#learning from each other

[superloves4]

"You are bleeding, when were you planning on doing something about it?!"

"I don't know, oh lord of Dor Caranthir, when I was in private perhaps? It was a careless mistake, it's shameful"

"You humans are so precious of the most trifling things, you fester so rapidly as well! You are a soldier and you were hurt, now sit down so I may stitch the wound"

"...is this not the work of the women?"

"Unless you personally wish for one of the women to attend you, I am the most skilled in needles here"

Just me having feelings over Haleth taking on the roles of soldier and chief while Caranthir acts as defender and embroiderer

[100blueberries]

Parents raising children and children raising parents

[harmonyhealinghub]

Embracing Differences: Lessons We Can Learn from People with Special Needs

Shaina Tranquilino

October 19, 2023

Where individual differences are often stigmatized or overlooked, there is much to be gained by embracing diversity and learning from those who possess unique abilities. Individuals with special needs have an incredible capacity to teach us valuable life lessons that can positively impact our personal growth, relationships, and understanding of humanity as a whole. Their resilience, kindness, authenticity, and ability to find joy in the simplest things are just a few qualities that we can learn from and integrate into our lives.

1. Celebrating Resilience:

People with special needs exhibit remarkable resilience in navigating the challenges they face daily. Despite facing physical or cognitive challenges, they often display an unwavering determination to overcome obstacles. Witnessing their tenacity reminds us of the importance of perseverance and resilience in our own lives. They inspire us to confront difficulties head-on and find strength within ourselves to push forward during tough times.

2. Cultivating Compassion:

Individuals with special needs consistently demonstrate unparalleled levels of empathy and compassion towards others. Their genuine concern for the well-being of those around them serves as a reminder to treat everyone with kindness, dignity, and respect - regardless of their abilities or differences. By observing their profound empathy, we can learn to foster more inclusive communities where acceptance thrives.

3. Embracing Authenticity:

One beautiful lesson we can take away from individuals with special needs is their innate ability to embrace authenticity without judgment or pretense. They do not feel compelled to conform to societal expectations but instead radiate pure genuineness in all aspects of life. Observing this teaches us the value of being true to ourselves and encourages us to live authentically while appreciating the uniqueness in others.

4. Finding Joy in Simplicity:

Often consumed by the fast-paced nature of modern living, we tend to overlook the small moments that bring true joy and fulfillment. People with special needs often possess an extraordinary ability to find happiness in the simplest of things, reminding us that genuine joy can be found in unexpected places. Whether it is a heartfelt smile, a shared laughter, or the appreciation of nature's beauty, their ability to savor life's simple pleasures encourages us to slow down and cultivate gratitude for the little joys that surround us.

Learning from people with special needs offers us a chance to expand our perspectives, challenge preconceived notions about abilities, and foster a more inclusive society. Their resilience, compassion, authenticity, and ability to find joy in simplicity serve as powerful reminders of what truly matters in life. By embracing these lessons into our own lives, we can create compassionate communities where diversity is celebrated and differences are seen as strengths rather than limitations. Let us step forward with open hearts and minds, ready to learn from each other and build a world that embraces the power of uniqueness.

[menopause-diary]

Do As I Say, Not As I Do: A Humorous Take on Self-Advice Sabotage

Why is it that we’re all walking, talking self-help books for our friends & kids, but when it comes to ourselves, we can’t seem to crack open the first page? Let’s dive into the comical irony of being excellent advice gurus to others while being advice-averse in our own lives. Picture this: you’re the Yoda of your social circle—wise and insightful. Your best friend tells you about their…

[nouverx]

*proceeds to drink the whole bottle*

Yeah Alastor you're gonna be loved and appreciated wether you want it or not :)

[askfordoodles]

"Young man, you cut that tsundere bullshit, I know what you're doing, I wasn't born yesterday." - Secret Brat Tamer Volkarin

[bethanydelleman]

I would pay good money to pluck Darcy and Wentworth out of their respective books and put them in the same room right after being dumped/rejected. Because Wentworth would be on a bender and Darcy would be like, "Maybe you should reflect on yourself" and they'd probably get close to killing each other but end up as best friends.

[flwrkid14]

Had the silliest idea while making breakfast.. what if Damian’s Favorite Brother is Tim, but for the Dumbest Reason...pancakes

My idea is that Tim is Damian’s favorite brother, but not for the reasons one might expect. It’s not because of Tim’s skill, his smarts, or his ability to stay three steps ahead in every fight. Nope. Damian’s real reason for favoring Tim over Dick, Jason, or even Bruce is much simpler.

It’s because Tim makes the best pancakes. Like, legendary pancakes.

Not even kidding.

One morning, Tim casually whips up a batch of pancakes in the kitchen—y’know, because Alfred’s off running errands and the rest of the family doesn’t know the first thing about breakfast beyond opening a box of cereal, and Tim's been feeding himself since he was six. So Tim steps up to the stove, and bam—fluffy, golden stacks of heaven.

Damian, who never really cared for breakfast, takes one bite of Tim’s pancakes and is sold. From that moment on, he’s obsessed.

“Drake, you will make me those pancakes again tomorrow."

And Tim just blinks, completely confused, but shrugs it off like, “Uh, sure?”

The next morning, Damian’s right there in the kitchen, bright and early, waiting for his daily dose of pancake perfection. By the third day, he’s even dragging a chair next to Tim, watching like a hawk as Tim cooks, making sure he’s using the right ingredients.

Meanwhile, the rest of the Batfamily is just like, “Really? This is the thing that bonds them?”

Tim, being Tim, just rolls with it. He doesn’t ask questions. If Damian wants pancakes, Damian gets pancakes. He’s just trying to survive his new role as “Pancake Master.”

But Damian? Oh, he’s serious about this.

Damian tells anyone who will listen that Tim is the only one who knows how to make breakfast properly. He’ll give the other brothers side-eye anytime they dare to suggest they could cook for him. Even Alfred raises an eyebrow, but Damian’s already set: Tim’s pancakes or nothing.

What’s even funnier is that when Damian gets pissed off at anyone, he refuses to eat their cooking. But Tim? Untouchable. The one person who can screw up as many times as he wants and still be in Damian’s good graces—because those pancakes? Irreplaceable.

So, while the Batfamily argues over strategy, patrols, or who gets to drive the Batmobile, Damian's priorities are clear:

"You’re all amateurs. Drake’s the only one who makes pancakes worthy of the Wayne name.”

And now, Tim’s been promoted to Damian’s favorite brother for the silliest reason imaginable. But hey, if the key to Damian’s heart is pancakes, Tim’s got that title locked down.

[somethingsketchy3]

“Our child will always be a Bridgerton, but I should like them to know they are a Sharma as well” 💜🩵

the way this line lives in my mind rent free, like you don’t understand; the weight, the sentiments, the implications, in this essay i will—

ANYWAYS, i really hope to see baby Edmund in S4 👀

[lotus-pear]

yeah sure therapy is nice but teen soukoku is faster and a lot cheaper

[razormaze]

what fear a man like you brings upon a woman like me (please don’t look at me)

[katebeckets]

how to say "I love you" in x-files [3/?] ⤷ 2.01 — "Little Green Men"

Mulder, even if George Hale only saw elves in his mind, the telescope still got built. Don't give up.

[uncanny-tranny]

Not a day goes by where I do not think about the advent of medicine like PrEP and wonder just what the people - especially queer people - who passed from HIV/AIDs during the AIDs crisis would think

And then, I read this survivor's testimony and it just makes me emotional. I think this is the closest answer we have. HIV has changed, and we must always remember the people who didn't see that change before it happened.

[olessan]

[menopause-diary]

How to Walk Your Talk: Practicing What We Preach in Parenting and Personal Growth

In my previous blog (check it out here if you missed it), we explored the humorous contradiction of being excellent advice dispensers to others while often ignoring that same advice in our own lives. Here are some playful yet effective tips on how we might actually start taking our own advice and begin to bridge the gap between what we say and what we do. We’ll tackle this in two parts; first,…

[lilybug-02]

You’re making a lot of promises there Chara…

Part 24 || First || Previous || Next

—Full Series—

I enjoyed doing this little Flashback scene. We’ll be back to our regularly scheduled freakout session soon. Having monochrome color is very nice.

Here is a gif of Chara spilling their water because YES. And I spent way too long on it :)

Wow technology is so cool.