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After today, my Facebook will FINALLY be deleted! They give you a month after deactivation in case you change your mind. Well, by tomorrow, it will be a month, I deactivated it back in October It may feel like an end of an era, but I’m glad to see the back of Facebook!
Farewell, Facebook!
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Just gotta rant about something unimportant that's stressing me out this morning.
I've been on Facebook since I was 11. It's been a while. Facebook was Baby's First Social Media and it was a wonderful place when I was growing up
But God forbid I talk about anything important! The only posts I get any amount of interaction with are photos of my outfits (and I am cute so I get it but I also have a ton of things to say that matter!) I have absolutely been sh@dowb@nned there. I tried to share a post about how getting a lawyer for SSDI disability benefits works and it IMMEDIATELY got taken down as "spam". I requested a review about it and was informed that my account has already been restricted due to "multiple policy violations". I think it might be time to move to a different place online. It's hard to rewire that part of my brain. I don't know how to do it and I don't know where to go.
I don't know how to make friends I know in other places. I don't understand the social dynamics of different online spaces. It's actually hard and scary. Like I'll be okay, it's just Facebook. But Facebook saved me when I was growing up. It was my light in the dark. And it's hurting me now. WHERE WILL I GET MY MEMES NOW? HOW WILL I SHOW THEM TO MY FRIENDS? 😭
I would gladly take advice about it. I don't know what I'm doing.
#advice request#leaving facebook#facebook#but fuck me if im gonna spend the end of the world on fucking facebook#social media#shadowbanned
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At this point I have all my pictures downloaded and I made a list of people I want to stay in touch with after I delete my facebook account... now I'm trying to figure when would be the right time to send my message to everyone and delete my account for real... (trying to get them to contact me via whatsapp or my email instead).
I think I want to do it for real now, after more than 10 years of using it, I'm fed up and I've had enough... I recently made a new FB account for professional/uni/family stuff instead (not for maintaining fake toxic friendships with people I knew from school/uni like before). Definitely want to use my new account in a different way this time around... But it was a really hard decision to delete my 1st account and I been thinking about it for a long time, for a few years now because it's been making me miserable and upset... (it's not easy to leave because Facebook is still widely used to stay in touch with people or connect or meet with new people and it doesn't seem like it will die off any time soon). Also all these facebook groups that I used to exchange info and other stuff, I do admit that I was addicted to facebook and that's not good for you either... But I feel like it's time to leave if I am no longer appreciated among my "friends". It's become this toxic place where I don't feel valued and feel like everyone hates me or is envious of me for no reason. I can't say what I think in the chats or post what I want on my wall either because people get irritated way too easily by the slightest things and get butthurt. Not to mention that facebook encourages cyber-bullying, stalkers, trolls, envy and undercover haters. It seriously messed up my mental health and self-worth too. These horrible people will have a harder time finding me after all this shit they put me through...
I think the older generations who grew up without facebook during high school and university are so lucky to NOT have to deal with this bullshit...
#everyone started unfriending me for no reason and it was a lot of people#had a lot of haters and hate messages being sent by my ex-friends too#had to block exes#I had to block and unfriend people who wronged me too and were toxic to me#had to unfriend one family member due to a lawsuit our relatives were doing#facebook#leaving facebook#my plan to leave facebook#get rid of it#had to delete photo albums with my ex-friends#I quit facebook
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The Autism Urge to be Helpful
The Autistic Teacher
#autism#actually autistic#the urge to be helpful#some might think it’s fake#I hope some don’t think I’m TOO helpful#helping others can leave us vulnerable#we unique why of thinking#some of us have a strong sense of empathy#but it’s ok to have little or no empathy#neurodivergence#neurodiversity#actually neurodivergent#feel free to share/reblog#The Autistic Teacher (Facebook)
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#fediverse#mastodon#social media#privacy#identity#web presence#web promotion#biased algorithm#beating biased algorithms#leaving twitter#leaving facebook
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I'm rewatching leverage out of nostalgia and some other emotion I haven't figured out yet, and I do think there's a story in "Maggie Ford Collins deals with having the most unhinged ex in her suburban book group, learns to hotwire a car, and gets her groove back, not in that particular order."
#nate's weird crime children (all of whom are grown adults) adopt maggie as their....something.#weird former stepmom? dad's ex-girlfriend who drove them to soccer practice once? loosely affiliated maybe-sorta aunt?#...this involves more lying and wearing tight dresses and carrying lockpicks than maggie's used to.#none of them listen when she says this is a job for sophie. they want to show her the benefits of crime!!!!!#she does tell her book club every detail.#currently said book club is trawling message boards and pinging distant facebook connections to get leverage their next case.#maggie is dating a nice art history professor from the local college. leverage is very disappointed.#nate is also disappointed mostly because he thought she'd pick someone terrible and he could ''''rescue'''' her.#unfortunately this guy is okay. he does no crime at all except sometimes taking a penny without leaving a penny#which the leverage crew did not realize was a an actual thing and therefore doesn't count.#......also I do believe that sterling and nate exchanged handjobs in a ramada inn bathroom once or twice#and that maggie does not know this but sophie does.#(maggie would not have been into it but sophie....sort of...is. she likes the mental image.)#leverage
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I don't know why this interaction is sending me rn, i don't follow either one of these people, but for some reason I can't stop laughing. Blue found a fossilized scallop and posted a photo and Carla didn't like that I guess
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#mdzs#jin guangyao#jiang cheng#wei wuxian#nie huaisang#can u tell that op doesnt know shit about technology#YMSJ stands for yunmeng shuangjie and the UI looks like ass because wei wuxian designed it when he was 12#jin ibutterfly is great bc the search function actually works (can you imagine). but yeah jiggy can see everything. he has all your data#meanwhile gusu lan has not had a single tech update since the 80s so all their computers are still huge bricks.#actually u know what. given how shit tech is nowadays that is the correct choice#and yeah huaisang just organizes everything over facebook. the official nie sect website is a facebook group#yanyan polls#wen online is surprisingly melancholy if you think about it. after all the humans leave what's left? just bots imitating humanity#two facsimiles of humanity calling to each other back and forth. i hear you i hear you i hear you. do you hear me? what are you? what am i?#click on this link to find out!!!!!
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they should invent a polite way of saying “no I don’t want to” when people ask if you wanna hang out without having to make up an excuse. for girls who everyone knows are never busy
#I figured my gram would forget I said I was off but of course my friend remembered#what if I was social yesterday & if I don’t have one day a week where I don’t leave my apartment I get a little crazy what then#I like tumblr because I feel like I can express these sorts of autistic extremely introverted things#if I posted this on Facebook or insta everyone would be like. what the fuck#rose.txt
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existing in stealth surrounded by transphobic people will have you believing things like: "to live and be loved and acknowledged as YOU, instead of the version of you that lives in everyone else's heads, is really selfish to wish for."
#like on par with asking for the moon and stars#i don't usually let myself think about this stuff but my parents were watching a transphobic facebook video and i had to leave the room
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Colored pencil peony I drew a year ago🪷
#forgot about this. the only thing facebook is good for these days is reminding me that i did things.#HATE the shadow where the leaves overlap on the left but hhhhhhhh. clenching my teeth. coping.#mine
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not to be mean but can that gunman do elon next
#for the million obvious reasons but also i miss old twitter#sure theres threads and bluesky#but threads is the mixture of instagram and facebook = dumb and annoying#and bluesky has ugly usernames and also gives me facebook vibes so = dumb and annoying#and YES twitter is/was dumb and annoying too but AT LEAST you had some funny people on there#there still are some but god its so overrun with bots and alt right weirdos.... i miss old twitter man 😔#im not leaving though i was here first and i'll outlive elon#yes i know my reasoning is selfish leave me alone#we can just give him a list of rich people#kenzie.txt
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fine i'll bite. who here uses bluesky. i'm here
#idk if this is for me though. the discover page has through the roooof facebook boomer vibes and i haven't used twitter in like 2 yrs anyway#GIRL NOT TUMBLR REMOVING THE LINK IMMEDIATELY... babygirl don't worry i'd never leave u
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examining a seemingly normal image only to slowly realize the clear signs of AI generated art.... i know what you are... you cannot hide your true nature from me... go back where you came from... out of my sight with haste, wretched and vile husk
#BEGONE!!! *wizard beam blast leaving a black smoking crater in the middle of the tumblr dashboard*#I think another downside to everyone doing everything on phone apps on shitty tiny screens nowadays is the inability to really see details#of an image and thus its easier to share BLATANTLY fake things like.. even 'good' ai art has pretty obvious tells at this point#but especially MOST of it is not even 'good' and will have details that are clearly off or lines that dont make sense/uneven (like the imag#of a house interior and in the corner there's a cabinet and it has handles as if it has doors that open but there#are no actual doors visible. or both handles are slightly different shapes. So much stuff that looks 'normal' at first glance#but then you can clearly tell it's just added details with no intention or thought behind it. a pattern that starts and then just abruptly#doesn't go anywhere. etc. etc. )#the same thing with how YEARS ago when I followed more fashion type blogs on tumblr and 'colored hair' was a cool ''''New Thing''' instead#of being the norm now basically. and people would share photos of like ombre hair designs and stuff that were CLEARLY photoshop like#you could LITERally see the coloring outside of the lines. blurs of color that extend past the hair line to the rest of the image#or etc. But people would just share them regardless and comment like 'omg i wish I could do this to my hair!' or 'hair goallzzzz!! i#wonder what salon they went to !!' which would make me want to scream and correct them everytime ( i did not lol)#hhhhhhggh... literally view the image on anything close to a full sized screen and You Will SEe#I don't know why it's such a pet peeve of mine. I think just as always I'm obsessed with the reality and truth of things. most of the thing#that annoy me most about people are situations in which people are misinterpreting/misunderstanding how something works or having a misconc#eption about somehting thats easily provable as false or etc. etc. Even if it's harmless for some random woman on facebook to believe that#this AI generated image of a cat shaped coffee machine is actually a real product she could buy somewhere ... I still urgently#wish I could be like 'IT IS ALL AN ILLUSION. YOU SEE???? ITS NOT REALL!!!!! AAAAA' hjhjnj#Like those AI shoes that went around for a while with 1000000s of comments like 'omg LOVE these where can i get them!?' and it's like YOU#CANT!!! YOU CANT GET THEM!!! THEY DONT EXIST!!! THE EYELETS DONT EVEN LINE UP THE SHOES DONT EVEN#MATCH THE PATTERNS ARE GIBBERISH!! HOW CAN YOU NOT SEE THEY ARE NOT REAL!??!!' *sobbing in the rain like in some drama movie*#Sorry I'm a pedantic hater who loves truth and accuracy of interpretation and collecting information lol#I think moreso the lacking of context? Like for example I find the enneagram interesting but I nearly ALWAYS preface any talking about it#with ''and I know this is not scientifically accurate it's just an interesting system humans invented to classify ourselve and our traits#and I find it sociologically fascinating the same way I find religion fascinating'. If someone presented personality typing information wit#out that sort of context or was purporting that enneagram types are like 100% solid scientific truth and people should be classified by the#unquestionaingly in daily life or something then.. yeah fuck that. If these images had like disclaimers BIG in the image description somewh#re like 'this is not a real thing it's just an AI generated image I made up' then fine. I still largely disagree with the ethics behind AI#art but at least it's informed. It's the fact that people just post images w/o context or beleive a falsehood about it.. then its aAAAAAA
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It shouldn't be amusing when cops don't know the law; it should terrify you.
#politics#acab#'cops enforce the law though!' then why don't they know the law. how the fuck do you enforce things you don't know.#so that tells me that policing isn't about 'knowing the law' if it isn't rquired#the fact that a cop can be TOLD THEY ARE WRONG and still fuck up should terrify you#it terrified me watching bodycam footage of this cop threatening to TASER a woman because she knew her rights...#...she knew the LAW and she made that clear but she was STILL arrested and threatened with greater bodily harm...#...and the department that cop works at is STILL doing NOTHING to address it (the cop in question was 'on leave' last i heard)...#...fuck they had to turn the comments off their department's facebook page because they wanted to bury the comments DEMANDING answers#the people didn't fucking forget until they were shut up. and the department is still doing nothing. that tells me everything
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present from my gf arrived 🥰🥰
#eeeeeee we still don’t have the player set up bc we r still scouring facebook marketplace for some cute way to store it#but i’m so excited to play it once we find something#i love her so muchhhh she gets me#every morning she leaves for her internship/grad school classes before i leave for work and we lay in bed together for an extra minute#before she has to leave and before i have to get out of bed#and it’s just so sweet#she’s got her coat on and her feet hangin off the bed so she doesn’t get her shoes on it an im still not wearing pants and have bedhead#and we just hang out snuggled up like that for a minute#my favorite way to start the day#personal#lauren
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