferins so dearly you have NO idea#grizzly and condi did SUCH a good job at creating such a complicated dynamic between all of them#like even if jayson ferin is painted as an antagonist you can understand why he does his actions he's not just an antagonist for-#antagonism's sake and i just AAAAA him and drey too man.#just roll with it#jrwi
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sitting around emotionally compromised thinking abt how big and loud rick grimes' feelings are and by comparison how quiet carl is. sure, carl gets angry and picks fights but when is he loud or expressive? they have the same dynamic in almost all of their most devastating moments. after lori's death, rick is screaming, crying, rolling on the ground and carl is just standing there quietly and alone. when negan makes rick think he has to cut off carl's arm, rick is crying and begging and carl just quietly tells him to do it. when carl is dying, he's reassuring rick that he was a good father. hmm interesting
#i love their relationship but also uh oh ! its not. good per se that the child is always the one comforting his father and almost never the#other way around#esp after loris death watching carl stand there alone getting screamed at by rick was so hard to watch. and then rick virtually ignoring#him after#4x13 is the only time i can think of when carl really gets emotional w rick and rick is unconscious!#ooh i just love complicated family dynamics <3#oh the exception is when they think judiths dead and carl shoots that zombie a bunch of times. still not really yellong#or saying anything at all but he is being expressive#twd#this is of course a subsect of my larger thesis called. carl grimes takes after his mother more than he does rick
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Y’all ain’t talking enough about the cricket conscious. Looking for any spark of humanity in Jack Horner, losing his goddamn mind, his whole perspective in life shattering. We don’t get enough truest chaotically evil villains these days and having this one be an absolute stinker voice by John Mulaney is peak comedy to me.
…I say this and then use the tags to talk about all the other incredible things about the movie and I get it actually there’s so much good to process…
#puss in boots#I could write an essay on how instead of a few characters following a complicated plot this movie took many complex characters following a#simpler plot and the dynamics there in were so intriguing and captivating#like you follow the main protagonist with his own internal conflicts joined by a slightly antagonist mutual turned ally#along with a sympathetic family of antagonists that are fun and interesting as is but then they also go through a personal arc#a villainous side antagonist that’s just good evil fun#and a looming haunting threat of an antagonist that doesn’t overstay its welcome but never leaves your mind#just as death is for every one of us#always there in the back of your mind waiting to catch up with you#FUCK THHS MOVIE IS GOOD AND IM IN LOVE WITH GOLDI
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do you think they’ve ever been in a situationship
#sorry if the alt text is garbage i just. dont know how in depth i need to be?#im still not good at image descriptions sorry#btw i dont really ship dukeceit unless its the most complicated dynamic youve ever conceived#theyre not dating but theyre in love just not in a romantic way but also its romantic in a platonic way#theyre married but they keep it casual and definitely see other people#theyre also divorced. but still married#marrivorced#they drive each other insane but they cant live without each other#(well remus does more of the driving insane than janus but still)#if you asked them what they are theyd say theyre like team rocket and not elaborate#their facebook status would be ‘its complicated’ if anyone used facebook anymore#no one will ever know whats going on with them and thats ok <3
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Pssst, hey guys… Netflix has all 6 seasons of hit 2000s sitcom Reba. Do with this information what you will.
#this was a cornerstone of my childhood#it’s so much funnier now though because I understand all the jokes. because I’m a grownup#like the premise is so good guys. and I think my love of gold-hearted himbos can be traced directly back to Van from Reba#but seriously it’s aged surprisingly well for a 2000s-era sitcom. not perfect but I was worried it’d be waaay worse#highly recommend very funny and genuinely heartwarming show about complicated family dynamics#with characters that are insanely 3-dimensional for a sitcom. the writers had no reason to try this hard I’m so serious#reba#reba tv show#reba mcentire
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Stillborn? No, still born au -- Dani Phantom! Clone girl herself. :]
She can't exist in this au. And it's not that I don't want to add her -- although I'll be blunt, I don't, I'll be the first to admit that I think she's more often than not nothing more than a narrative deadweight used to prop up Danny and I don't like adding characters as props -- but her existence quite literally goes against and muddies the Vlad and Danny dynamic I have for this au. Ellie's existence in canon itself states that she was created -- and Danny's other clones too -- because Vlad gave up on trying to convert him to his side and decided to just make a son instead.
Something that just, doesn't happen in the stillborn-still born au. See, for folks who are only just hearing about this au or didn't see my post about Vlad in this au, he and Danny have a complicated love-hate relationship where they mutually want to adopt each other, but their morals and way of doing things -- mainly Vlad's insistence on getting revenge against the Fentons -- gets in the way of them being able to do that in full.
Vlad knows Danny wants him to adopt him, and is only fighting him on it because he refuses to let Vlad kill the Fentons for essentially killing the both of them. He's succeed in 50% of his goal. Canon Vlad never even made it to 1%. With that in mind, stillborn Vlad has no reason and sees no reason to clone Danny, he has his son. He just needs to convince him to let him avenge them both.
Dani simply has no place in the stillborn-still born au. And in fact, if Vlad did decide to clone Danny -- for whatever reason, -- it would damage his relationship with Danny damn near beyond repair. That's because Danny would view it the same way he views Damian's existence; as a replacement for himself. He would become beyond furious and hurt, and not for the typical 'I can't believe you cloned me, you creep!' reason, but for a 'I can't believe you cloned me, you said I was your son!' reason.
I am not pulling any punches here when I say Danny wants Vlad to be his dad just as much as Vlad wants Danny to be his son, there's just a lot of factors getting in the way. They are, as the french say, ✨mentally unwell.✨ Danny has a ton of abandonment and trust issues due to his experiences in foster care. He would immediately become jealous, insecure, and incredibly furious and hurt. He'd despise her on principal and want nothing to do with her, or Vlad for that matter. He'd just fucking haaate her. It's not her fault she was made but Danny doesn't really care, he's lashing out and pushing people away because he's been betrayed yet again.
The only way they could get along or for Danny to actually like her in any capacity would be if it was his idea to clone himself. Which is like, kinda obvious but considering most clone plots tend to be non-consensual it's kinda gotta be said. He has to have a hand in creating her, that's the only way I can see him liking her in any way. Or if someone other than Vlad created her. If Vlad clones him though, all bets are off the table and he'll despise her.
TL;DR: Dani can't exist in this au because she goes against the narrative I've got for the two most fucked up half-dead could-be-father-son duo in existence, but if she did exist Danny would despise her.
#dpxdc#danny fenton is not the ghost king#dpxdc crossover#dp x dc#dp x dc crossover#dpdc#danyal al ghul au#stillborn? no still born au#stillborn danny#danyal al ghul#dpxdc au#vlad masters#dani phantom#he's what the french like to call 'emotionally unstable' <3. vlad is a possessive parent thats obvi but DANNY is a possessive son#he is SO not mentally okay. he's a good kid! but he's also mentally unwell and incredibly traumatized <3#he doesnt play nice with his biological siblings unfortunately :((#danny as a default pushes his people away from him and flinches away from most conventional affection bc he thinks its insincere#and it takes a while to convince him that yes you do actually care about his well being and you're not going to hurt him.#he really is just a traumatized cat that you have to coax into letting you pet it. he clings onto the people he trusts like a terrified cat#have you ever tried pulling a cat down from something when their claws are dug into it and the only way you can get them down is by hurting#them a little because you have to yank them off? yeah that's danny.#if dani DID exist and Danny and her DID get along she'd spend a lot of time also convincing him to let vlad kill the fentons. danny keeps#trying to tell her murder is wrong. dani just says 'but they got you and dad killed' and unfortunately she is as stubborn as her brother an#dad. she gets to be a little evil. as a treat <3. she also doesnt like damian but that's because she too is a possessive sister#who doesnt like to share and damian already *has* a bunch of older brothers. he doesn't *need* danny. and also he's a replacement#we love complicated family dynamics <33 THE most dysfunctional half-dead not-family ever.
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the difference between good whispangle and bad whispangle is the difference between trusting each other the most and only trusting each other. between getting stuck in the past or letting the future embrace you. between holding a close bond and being desperate for each other’s company. between being a pair and being a unit.
good whispangle is tangle helping whisper stay in the present and future, and whisper being a guiding hand, a steadying of tangle’s impulse, and the both of them making choices that help and comfort the other.
bad whispangle is tangle getting dragged into dwelling on the past with whisper, is tangle being made to overstep instead of minding the lines she should be able to see, and whisper sinking into a mire that tangle follows her into instead of pulling her from. is putting them together ‘because they’re whispangle’ and forgetting why they were loved together in the first place. is keeping them together because they’re whispangle, even when they trod on the other.
and the difference is,
that if it starts out bad and becomes better, it’s satisfying, heartening.
but to start out excellent and then get worse and decay, feels like a smear or a stain on top of a beloved work.
a natural decay can be done, but we want them to be good together, to bring out the best in each other instead of enabling the worst. if we want to see decay, it is because it makes sense for one or both of them to be driven off-balance and start messing with the other, we want one or both of them to realize this, and we want them to have to jump-start and kick aside and course-correct and come out all the better, for having broken their flaws open and mended them with gold.
we don’t want to see them broken apart and stuck back together with cheap glitter glue.
#somewhat critical so im not tagging them. and its under a readmore. if you see this thru search i love early whispangle &#im not sold on recent dynamics with the ‘neo diamond cutters’ (please use any other name - even if it sounds stupid like ‘ruby tusslers’)#some of them. some of the other bits of their recent dynamic are so good. but it’s a mixed bag#mostly i am a person who loves characters to be capable of being independent. and functioning by their lonesome#idk like i can see tangle being desperate & wanting whisper to stay. what i CANT see if her going ‘lets be the diamond cutters!’#esp without asking whisper.#like you can try and justify it ‘shes trying to keep their memory alive as a positive reminder instead of a dead name’#and i agree that that is justifiable but i just dont like the decision. it doesnt add enough for what it takes away to me#additionally i feel like if tangle & whisper were just the main characters they wouldnt have so many issues (ha. issues. comic)#but because they’re sometimes just absent for 3-10 issues at a time because other characters get a turn#& important developments or open-ended storylines are left bare as bone. (what did tangle do to search for whisper? where did she go?)#if you’re trying to give tangle complicated feelings and have her muse over things & explicitly be supposed to#be considering reforming a ‘diamond cutters’ during the time she’s missing whisper. she should have explicitly been considering that#instead of 0 to ‘lets reuse the traumatic name with no warning’. whisper not knowing? sure. the audience having no clue? bleh.#fair warning i am typing this at 12:30am with a mild headache so maybe i dont make sense#naturally a disclaimer that if you like this go you!! i would be interested in hearing why you like it#but i don’t like it the way i’m currently seeing it
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2024 reads / storygraph
The Republic of Salt
book two in The Mirror Realm Cycle, historical fantasy set in an alternate Inquisition era Spain
in the human world, Toba and Asmel are on the run, pursued by the Courser and demons
Naftaly, Barsilay, Elena, and the old woman are traveling across the Mazik realm until they reach Zayit - which will soon be under siege by the Cacador due to its trade in salt, which poisons Maziks - and must find a way to save the city and stop the conquest of both worlds
#The Republic of Salt#aroaessidhe 2024 reads#the pomegranate gate#I really love this series! such interesting worldbuilding and magic and characters.#This one had a lot of traveling but was pretty fast paced and had a lot of interesting developments#Probably my favourite part was the development of Toba and Tsifra’s complicated sister relationship - their dynamic is super interesting.#Not to mention Toba’s relationship with herself; after what happened in the last book.#Honestly there’s so many good character dynamics of all kinds!! best part of the series#on top of the fascinating worldbuilding built into the historical context#I don’t dislike the romances (in fact I enjoyed a lot of aspects of them)#but I also can’t not feel a little weird about the whole old-immortal / 20-something mortal thing. haha.#I do enjoy the dumbass gay yearning while the old women are annoyed at them in the background.#also there’s a smidge of assassin sapphics <3
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this podcast is so anti anders (and helo 🤧) but i get it, sam anders is a character tailor made for the girls and the gays, two straight men were never gonna get it unfortunately but it’s fine
#battlestar galactica#‘why is she hung up on him’ bc he’s so much easier to love!!!!#kara is like a middle aged man who leaves his wife (lee) for a younger woman (sam)#she loves sam bc he’s so uncomplicated and when he starts making it complicated she lashes out at him for being exactly what he is#(the pretty little thing she fucked when she was having a crisis!)#for me the whole point is that ultimately kara cannot fully reject sam once she acknowledges his complexity#and sam is so willing to be a martyr he is capable of forgiving her in a way lee like. can’t.#(but that’s not to say i don’t think the lee/kara dynamic is good and necessary. the fact that they are both so hung up on how recklessly#they almost drunk fucked the instant connection even while zack is still alive#is so important bc their inability to forgive themselves for betraying zack is exactly why she married anders#and he married dee. it’s all connected all four of them!!!!!)#the problem is that they see sam as a sexy lamp character but THATS THE APPEAL
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