#listen I have adhd and a hyperfixation so the answer is obviously yes

[autistic-danieljackson]

Does anyone have suggestions for how to make tiny ZPMs? I’ve had a sudden need for ZPM earrings

[unpickled-olive]

(I realize at the end of this monologue that it's not actually 100% relevant, but that fits the theme I think)

Two things that have helped me accept and recontextualize my ADD:

reject society

return to the trees

reject society

I mean, I can't really, but I can throw the blame right back at it when I feel like my differently functioning blame is at fault for me forgetting something. there's simply too much shit going on. appointments, passwords, groceries, medicine, getting gas, texting people back, excel formulas, sending emails, reading emails, answering emails, updating information, doing taxes. we didn't have to do nearly as much fucking shit that has not immediate impact on our immediate lives.

so whenever i forget something, instead of getting mad at myself, i try to just think "there's too much fucking shit on me." it weirdly helps.

return to the trees (sometimes)

Since the pandemic (where my pandemic hyperfixation was hunter-gatherers), I've started to frame almost everything in terms of evolutionary psychology. For example, why are there night owls and early birds? Because if we have diversity in how we sleep, there is always someone awake in the group to keep watch for enemies and predators.

Today though, being a night owl is seen as a character flaw. Society is built for the early birds. If you can't wake up at 7AM and funciton probably, you're made to feel lazy, have no work ethic, can't manage your personal life. Even though your biology is predisposed to staying up till 2AM and waking at 10AM.

In that same vein, ADHD and sensory sensitivity aren't issues--they're differences (as neurodiversity obviously emphasizes). Maybe even differences that were evolved because they were a very important assets that helped the group survive.

I've tried to maintain this and not feel like a failure when I can't stay focused or get too overwhelmed by stimnuli. But my brain and body react to every sound and sight when I wish they wouldn't. Can't focus at work because a sound happened.

Try as I might, I still feel like they're deficits.

However, when I go out in nature, it starts to make sense. Suddenly, my atunement to every single sight, sound, movement, smell is useful, not burdensome.

I notice when the wind is blowing through the trees and the weather is dropping before others might.

I went camping and noticed that there were cattle tracks where we put our tents, and had us move the tents not 20 minutes before the herd of cattle came back through.

I noticed that there was a stray dog out in the distance acting strange and made sure the kids were all close by before it came towards us and started acting dangerous.

Can I sit down and listen to a lecture that I don't care about? No, and I'll cry about it. Can I notice a snake waiting in the road? Yes, and it makes me feel super useful.

this is your gentle reminder to stop fighting against your adhd and instead structure your life around it

buy a pack of chapsticks and put one in the pocket of all of your coats and jackets because you always forget to bring one and chapped lips is sensory hell

leave important things where you can see them. if they go in a box or a drawer you will forget they exist

put any appointments or deadlines in your phone calendar As Soon As you get them. set a reminder for a week before, a day before, an hour before, as many as you need as often as you need them.

when that little voice in your head says "i dont need to write that down, ill remember it" that is the devil talking!!! write it down anyway!!

plan for down time. have a few hours at the end of every day to just do fun stuff like engage in your hyperfixations. even if you didnt get all of your work done that day, have the rest anyway. you probably spent the whole day beating yourself up for not doing what you Should be doing, so you still need the break.

if you never eat vegetables because its too much effort to chop and cook them, get the frozen or canned shit. it doesnt go off for ages and you just have to microwave it. theres no point buying fresh vegetables if they just keep going off and being left to rot in the bottom of your fridge

if you struggle to decide what to have for dinner every day, take the decision out of it. choose a set of meals and eat those on rotation until you get sick of them, then choose some new ones and do it again.

its not stupid if it works! our brains literally have a chemical deficiency. you are allowed to accommodate yourself. go forth and stop making your life more difficult than it has to be because "this shouldn't be this hard". it is hard, so make it easier.

[i-may-be-an-emu]

hiiyyyy!!!

also, trans HCs??

TELLL ME MORE!! :DDDD

HELLOO!

Gladly. (This will be a very long post btw)

(I know I said this at some point but idk when so sorry if im not answering this properly)

My ftm headcannons:

Peter Parker (Marvel Universe)

He knew ever since he was little

The spider bite gave him free testosterone

He also has adhd (hc) and before getting top surgery would hyperfixate and forgert he was binding

Because of this Aunt May would have to check on him and set timers ect

the scene where Tom's spiderman is like "I'm not a girl I'm a BOY- I mean I'm-I'm a MAN" is pure trans-ness

he's also bi (hc) and really terrified of getting a boyfriend and then having him not see him as a man and is actually a straight dudes

So he only dates girls

(mj/the girl Andrew's one was in love with is mtf [but she doesn't really care about her gender but knows its feminin and calls herself mtf] and always reminds him he's a real man and when he goes "but what if-" MJ hits him with a "well then aren't you saying I'm a man then?" or something)

Luke Patterson (from Julie and the phantoms)

Part of the reason his mom and him fought so much

his parents said that the band made him trans and hanging out with boys was turing him into one

But after he died they saw that he was a guy and dedicated the rest of their lives to helping (especially young) trans folk

He wasn't diagnosed as autistic or with adhd (hc) because he was seen as a girl which gave him problems in having to get his parents to listen to him about both his brain and gender

Hates sleeves = trans

The beanie. No I will not elaborate. He wore a beanie. He is trans.

The way his hair is styled is like it was grown long and cut short instead of grown short and cut to stay that way, meaning that he is very likely to have had long hair and probably cut it short himself

When he became a ghost his soul was a guy so his ghost form became a guy, meaning he had a cis guy's appearance and "biological" situation or whatever

My Name Is Luke. He wrote a song called my name is Luke.

Jake peralta (Brooklyn 99)

Gina helped him come out to his mom

Did you SEE how he looked in highschool? The long hair and earring? Litterally in denial. Plus he was best friends with a girl (not saying straight guys can't have female friends but c'mon)

He wears about 3 layers

He met Rosa in the academy and i like to think that it was transohobic and put him in a dorm with her

she didn't care but was really mad about the academy being transphobic

prison was difficult, but Caleb was also trans and it made it easier (they look down in the shower and jake says samsies, I refuse to belive it's about circumcision and think it's trans instead.)

When Jake came out to Holt they had a kinda father-son type moment and Holt said that he understood and if Jake ever needed anything to come to him

He was still wearing a binder in the first few seasons (screw the scenes where he's shirtless) and the pain is unbearable because he's irresponsible (cue Gina and Rosa basically grounding him and everyone finding out he's trans)

Hiccup Haddock The 3rd (How to train Your Dragon)

He's 15 in the first movie. 15. My boy looks like he's 12

He's not as buff as the other guys his age and in one of the episodes where he's 15 bucket does a painting of him and Stowick and makes him extra buff, Stowick likes it more and Hiccup feels like crap (because he's trans)

Everyone sees him as a screw up and won't even let him ououtside

We never see him shirtless

"But he grows a beard eventually!" Yes but how long did that take him? My guy invented a flaming sword i think he'd be able to get testosterone from sosomewhere.

Kids? Sperm doner! (yes i know they're vikings but they could always just like... yk)

He doesn't have a bulge in his pants

He felt like an outsider and seeing toothless be the only nightfury made him just feel really connected to him

He didn't change his name

When he meets his mom she's obviously suprised but understands what's going on

My mtf headcanons:

Carrie (Julie and the phantoms)

Trevor understood fully because of Luke and asked her if she wanted a new name and what pronouns to use

He sometimes messed up with her pronouns at first but he tries really hard to get them right

When she came out he game her his credit card to buy new clothes with and quickly learned that was a very bad idea

She figured out her gender but was still figuring out her sexuality

She started dating nick as a power move to try and gain popularity (it worked)

She went on puberty blockers at 13 and it meant she was able to get a high voice but still does voice training as well (i dont know much about mtf voice stuff im sorry 😭)

After season one the boys were able to become visible to lifers when they want to be and she and Luke become trans bff's

loves pink

(I'm sorry I cant think of anymore mtf ones mainly because im ftm and those hc come from projecting onto charichters)

Nonbinary:

Oh my gosh I forgot their name 🤦 (from jatp)

(The member of dirty candy who Reggie likes)

Idk. But they are. She goes by they/she pronouns too, and I cant really say much else because they're a side character.

And also MJ from the Tom Holland spidermans is a genderfluid girl

Im sorry im too tired to elaborate any further I will think of more tho C:

[Edited]

[blue-ravens]

"#is it the autism? #is it the adhd? #yes" Obviously I’m a huge Autistic Charles Truther but I'd never before considered he might have ADHD! Are there any specific traits/moments of his that make you HC him that way? (I'm autistic myself but I've never looked into ADHD, though I know the comorbidity rate is super high, so I'm extra curious! ^_^)

ok ok full disclosure, it's mostly projection™ because i myself am far too adhd to function sometimes and i like to take it out on my faves sometimes to cope, honestly. but like. there is plenty of overlap between autism and adhd and while i absolutely headcanon the former i'm willing to go into the latter too because, well, why not. the intense hyperfixation on tasks to the point of forgetting other important tasks (getting told to get a move on in OR because he's aiming for 'perfection' instead of 'done', etc). being slightly off-kilter in social situations. having to have noise, constantly. substance abuse! literally the whole amphetamine plot line is worth exploring (and god i want a deep dive on that plot so much), and the unrelenting anxiety that stems from having to be perfect always and nothing less will do. and not because i'm listening to 'hand in my pocket' right now, but. hands in his pockets. he fidgets (and stims). so much. always just a little too tense. TIGHTLY WOUND. a quick temper! absolutely very impatient with people! the emotional dysregulation of it all! wanting to do things for the impulsive challenge of it and the painful hatred of being bored and idle!

of course he doesn't have the full breakfast buffet of adhd symptoms yet some are THERE and that's enough for me. also like, this is in no way a definitive answer, because while i know i have an essay in me about it it's just not gonna happen right now :)

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i feel like an important context to me as a person is that like.

so i used to watch a lot of steven universe comic compilations back when i was like... 11, i would say

and like obviously there were comic DUB compilations but what i mean is comic compilations, which were just the comics passing through the screen with music in the background

and i remember the main channel that i watched would change the music up like, once every like 10 to 15 episodes right, of the comic compilations series

and one of the songs they picked, for, again, 10 to 15 episodes of a steven universe comic compilation series, was a mountain goats song

and keep in mind i was like 11, at most 12 right? like i had never heard of the mountain goats before this, i BARELY spoke english, and i wouldn't Truly Care about the mountain goats until i was 16, so at least 4 years later

and um, the way i PROPERLY got into the mountain goats was like, a friend of mine recommended me this year and i spent an afternoon listening to it and cleaning my bedside desk on january 2nd, 2021

but like, me and that friend would sometimes get on voice chat and listen to tmg albums like he'd show them to me and my now partner

and anyways imagine the whiplash when i realized that someone out there set 10 to 15 episodes of a steven universe comic compilation series to no children by the mountain goats

anyways if you've ever wondered why i can't take no children seriously, that is why

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