#like I could

[rad-river]

One thing I’ve got to say to bisexual and straight women is that we really need to start choosing better for ourselves in terms of men. To be clear I don’t mean domestic abuse victims, but instead in the small parts of life.

Men are abundant. Single men especially.

You don’t need to stay with Jakey because you think you can’t do any better! Because you really can, don’t bother sticking around someone because you’re scared of being alone. Common heterosexual relationships favour the man so obviously they’re the common form of cohabitation. Find people you actually want to be around, not someone who fills the void with extra chores and problems.

If you still want to be with men, you need to remember that you can have standards. You don’t have to compromise.

You don’t want him to watch porn and he does? Dump him

He called you a misogynistic slur? DUMP HIM

He doesn’t make any effort to please you in bed? DUMP HIM!!!

Everyone has hard limits in relationships but bisexual and straight women need to enforce them more.

[twistedwonderlandshenanigans]

Random HC's That I Probably Overexplain - Cater Edition 1!

TW: Angst heavy, using kids for profit via social media, emotional/physical abuse (nothing explicit/gory) His mom was a family life vlogger. I've dabbled on this topic a few times before, but never got really into it. His mom ran a channel called the "Beloved Diamond Family", in which his mother went by Dreamy Diamond, and his older sisters went by Dazzling and Ditzy Diamond. He was "Daring Diamond" or sometimes just called "Little Gem/Diamond". "Daddy Diamond" was never around, but his mom sometimes went on rants about him on camera. They rarely made it onto the channel though. Part of the reason the Diamonds moved so much is because of his dad's work, but the other part was because of how much information his mom would divulge and put her kids in danger. Cater's dad did his best to protect his kids from the consequences of her actions, but couldn't get ahead of them. Cater was the star of many of the videos, as he was the baby and everyone wanted to see more of him. He hated being made to do everything that his mom said, or repeating the actions a hundred times until he got it "perfect", but the comments of other parents telling him how much their kids loved him and whatnot was enough to keep him going. It's also why he's so attached to his phone now and a big part of why he just keeps up the facade. To be caught at a less than picture perfect moment or with a subpar reaction at this point scares him. Irrationally, he worries about his mothers reaction, and because he's never really been to school for long enough to make friends, he has to act the only way he knows how and hope that people keep liking the show he puts on. A lot of the videos were pretty fluffy, happy videos, but Ms. Diamond would do anything for views, and did put out videos of Cater sobbing over his dead pet, about him breaking his arm on his skateboard, and a lot of her "prank" videos that were mostly just endangering her kids or trying to prove her husband was cheating. (At one point she did a "slip and slide" in the kitchen and called Cater over to try some of her cookies. He couldn't have been more than five or six, so he came running in excited and ended up in urgent care. All the scars and marks he got from his moms wacked out ideas have been carefully hidden under makeup and magic for years now, but sometimes he doesnt have the energy to cover them up on his clones). Obviously, none of the Diamond kids were off very well, but when they were "too big to be cute anymore" his mom kind of let the channel die out and became a more severe alcoholic. However, when her channel started to pick up traction again years later, Ms. Diamond decided to keep her channel going with behind the scenes clips and telling stories about her kids while mildly tipsy. She didn't tell her kids she was going to do this, and now that they're all 18 and over they want to stop her, but don't want to cause more drama from her. Cater's bigger sister wants to take her to court for everything she's done, but Cater and his eldest sister just want to ignore it and sweep it under the rug like nothing is going on because it hurts too much to revisit the things they used to have to do. Cater's mom is...a BoyMom. Like she is Not Normal about her son to a creepy uncomfortable extent and Cater doesn't know how to deal with it, he mostly tries to break contact with her, but she is relentless and a master guilt tripper. He had been looking forward to his 18th birthday to officially disown her or put a restraining order on her, but never had the heart to actually do it, because...it is his mom, and family never abandons each other unless you want to be a piece of shit, right? (This is not serious, please, if you have family that doesn't treat you well don't be afraid to leave if you can)

[hardly-a-p3rson]

wouldn't it be funny if I deleted this fuckass app cut everyone in my life off get on a train and just fucking leave idk maybe I'll find a little town who knows

[locamotivednp]

I have GOT to chill before I do something wild like fly to Europe. being an adult with money, a flexible job and fuck all else to do is dangerous

[katydoodles]

I haven’t written fan fiction since 2016, and I’ve deleted all previous works from when I was younger.

However (comma)

What if I start writing again and call myself Katyscribles ???

[strawberries-n-ships87]

This is what it feels like trying not to start shipping with him btw

[tshifty]

the chaotic side of me just wants to fully lay out my cards in my meeting tomorrow lmao and be like fr, this is where i am, i have an offer rn, i need this from you to stay. bc like??? fr WHAT do i have to lose atp.

like ik "you dont do that stuff at work" but also??? i dont give a fuck tbh about stupid professionalism like politicking around the truth bullshit..........

like for the love of christ just yes or no yall. yes or no. dont fucking give me another non answer or im going to lose my mind.

yes or no!!!!! if i show yall my cards will you show me yours!!!!! like ive already been so blunt tbh but i just ooooh tomorrow's meeting i can feel it yall it is gonna piss me the fuck off i think. and im like no bc what if i just said cut the shit fr yall yes or no can you do this yes or no not a maybe not a lemme get back to you never not a let me give some vague fake ass plan to nothing... yes or no

[lovedeluxe92]

i will miss living mere blocks from my dealer when we move

[b0tsbby]

I could have fixed Shera actually.

[anarchomitsumi]

I WANT TO GO BACK TO GALIZA

[addicted-to-nothing]

I have this very niche need to write a Sims 4 Legacy Challenge based on ACOTAR characters/courts lol

[ablog]

I never thought I would be so devastated from missing a book

[eyra]

might have to skip my work christmas party on account of not wanting to go. x

[coffeeflavored-tears]

like i could cut off all my hair

[danitheclown]

I'll info dump but while dinning because I may be mad but at least I'm polite

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