#let's celebrate and be proud of our diversity

[genderqueerdykes]

i really want to see genderqueer be an identity we talk about in great detail this pride month. genderqueer saw more usage in the 90s and 2000s, with the rise of the term non binary we've seen more people gravitate toward that label as it becomes the more socially accepted term to use given its notoriety. i would like to bring back alternative labels for this experience, since our diversity is what makes us so unique and strong as a community

genderqueer is an identity that has a long history, and a myriad of definitions and folks who express it in different ways. it really can mean whatever the hell you want. it can mean that you're cisgender but express your gender in a queer way. it can mean that you're trans, take hormones, have gotten top and bottom surgery and dress however you want. it can mean that you dress "normal" and pass as cishet but have a queer gender on the inside. it can mean that you combine masculine and feminine aesthetics. it can mean that you strive for gender neutrality. it can mean that you want to be so ambiguously gendered strangers can't tell who you are.

there's no guidelines or rules, genderqueer is an identity meant to embrace the freedom one can have with gender expression. it can mean as much or as little as the person using it wants it to. it's a beautiful term that is just as flexible as non binary, and i do not postulate to replace that term, but rather bring light to another identity that may suit folks slightly better. it's a beautiful identity. it's what I came out as first in 2011 and I'm happy to be back at all these years later.

2024 is a great year to be proud of being genderqueer and to proudly tell people about this part of yourself. let's celebrate ourselves louder and prouder than ever before. there are many ways to exist outside of the binary, and folks deserve to know about older terms that have been used by the community as well as newer ones

[nickeverdeen]

If you came out to Five Nights at Freddy’s characters as part of LGBTQ+

Mike Schmidt

Mike would be very supportive and accepting of you coming out

He might be a bit awkward at first, unsure of the right words to say, but his genuine care would be evident

He’d make an effort to educate himself on LGBTQ+ to better understand you

Mike would become a fierce protector, standing up for you if anyone showed any negativity or ignorance

He’d make a point of asking about your preferred pronouns and would consistently use them

He’d be curious and ask questions to understand your experiences better, but always with sensitivity and respect

He’d remember important dates like Pride Month and would participate in celebrations with you

He’d become visibly proud of you for coming out, even boasting about your courage to others

He’d offer to accompany you to any LGBTQ+ events or support groups if you wanted

Mike would share his own stories of acceptance and support to make you feel more at ease

“I’m really proud of you for telling me”

William Afton

William would likely be indifferent, focusing more on how this information could be used for his benefit or manipulation rather than showing genuine support

He’d pretend to be supportive if he saw an advantage in it, but his lack of real interest would be clear

William might use this information to try and psychologically manipulate or control you, if it suited his purposes

His reaction would be very calculated, ensuring that he didn’t reveal any personal bias or genuine emotion

He’d offer you a drink or distraction to shift the focus away from the topic quickly

William would likely observe your behavior more closely after your revelation, perhaps to gauge your reactions or weaknesses

He might subtly hint at knowing more about LGBTQ+ issues than he lets on, using this to keep you off-balance

William would avoid any direct confrontation or openly negative response, maintaining a facade of neutrality

He’d use this information to try and create a false sense of security or trust, only to exploit it later

William might comment on societal issues regarding LGBTQ+ rights, pretending to align with your views superficially

He’d subtly test your boundaries to see how much he could manipulate you without you noticing

He isn’t homofobic, he just doesn’t really care

“Interesting. It doesn’t change anything about our current situation, though.”

Abby Schmidt (only platonic)

Abby would be incredibly supportive and accepting, likely giving you a big hug after you come out

She’d ask a lot of innocent and curious questions, wanting to understand better

Abby would proudly tell others about you (with your permission), showcasing her acceptance

She’d want to learn all the terms and make sure she’s using the right ones

She’d enthusiastically invite you to any events or activities that promote LGBTQ+ visibility

Abby would defend you fiercely if anyone said anything negative

She’d want to introduce you to her friends, excitedly sharing how cool and brave you are

She’d look up to you even more for your bravery

“That’s so cool! Can I tell her (a friend) please?”

Vanessa Shelly

Vanessa would be quietly supportive, giving you a reassuring smile and nod when you come out

She’d offer a listening ear and a shoulder to lean on if you needed to talk about it more

Vanessa would be very respectful of your boundaries and privacy, not pushing you to share more than you’re comfortable with

She’d share her own experiences with diversity and acceptance, showing you that you’re not alone

Vanessa would subtly integrate LGBTQ+ supportive messages into your interactions, like wearing a small pride pin

She’d encourage you to express yourself freely around her, making sure you felt safe and accepted

Vanessa would be quick to shut down any negativity or ignorance from others

She’d suggest LGBTQ+ friendly spaces and activities for you to explore together

She’d keep an eye out for any signs of discomfort or distress in you, ready to offer support

“Hey, I’m here to listen and thanks”

[stories-from-the-sword-coast]

“The best moments in reading are when you come across something—a thought, a feeling, a way of looking at things—that you’d thought special, particular to you. And here it is, set down by someone else, a person you’ve never met. And it’s as if a hand has come out and taken yours.” - Alan Bennett, The History Boys

Everyone deserves to experience this feeling. 

Everyone deserves to read stories that make them feel seen, heard, connected, and proud. 

This is the magic of storytelling. For the month of June, we would love for you to share your favourite fics that focus on those LGBTQ+ stories which often get overlooked.

Let's celebrate the diversity and richness of our community!

Happy Pride Month, Club Members! 

We are proud to have you with us.

[outfitqueer]

No Wrong Way to Be Trans

@outfitqueer 🏳️‍⚧️I have been reading a lot of posts and texts, and I also noticed many people speak about this troubling pattern: trans men and masculine-presenting folks often face intense pressure to fit certain expectations from both within our community and from society at large. It seems like there’s an endless list of criteria for being "trans enough," and it never really fits anyone perfectly.

Some are criticized for being too visible or too bold with their style and choices. Others are told they’re not visible enough and should be more open about their journey. Preferences for clothing, hairstyles, or how someone chooses to express their gender can all become points of contention.

What’s tough is that no matter what choices a trans person makes, someone always seems ready to judge or dismiss them. It’s like we’re expected to walk this impossible line, where stepping too far in any direction means we’re doing it wrong.

But here’s the thing—there’s no wrong way to be who you are. Every trans person’s experience is different, and that diversity is something to be celebrated, not criticized. We should be focusing on supporting each other, understanding that every path is unique, and that what’s right for one person might not be right for another.

And here’s where I want to be crystal clear: This kind of gatekeeping within the trans community needs to stop. It’s not just unhelpful; it’s harmful. No one has the right to tell anyone else how to live their truth. Whether someone chooses to be loud and proud or quietly live their life, whether they embrace traditionally masculine styles or mix it up—these choices are valid.

I stand firm in this belief: Our strength comes from our diversity. It’s time to stop dividing ourselves based on superficial differences and start lifting each other up. The world outside is already tough enough on us. Let’s not make it harder on each other.

This is a call to action—let’s create a community where every trans person feels empowered to be exactly who they are, without fear of judgment or rejection. Because in the end, we’re all in this together, and the only way forward is through unity, respect, and unconditional support.

@outfitqueer 🏳️‍⚧️

[sevencurations]

Pride 2024 Playlist

PRIDE 2024 SPOTIFY PLAYLIST!!!!!

Celebrate love, diversity, and individuality with our Pride Playlist! Packed with anthems of empowerment, joy, and unity, this collection is here to soundtrack your pride journey. Whether you're dancing in the streets or in your living room, these tracks will lifts your spirit and fill your your heart with rainbow-colored vibes. Turn it up, be proud, and let the music carry you!

[xinthislonelyhourx]

Dear LGBTQ community,

Today is National Coming Out Day, a day to celebrate the courage and diversity of people who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, or any other sexual or gender identity. I want to let you know that I support you and hope things go well today.

Coming out is a personal and sometimes difficult process that can take a lot of strength and courage. It can also be a liberating and empowering experience that can improve your mental health and well-being. No matter where you are in your journey, I want you to know that you are not alone. There are many people who love you and accept you for who you are.

You are an important part of our society and you deserve respect and dignity. You have the right to be yourself and to express your identity without fear or shame. You have the right to love and be loved by whoever you choose. You have the right to pursue your dreams and goals without discrimination or harassment.

You are also a source of inspiration and hope for many others who may be struggling with their own identity or facing challenges in their lives. You have shown that it is possible to overcome adversity and to live authentically. You have shown that diversity is a strength and a beauty that enriches our world.

I am proud of you and I stand with you. I hope that today and every day, you feel valued and celebrated for being yourself. Happy National Coming Out Day!

Sincerely, Your friend

[clownrecess]

I want to talk about autipunk and what that identity means to me. (I MIGHT make a cripplepunk post too. But for now, let's talk autipunk!)

For me, being autipunk means advocating for the rights of autistic people and demanding that society recognize and accommodate our unique needs and ways of being. It means fighting against ableism and the idea that there is a "normal" way of being in the world. Autipunk is about empowering ourselves and our community to reject harmful ideas about autism and to define ourselves on our own terms.

I love to wear clothes that are bold and unconventional, like unusual patterns, shoes that make noise when I walk, and quirky accessories. It's a way of making a statement and showing the world that I am proud of who I am, and that I won't be limited by societal expectations of what is "normal". By rejecting the narrow confines of gender norms and fashion expectations, I am able to express myself in ways that feel true to who I am, and make me feel happy.

Stimming is also a big part of being autipunk for me. Stimming is a natural way that autistic people regulate our sensory input, and it's something that I do all the time. Whether it's flapping my hands, bouncing my leg, chewing, or twirling my hair, stimming helps me feel calm and focused. And I refuse to let anyone make me feel ashamed or embarrassed for stimming in public.

But being autipunk is about more than just accepting myself and having fun (as I mentioned briefly at the start of the post!) it's also about fighting back against the ableist structures and attitudes that oppress autistic people. This can take many forms, like advocating for better representation, advocating for accommodations, and pushing back against harmful assumptions, organizations (etc. a lot more.) about autism. It's about recognizing that we are a community of diverse people who deserve to be heard and respected, and fighting for our rights and respect.

At its core, being autipunk means rejecting the idea that there is a "normal" or "correct" way to be. It's about celebrating and embracing neurodiversity, and advocating for the acceptance and inclusion of all autistics.

[janaknandini-singh999]

apparently hindulivesmatter called out your post on ram janmabhoomi. their stance against hinduphobia is pretty strong.

This one? Well, first of all she didn't make a whole post just to spew hatred on what I wrote so otherwise she's got every right to say what she feels. Sorry but not sorry for leaving a bad taste in your mouth even though I still respect you, @rhysaka (I've complimented her on doing an amazing job even way before it became a full fledged hindublr blog), @vindhyavasini, @magic-coffee etc (sorry for missing out anyone these are all I can remember rn)

All of the above hindublr blogs are spreading information, letting people know the hindus' side of the story and it takes a lot of effort to do that. They're doing their job, you do yours. I'd love to read an Islamic/any other community's pov on the history of india including the invasions, partition etc.

"Appeasing both groups" if that's what unity in diversity in a beautiful country which India is, by looking out for different communities' perspective means then yeah sure. "Weird to read after what she wrote about Ram mandir" priye sakhi, I literally write about hinduism and its tales coz I love it and am proud of it? Having views isn't going to change my faith even a bit I can assure you that. You or anyone else is always welcome to criticize anything I wrote if it can improve my view as a human.

Have you even read my post on Ram ji returning? Coz if you had then you would've known just how emotional I was with Ayodhya mandir opening

Anyway, coming back to it

Even though I'd have liked it if you would've rather dropped this directly and honestly in my inbox but still thanks for pointing it out, anon. I actually was stupid for framing it all that way coz it seems like some entirely missed the point.

The only point I wanted to make through the Ram janmbhoomi post was that celebration and reclamation SHOULD happen. It's the festival of our identity. Full of pomp and greetings and everything. A big YES to all of that. Celebration should be done. With devotion and enjoyment. But not with fires and riots ("Ram aag nahi, urja hain.") Not while harrassing anyone. Coz otherwise what will the difference be between us Hindus and any other fanatic?

We're better than that.

At least Ram ji would've wanted us to be better than that.

[sapphos-darlings]

Happy Pride Month 2024, followers!

Greetings, sisters! This is mod Lavender, wishing you all a very warm, happy and safe month of June full of gay love! Let's be extra loud and visible in our celebration of love between women for Pride.

Sade and I have talked some about what we want to focus on this year, and the subject of solidarity keeps coming up. So, a couple of ideas that we'll be throwing to you, our followers!

Firstly, I as a lesbian would like to uplift my fellow lesbians and our voices more. I'd like to do this by making banners and pride flag graphics with statements of pride from my fellow lesbians. So, what is it that you would like to shout out to the world with flying colours? Tell me in our inbox (anon or not), so that I can take that and put it towards making flags and banners!

Secondly, we want to be a force of solidarity in the community of woman-loving women. We'd like to do this by picking up topics that are shared, discussed, debated, or even controversial between bisexuals and lesbians, and discussing them as long-term friends.

We have always wanted to join our forces and build solidarity despite our differences, but we also want to highlight and be proud of our uniqueness. The push and pull between unified interests and pride in diversity is challenging, but we want to paddle down this particular rapid regardless.

For this too, our inbox is open, and we welcome all our followers to suggest a topic for the lesbian and bi woman solidarity talk. Whether you are lesbian, bisexual, questioning, or a sapphic woman with some other identity, you are welcome to bring up a community topic for us to get into.

Our inbox is open to you, ladies!

[blissfullybubblez]

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Join me as we embrace the wonders of childhood and sprinkle some magic into our lives!

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🌸💫 Spread the Love! 💫🌸

✨ Let's uplift each other, spread positivity, and be a shining light in this world.

✨ Remember, kindness costs nothing and a smile can brighten someone's day. Let's make this community the warmest and coziest place on Tumblr! 🏡💖

✨ Respect everyone's boundaries, use inclusive language, and let's create a safe and inclusive environment for all. 🤝🎀

✨ Thank you for being a part of my magical journey! Together, we'll create beautiful memories and make this world a better place. Stay fabulous, stay playful, and always be true to yourself! ✨🎀

🥰🌼 My ask are always open! I do have queue post but I do check here daily. My messages are also open; all I ask is everything remain sfw 🌼🥰

🌈💖🎉 Love and hugs, Bubblez 💖🎉🌈

Please take a moment to read my DNI post

[studiomastersgroup]

Birth of Art Nouveau House Media Group

Ever since I can remember, I’ve been captivated by the timeless elegance and intricate beauty of Art Nouveau. This aesthetic has not only influenced my artistic vision but has also guided me on a remarkable journey into the world of filmmaking.

Art Nouveau House Media Group is a proud division of Studio Masters Group, a holding company that encompasses all my creative ideas, products, and services. My adventure began with a simple yet profound realization: the power of storytelling through visual art. From customizing websites and exploring game development to delving into the depths of database administration and programming, my diverse experiences have shaped my understanding of the creative process. However, it was the enchanting allure of Art Nouveau that ultimately inspired me to start Art Nouveau House Media Group.

Art Nouveau House Media Group embodies the harmonious blend of classic beauty and modern innovation. Our mission is to create captivating visual narratives that resonate with audiences globally. As the filmmaking and art division of Studio Masters Group, Art Nouveau House serves as our creative cathedral, with Cathedral Films being our flagship brand. Every film produced under this banner will reflect the elegance and intricacy of the Art Nouveau aesthetic.

Building a Legacy and Starting a company has been both challenging and exhilarating. Every step, from conceptualizing ideas to actualizing them, has been a learning experience. With Art Nouveau House Media Group, I aim to inspire and captivate, much like the timeless works of the Art Nouveau era.

Join Me on As we embark on this exciting venture, I invite you to follow along and witness the evolution of Art Nouveau House Media Group. Together, let’s celebrate the fusion of art and technology, and the enduring legacy of Art Nouveau.

[starqueen87]

Bruce W. Smith’s Bébé’s Kids wasn’t just a movie—it was a cultural moment that broke new ground in the world of animation. When Bébé’s Kids hit theaters in 1992, it marked the first time an animated feature film was directed by an African American. That man was Bruce W. Smith, a visionary who brought the hilarious, unapologetically Black comedy of Robin Harris to life on screen.

At its core, Bébé’s Kids is a funny, relatable, and wild adventure that spoke directly to Black audiences. It gave us characters who felt real—people we knew from our own lives—and blended that with humor and heart. But what made this film truly special wasn’t just the jokes or the unforgettable lines. It was the fact that Bruce W. Smith, a Black man in an industry that had often shut out diverse voices, was behind it all.

For Bruce, Bébé’s Kids was more than just a film—it was about representation. It was about telling our stories through animation, a medium where Black voices had rarely been heard, let alone celebrated. With this film, Bruce didn’t just entertain; he showed Hollywood that Black creators belonged in every space, including animation.

After Bébé’s Kids, Bruce W. Smith went on to create The Proud Family and work on iconic films like The Princess and the Frog. But it all started with Bébé’s Kids, a movie that dared to be different, dared to be bold, and dared to be Black in a way animation had never seen before.

So as we celebrate Bébé’s Kids today, let’s also give credit to the man behind it—Bruce W. Smith—a trailblazer who changed the game and opened doors for future generations of Black animators and storytellers.

[rosekisspeach]

TAROT READING//Bum's Bubble pic & Mingkey's perspectives

Date: 30/Jan/2024 Marker: the pic Deck of Cards: Trungles' Star Spinner Tarot (Inclusive, Diverse, LGBTQ Theme)

Notes Upfront:

I don't ask my cards questions that I already have answers;

I don't prey on information I should not know;

I respect their personal lives and;

This is for FUN ONLY.

Today we will be looking at mingkey's perspectives when the pic was taken, and the second day when bummie sent it to the bubble.

✦ Let's jump right into it!! I am very excited to share this quick reading because the whole situation matches with the death card I pulled out last time (the one in Jjong's view) ✦

Forgive my type "2nd day" The Pic Day Bummie: Fortitude The Pic Day Ming: 5 of Wands R The Second Day Bummie: Hanged Man R The Second Day Ming: Lovers R

Please take time looking at the cards before proceeding to read the readings, thanks. . . . . . Readings:

I hope everyone enjoyed Keyland and the adrenaline rash when seeing Bummie's bubble pic. Today's reading is very concise and straightforward, mapping out energies that I received on their mindset and relationship dynamic day one (jan/28) and two (jan/29). A simple glance at it, there are three major arcanas that stress how important this means for them - being close with each other and celebrating special moments together. Friends, Laughter, the beauty of accomplishment, and of course...drinks and good food and silly jokes. This is home. Ming and bummie always feel at home around each other. This is something more than home, because we all feel the intimacy penetrating through the phone screen just by seeing the pic. Bummie's Fortitude card says the same: a determined mind that concentrating on the pure lotus flower. I failed bummie because I though he is not strong enough. I was wrong. Our Bummie is much stronger than I expected, and not only he is able to protect himself, but also protect people around him. He still values the simplest things, the love and connection.

"Never chase the famous" right?

It made me laugh because Jjong reminded bummie do not focus on materials when he is with ming. I guess it is Jjong telling bummie if he wants to be rational in this relationship, at least treats ming fairly like he treats the work. It's that "do you like the bag or do you like me?" interrogation all over again, hehe. Something else that I pick up is that Bummie was drunk, but not blacked out drunk and he made the move to sit on ming's lap platonically. He just felt the vibe and followed his heart, it is the warmness he desired.

But it is not that simple for ming. The reversed 5 of wands represents a dilemma that ming is going through, the dilemma between maintaining the fragile peace aka the status quo they tried so hard to create, and the fear that if he makes the step but it goes south. Seeing the five wands piercing into ming's body, again, reminds me his "grieving addiction". He is hesitant to step further and avoids the possibility of changing their relationship dynamic because he does not want to tear open the old wound between them back in teenager times. He is okay with bummie taking the leads, even if it hurts his self-esteem, and he serves like habits. Do notice that ming is a very passionate individual that he hugs to squeeze others into his body, and he is DRUNK here, but he rests his hands on bummie so gently only to keep bummie from falling. Nothing shows possessiveness. He wants more, of course, and it is not about romantic/sexual but because he loves bummie. Simply like that.

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The Second Day:

I am very curious of why bummie has shared this special moment with us so I asked my cards. Was he still drunk? Or he just wanted to flex their friendship? Seeing the reversed hanged man is both mind-relieving and concerning because it shows 1) bummie is out of the suffocating times (hanged man upright, see the reading of Jjong's view) that he experienced during keyland preparation, he is now able to express feelings directly, and connecting with ming is breathing - lungs full of air that he wants to shout to the world how good he feels, however, 2) he celebrates this moment's euphoria but still avoids the tensions between them in the future. It is a one time joy, yet sharing it feels so right. He wants us to know he is doing ok, he is happy, he is with ming, and everything is going to be alright. The stars protect him and he is so proud of how far he and ming has walked to achieve this harmony.

On ming's side, in the beginning, I did not understand why my card gives me the lovers (girl & girl) because it is always the lover (boy & boy) before. Then, I see how similar both the cards' designs look, and it demonstrates that mingkey are in the same reality but different mindsets and attitudes. The apples signify the fruit (outcomes) they look forward getting from this particular interaction. Bummie's card focuses on personal growth, while ming is much more sensual, craving to bond with bummie more intensely. As if ming is saying that "you sent this private pic to the shawols, does that not mean you are validating our intimacy?" Ming is processing the idea, and it is a very sweet jealousy that he truly wants bummie to give him more attention. Perhaps this is the death card we got couple days ago, the little step that manifests change, and perhaps, just perhaps, they will realize how madly they are in love.

-over-

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[just-a-little-unionoid]

Ever considered that pedophilia is bad no matter if it's a thought or not? Is it that hard to agree that pedophilia and other paraphilias are bad.

Actually yes, I did! In the past. Well, I kind of did, let me explain:

Obviously, TW pedophilia, and other violent subjects (no depiction of any act tho, I'm just discussing the subject)

Then, when I was around 14 yo I had a couple experiences that made me actually think about this subject.

When I was a kid/teen I didn't have a strong opinion about it, I mean, obviously raping children is bad but at the time I only ever had heard about people committing pedophilia, aka rapists, pedocriminals. Didn't consider that people could just be attracted towards children and not act on it.

I'm not sure about the order of the events but I think what came first is that one of my classmates, who was at the time a teenager and was very dear to me, once confided that she had sexual thoughts about her little sister, who I think was 6 or 8. It wasn't something she was proud of, she was terrified that she may lose her control one day and hurt her. As someone who was struggling themself with pretty violent intrusive thoughts I could understand having pulsions that terrify you.

I don't think this person was bad.

When I was 15, during summer vacation, my 13 yo brother and I stayed at a friend house for a few hours as our mother was doing something else. This man was, if I remember, 50. We celebrated his birthday a few days before or after. My little brother was upstairs, watching YouTube with headphones, and I was downstairs with our friend, discussing diverse topics. At some point he told me he loved me. More specifically, he told me that I was his princess, that he knew it wasn't mutual, and he was too old for me, but that he wanted me to know. He asked if I understood what he was saying, I pretended not to, he told me I was smart and he knew I understood. Then he left me alone.

I have no clue whether he was physically or sexualy attracted to me, or if it was something more, idk, spiritual or whatever, but the point is, I was (basically) alone in the middle of nowhere with this man more than trice my age. Had he wanted to do anything to me I couldn't have possibly stopped him.

I don't think he was a bad person either. Maybe a little strangle and blunt, and at this specific moment I was terrified, but he never actually hurt me and at the end that's all that matters.

I had other experiences too, but those two had the most impact on me, I know that all pedophiles are not pedocriminals, and I will never forget that.

That being said, when I was, idk, let's say between 17 and 19 and doing my feminism education, I did went through a "all fictional depiction of pedophilia is bad, at best any people involved in this need psychological help asap" phase. Because I still remembered my friend who struggled with such pulsions and was suffering because of that and needed help.

But I'm older now and I've thought more and made more progress about my own mental struggles, the thoughts are still here but I know I won't act on any of them in real life, I know who and what I am and I know what I do and don't do. There is no point in being scared of your thoughts if you know that your acts will never follow in real life. It doesn't matter. It's not real.

And if some people want to indulge in their weird thoughts it really, really doesn't matter to me as long as they don't hurt anyone. I'm done with that bullshit and suffering over unreal things.

[mayamidnightmelody]

🌈 Hey loves! 🌈

It's that time of year again—Pride Month 2024 is here, and I'm feeling all the vibes! 💖💜💙 As a proud bisexual and polyamorous babe, I wanna take a moment to celebrate and share some love with y'all. 🌟

First off, can we talk about how amazing it is to see our community shining brighter than ever? 🌟 This month is all about embracing who we are, loving openly, and showing the world that love has no limits. Whether you're bi, pan, gay, trans, ace, non-binary, or anything in between, this is OUR time to sparkle and thrive! ✨

For me, being bisexual and polyamorous means living my truth every single day. It's about loving people for who they are, beyond gender, and embracing the beautiful connections that come our way. 🥰 It's not always easy, but it's so worth it to be authentic and true to ourselves. Let's keep breaking those stereotypes and showing the world the power of our love and diversity. 💪

This Pride, I'm all about spreading positive vibes and supporting each other. Whether you're hitting up the parades, rocking your rainbow gear, or just chilling with your chosen fam, let's make it a month to remember. 📸💕

And hey, don't forget to support our LGBTQ+ artists, creators, and businesses. We're out here hustling and bringing that magic to the world. 🎨🎶 Check out some dope new artists and trends—let's lift each other up!

So, to all my fellow queer peeps: keep slaying, keep loving, and keep being unapologetically YOU. Let's make Pride 2024 the best one yet! 🌈✨

Peace, love, and endless rainbows,

Maya 💖💜💙