#like it's ok if that's their capacity
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you won't be "too much" for the people who are right for you. you'll be good enough and you'll be loved for the things others didn't value in you.
#motivational#if they tell you you're too much you gotta bounce#before you start to feel shitty abt yourself#bc it isn't true and you should not have to feel guilty or inconvenient (i once did)#like it's ok if that's their capacity#just means you probably aren't compatible emotionally#or as a deeper connection
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I'm looking too far into it as always but Monty being a regular crow and then getting violently turned into a human without his permission for his owner's revenge plot, gaining human levels of emotion and intelligence and then having it all violently ripped away again without warning, assumably losing all of that human emotion and stuff is genuine psychological horror to me, especially when you factor in the whole being in a coma thing being a metaphor for his time as a crow with Esther like, is he ok?
#honestly if i think about it too hard it really freaks me out lol#cause like he wouldnt even have the capacity to mourn what he lost - he wouldnt even know what it meant to him#i hope hes ok#monty the crow#monty finch#dead boy detective agency#dead boy detectives#dbda
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Ah fuck ah shit we found a kitten again
dude screaming his LUNGS out in front of some random building in lawton. literally just screaming as loud as possible. his plan to cry for help worked flawlessly.
#he's so sweet and so loosy-goosy Whateva I Can Adapt#we're not keeping bc I believe our house is. At. Capacity.#I'm looking for lost/founds with no luck but maybe I'll post again later asking if anyone wants him#who's in OK or willing to drive here#if you wanna get the jump on that then dm me but otherwise it may come later#he's SO sweet#sergle.txt#he doesn't have a swollen tummy from worms or any ribs sticking out from malnutrition so I feel like he was an indoor kitten and slipped ou#somehow. and got lost#if he was just a stray I'd expect him to be a little more shy or a little skinnier... no evidence of worms either
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#ok it’s giving girl dad wearing his daughter’s handmade necklace special for him into work 🥺🥺😩😩
couldn’t stop thinking about this tag of mine, wrote a little smth about it 🥰
The stomping footfalls racing down the hall behind him could only be those of a toddler. Daniel turns and squats just in time for his tiny blonde projectile of a child to come barreling into his chest. The force sends Daniel falling back onto his butt with a surprised oof, his daughter giggling delightedly in his lap.
“Hey, Ellie-bug,” Daniel smiles. “Daddy’s gotta go to work, remember how we talked about it and you promised to be a big girl?” He brushes a strand of hair away from her mouth where it’s gotten stuck in a little smear of jam leftover from her breakfast. Daniel had shown Max how to make it just the way she likes—the pancake batter shaped in the silicone star mold, the silly faces drawn in jelly and jam.
Ellie’s head bobs up and down dutifully, but she makes no move to get up.
Max appears from the kitchen then, looking like a man who’s been fighting a losing battle with the second pancake. There’s a splatter of thick batter on his white t-shirt. He’s holding the spatula like it’s offended him somehow. Daniel looks at him over their daughter’s head, and loves him fiercely.
“She is of course the biggest girl,” Max says. Ellie grins proudly. “Why don’t you give Daddy your present now, then we will finish your pancakes.”
Daniel watches her grey-blue eyes light up like she’s just now remembering why she came running at him in the first place. She reaches a chubby hand into the bib pocket on her overalls, embroidered Enchanté script stretching as she roots around and produces a string of brightly-colored plastic beads. She holds it out to him expectantly.
Daniel takes the strand delicately in hand, wraps it around the backs of his fingers and rotates his wrist to get a good look. It’s a necklace, probably more of a choker given its relatively small circumference, the fat pony beads the only real indication it was made by a child. The powder pink and fuchsia beads are separated by interspersed pearlescent white orbs and clear sparkly stars. Smack in the center is a single number bead, a glittery pink three.
“Jeepers, did you make this for me? It’s beautiful!” Daniel says, and means it. He’s already been wanting to talk to his team about adding a jewelry collection to a future drop, and what better inspiration?
Ellie nods excitedly. “Papa helped me do a…,” she pauses, squints and tilts her little head, searching for the word, “…a pattern!”
“We made it the other day, while you were out with Blake,” Max chimes in. “For good luck.” He sounds almost bashful, like maybe it wasn’t their daughter’s idea in the first place. Daniel���s heart is so swollen it’s threatening to leak out through the gaps in his ribcage.
“How’d I get so lucky, huh?” Daniel muses, softly, mostly to himself. He stretches the elastic over his head, feels the smooth plastic three settle in the hollow of his throat. His pulse thrums evenly against it, grounding.
He flashes his biggest smile at his family. “How do I look?”
“Pretty, Daddy!” Ellie throws herself forward again, wrapping her arms around Daniel’s neck. It leaves him locking eyes with Max, who’s gazing down at the two of them like nothing else in the universe exists. Daniel can never quite get used to that look—still feels butterflies dancing up the back of his throat, his stomach dropped into a glorious freefall.
“Beautiful, Daniel,” Max says, reverent. “Always.”
#maxiel#my fic#may i offer you some girl dads maxiel in these trying times? 🤲#context: daniel retires after 2025 when he and max have their daughter (haters see he’s married with a kid now just like you wanted!)#he’s the main stay-at-home dad while max finishes out his contract#of course daniel is a staple at rbr bc he’s always there to support max#but after 2028 when max is retired daniel is going back to rbr to work as a strategist or smth#so now max will be the main stay-at-home dad and he is READY for it#(he’ll get better at making pancakes he’s bound and determined)#daniel is nervous about going back to rbr in a work capacity for the first time in years#but he’s got his family by his side so he knows everything will be ok 🥰#this is my first time ever writing any sort of kidfic pls be nice
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im literally still on a mental health break but i just watched the livestream and...
he was...he was actually legitimately born IN Khaenri'ah?! Inside the currently hellhole Khaenri'ah? or did some timey wimey occur and it was actually 500 years ago Khaenri'ah? what??
place your bets kaeyanation
#STILL ON HIATUS STILL HEALING BUT OH MY GOD#kaeya#kaeya alberich#yall cant be having this info dropped just like that oh my god#ok this is the limit of my emotional capacity to interact more publicly again hnghh
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listen I know it’s kind of corny and inaccurate to act like every single person in the dc universe knows each other and is besties but it IS endlessly funny to me to follow the web of connections and see how many degrees removed from each other everyone is.
like look at the arrowfam okay. ollie and dinah are together, ollie is homoerotic best friends with hal, dinah is homoerotic best friends with babs. roy is dating dick, has a kid with jade, and is basically an adoptive father to both grant emerson and rose wilson. connor is dating kyle and is constantly followed around by eddie fyers. mia is friends with a lot of the second gen teen titans kids, had an on-again-off-again thing going on with steph for a while, and is currently dating sienna. emiko is besties with courtney and some of the other recent teen titans. sin has a small army of protective aunts from the birds of prey. the real question is how far does it go before ollie puts a cap on the number of people who are invited to family brunch on sundays
#arrowfam#LIKE. PLSSSS#can you imagine them all in one room.#roy: hey ollie can garth come to brunch this week.. he’s in town and i never get to see him and he really wants to try your pancakes#ollie: idk roy we’re already at max capacity..#roy: please dad🥺🥺🥺🥺#ollie: …..fine. someone will have to be uninvited then#mia: why? what’s one more person?#ollie: bc I have Very Strict Rules!!! If I don’t follow the invite limit then the whole town’ll show up every week!#connor what about axing kyle#connor: …dad. I am not disinviting my boyfriend and Only Guest to brunch bc of your arbritrary rules.#ollie: fine that’s fair. um…#mia: what about grant#ollie: for the last time mia we are not banning your nephew from family brunch because he allegedly#ate some of your bacon one time. it was not a big deal and you need to get over it#mia: UMM‼️‼️ it was a big deal TO ME🗣️🗣️and I don’t appreciate you INVALIDATING my emotions like this‼️‼️#ollie: uhhh emiko what about courtney. she comes over like every week will she be fine sitting this one out#emiko: I can’t believe this. how dare you deny my ONLY FRIEND IN THE WORLD an invitation to brunch. it’s like you hate me#ollie: EMI I KNOW YOU PATENTLY HAVE MORE FRIENDS. who have BEEN TO BRUNCH BEFORE.#emiko: YOU CAN’T TAKE COURTNEY FROM MEEEEEE#ollie: FINE ok.#roy: why don’t you just tell hal not to come all the way down here for brunch I mean he’s here every week anyway#ollie: bc it’s hal okay. mind your own business.#roy: fine. but we’re running out of people#connor: I mean………. what about eddie#ollie: ………….. yeah ok I��m sold. that works. meeting adjourned good job team#mia: why are you so worked up about keeping attendance low anyway#ollie: MY KITCHEN TABLE CAN ONLY FIT SO MANY SUPERHEROES MIA
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bonkers interaction with a coworker today where he tried to make smalltalk over tv shows and i mentioned that I'm watching Gotham, to which he replied "oh, I liked how that show started but the ending... They made the penguin gay :(" AND I-
first of all, i think my brain did a complete factory reset bc I am NOT used to hearing people say things like that outside of family gatherings but anyway:
that's just the ending to him??? like, i'm literally on season 2 and i swear to god that bird bitch is just short of making out with Ed every time they're on screen together what show was he even watching?????
#gotham tv#nygmobblepot#i guess?#they literally lived out a whole fanfic plot in season 2#i assume from his only mentioning the penguin that the riddler is *not* confirmed queer but that's ok i know the truth#I didn't expect the show to acknowledge it in any canon capacity tho bc it did come out in like. the 2010s golden age of queerbait lol#and idc if they're canon either bc i have way more fun imagining them as bitter exes reluctantly teaming up in the future as old men#i mean. if gotham villains got to live happily ever after too early who would batman even fight???#no actual spoilers for the show on this post tho pls i really am only on season 2!!#pj.txt
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kaladin vs kelsier?
Kelsier gets squashed like a bug because Kaladin’s 6’10 next question
#alternatively#Kelsier informally adopts Kaladin to fill the avoid Vin left and becomes a better father than Lirin#and Kaladin unknowingly becomes the Ghostbloods Favorite Guy because Kel wont shut up about him#Shallan successfully gets a meeting w Thaidakar after playing the long con after disguising herself#and she walks in and gets shown thaidakar#and Kaladin is chatting with him#and Shallan almost breaks character because What#but manages to compose herself and thinks ‘oh my god is kaladin a traitor’#but QUICKLY learns Kaladin has No Idea what the Ghostbloods acc are#and is just there for like bring ur kid to work day#shallan reports it to Dalinar#(because no more lying)#and Dalinar gets jealous#dad-off insues#(ok im done)#(im not seriously anwsering this because i dont actually know Kelsiers full capacity and stuff#and also.#ive done wayyy too much thinking for today#the whole vin thing DRAINNEDDDD me#i think realistically Kel would win#esp considering hes more cunning with his powers#and thats all im saying#bye bye!#stormlight archive#cosmere#the stormlight archive#brandon sanderson#kaladin stormblessed#kelsier mistborn#kelsier
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I do remember seeing on the dreaded red app some people seeing the "Messmer mourned the loss of a brother-in-arm" quote and the fact that he didn't execute Andreas and Huw as a sign of being merciful but also like. His treatment of them is the opposite of having mercy. He quite literally entombed them alive and left them to starve to death alone if not for the company of stone statues and sorcerers long gone mad
#there is a trend with messmer's character that he DOES have the capacity to be a deeply empathetic person#(him genuinely caring about andreas and huw giving or the jarred shamans nursery or his whole complex for marika)#but also all this empathy is just... drowned by all the terrible acts he does or permits to be done by his troops#like. fort of reprimand. serpent whip (which also ironically parallels what hornsent subjected shamans to)#even like. leaving romina alive (he was likely aware of her existance) but after quite literally razing her church to the ground#the masses of hanged people on trees. the masses of impaled people#whatever the fuck happened to grandam like holy shit granny you ok#he likely feels bad about all of this but also#lets it happen because he constantly justifies himself with 'this is justice for mother this is what she ordered i'm doing it for her'#[grrm goggles on] something something the kingsguard dilemma#sorry its. 2 am. i'll go eep now byee
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tagged by @galedekarios, @hawke, @zahra-hydris & @rivensbane thank you so much lovelies!!
rules: make a poll with your top 5 favourite antagonists and ask your followers to vote for their favourite.
Tagging w/ zero pressure as always: @elizzacassan, @tekehu, @elluvians, @mercymaker, @wentian
@leviiackrman, @bankaizen, @shadowglens, @leopardmuffinxo & anyone else who wants to do this one!
#*tagged#these polls are fun!#also ok yeah technically loghain is only in a villain capacity in da:o so i specified da:o but I LOVE THAT MAN#honorary mentions: khan noonien singh (NOT CUMBERBUND) / maleficent (animated og) / odin (gow:r) / prince nuada (hellboy ii)#aegon ii will never be an antagonist to me so I can't put him here even tho like#the show really wants you to see it that way
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no offense but i'm just left so unimpressed with anakin and padme each time i watch the prequels. maybe it's me but still
#am i evil#or is everyone else evil#jk i understand the love overall#but i just get so frustrated each time#ik im not exactly like either of them#so#i just gotta be more empathetic to their cause ig#lmk ur thoughts#cos i often feel like the outsider when i bring this up irl#star wars#the clone wars#star wars prequels#anakin and padme#i just Dont Get It™#neurodivergence tells me it aint right#like if obi-wan told me to be more careful or to not trust the nightmares i'd be like yes ok ur right ty bby for looking out for me#but also my empathy tells me to understand anakin's upbringing#and the fact he never actually had anything and was afraid of loss in every capacity#be nice i'm genuinely curious why i'm not enthralled w them
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Ruikasa hater because every time sm1 writes tsukasa & ignores saki’s existence to make rui more important to him im like (extremely loud incorrect buzzer) u have already failed to understand tsukasa tenma.
#also the importance of emu + nene for them both#but I think it’s borderline impossible to divorce tsukasa’s character from saki#given that like. his relationship to saki is foundational to his personality/world view lmao#also I want u to look at like every ruikasa moment in canon because for like 70% of them#it’s rui saying some gay shit and tsukasa going 👍🏻 ok im gonna talk abt saki now#even in pandemonium…#rui: let’s go walk along the river tomorrow :) tsukasa: saki would like that#but tsukasa without saki would just not even be the same character. look at me. do u understand.#there’s a reason literally every au I’ve ever made has to include saki to some capacity…#soul eater au & CPDB/space opera aus are rui pov and u will still be learning abt what saki is up to#bc tsukasa does not shut the fuck up abt his sister ever#begging u guys to be as insane abt platonic relationships as I am it’s fun#mine#tsukasa
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whenever will has a bad day at work (or just a bad day in general), and he's just sitting on the couch and sulking, mike will put on will's current favorite song and ask him to dance really stupidly formally like they do at weddings. will always rolls his eyes and pouts and refuses at first - until he sees mike, his wonderful amazing beautiful boyfriend, busting out his absolute cringiest dance moves to their favorite the cure song or whatever else and singing along to said song horrifically off key in the middle of their living room. and then mike extends his hands to will and forcefully pulls him up off the couch and twirls him around and dips him down to kiss him like he's the most special boy in the world (because he is. Obviously) and will can't pout anymore because mike's hands are so big and warm in his own and it's just them, being stupid and silly and crazy together in their tiny little one bedroom apartment and dancing along to all of their favorites. before the first song even finishes, though, will finds himself singing and dancing along too and twirling mike back because mike's dopey little grin is so damn infectious that he just. can't help it.
and this is how mike develops the Tried And True Method To Turn Will's Frown Upside Down (pun not intended) that he still continues even when they're older and married, because they're still stupid kids at heart and love each other so much that it needs to be shared in every way possible ❤️
#YES I KNOW I AM SUPPOSED TO BE OFFLINE SHHHHHH#this came to me in a vision while listening to the cure and i needed to share it. ok#i DID get a lot of writing and watching done though!!!!! i promise <3#god anyways. can u tell how much they mean 2 me.#will will be like mike im not in the mood and then mike will grab a hairbrush for a microphone and shred on an air guitar and be like#-are u sure. are u sure you aren't in the mood. and will will be like. oh my god you're so stupid. make out w me#reminder that mike is canonically goofy as hell yall. i hate when people make him emo and sad like GOD NO HE IS NOT THAT BOY IS A GOOFBALL#HE IS SAD YES BUT HE HAS THE CAPACITY TO BE AN ABSOLUTE GOOF AND WE NEED TO ACKNOWLEDGE THAT.#thank you for coming to my ted talk. xx#stranger things#mike wheeler#will byers#byler#st.txt
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i do think it's odd when people talk abt r's lycanthropy as though it is somehow offensive to like....acknowledge or emphasize the fact that he is a werewolf at all. like i think it's weird when people say that it's gross or harmful to write lycanthropy (which is, of course, a fictional disease that is an allegorical tool for exploring themes related to disability) in a way where r is written with "wolfish" traits, or he or the people around him refer to him as a werewolf or just in any way emphasize that being a werewolf is part of who he is.
and i'm not trying to overstate this like it's a huge issue, because at most it's just like. a couple people making posts online, y’know? but i just think it's odd when i do see people say stuff like "don't refer to him as a beast/wolf/etc!!! he's a person!!" or act like it's disgusting for lycanthropy to alter his characterization at all to make him more "beastly"
because like. ok. what we have here is lycanthropy as a chronic illness that is vilified + stigmatized by the wider wizarding world. and typically in fics remus has a very negative view of his own lycanthropy since he's grown up in a society that tells him he's a monster. so if the response to that is "don't emphasize that he's a werewolf at all by giving him negative werewolf traits!!!" it's like....that is. exactly the message that we are supposed to be questioning if we're going into this allegory with a critical reading. bc u are also now treating being a werewolf like it's a bad thing.
like if u think it's an actual issue for him to be portrayed in a way where he is more wolfish/beastly....why? who's saying that those things are bad? why is it so important for him to be portrayed as "civilized" rather than "monstrous," and who in this context is qualifying what counts as "civilized" vs. "monstrous?" why is monstrosity diametrically opposed to humanity/personhood in the first place?
obviously this is all fanfiction and if somebody wants to write r's lycanthropy so that he's just a werewolf once a month + otherwise isn't that affected by it, or is only affected in ways that are easy to deem sympathetic (ie, he gets hurt + has to spend time in the hospital wing but he never exhibits any kind of aggression or "animalistic" or "beastly" qualities otherwise) then that's fine. and i'm also not saying that he has to be written as like hyper-dominant alpha wolf beastman either--i don't necessarily think that's the only possible interpretation for how lycanthropy might manifest in traits outside the full moon. it's more just that i think it's weird when people moralize about like...."playing into werewolf stereotypes" lol bc. again werewolves aren't real. but also in the context of lycanthropy as allegory, the goal is not to say "you can't write those traits related to disability bc it's a negative stereotype," which does nothing to question why it's a negative stereotype and ultimately just reinforces the idea that those traits are something negative. the goal is to use the allegory to explore how people who fit "negative stereotypes" of disability navigate an ableist society that stigmatizes them + insists that the only path to acceptance is to hide their disability as best they can + assimilate, while simultaneously making assimilation an impossible goal.
#this post brought to u by my hatred for the name 'moonstar' thank u xoxo#'remus would hate being reduced to a wolf' false. remus lupin is not a real person#and therefore does not have the real-life capacity for hate#also being a werewolf is literally central to his character. and there's nothing wrong with the him being a wolf. so#also....'moon' is literally also coming from werewolf??? like...ok#and if people r just changing it to moonstar bc they think it's prettier. stop >:(#it's not prettier it's just confusing!!!!!!#ranting and raving
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i find i difficult to believe that Padme just, what? accepts that Anakin kills children in aotc but it’s just sooo much worse in rots bc they’re jedi? or human?
something’s not adding up…
#if this is explained in any capacity pls ignore this#but i’m just a little put off on the idea that it’s only not ok when the species is more to your liking…#star wars prequels#star wars#star wars the clone wars#anakin skywalker#padme amidala#sw aotc#attack of the clones#revenge of the sith#sw rots#anidala
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[TUVOKTOBER: Day 6] Based on this line of dialogue:
#I will forever be like 'what did you mean by that??' jennifer lawrence clip about Tuvok saying he 'spoke out against it'#He isn't??? A politician?? And never was???#Is his family one which holds a certain amount of sway??#I need to know if he 'spoke out' in an official capacity - like a way that mattered to the world at large or if he was just talking shit#I tend to assume mostly the latter - maybe talking shit to specific people but still. It reminds me of how in Gravity he says#HE chose to leave Jara and school when in reality he was kicked out and banished - adjusting the facts#anyway one of the things I sincerely love about Tuvok is that he would be like one of many petty Vulcan antagonists* in another series#especially when he was younger but it's not like he's THAT much better in canon#Ex: Though Tuvok agrees & praises the peace treaty he still seems to view B'Elanna unfavorably bc she's Klingon#<- Like what Neelix says 'That's just it!! You don't feel anything FOR me but you feel things AGAINST me' that's him a nutshell#<- Another example is how he treats Chakotay in the earlier seasons: Deliberately undermining him and questioning his authority#He can be very sanctimonious both about him personally and facets of himself without much tolerance for others or deviation#It's a legit character flaw and I do love highlighting it bc I love him even when I want to choke him to death he's fascinating <3#It's also VERY interesting bc he WAS more of a rebel punk as a teen then he went to the monastery and now he is shown to be very#devoted to Vulcan ways and have a keen interest in monastic life.#I know Vulcan philosophy is NOTHING like christianity or catholicism but like forget that for a second. Ok. Now: 'Tuvok's born again swag?#off the charts' v_v thank you#bea art tag#Tuvoktober#st voyager#st voyager fanart#*And this never changes. Unlike Spock or T'Pol he never has moments (that I can recall) where the narrative's like 'GOTCHA!'#& he's never insecure about his identity as Vulcan. Never desires to feel or be more human. & I /do/ think this is bc he's older! We see#himas an ensign in 'Flashback' struggling with his identity as its pitted against humanity AND in 'Gravity' where he's shown to have disdai#for Vulcan culture & customs. It really makes me wish we had gotten more character-building episodes from him rather than character-breakin#ones where he's not really acting as himself in full. v_v#also one last thing: I recognize that other characters do try2 'GOTCHA!' Tuvok both seriously and lightheartedly but Tuvok is never framed#as being actually affected by this unlike Spock or T'Pol where it's a whole like Thing about their characters (humanity - feeling)#tuvoktober
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