#letgoofexpectations

[realtalkwithmattycom]

Perspective clashes

#realtalkwithmatty #presentmomentclarity #letgoofexpectations #mindfulObservation#embracerhenow realityperceptionbalance#liveinreality #clearsight #mindfulclarity#truthoverperception #realityawakening#releaseIllusions #mindfulperspective#mindfulacceptance #letofIllusions #seeclearly#RealityAwareness #perspectiveclashes#AcceptingWhatIs #EmbraceThePresent

[soulreflectiontarot]

I was called to do an evening reading for the collective. Please take what resonates and leave the rest. The cards used are from Sister Moon Tarot’s Moody Moon Messages - Masculine Edition and The Soul Reflection’s Manifesting Love Oracle by Nadine Swiger. Both decks are available on Etsy. . There is a sense of calmness in the air tonight. Reflections of the past on the mind. There is a longing of trust and happiness. A balance of friends and deep seated love. You are already connected on a spiritual level. There is a deep sense between you of “just knowing.” A closeness that most never quite experience or understand. A hug. A loving embrace. A desire to feel you close. As you embrace for what the future brings. Surrender to what the universe has aligned. You can’t see around the bend, but the Divine Time is coming. Are you ready? . . . #oraclereading #oraclecardreading #collectivelovereading #collectivereading #twinflamejourney #twinflamelovestory #soulmatelove #starsoulmate #twinsoul #divinetiming #surrendertotheflow #letgoofexpectations #allowforlove #sistermoontarot @sistermoontarot #moodymoonmessagesmasculine #soulreflectionoracle #manifestinglove💚 #manifestingloveoracle #nadineswiger #etsyoraclecards #etsyoracledecks https://www.instagram.com/p/Cl-DlLDuWEP/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[ziarising]

#knowyourplace #selfcare #selfquotes #lifeskills #writerscommunity #writersquotes #igwriters #poetsandwriters #poetsquotes #lifelessons #mentallystronger #letgoofexpectations #igwriters #poetrycommunity #writerscommunity #selfempowerment #womenempoweringwomen #peopleempoweringpeople #relationshipdynamics #familydynamics #acceptit #movingon #selfrespect https://www.instagram.com/p/ClyguJQKXGj/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[unadulteratedcollectordreamerblr]

#stillpainting #artprocesses are unique for each artist One thing is clear. In order to do it: #letgoofexpectations #letgoofwhatnolongerservesyou just for today #onedayatatime❤ #artistoninstagram #birdseries #natureartwork #decorativearts #bekindtoothers💕 (at Los Angeles, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CHA_tStlxj7/?igshid=7mccp2zic3f5

[alinevida]

Letting go feels lighter. Letting go is liberation. #letgo #letgoofexpectations #nammyohorengekyo (at Earth) https://www.instagram.com/p/CDyHjqsJa52/?igshid=15zpnxaqqyukx

[jessiejoco-blog]

A card pulled for the collective🖤 #jessiejoco #guidedmessages #patience #lessons #bigpicture #letgooftheoutcome #letgoofexpectations #dothework #shadowwork #havefaith #havefaithinyourself #itwillhappen #whenitssupposedto https://www.instagram.com/p/B5sIm8tnzRe/?igshid=1gasgrnekbdp5

[mpwebseo]

When you stop expecting to see yourself in others you will begin to find that your relationships are more joyous and fulfilling. #letgoofexpectations #findyourhappy #beyourself #acceptyourself #believe #empowerment #iamenough #liveyourbestlife #motivationalquotes #quotes #riseup #selflove #trusttheprocess #winningmindset https://www.instagram.com/p/B5V50ALBv03/?igshid=p04qq312mslt

[raelenbagby-blog]

#thereisnosuchthingasPERFECT #letgoofexpectations #choosejoy #LIVEYOURDREAM #livelifetothefullest #youonlyhaveONEshot https://www.instagram.com/p/ByLTHdzDAcaTckRiSYII_0J3--A2OISqsqGy640/?igshid=1tqhnwoy9m193

[joshuapettitphotography]

Image: All to often image is everything to the viewer. And when things happen that don't fit the viewers image of what things should look like, it can trigger many strange effects by simply tickling the ego a little bit the wrong way. Some people get extreme bouts of depression, some lash out in anger, some people will withdraw from society all together. Those that understand that life and image will rarely match, have the benefit of more gratitude when things match, and less disappointment when it doesn't go as planned. Example. I'm in a hurry to get down the road. Not to much traffic, I should be able to get there fast. Then grandma gets in front of me. I could get angry, then drive unsafe and reckless, stress my mind and body out. Or I could understand that life happens beyond my control sometimes, and in the long run it is all going to be ok anyways. Stop focusing on the dissapoint and the negative goes away. This technique works on many areas of life, even when you are not where you think you "should be" by now in life, or when life isn't going the way you think it should. If you are doing the best you can, then any set back is still progress if you keep calm and carry on. . . . . . . . . . . . #motivateyourself #motivation #inspiration #goodvibes #gratitudeattitude #gratefulforthejourney #gratefulforthestruggle #inspirational #motivational #letgoego #crucifyyourego #letgoofexpectations #angermanagement #egodeath #egocentricreality #reality #illusions #illuminations #disillusioned #weareone #relaxnothingisundercontrol #breathe #perspectives #personalgrowth #ittakestime #peaceintheparoxysm https://www.instagram.com/p/BvbnLZ0lWBj/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1gytqjmsauuq9

[debrarelly]

This is a day when confusion about direction could take place. We may find that people are free to put their two cents in about our path we are taking. The planet Neptune which rules Pisces ♓️ is influencing today and the Moon in Scorpio brings a rawness to our emotions. We may have questions about personal decisions and directions. With the planet Mars which rules ♈️ Aries aspecting the moon we may find feelings of anger and irritation with others happening. Something or someone can just rub us the wrong way. This is not a good day to overreact and go off on a person who is giving their opinion. Try to let go of things that feel like a grain of sand in your shoe and move on. You may not feel exactly like yourself now so wait and take a deep breath. With communication in relationships patience is needed and messages could be blocked today. Relax and know tomorrow things may improve. It is important now with Neptune bringing all kinds of deep inner thoughts that we do not over do drugs and alcohol and even watch the over eating. Things in our life can seem very dreamy and surreal now at times. Relationships can seem odd and not supportive. Slow responses can happen for our requests. Finances and the lack of them may be on our mind. The words I hear are “How did I get here I was not expecting this. Now what will take place? Will I be ok? I am a little scared but I don’t want anyone to know. I am anxious and uptight but try to act calm. I hope I will be ok”..... If these words given to me speak to your heart then your angels are letting you know that you are on the right path. No matter what others say or the doubts you have about life now the Universe will open the right doors at the right time so do not fear. Do not compare your life with others, your work with others. You are unique..You will be ok...we ask that all feelings of anxiety and worry now start to be less and you begin a new direction. All is well...And so it is #dailydosefromdebra #dontdoubtyourself #dontsettle#easydoesit#dontoverthink #staystrong #sober#guidedbyangels#letgoofexpectations #nofear https://www.instagram.com/p/BtL4h1phSP1/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1c7nt7bs4vom1

[mubal4]

The Journal Journey Part 81                                

 Today’s entry on the long journey is another one of those messages the University delivers at the right time. I had come across a Brene’ Brown nugget that I have saved from years ago, that I revisit occasionally. It helps me reset perspective and today, as I opened my journal from May 17, 2017 – who are many of the quotes outlined from that day, one Brene’ Brown. Without any further delay, here are some pieces of wisdom from her, and others.

 “What steps would you take if fear and shame were not present?” – This is a great question. I think both, fear, and shame, can be intertwined a bit! Is it fear that presents us from moving forward, or shame? Both? Is being embarrassed of failure or what others might think of our behavior shame? Or can it be fear? Whatever the case, we don’t have to let either of them stop us from taking the step forward. I’ve come to accept that fear (not sure I categorize it as shame when going through it at the time), is going to present itself in many situations. It is not about being scared; it is feeling fear. That could be described as doubt, stress, anxiety ��� definitely uncertainty. Loss of control comes to mind and not able to look into the future, that crystal, and see how it all turns out. Accepting this, sitting in those feelings of uncertainty and doubt, fear….AND doing it anyway, taking that step – well that is courageous. I guess the easiest way for me to boil it down; being a parent with a high school junior and a college freshman that is 1700 miles away – the thought of control is gone. My wife an I accept we have to let go and believe that lessons we’ve taught them will come to the surface when called upon. We must let them leave the home and go off to be great adults. That is what we’ve trained them for so sitting in that fear, uncertainty, and doubt, isn’t going to do them or us any good. I don’t think the steps we took to this point would have changed – those characteristics were and will be present. We just have to accept it and move forward.  

 “Vulnerability is not knowing victory or defeat. It is understanding the necessity of both, engaging, and being all in.” – This reminds me of a great quote by Denzel Washington, it may not be exact, but it gets to the point. “You will lose. You will fail. You will embarrass yourself and you will suck at something. Accept it because it is inevitable.” The point, I think, is being able to embrace those failures. Own them and be vulnerable in those moments. More so in defeat than victory in think! Those victories are fun but how memorable are they compared to the defeats. I know my loses sting and it is hard for me to forget them. Not negatively though – they are the foundation for my growth and improvements. Don’t get me wrong, I remember the good wins too but the amount of knowledge and growth that come from winning fails in comparison to that when we fail. It is inevitable. Having the ability to be vulnerable in those embarrassing moments, when we don’t have our shit together, that is when the biggest gains are made.

 Great segue into, “When failure is not an option we can forget about learning, creativity, and innovation.” – The stress and anxiety that is typically caused by that drive to be “perfect” robs us of our creativity. We get nervous and tend to focus on the results rather than sitting in and engaging in the process. We get lost in the future and not in what is happening directly in front of us. Tiptoeing through our lives trying to not make a mistake. Reality is that we will make mistakes and fail, just like Mr. Denzel Washington eluded too above. I know, I do it – get caught up in trying to make the first pass at something turn out just as I envisioned. When it doesn’t happen or the circumstances don’t go as expected, I get pissed, disappointed, sad, or angry. Not a great way to go through life! As my wife tells me, “That must be exhausting.” It is except when I let go of expectations and work to focus on the experienced. When you let go of the results, the stress seems to go as well and the worry about how it will turn out doesn’t matter. We are focused on the present and the gratitude of the moment.

 I will end it with these two quotes, the first is anonymous but gets your mind back to the whole concept of the steps we take when we operate out of fear. If fear is keeping us from moving forward, what potential are we missing out on? What experiences are we not living, and what moments are we not creating. Will the version of ourselves that we become be the best rendition of ourselves?

 “The Definition of Hell – On your last day on earth, the person you become will meet the person you could have become.”

 And finally, from Brene’ Brown – simply leave with this: “No matter what gets done and how much is left undone, I am enough. Yes, I am imperfect and vulnerable and sometimes afraid, but that doesn’t change the truth that I am also brave and worthy of love and belonging.”

[tahitianstarseed]

Using 💘The Love Compass Oracle Deck. By: LunaTideLove (Erica Kelly).💘 Astrological reading for Virgo♍,Sun☀️,Moon🌙,Rising⛅,&Venus♀️ signs right now. May or may not resonate, you will know intuitively. #virgo #virgos #virgo♍ #♍ #zodiac #zodiacs #zodiacsigns #astrology #oracledeck #oraclereadersofinstagram #oraclereading #oraclecommunity #tarotcommunity #oraclecardreadersofinstagram #tarotreadersofinstagram #tarotofinstagram #thelovecompassoracledeck #thelovecompassoracle #love #romance #commitment #intimacy #beherenow #retreat #letgoofexpectations #karmicpartner #resistance #reunion #forgiveness #truelove

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[ziarising]

#lifelessons #lifeskills #skillsforlife #letgoofexpectations #expectations #writerscommunity #writersofengland #shequotes #lifequotes #lifelessonslearned #lessonsoflife #lifecoaching #lifeprep #writerssociety #writersofinsta #igquotes #selfcare #selfvalidation #selfcareexercises #mindfulquotes #selflove #selfrespect #successfulliving #positivemindset #mindsetmotivation https://www.instagram.com/p/CgFfQ5xsNpq/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[unadulteratedcollectordreamerblr]

I re-created the #face of the #student in the #ruthweisberg piece based on my #livesketches #art process is where #disciplineequalsresults one must be #bewillingtofail in order #tosucceed #letgoofexpectations and #letgooftime #contemporaryportrait #painting#fineart #illustrative #cultural (at West Hills, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/BwH-gRzlysA/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=82uybddagnak

[saramyounes]

🚨 Honesty Alert 🚨 The moment you let go of your expectations of other people and accept them for who they are, you will be free. Some of these people will never be the nice, loving, kind people you deserve. Set them and yourself free. Make room for those who deserve you 💚💙💜💛 #honestyquotes #selfcarequotes #selfcarequote #realquotesandsayings #realquotes #letgoofexpectations #honesty #peoplesuck #peoplesucksometimes #sara_younes_writing #realthoughts #honestthoughts #acceptancequotes #acceptanceisthekey #honestwriting #honestquotes #wordsoftruth #truthhurts #truthquotes #quotesoftruth #truthsucks #truthbetold💯 #truthtalk #realtalk #contemporarywriter #contemporarywriters #contemporarywriting #hardlessonlearned #lessonlearned #lessonsoflife https://www.instagram.com/p/CEkz7KegjOL/?igshid=1qf71vamobe12

[infiniteangel161]

🌎October 12, 2018.🌎 #experiences #TakeControl #LetGoOfExpectations #TrustYourJourney #LetGoAndFlow https://www.instagram.com/p/Bo2UNUJjIYcivShxivO9AdbIjDGgfQ6jCTaytE0/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1q372bz70ui0y