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UNSPOKEN TRUTH

My ex-boyfriend of nearly 9 years dumped me on the night of November 11, 2023. We lived together under one roof for three years during the Pandemic until he had to return to Australia. He gave me an evasive explanation, saying he was tired of our long-distance arrangement and that we were both in pain because he had no idea when he would return to the Philippines. He said he had no idea how to take care of me or what to do. He told me it didn't seem right anymore. All he can feel is pain instead of happiness. He asked if we could take a break and heal. All I could get out of him when I asked why and whether I had done anything wrong was "Sorry." I even asked him if he had met anyone else, to which he replied, "Wala." He began removing our Messenger nicknames, deleting all of our Instagram photos, and removing his Facebook cover photo and profile picture. I could not understand why he had removed all of our social media pictures, even though he had advised me to take some time to reflect. I was confused because I knew we were on good terms that day; he even sent me photos from a Filipino party he attended with his sister.

After several days of him not returning my calls, I discovered that he was talking to someone else he met online and had a bouquet delivered to a girl in San Juan, Manila.

I was hurt, and I felt betrayed.

He surprised someone else with a bouquet on November 7, 2023, and he broke up with me on November 11, 2023. That made me think, which is why he quickly deleted all of our photos from social media. Perhaps he met someone and can now claim to be single.

For nearly three weeks, I begged him to return my calls and messages and to work on our relationship even though I'm in Pain.

Funny enough, even after he cheated on me twice, I still want to work on our relationship. In 2019, while I was working in Manila, I discovered that he was having an affair with someone here in Aklan.

Tangina no, tanga kong tinanggap ko pa sya..

Mahal ko eh, mas lalong mahal sya ng pamilya ko.

Nag beg sya na ayusin namin, at mag babago na sya, di na nya uulitin, But guess what? Eto nanaman.

It hurts, and the fact that all of my intuition was correct hurts even more.

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Ito talaga ang reality. Kasi kapag nagawa na niyang minsan, mas malaki talaga possibility na ulitin niya.

Nov 21, 2023, Our friend asked me to have coffee with her. She then told me that last October 10, 2023 that this guy told her that he is not feeling any spark with our relationship kasi matagal na kami, He even asked for advice kung gagawin nya. Pero sabi nya di naman sya makipag hiwalay, gusto nya lang hanapin sarili nya. Sabi ng friend namin, why not open up saakin para mapag usapan and magawan ng solution, try something na hindi pa nagawa namin. Andaming ways to reignite the spark. but he confessed na he tried omegle and met a stranger, which made him excited na di pa nya kilala yung tao and nag usap sila sa imsg. Parang naexcite sya sa getting to know each other stage.. but instead of fixing our relationship, nakita nyang solution is to find someone new. Mas Bata, Rich Gamer Girl. Tired na daw sya sa LDR set up, pero ang funny, LDR din pinalit. nagloloko tlga sya pag nagLDR kami even before.. Tanggap ko pa sana kung sa ibang bansa din ang pinalit eh.

He officially ended our relationship on November 23, 2023, He told me that I deserve a better person who wouldn't hurt me. He never came clean about the new girl, never expressed regret for his actions, and never acknowledged cheating on me.

As the days went by, I began to accept the situation and move on. I always go to church right after work, cry all I want, and give the Lord all of my cares and sorrows. He is still in my prayers. I'm praying for his health and that the university he applied will accept him.

He tagged the girl in a Facebook post he shared one evening, but it was customized to be hidden from my entire family, his family in Linabuan, his family in Ibajay, and close friends. I received the screenshot of the post from someone on his friends list who forwarded it to our mutual friend. I received the same screenshot from one of his family members in Linabuan as well. He removed his family, my family, and our mutual friends from his Instagram followers to prevent us from seeing his stories, but someone screen recorded the guy's instagram story that they are on video call and playing an online beer pong game.

After receiving confirmation that all of my suspicions and information about the girl were accurate, all that pain returned. All the memories and fantasies returned, and it caused me to doubt my own value once more.

I told him I had to block him on Facebook, but I never confronted him about the confirmed suspicion. It's funny how this guy twisted everything and placed the blame on me.

He said that I never asked him how his day was going or if he was okay. He also brought up the past, which was resolved years ago.. and that I always wanted it my way. I only want the best for him, but he doesn't seem to understand that. I acknowledged that I was at fault for constantly venting my frustration and negativity about my job, which caused him to burn out. He even said that since I'm the one who always talks, he didn't always have the right moment to open up. He never admitted that he was to blame for anything, not even for not sharing his emotions with me. Open communication is essential in a mature relationship. Cheating is never a good excuse for anything. In actuality, he is searching for a way out after being discovered to be unfaithful. He refuses to acknowledge that he is guilty and that he made a mistake. The Audacity.

This year has been extremely painful because I've been through betrayal, abandonment, disappointment, psychological abuse, emotional torment, and all the brutal things that a man could possibly do to hurt someone's feelings. I have died a hundred times, cried more than I could, and endured all those hurtful feelings all at once. But despite everything that happened, I'm still here fighting every battle that I have while doing everything I can to keep my sanity.

Was it hard to let go of someone you love so much?

Yes, It was. What we had was true and pure at some point in time. It was a beautiful & funny kind of relationship.. Until it wasn't. I tried to fix whatever could save what we have, but couldn't do it alone. Until I realized that, maybe it's time to stop trying to fix what's not meant to be fixed.. Letting go while still inlove with him was hard, but staying would've been harder. I didn't let go because I wanted to, I let go because I had to..

To the girl, He really loves suprises right? weekly bouquets? Here's the explanation in case you were unaware of it. There's nothing I can say if you knew he was dating someone else before you. All I ask is that you embrace and cherish him even more than I did. All the best to you two.

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OD

One day, I will open my eyes and I will see you lying next to me

eyes closed, breathing slowly, your hair down unto your neck

I'd look at your lips as I lean forward to kiss it.

One day, you will be within an arms reach

your soft skin against mine, your beautiful scent all over our place

I'd pull you into my grip and bury my head on your shoulders

One day, this will be in the corner, slowly turning to perfectly happen

One day, is not far away. One day, there will be no more distance.

It will be You and I and our day one.

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[30sdiary]

Nov 20 2024

Cant’ believe I have not got even time to do any of my journaling in 2 weeks. It was really crazy time. Lots of things happen, both works, relationships, friends, passions, hobbies and my mental health.

I still have an offer to work in Hanoi for V and should be there on 9th Dec, based on the offer but somehow the manager thought that I’m going to be there on 26th Nov and she looked disappointed knowing that I can’t arrange to be there on 2nd Dec. I’m also trying to do it, but really want to stay more time in Sai Gon to see any other possibilities. I really felt better here and just thinking about moving back to Hanoi kind of make me sick. Few interviews are still on going and hold for a while, I don’t like the feeling of working for Vingroup at all to be honest. Moving back to Hanoi, renting new apartment, working like hell for the first period of time, being far away from Saigon’s friends who have just met, breathing the toxic environment out there again, all those things are so unattractive. But I know after all, my son is missing me a lot.

I really enjoy the salsa event hosted by O and I made some friends there. From the day I met both O and M, everything changed a lot. I enjoy that latin dance and would like to spend more time on it, I met Max who dances very well and we spent time practicing the dance together. He is a good friend, knowing the boundaries I set and respect it but still maintaining our dance. I met Jam, who dances also well but then got back to Hanoi and was also an interesting person. I love dancing so much and never in my life could experience that feeling of being full filled like this moment. I had one dinner with Max and figured out he is a very kind and keen on learning behind that face of a killers, however I believe he got trouble with emotions because he seemed annoyed after I canceled the dance 2nd time when I was in the hospital. We had a nice dinner in the D1 steakhouse decorated in Xmas season, talking about plan for the year end and both had no plan for the future, but both enjoyed every current moment of our lives. Max and I want to start creating some new event together and If I had more time here, I would be very happy doing it with passion. Getting away from Saigon is getting harder because I have just started loving this city, then it is time to go back to Hanoi. Also, O is going to stop the class because he seemed upset with the fact that people are not getting there seriously the way he expected, and guessed that people are not respecting it because he is giving out free of charge. I have that feeling about free of charge good thing already, but he is just too old to listen to me from the first time I told him. However, I felt he really appreciated me when he talked to his sister about me and how helpful I was to him.

My relationship with M was getting more serious than I thought. We were very close; it was amazing intimacy moment and we were both happy about it. From the moment I mentioned with him my plan to move back to Hanoi until now, he still made up his mind on continuing our relationship and we would manage to see each other. He made me good pancake late after his working hours, was honest about his inability to sleep with other, was there at the hospital with me late at night taking care of me when I need him the most. The moment we were at the coffee shop when he told me that “don’t find another tây đẹp train he”, I felt a mix of both sadness and happiness and my tears have fallen down on my face again. I don’t know how long I will be in Hanoi, but once I got back there I need to prepare for at least few months long distance relationship with him. I think he is also an avoidant like me, because when we were talking about feelings, he is kind of avoiding when it is getting too emotional. But now I know that being loved the right and healthy way would heal a people and work on that unhealthy attachment style so I’m kind of getting some sense of what I can do about it. We both like each other a lot and don’t want to see other people at all. However, we are still early dating, and I’m still seeing other persons and I felt guilty about not letting him know about it. At the same time O kept telling me that he will look at how I settle down in Hanoi then to move there with me if things with me is getting serious in Hanoi. I don’t know somehow I don’t have a trust in these new relationships. I should have the trust, O was right, I really have trust issue and even at this moment there are so many good things going on, I still believe that good things don’t belong to me and it is just going to end in some way. It is a horrible thought, and I’m not feeling good at all today. I’m going to swimming pool today to help me relax a little bit, my life has just turned from a empty hole to a mess within a very short time… I need to calm me down and relax.

I’m thankful for the way Saigon has treated me with many good connections recently, the happiness, fulfilment it brings. I had a chance to do whatever I want to do in those last moments in this city, dating, dancing, being close with someone, building something together. Through up and downs, I’m still having people to rely on and don’t have to be so independent the way I was in the past. Those memories would be warming my soul up in my first lonely new days in Hanoi. During my mess of people, career opportunities and connections, I still earn some random money from an online meeting and still have some potential interviews to process until my last day in this city. Maybe all the door to stay here are not yet close, I still keep some hope that life would treat me fairly and no matter what happens would be always the way it should. I hope that in my last days here, I can bring my best self to people here until I’m still around.

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Fallon Brookes believes there should be no limits on love regardless of whether that love is of family, friends, or her fantasy crush—Ethan Kensington, her best friend's older uncle. After high school, he ordered Fallon to contact him if she needed help. Before Ethan, Fallon never relied on a man. But despite how autocratic he could be, he kept his word.

Ethan's been just a text away from the young woman for five years. Over time, he's developed more than just friendly feelings for the unforgettable blond. As the years advance, so does Ethan's unease about their age difference until that's swept away with one night when they indulge in each other with no idea every problem is ahead of them.

Then, Fallon's life is upended. She needs money fast, and she has limited ways to acquire it. While Fallon's motives are pure, not everyone will see them that way.

Including Ethan.

His past is about to put him on a collision course with discovering her secret before she's ready to share them.

Will he be able to accept her reasons, or will their relationship be over before they can move past years of pursuing a life where they no longer need to hide their feelings?

[adventur3iot]

New Blog Look and Relationship Update | A Fresh Start

Small update on our blog, new theme, new status, and what's about to come, enjoy!

It’s been a while since we last posted here and we are back with some new stories. First is a new look for the blog, a very recent update, personally I think is a cleaner look, it has a light/dark mode and overall I think is easier to read, but let me know what you think in the coment section. Looking forward. Next a very huge update in our relationship, as presented in previous posts we are a…

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How to Build Trust in a Long Distance Relationship: Rekindling Faith

With our expert advice and tips, you can learn how to build trust in a long distance relationship. You can also learn the value of communication, openness, and accountability in ensuring your relationship thrives despite the distance.

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