#lesbian older women

[gender-nonconformity-club]

This was tagged as butch bait, so I presume this is a jest post and I decided not to reblog directly from the original poster because of this. However butches and gender nonconforming women almost NEVER get shown as old in media, and our beautiful middle aged (and older!) butches never get to the public eye!

There is a future for butch and gnc women. We can grow old and be ourselves, without changing a thing. So I present to you pictures of older butch and gnc women!

[blue-willow-tree]

The most independent, caring, motherly girl you know has severe mommy issues and seeks validation from older mentors and teachers. She's trying to become exactly like them while simultaneously trying to convince herself that she isn't in love with them. She's extremely kinky but mostly just wants to be held and validated by an older woman. Dating somebody her age never works out because if an older woman calls her "darling" even once she'll feel more feelings than a year-long relationship with someone her age could ever enduced. She doesn't understand why but when she meets an older, motherly friend she immediately gravitates towards them the most and never wants to disappoint them. She wants to cry when they do that "I'm proud of you" smile. She's turning herself into the figures she's always looked up to by taking people under her wing, because they look at her the same way she always looked at the ones she adored.

She is me, by the way.

[sapphosdesires]

Christina put up a token resistance to the advances of her games teacher. She'd held a crush for her since forever so now all she wanted was to be taken and ravished, but she felt 'for decency's sake' she ought to pretend to be a 'good girl' and not like one of those sluts in upper school who were so blatant.

[inkskinned]

you're grabbing lunch with a nice man and he gives you that strange grimace-smile that's popular right now; an almost sardonic "twist" of his mouth while he looks literally down on you. it looks like he practiced the move as he leans back, arms folded. he just finished reciting the details of NFTs to you and explaining Oppenheimer even though he only watched a youtube about it and hasn't actually seen it. you are at the bottom of your wine glass.

you ask the man across from you if he has siblings, desperately looking for a topic. literally anything else.

he says i don't like small talk. and then he smiles again, watching you.

a few years ago, you probably would have said you're above celebrity gossip, but honestly, you've been kind of enjoying the dumb shit of it these days. with the rest of the earth burning, there's something familiar and banal about dragging ariana grande through the mud. you think about jeanette mccurdy, who has often times gently warned the world she's not as nice as she appears. you liked i'm glad my mom died but it made you cry a lot.

he doesn't like small talk, figure out something to say.

you want to talk about responsibility, and how ariana grande is only like 6 days older than you are - which means she just turned 30 and still dresses and acts like a 13 year old, but like sexy. there's something in there about the whole thing - about insecurity, and never growing up, and being sexualized from a young age.

people have been saying that gay people are groomers. like, that's something that's come back into the public. you have even said yourself that it's just ... easier to date men sometimes. you would identify as whatever the opposite of "heteroflexible" is, but here you are again, across from a man. you like every woman, and 3 people on tv. and not this guy. but you're trying. your mother is worried about you. she thinks it's not okay you're single. and honestly this guy was better before you met, back when you were just texting.

wait, shit. are you doing the same thing as ariana grande? are you looking for male validation in order to appease some internalized promise of heteronormativity? do you conform to the idea that your happiness must result in heterosexuality? do you believe that you can resolve your internal loneliness by being accepted into the patriarchy? is there a reason dating men is easier? why are you so scared of fucking it up with women? why don't you reach out to more of them? you have a good sense of humor and a big ol' brain, you could have done a better job at online dating.

also. jesus christ. why can't you just get a drink with somebody without your internal feminism meter pinging. although - in your favor (and judgement aside) in the case of your ariana grande deposition: you have been in enough therapy you probably wouldn't date anyone who had just broken up with their wife of many years (and who has a young child). you'd be like - maybe take some personal time before you begin this journey. like, grande has been on broadway, you'd think she would have heard of the plot of hamlet.

he leans forward and taps two fingers to the table. "i'm not, like an andrew tate guy," he's saying, "but i do think partnership is about two people knowing their place. i like order."

you knew it was going to be hard. being non-straight in any particular way is like, always hard. these days you kind of like answering the question what's your sexuality? with a shrug and a smile - it's fine - is your most common response. like they asked you how your life is going and not to reveal your identity. you like not being straight. you like kissing girls. some days you know you're into men, and sometimes you're sitting across from a man, and you're thinking about the power of compulsory heterosexuality. are you into men, or are you just into the safety that comes from being seen with them? after all, everyone knows you're failing in life unless you have a husband. it almost feels like a gradebook - people see "straight married" as being "all A's", and anything else even vaguely noncompliant as being ... like you dropped out of the school system. you cannot just ignore years of that kind of conditioning, of course you like attention from men.

"so let's talk boundaries." he orders more wine for you, gesturing with one hand like he's rousing an orchestra. sir, this is a fucking chain restaurant. "I am not gonna date someone who still has male friends. also, i don't care about your little friends, i care about me. whatever stupid girls night things - those are lower priority. if i want you there, you're there."

he wasn't like this over text, right? you wouldn't have been even in the building if he was like this. you squint at him. in another version of yourself, you'd be running. you'd just get up and go. that's what happens on the internet - people get annoyed, and they just leave. you are locked in place, almost frozen. you need to go to the bathroom and text someone to call you so you have an excuse, like it's rude to just-leave. like he already kind of owns you. rudeness implies a power paradigm, though. see, even your social anxiety allows the patriarchy to get to you.

you take a sip of the new glass of wine. maybe this will be a funny story. maybe you can write about it on your blog. maybe you can meet ariana grande and ask her if she just maybe needs to take some time to sit and think about her happiness and how she measures her own success.

is this settling down? is this all that's left in your dating pool? just accepting that someone will eventually love you, and you have to stop being picky about who "makes" you a wife?

you look down to your hand, clutching the knife.

[bloodiifemme]

Women when they’re just natural is so fucking attractive.

Messy hair, hairy legs, armpits and stomach. No makeup, eye bags, acne patches. God, makes me wanna worship them so bad. It’s so fucking hot

[barefacedbates]

good morning <3

[anonymouscheeses]

At first i was jst supposed to find a hairstyle for Anxiety cz i had no idea how to draw it... still dont.. and then it turned into an entire redesign so idk 😭 (i dont have any problems wiht og deisyns i jst wnated to ahve fun)

Jumpscare! /j soo i made an au... cz im hyperfixating hard on inside out 2 rn... and im fixated on Riley cz sshes meeee 😭 and Val cz she's so chill i wnat to be rriends with her tbh

(Tell me if this is like- a shipping no-no cz im not sure what the fandom is like for shipping the adult vers of them 😔🫶)

[isabellalvgirls]

older women are very beautiful, I love them

[cowboyjen68]

Happy Butch Appreciation Day.

To butches of all ages : I wish you love and happiness. But most of all hope. Hope for a happy future and a life of adventure.

[veganvampire777]

im like:

[blue-willow-tree]

Oh, you're older than me? I see. Oh, sweet pet names are apart of your natural vocabulary and you just called me darling? Okay. Oh, you're touchy and slide me to the side by my waist when I'm in the way or fix my make-up by licking your thumb and caressing my face? Alright.

Please let me worship you by getting on my knees and kissing your high heels.

[sapphosdesires]

"So how was it... your first time?"

[sweetnsofts]

need a meanie mommy to be teasing me rn…. imagine im laying back in bed & she’s on her knees hovering right over my face… playing with herself… but won’t let me touch or taste. it’s the worst torture ever! n she’s being so condescending. “aw, is my poor puppy getting all worked up? mmh, wish i had her mouth on me instead” knowing she told me i couldn’t touch. n maybe she would reach back to tap at my sticky clit with the same 2 fingers she was using to pleasure herself, mixing our wetness together, waiting for my hips to rise n try to grind against her hand, before drawing away & bringing it up to gently slide those fingers into my mouth :( all i can do is pout & whimper, eyes watering, voice muffled, “ur so mean mama..” & obediently suck like the good girl i am </3

[wandaslittleweirdo]

my body is pulsing in multiple different areas

[oizysian]

Is it so bad to want an older woman to fuck me senseless, using all of my holes and using me as her personal cumdump?

[anothermessagetoyou]