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periprose · 5 months ago

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sydney is too young for carmy. its grooming tbh very weird of carm to look at syd that way when she's his mentee and looks up to him. disgusting that creeps like u ship it

We don't have a canon age for Sydney or Carmy so I'm going off their actors' ages.

A four year difference is too much for you?? Lol. This isn't grooming and realistically most relationships can have this dynamic. Anon I invite you to the real world where rarely you will find people who date are on the exact same level (please don't come at me with this "power imbalance" shit too lol)

Also if you think I'm a creep I don't really care. Being an adult means I can do what I want without caring about randoms on the internet think of me.

A lot of you also use purity culture/false virtuosity to bully people, too; don't think I don't notice how you're subtly trying to equate this to actual pedophilia. Genuinely, you do a disservice to actual issues when you pull this shit.

#this also isnt even my worst ship in terms of age gap #you do you #but just let me do me lol #the bear fx #ask #anon #the bear #sydcarmy #sydney x carmy #sydney adamu #carmy berzatto #ngl something very catholic about the way anons come in here harping about this #like why can you not just let people do what they want #the internet has made some of you so relentlessly nosy #its not enough to ship and let ship #now it's 'youre morally a bad person and you should feel bad!!'#what if i like the fact that sydney is his mentee?? oh noo what then??#fuck yall lol everything has to be so boring and sanitized and not real #like i think most of these askers are young and never experienced real life romance #so they think everything must be a perfect fairytale or its problematic #no babe the oddities are what keep it interesting #this is almost as bad as those people who say sydney x richie is a father daughter ship

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