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It's warming up so let me give y'all your yearly summer reminder: if you see a "ladies get in free or reduced drink prices" at bars this is not a rare form of "female privilege" it is because you are the product that is on sale.
The bars are advertising to men that there will be a lot of women there who will be drunk. No (osa) man wants to go to a bar that's a sausage fest, so bars know that letting y'all get intoxicated for free (making you vulnerable and providing incentive for you to come) makes male paying customers come in. [This is also why they are allowing teenagers in with shitty fake IDs. They know you are underage girls, they just don't care about your safety. If they could advertise they have underage drunk girls there, they would. Stay Home.]
These spaces typically have an air of male entitlement that's stronger than other bars because they feel like they are already paying for your time and that you owe them for getting the free drinks. That your sexual availability to them is "part of the deal" for them having to pay to get in or to drink and you not having to. All the men are already walking around with the "I bought you would drink so you owe me" mentality in bars like this. So, while we get into the fun seasons of the year, remember to avoid places that purposely set themselves up as a lion's den. If they are advertising that a lot of women will be there, they are not doing it for women. They are doing it to use you as bait to catch more paying customers who will feel sexually entitled to you.
Be selective where you show up and allow yourself to be vulnerable. Have fun, but mitigate some of the risks you're going to be exposed to if you can.
#lily responds#radical feminism#radfems please touch#terfs please interact#radical feminists please touch#radical feminist#radical feminist theory#summer fun is coming but that also means the predators are gathering lol#there is no shame in partying at home with a group of close female friends#I've honestly had more fun doing that than ever going out drinking
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Yeah, just… don’t wake her up when she’s sleeping.
Or she will slap you with her slipper. (It happened to chaos LOL)
Don't think I was planning to wake her up, I mean I could easily dodge a slipper, god knows I have before, but I still will not be planning on it
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'Radical feminist' is a role you have to perform and actively work towards not a label you can identify into. Lest any of y'all have forgotten: we are meant to be examples to the women and girls around us that you can exist and have a fulfilling life while defying patriarchal teachings and practices.
#lily responds#I don't expect any of you to be perfect feminist. but there should be a few tenants you can name you uphold visibly and openly#some of y'all don't do shit but hang out on radbler and act like that makes you a radical feminist. honey that makes you an orbiter.#a supporter at best#I'm so tired of in action being defended as actual feminism just because y'all agree with a lot of the shit we say.#its okay to be an ally. we need allies. quit pretending like you deserve to be at the table when you've done none of the work to earn it#this isn't about the other drama I've commented on. this is about watching some of y'all defend never reading a bit of the literature or#doing a slightly challenging feminist action in your life. half of y'all won't even talk to your friends about radical feminism.#you're just not a feminist because you're not an activist. you're doing no actions
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Right!? I barely believe that too, Smile is like a mom to me, she’s the mom in our friend group. I don’t know why he’s scared of her… I know that sometimes she’s like nightmare but female version, but she isn’t scary! She’s a total sweetheart! You should meet her once.
I bet I'll meet her at some point, met you, umbra, and lucid so far, idk if you know the other two, I'd sure like to see how she's a total sweetheart since blades scared of her lmao
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Hey, do y'all think we could stop doing the following:
Post about sex-based injustice women in foreign countries are facing.
UK/USA Radfems: So how is the trans crowd going to pretend sex doesn't exist now??!??!
These posts are important for radical feminism on their own, without connection to the trans issue. We make plenty of posts about the damages of denying the sexes' existences, one that better address that particular issue with plenty of fitting example of sex-based oppression.
However, that is not the only goal of radical feminism and I'm sure it comes across as dismissive and performative to non-UK/USA Radfems when we only use their issues to point out sex based oppression exist. Especially when we have local examples of sex-based oppression in the UK/USA at our disposal.
The issues that are affecting the women in those areas are worthy of being talked about and taken seriously without any association with gender critical arguments. We should work harder at not using them as tokens, but rather realize that they are real women with their own societal misogyny that deserves the same respect and consideration we afford to western feminists.
#lily responds#radical feminism#radfems please touch#terfs please interact#radical feminists please touch#radical feminist#radical feminist theory#radfem lesbian#there are so many good informative posts that I want to reblog but this kind of dismissive commentary is littered in the reblogs#making it impossible to pass around this info without also contributing to being dismissive of the actual issue that we are discussing
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Blade? Did you know that he’s scared to death of Smile, my friend?
I don’t know why actually… TwT and wowie! You’re even older than her?
Yeah, i mean, I'm older than I look and I won't specify why ^^, blades scared of smile? Huh, bet I wouldn't be scared of her ^^ (again, she's scared of everyone, hides it extremely well)
I wonder why he's scared of her lmao, I thought my love wasn't afraid of anything
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Yippe! *hugs*
Please Lilian spare her, she’s only 20 and she’s kinda crazy TwT
*hugs back*
Your lucky I'm in a nice mood, I'm 28. And crazy to the point I can date blade, wouldn't recommend anything
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This is a public forum and I will touch whatever I like.
men are so obsessed with women to the point where they will draw or stage photographs of what they think women’s lives are like when men aren’t around or even when no one is around, they are obsessed with corrupting the solitude of women with their watchful eyes, they think they can imagine or correctly understand the multitudes of womanhood through the lens of art because they believe themselves to be artists that are somehow above misogyny and have therefore gained a higher understanding of womanhood and women’s solitude. men are literally obsessed with corrupting women in any way they can, be it by taking a woman’s “virtue” or by painting pictures that basically say even when women are alone, when women try to be free from society, when we are just lying in our beds or staring ourselves in the bathroom mirror, men are always always always watching. so like… male artists paint something else challenge
terfs dont touch this post
#I feel like the part of Margaret Atwood's quote about pretending to be unseen and have own lives is applicable here#though the commentary is already good and stands on it own#lily responds#image quality for the first one was really bad so I replaced it
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All of y'all pretending like heterosexual women are the only ones who experience misogyny, or experience the most misogyny, are not (just) being homophobic, you're being misogynistic.
You're denying women's sex based oppression is real or it's severity. So maybe sit down and shut up and realize that we are still women despite the fact that we are not sleeping with men. You have the ability to make the choice not to sleep with men too. It's not an inaction unique to homosexuals.
I will spread any feminist praxis I want, and if it's insulting for me to reiterate the ideals we preach in these spaces because I'm a homosexual then you can go ahead and be insulted. SSA women have just as much claim to these spaces as you do because we are women and these spaces are for fighting misogyny, which we all experience. It's not just for tackling the misogyny y'all are uncomfortable with, it's for tackling all of it. Get with the program, ladies.
#you don't have to like the fact that I sleep with women but you cannot act like I am not a woman#just as much right to be here and to preach the ideals radical feminists hold as you heterosexual women#I don't need to couch my language into something more appealing for you because I don't sleep with men#literally a problem you're choosing to perpetrate onto yourself#no one needs sex to survive nor romance it would be nice if you women would stop acting like they do.#the constant reiteration that women just naturally desire and need a romantic partner is misogyny it's propaganda#lily responds#radical feminism#radfems please touch#terfs please interact#radical feminists please touch#radical feminist#radical feminist theory#radfem lesbian#it doesn't become easier to be a good feminist as a lesbian you just aren't putting in the effort#I know this may come to a shock from you because you only hang out with lesbians in these faces but most women do expect we hold up#the gendered expectation for women and beauty standards just like it's expected of you#all socialized by the patriarchy on how women are supposed to look this doesn't change by being homosexual. we just make the effort not to#these ideas through our community cuz we're radfem homosexuals#maybe try to be less ignorant. that may help you be a better feminist overall
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Don’t f*ck with me Lilian ^^
Language Galaxy.
Hmm your no fun, but oh well.. I'll give you a hug anyways, you might not be so lucky next time ^^
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HEYYYYYYYY
Oh no.
HI LILIAN! I JUST CAME TO SAY HI AND TELL YOU THAT I, GALAXY, DECLARE YOU A PERSON THAT IS VERY STYLISH!! (UNLIKE MY FRIEND SMILE.) may I receive a hug? ^^
Sorry, uh… she’s kinda weird ngl-
I heard that.
Hehe hello there? Thank you ig and of course you may have a hug, come here, I won't bite :]
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imagine writing a scene THIS sinister looking
#if you know whats going on in twitter then you know#had to drastically alter my artstyle#or else i wouldnt be able to capture how sinister this scene truly is#this is about the video responding to the lily orchard rant#steven universe#shitpost#lapis lazuli#peridot#dumb shit
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Wow so porn sick you couldn't even keep the sex joke out of your tabletop game? Typical.
Anywho, isn't The "manhunt" author the one who said that he couldn't write any story that didn't have rape in it? That rape was super important to all his stories? Pretty sure it is.
Anyways this will be a dumpster fire. I'm glad it was blazed to my account. Another good laugh for the day.
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The people who act like the patriarchy isn't just describing how men have positioned themselves in a hierarchy above women in society makes me want to pull my hair out. You do know all oppressive systems are describing two groups of individuals right? Every man is an oppressor because they all benefit from this oppressive system. There is no way to be a man removed from the system or just as hurt by the patriarchy because the patriarchy is just describing how men benefit by subjugating women. No way to be a member of the class benefiting from an oppressive structure and be removed from or equitably harmed by that structure. This is the basic foundational theory of oppressive structures. If you can't understand this you need to fucking shut up
The gendered expectation that men may not enjoy that is expected out of them does not come with equivalent consequences as women, first off. Secondly, the gendered expectations that are imposed upon them are in most cases highly positive. Traits that put you and keep you in positions of power. Gendered expectations for men are to uplift them, not to subjugate them, so it is not anywhere near equivalent of the gender subjugation of women. Shut the fuck up, you fucking morons.
#lily responds#radical feminism#radfems please touch#terfs please interact#radical feminists please touch#radical feminist#radical feminist theory#radfem lesbian
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Some more spy x family one piece crossover doodles :)
A fic may or may not be in progress…….
Edit: the fic is posted :)
#one piece#spy x family crossover#portgas d ace#revolutionary sabo#sabo#monkey d luffy#loid forger#yor forger#anya forger#ok so I chose the last name Brenner for ASL as a cover because they’re all very fire coded#thanks to the person that commented eclipse as a WISE codename for sabo it fits really well#ace’s assassin codename is fireball after the fireball lily. wanted something subtly flower themed but also fire related#Spider-Man pointing meme happens between ace and yor when they’re given a joint mission and see each other as assassins for the first time#lots of ideas on the dynamic between loid and sabo……#the ideological difference of sabo being willing to give up everything including spywork for his brothers#whereas loid has given up everything including his past and identity for spy work…. because he didn’t have a choice in it#because so much of his past was taken from him and not willingly given up so his motivation for being a spy is so strong….#sabo responds the only way he knows how to to loid’s animosity by yknow. being a little shit and a gremlin at him
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