#lavender-femme

[lavender-femme]

🍒I want you on top of me like cherry🍒

MEN | MINORS | TERFS DNI I’LL KILL YOU :)

[diodykus]

idk what dyke needs to hear this but no one is entitled to you during sex. if you do not want to have sex, you do not have to have sex. even if it’s your partner, even if they try to argue, even if they try to make you feel bad. that’s coercion. it’s hard to accept but someone who loves you is going to respect you for you rather than what you can do.

[bratprincedyke]

Lesbian iconography Ldov tattoo flash sheet I made and never posted on here

[biwrites]

I think where some people get caught up on bisexual/pansexual butches is that they fully think we aren’t butch when we aren’t in a sapphic relationship.

Like, I’ve seen people try to use “oh, so you’re still butch when you’re with a man?” As a gotcha, but…yes? Being butch, or even just queerly masculine is part of my identity, my identity doesn’t change depending on who I’m dating.

If someone’s entire identity and personality DOES change depending on who their partner is, you should check on them, instead of making fun of them, because that isn’t a sign of a healthy relationship.

[nonconformityhub]

Black Femme Flag and Femme Symbol by thegenderthieves

Continuing to repost some of my friends' stuff from their terminated accounts so that it's more easily findable (with their permission ofc) All text is pasted straight from the original coining!

The femme version of the black butch flag is out! It’s inclusive of all black femmes

The colours are inspired by the femme flag and the dyke flag (you don’t need to have reclaimed dyke to use this flag ofc!)

Meaning:

Black - black history and black sapphic history

Purple - lesbian and sapphic history, love of women and non-men, sapphic power

Lavender - femininity

Light pink - femmeness, gender expression and/or gender non-conformity, unity

Pink - inclusivity of all sapphics, including trans, non-binary, mspec, aroacespec, and other sapphics

Magenta - breaking sapphic stereotpes

Lotus and labrys axe - femininity, strength, rebellion, and liberation

My Femme Symbol (not black-exclusive):

My femme symbol is free to use on other flags (with credit). Both the symbol and flag can be made into emojis and used elsewhere without credit as long as you’re not claiming them as your own!

Version with no symbol:

[lottielottieda]

✧･ﾟ✧:⚢ lavender menace ! ⚢:✧･ﾟ✧

these totes are now available on my shop! the perfect accessory for any lavender menace :)shop

[calicoheartz]

happy to be here ◡̈

so sorry for not posting as much my lovelies ! I’ve been super busy w my own stuff and I’ve been on holiday !! Promise new stuff is coming eventually, but for now enjoy these pictures of the beautiful lavender fields I visited !!!

[vivixrocks]

I was watching video on the history of the lesbian pride flag by @strange-aeons. This image came to mind as a sign from god that I must make. It was originally supposed to be trans men and women are real men and women but my mind went else where. This is dedicated to all lesbians, lipstick lesbians, butch lesbians, nonbinary lesbians, trans women, trans women who are also lesbians, trans men and everyone who terfs discriminates against.

Also the characters name is MENACE. All caps. It came to me when I was walking my dogs. They were speaking to me.

I am also tagging some terf tags so this cause some stir. 💕💕💕💕 you aren’t a real feminist if you don’t believe in equal rights for ALL women.

[lavender-femme]

Hey, tumblr, it’s been a while…

I’ve been wanting to come back for a while, but it’s been pretty difficult in a lot of ways. In April, a (now former) mutual accused me of some pretty egregious things that I had absolutely no part in. With these accusations, they let me know that they had essentially been surveilling me and my blog for months with an excuse of “wanting it not to be [me]” while I spent those months trying to be their friend and get to know them better.

After they accused me of these things, following threats to block me if I didn’t respond to their messages on time (I was working 40+ hours a week at the time), I felt so unsafe here in this space that was meant to be my own. All those months, I’d been assuming this was a safe person while they’d spent that time harboring unspoken suspicions, collecting “evidence” instead of communicating with me. So I went ghost mode on here… I asked them to give me space, they agreed, and then they blocked me everywhere— even Pokémon Go.

Even now, I’m nervous to come back. This person has since been terminated, but I know that they’ve remade, and I know that some of my beloved mutuals are also mutuals with them, so actually coming back and posting is nerve-wracking.

I’ve been here, though, lurking, saving drafts (so many drafts, oh my god), sending anons, and checking in on y’all. I’ve missed my mutuals and followers so much. I know this is “just a blog,” but I really care about y’all and am so grateful to those who have stuck around all these years.

So much has gone down in the past five months, and I’ll update y’all, trust. But for now, I’m gonna ease back into it all. Gonna queue up what I’ve saved to my drafts so if you see me reblogging a million posts from you from four months ago, just know it’s been a long time coming lol.

I’ve missed y’all 💖

[diodykus]

if you are a dyke and want dyke mutuals/friends… please…… dm……………….

[filmnoirsbian]

"A Brief His and Herstory of Butch And Femme" <- girl. I usually trust your good taste & opinions but this is the dumbest most internally lesbophobic garbage I've read in a long time??? whyyyy did you recommend that.... 😭

I wouldn't call it lesbophobic at all. I like that it takes note of every demographic that identifies as femme, not just lesbians. I think you can love being a lesbian and femme without acting like we're the only femmes out there; that doesn't make you internally lesbophobic.

[riotkittiesarchive]

“Lavender Menace” was an action led by Radicalesbians, with women from the Gay Liberation Front and several feminist organizations, at the National Organization for Women’s (NOW) Second Congress to Unite Women in May 1970 to protest the rejection of lesbians in the second-wave women’s liberation movement.

This action largely led to NOW’s resolution to support lesbians in 1971 and increased visibility for and awareness of lesbian issues nationwide.

(source: https://www.nyclgbtsites.org/site/lavender-menace-action-at-second-congress-to-unite-women/ )

[biwrites]

Hi searching around for stuff to write and felt the need to say~

💕✨Bi Butches and Femmes Deserve The World✨💕

Anyways have a good day

[genderqueerpond]

i love you butch amy i love you au where amy transitions but most of all, i love you, absolutely nothing is different it just wasn't explicitly stated what a flamboyant little fag (affectionate) amy (any pronouns) is

[pulsar-1919]

God, reading about and listening to podcasts about queer history it's disappointing to see that people have been infighting about the same shit for years

[fuckedupfemmebot]

Any love for femmes who pack?