#laundry detergent allergy

[tittyinfinity]

Woke up covered in hives what the hell

[chaoticstateofaffairs]

Y’all if any of you have problems like Cal with their skin being incredibly dry and itchy as well as having reactions to the fragrance of things (this includes laundry detergent) try these products, they are absolutely worth it but please be sure to get the fragrance free (btw everything thing he uses that goes on or near his body is fragrance free except his cologne):

[rubiesintherough]

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[agileseen24]

You likely use a mattress protector to shield your mattress from stains and dirt, but did you know you should occasionally wash the cover? Mattress covers are thin, usually fitted sheets that cover your bare mattress; they are not to be mistaken, with a mattress topper placed on top of your bare mattress to provide extra comfort.

In this article, we’ll demonstrate how to wash mattress coverings by hand or machine. Let’s talk about how to clean the mattress cover. To thoroughly and deeply clean your mattress coverings, follow our step-by-step instructions!

Can a Mattress Protector Be Washed?

Whether a mattress protector is composed of synthetic or natural materials, the answer is that you can wash it. Regular washing will eliminate dead skin cells and mites, which are allergy triggers. Additionally, it will prevent stains and offensive smells from developing, extending the life of your mattress protector.

Cleaning your mattress protector is essential, but different materials require different maintenance procedures to maintain good shape. According to the manufacturer’s care instructions, get the most life and durability out of your protection.

How frequently should the mattress cover be washed?

It appears time-consuming; washing the mattress cover must be more frequently addressed. But maintaining your cover is not as difficult as you imagine. Of course, the ability to remove the mattress cover is the primary necessity. You can feel secure knowing that Swissflex mattresses have washable and replaceable coverings. Typically, a circumferential zip is used to remove the cover.

Even if you use a mattress protector in addition to your bed sheet, washing the mattress cover once a year usually suffices. Your bed sheets should be changed regularly. Since these are not impenetrable, dust and skin particles may eventually find their way inside the mattress cover, which could lead to the proliferation of mites.

It can even be a good idea to launder the mattress cover every three to four months if you suffer from severe allergies. Noteworthy: Clean sparingly, as this can hasten the cover’s deterioration.

Items You’ll Require

To begin, you’ll need a few everyday household items. Mattress coverings can be cleaned in two different ways: by hand or in a washing machine. The cleaning supplies you require for both, though, are usually the same:

laundry detergent (for non-white coverings) or laundry detergent without bleach

Spot-cleaning remedy:

baking soda

white vinegar

machine wash (washing machine)

Big wash basin for hand washing

dryer balls

A Step-by-Step Guide on Cleaning Mattress Protectors

Guide to Machine Washing

First, take the mattress protector off of the mattress.

Take the mattress protector off of the mattress first. While at it, you should dry clean your mattress or put on a new cover. Remove any clips using a flat sheet rather than a fitted sheet.

Step 2: Place the mattress protector in the laundry.

Put the mattress protector and a small amount of mild detergent in the washing machine. Add some borax powder if your mattress cover is white for a laundry boost. If the cover for your mattress is coloured, try adding some baking soda. These will not only deodorise but also provide brightness to your covers. On touch, borax also eliminates dust mites.

Step 3: Start the machine on a gentle cycle.

To avoid tearing or wearing down the fabric, it is recommended to wash your mattress cover on a gentle cycle, regardless of whether it is made of cotton, nylon, or polyester. The mild pressure from the spinning water would clean your mattress protector well without causing any damage unless it is stained.

After one cycle, let the machine run and then drain the water. Rinse the area a few times until the water is clean and no more suds are visible. After thoroughly draining the water, wring away any remaining moisture.

Step 4: Place the mattress protector inside the tumble dryer.

Place the mattress protector in the dryer with a few wool or tennis balls to minimise static and stop shrinking. Instead of using heat, which could also cause the fabric to shrink, tumble dry the cloth until all of the moisture has been removed. Allow to air dry by hanging.

Guidelines for Hand Washing

Step 1: Add soap and water to a basin.

As with a laundry machine, fill a basin with water and soap. Refrain from excessive detergent, which may complicate rinsing the mattress protector afterwards. Add one teaspoon of mild detergent for every gallon of water as a general guideline.

Step 2: Insert the Mattress Guard into the Washbasin

Please take off the mattress protector and put it into the basin. After allowing the fabric to absorb the soapy water, let it soak in the water for ten minutes. You can set up the drying area and hang the cover in the interim.

Step 3: Extract the Dirt Gently

To release the dirt, gently press down on the mattress protector a few times. After emptying the water, rinse the lid with fresh, clean water. To thoroughly rinse away the mattress cover, keep applying pressure and adding more water until no more suds remain.

Use a mixture of vinegar and baking soda to erase stains. Directly apply to the areas that are soiled, then allow to dry. After washing the fabric, remove any remaining paste. Do this before cleaning the mattress protector to stop the stain from setting.

‍Step 4: Dry and Wring Out Extra Moisture

After removing as much moisture as possible, hang the mattress protector to dry in a warm location. Select an area with plenty of sunlight and airflow to ensure the mattress cover dries fast.

Washing your mattress protector once every two months is an excellent general rule. Nonetheless, there are some circumstances in which this cleaning frequency might be raised, including the following:

Regardless of when it was last washed, clean your mattress protector if you’ve recently recovered from a sickness as soon as possible. As you heal, this will facilitate easier breathing and help eliminate any leftover extra bacteria.

To stop the spill from seeping into the fabric, you should immediately clean your mattress protector if you recently spilt anything. A set stain can harm the fabric of the mattress protector and is more difficult to remove.

Cleaning the fabric of your mattress protector should be done every two weeks if you experience allergic reactions such as runny nose or sneezing. This prevents allergens from accumulating in the fabric and causing allergic reactions in those who are sensitive to them.

Last Words:

A straightforward but crucial first step in creating a healthy sleeping environment is cleaning your mattress cover. You may prolong its life and keep your mattress fresh and safe for many years by washing it frequently, pre-treating stains, and adhering to the care instructions. In addition to shielding your mattress from allergies and spills, a clean mattress cover also improves the quality of your sleep.

[probably-not-sherlock]

I don't even want anything magical, I just want my body to tell me why it's unhappy and be specific about it, which APPEARENTLY is the most magical thing of them all

[autobahnmp3]

do i have allergies actually sjdljklfjm

[coochellati]

Living With Bruno - Headcanons

Hi guys. I hope you are all doing okay. These past 24 hours have been rough for those affected by American politics.

In the name of comfort and escapism, I’ve been imagining what living with Bruno would look like. For instance—What does Bruno do in his spare time? What does his house look like? Is he a neat person? (spoiler alert: he definitely is.) And what is he like behind closed doors?

I’ll be diving into these questions (and more!) under the break!

Bruno lives in his modest childhood home by the sea, and he hasn’t changed much of the furniture or decor since his parents decorated it. Almost everything is as it was when he was a kid—it gives him a sense of comfort.

During the day, he loves to let the salty sea breeze in through open windows. At night, the lighting feels warm and inviting. Bruno is mindful of energy costs; he only uses lights when needed. Candlelight often fills the home after dark, adding a cozy ambiance. Bruno Bucciarati is a neat person, so his home is impeccably kept.

Bruno spends most of his time in his living room, partly because it’s where his record player lives. It sits between two speakers on top of a waist-high bookshelf in his living room that holds his impressive record collection, including genres such as jazz, prog rock, classical, and more. (He has a whole section dedicated to Miles Davis.) He’s added a desk to the room so he can work while listening to his vinyls. On the wall hangs one of his father’s old fishing nets, a reminder of the vow he made to his father to fight against drugs.

His childhood bedroom is mostly unchanged, having the same furniture and arrangement as when he was young. A small bookshelf holds the stories his mother used to read to him, and pictures of his parents rest on his nightstand.

His parents’ bedroom remains as it was when his father passed. Besides keeping it clean, Bruno hasn’t altered a thing in there, finding something almost sacred in its preservation.

Bruno’s also got a pretty decent wine collection stashed in the cellar, with some expensive, rare bottles. Being careful with money, he rarely splurges on high-end wine, so most of these rare bottles were gifts.

(I headcanon that Bruno is passionate about wine. If you’re interested in hearing about why I believe this, here’s a link to this post.)

Bruno Bucciarati definitely uses his walls for storage.

Before moving in, Bruno will chat with you about your needs. For instance, do you have any allergies? Do you have sensitive skin and need to use special laundry detergent? Are there certain foods you won’t eat? His home is now your home—he wants to make sure you’re comfortable.

Bruno may not be a fan of PDA, but behind closed doors, he isn’t shy about showing affection. Whether it be a peck on the cheek, warm smiles, hand-holding, cuddling to Miles Davis, etc., Bruno is always happy to be close to you. (This goes without saying, but he loves when you reciprocate!)

You might often catch Bruno watching you with quiet admiration. For example, he lets you get ready for bed first so he can just observe you—it’s his way of reminding himself that he now has someone to come home to. For him, it’s like gazing at a winning lottery ticket.

However, like many people, there are moments when Bruno needs his personal space. (Especially if he’s very stressed or it’s work-related.) After all, everyone needs some alone time now and then, and he’ll do his best to let you know ahead of time. Don’t worry about upsetting him if you need to see him during this time—Bruno would never be mad about it. He’ll also reassure you there’s nothing wrong with your relationship if it’s something you need to hear.

Everyone has their flaws, and communication isn’t something Bruno is always the best about. He tends to keep stressful things to himself, to “shoulder the burden,” so to speak. In his mind, he believes he’s protecting you, but this can lead to him acting in unpredictable ways that only make sense if you have the full story.

For instance—remember when Trish asked Narancia why Bruno was such a cold person?

Bruno had a reason for his behavior, as he was close to death. But without knowing the entire story, Trish saw him as cold and uncaring. This is exactly the kind of misunderstanding I’m talking about—without context, Bruno’s actions can give the wrong impression.

Afterward, Narancia told to Trish that this was just how Bruno behaved, and she would understand if she got to know him better. While this dynamic of unexplained behavior may work in a subordinate-leader relationship, this isn’t the type of relationship you and Bruno have. Seeing you happy and safe is what matters most to him, but he doesn’t always go about it in the best way.

Communication is something the two of you may have to work through together.

As noted, Bruno is a neat person. Keeping everything clean and organized helps him stay focused and level-headed. On his days off, he keeps up with chores so his place stays in top shape—he also finds it calming.

Laundry and Ironing are two chores he doesn’t mind doing. Bruno takes great pride in the way he dresses so taking care of his clothes is very important to him. He also happens to be very good at removing stains. (Wearing white clothes regularly will force you to get good at it.) Like many Italians, Bruno doesn’t own a washer or dryer. This means everything gets washed by hand and hung outside to dry. (No need to splurge when you can do your laundry yourself.) Because clothes get stiff when air dried, Bruno irons everything, including socks, underwear, and towels. (This isn’t uncommon in Italy either.)

Bruno is quite skilled at cooking, a talent he developed while caring for his father. (He’s also picked up tips from Polpo’s unsolicited rants about food.) On the topic of cooking, Bruno tends to be big on meal prep, given that he doesn’t always have the time or energy to cook after a long day at work. Therefore, I can see him making a comical amount of food at once to store for later. You’ll walk in and the kitchen table looks like this:

If there’s one chore Bruno doesn’t enjoy, it’s taking out the trash. At first, I thought he’d have it easy because of the fact he could “zipper” it away inside the ground, but as stated to Trish inside Coco Jumbo, he has no idea where things go when he does that—probably best not to risk littering underground.

Bruno is very good about keeping clean. Every morning starts with a cold shower, which he enjoys for the mental clarity and alertness it brings. He’s happy to let you join him if he isn’t in a time constraint, and upon doing so, he’ll adjust the water temperature to something more suited to your preference. (Since he takes cold showers, he’s fine with pretty much any temperature as long as it isn’t scalding.)

If you end up showering with him, expect it to take a while. ;) (Especially if he has nothing going on that day.) His hands gently grazing your sides, he’ll likely start by asking if he can wash you. If you say yes, he’ll begin to gently and meticulously wash every part of you with an awestruck expression gracing his face. (“How did I get so lucky?” He’ll wonder.)

Araki designed Bruno with shiny, meticulously styled hair, which suggests to me that Bruno puts effort into caring for his hair. Healthy hair isn’t just good genes—Bruno goes a little further than just using shampoo and conditioner to maintain it. For instance, he definitely uses leave-in conditioner and hair oil. I can also see him using a hairdryer to blow out his hair and give it that perfect bob shape.

It’s impressive how fast Bruno can get ready for the day, considering all that goes into his daily styling. (You should see how fast he can braid his hair.) It takes him about 16-17 minutes to get ready, 10 more if he has to dry his hair.

Bruno finishes his routine with a few spritzes of cologne.

Around the house, Bruno dresses casually—no need for a fancy suit if no one’s around to see it. However, he will dress up if he’s expecting a visitor.

Sleeping next to you makes Bruno realize how fucking stressed he is all the time. His lifestyle/career has turned him into someone who is constantly hyper-vigilant, so it’s no wonder that Bruno is a very light sleeper. (That, plus the trauma from the night two intruders tried to kill Bruno’s dad while his dad was asleep. ) On his own, he tends to wake up multiple times in the middle of the night, but when he sleeps next to you, he usually stays asleep.

The best part about sleeping next to Bruno? He doesn’t really snore, possibly thanks to being a side sleeper. He also sleeps in pajamas, just in case he has to get up quickly. (Imagine being caught naked as intruders walk into your bedroom.)

I imagine Bruno uses the same bed he did as a kid. Therefore, I bet it is the Italian equivalent of a full-sized bed. This bed size has always worked for him, though he’d likely get a larger one if a partner moved in.

(You really can’t tell the size of the bed from the photo. It could very well be a twin instead of a full.)

Bruno typically starts his mornings bright and early at 6:30 am. He usually aims for about seven hours of sleep, going to bed around 11 p.m. or midnight, though it’s not unusual to see him working until 1 or 2 a.m. (So yeah… he never really gets enough sleep.)

In his downtime, Bruno likes to unwind with a book or by listening to records with a glass of wine—though these moments don’t happen as often as they should since he’s a bit of a workaholic.

Sometimes, he’ll take a walk to the shore where his dad used to dock and sit for a while. He finds it comforting—this is one way he feels he can stay connected to his dad.

Thank you for reading!!! this was super fun to write! I hope this post was able to provide you some comfort 💕

[magnusraydar]

Batfamily with weird allergies because I have weird allergies:

Bruce- Chocolate. He found on Valentine's Day, and now socialites at Galas won't let him forget the day he got incredibly wick from it.

Dick- Strawberries, found out after eating one of Alfreds strawberry shortcakes. Dick was upset he couldn't enjoy having it afterward.

Jason- Dogs. He doesn't care about how dogs make him extremely sneezy and itchy. He'll pet that dog and live with them. (I'm allergic and live with 2)

Tim- Eggs and shellfish. (That fic corrupted me) Tim, as a kid ate it because his parents said it was rude to make a fuss about something so little. Tim now eats it out of habit, forgetting that he's actually allowed to not eat something in the Manor.

Steph- lavender. Her mom had to get a very specific laundry detergent brand so she didn't break out in hives. No one knew it was due to lavender in the detergent. Found out about 2 years later, thanks to Alfred.

Cass- Latex. Her first doctors visit with Bruce they were running an allergy test, and she kept getting hives on her skin. Bruce was panicking thing Cass was allergic to everything before realizing it was the latex gloves.

Damian- Chocolate and the cold. Damian spent most of his time training in the hot desert, and when he was in the cold, it wasn't for very long. Gotham, however, was 100x colder than what he was used to, and his cheeks broke out into hives. He got his chocolate allergy from his dad.

Barbara- Coins. When she was younger and watched by her father, Jim thought it would be perfect to teach her about money while they wait for cases to come in. 30 minutes later, Jim rushes Barbara into Leslie's clinic hives all over her hands.

Alfred- Roses. Though he'll never admit it. Roses make Alfred considerably more sneezy and itchy. Doesn't mean he won't tend to the garden, though. He just brings an extra handkerchief.

Duke- Pollen. Fighting Ivy is the #1 thing Duke will refuse to do. Just getting close leaves him in a sneezing fit. He makes someone else do it every time.

[arthur-lesters-uvula]

Silly allergy / health issues head canons

-> Arthur's allergic to peanuts and walnuts

-> Oscar's unironically is allergic to coconuts

-> Noel has really bad seasonal allergies and chronic back pain from sleeping on couches to much.

-> Yellow & John have sensitive skin to certain brands of laundry detergent and are allergic to lavender.

-> John has celiac and ehlers danlos (creds- @arthur-lesters-tits & @mr-fausts-femur / @arthur-lesters-coccyx )

-> Yellow has low blood sugar and is double jointed

-> Butcher is goated and has no allergies

-> Daniel has a really bad pollen allergy but manages it with meds, he is lactose intolerant, and has arthritis

-> Kellin has eczema, cats, and unnamed(to many) respiratory issues.

-> Larson had the gods take away his walnut and almond allergy.

-> Faroe is allergic to strawberries (not badly tho, she loves her strawberry shortcakes) and pollen. (creds- @faroes-bathtub & @arthur-lesters-eyeballs)

-> Bella is an allergy free queen (creds- @arthur-lesters-slutty-waist)

Daniel's pollen allergy skipped Bella but went to Faroe

Oscar is both allergic and doesn't like coconut

Before shit hit the fan, Kellin did have a prescribed eczema cream

The Larson and Arthur walnut allergy is a lovely paraell pointed out by @arthur-lesters-topsurgeryscars

[fleshdyk3]

hi guys 😁 im selling this denim jacket with a cicada bleached on the back. it was made for a custom order but the material ended up being awful to bleach and it's also off center LOL and i want my custom orders to be as close to perfect as possible

it's black/dark grey denim jacket, canadian mens medium. let me know if you have any allergies/sensitivities to any laundry detergent because i did just wash it

$70 CAD or best offer + shipping. i can ship worldwide. dm me if you're interested!

(+ measurements)

length from top of shoulder: 22 in/56 cm

length from underarm: 13 in/33 cm

shoulder width: 17 in/43 cm

arm length: 25 in/63.5 cm

[snzluv3r]

what is every single thing that makes you sneeze? ive always been curious because it seems like life itself sets you off 🤣😭 (i meant that lovingly, ur sneeziness is absolutely lovely)

oh my god, i don’t even know if i can remember them all off the top of my head honestly. hmmm okay i might split them into categories but i also might get off track so forgive how disorganized this answer will be but as of now/what i can remember:

- alcohol, especially wine (red wine ESPECIALLY)

- grass

- some flowers (strongly scented ones and highly pollinated ones so far, especially lilies)

- cats, some dogs, birds, bunnies, and cockroaches (🥴)

- dust

- cold air

- dry air

- being turned on

- orgasm

- photic reflex (so sun/bright lights, plucking my eyebrows, and occasionally pulling my hair)

- rubbing/tapping/bumping my nose

- random vagus nerve shit: being too full, being too hungry/low blood sugar, and very occasionally when i get nauseous

- walking downstairs/downhill and the slight breeze it creates

- strong tastes: mint, cinnamon, sometimes ginger, spicy things

- occasionally other people’s sneezes (sympathetic sneezes)

- logging onto snzblr LMAO

- down feathers in comforters/clothes/pillows

- any strong scent (think perfume, essential oils, candles, air freshener, laundry detergent, etc)

- crying (i am ‘allergic’ to my own tears aka my tears give me hives/rash and make me swell up, and they also make me sneeze)

- exercise

- bleach

- smoke (fire smoke, cigarette smoke, incense, etc)

- weed (all weed, i am so allergic and even pens make me sneeze in fits)

- pollen/seasonal allergies

- steam

- mold

- tilting my head certain ways/postural changes

[autistichalsin]

I should have stopped talking to my mom any of the times she accused me and my dad of incest because she was jealous of our closeness, or the time she laughed when I told her about my sister assaulting me and laughed "to be fair, I fantasized about your neck too", or any of the times she hit my dad, or the time she said she wished she could kill me, or any of the times she kicked me out in winter with no coat, or the time she called me a bitch (ON MY BIRTHDAY!) because I said i didn't know what time I'd be out of bed, or when she admitted to not teaching us life skills because she wanted us to need her, or any of the times she continued to put essential oils in my room knowing it triggered my asthma, or the time she accused me of faking my allergy to our laundry detergent to be difficult despite the hives on my skin, or the time she yanked me by the hair trying to drag me out of my little brother's room so she could scream at him and then she told my grandma I was the one hurting her, or the time she threw a tumbler at my head, or the time she said I use people because i needed my dad to drive me to the doctor, or the time my SIL was in labor and my mom sent me a picture of a baby, then when I called all excited asking if my nephew was here she laughed FAKE NEWS!!! and told me he wasn't here yet, or the time she told everyone in my family I didn't like playing music and only did to be like my sister so that they wouldn't help me afford a class trip like they'd done for my sister, or the time I was in the hospital for suicidal thoughts and then when my counselor and I met with her and I told her I needed her to stop drinking for my health to improve, she got pissed and snapped "why is this about ME??" or when she let my sister live with us after said sister sexually assaulted my brother, assaulted me with the aforementioned neck licking, and poured her beer on me and flicked bits of meat at me knowing it would upset me as a vegetarian, or when my mom yelled at me to "be a real girl for once" because i wouldn't shave my legs, or when she bought my sister a gaming system the week before my birthday one year and got me nothing, or the repeated times she showed complete and utter apathy to me and my achievements and my hobbies, or the time she lied about my coming out story and then used that to farm likes on her Twitter, or the time she called me a spoiled princess because one single time I was tired and hungry after classes at college and asked my little brother to make me a PBJ sandwich, or the time she screamed at me to use my student aid money to get her chips, increasingly mad when I refused, then when I finally caved and walked to the store to get them for her and came back, threw them at me screaming that it wasn't about the "FUCKING DORITOS" and refused to eat a single chip, or the time my little brother and i went out for my birthday and then my mom threw out our leftovers and tried to break the Super Mario Galaxy disc he'd gotten for me as a present, or the time she hit my dad and screamed at him for getting me Elton John tickets for my birthday one of the rare years we had money-

But I didn't. i should have, but I didn't. Even after I moved out more than five years ago, there was always something. I was afraid she'd retaliate, or I felt responsible for her or I was afraid she'd get sicker or I was afraid i wouldn't get to see my dad again.

Because of that, i let her continue abusing me for years after I moved out. I thought she had become a better person when she got sober. She was working on herself and on rebuilding trust. But now she's right back to the same person she was. And I can't do this anymore. I just can't. I have nothing left to give that woman. I love my dad and I know, with how my mom is, I'll only get to email him anymore if I cut off my mom, because she controls everything with him. I watched, from when I was little to when I was 18, as she cut off more and more from him. She made him quit the sports groups he was in, made him stop going to work parties and stop seeing his friends, until he had literally nothing outside the house but work. I hate thinking that I'm abandoning him to her. And that I might not see him as he gets older. But I just can't do this anymore.

And what was the last straw, you ask?

I asked if they could make a new group chat.

My best friend is like my platonic life partner, to the point of being on the family group chat that includes in-laws. My best friend also lost her mom to cancer a few years ago, and as a result, has PTSD including hospitals being VERY triggering for her. My sister's FMIL is very sick and she's been texting updates. After my best friend said it was too triggering, I texted my mom and sister aside and asked if we could make a new group chat without my best friend on it so she wouldn't be triggered. My mom proceeded to go off on me, accusing my best friend and I of being selfish and not loving/caring about my sister. She said my sister didn't choose any of this and my best friend should "just not be triggered" (wtf???)

So. I blocked her. And we're cancelling our trip to see them for Thanksgiving too.

I tried. I gave her so many chances. I put up with a hundred times more abuse than anyone else would have because I loved her and i was so sure that I could help her, and maybe in some ways I did, but the favor was almost never returned. Anyone else would have cut her off for any one of those things.

She has no one to blame but herself. i did more for her than her other three kids put together and now she won't have that anymore because of her inability to stop being abusive. Ultimately... she needs me a lot more than I need her. And I'm done sacrificing for her. i could deal with the favoritism. With knowing that if my sister and I were trapped in a burning building and she could only save one of us, it would be my sister and she would never look back. I could deal with that. I could deal with the years of abuse and manipulation. I even managed to live with her denying my little brother's sexual assault ever happened and for saying I manipulated my brother into thinking he'd been raped to "prove an agenda". But there's a reason they call it the last straw and not the only straw. There's a huge fucking pile under it and I just physically can't do it anymore.

So have a nice life, mom. If you apologize, I might consider unblocking you and maybe coming for visits every now and then. But what we had? Gone. And you have only yourself to blame. Find a new person to unload all your fucking whining on. I am going to enjoy never having to hear you whine about opioids being outlawed, EVER FUCKING AGAIN. No more hijacking my conversations to talk about politics. No more talking about yourself for a full 20 minutes without even asking how I'm doing. No more calling me three times while I'm on a work shift because you forgot your Indian food order and NEEDED me to place the order for you. Fuck off. Do it yourself. I AM DONE.

[milla984]

Update under the cut

it's the fucking dust mites.

The spot where I got tested yesterday it's still swollen and it itches like crazy, meaning my allergy got like… five times worse. At least now I know for sure what's causing my issues.

I hope you find out what's making you sick so you can get properly treated! Hope you're doing okay until then!

Thank you so so much for your kind words, Anon! (Med talk under the cut)

I've already got a list of known allergens, it's probably time to add new ones; I'm also intolerant to a few foods so it could be an allergic reaction caused by something I'm ingesting.

We'll see, for now I'm managing but I can't wait to have the test done!

[artfullheart]

Laundry Tips

I've been meaning to make an extensive list of tips as someone who worked in a laundromat. Some basics and a few things I noticed not many people know. This is also coming from someone who learned to take care of my clothes early on to save money cause we're all broke here, so these tips also save you money:

•If you're not sure how to separate colors, have 2 piles, lights and darks/brights. Obviously black clothes and bright colors like red or yellow should be separate from whites. But when you get any color clothing that's not a light color, or if you're not sure if it counts as "light", take a corner of the item and run it under warm water, then squeeze the water out and check if the water comes out with dye. If it does there's a high chance it will bleed dye on your clothes, so wash it with the darks.

•You do not need brand laundry detergent. Any laundry detergent will do. I experimented with a few brands and all brands cleaned just fine. Just know, if you use powder detergent, check the instructions because most have to be used with warm or hot water.

•Don't use that much soap. You're using too much. More soap doesn't mean more clean, the measurements on the container are made to be the exact amount you need. More soap means the machine has to work harder to rinse it out and you get soap residue more than likely, which can make you itchy or make allergies worse.

•You don't really need to wash anything in hot water regularly. Cold water is fine for most things, and makes your clothes last longer. You only really need hot water for things you clean less frequently or things that need disinfecting, like pillows, bath rugs, and comforters.

•With things that need disinfecting like bath rugs, pet blankets, reusable period pads/undies, and soiled sheets, use half a cup of hydrogen peroxide in the bleach tray. It's a color safe bleach so you can add it to any color item. For items that stink, like pet items or workout gear, add half a cup of vinegar instead of softener. It works better than the expensive "sport" detergent. Even on urine smells. I got this tip from a nurse that works in a hospice.

•To be honest, softener is unnecessary. You can soften clothes with half a cup of vinegar in the softener tray. You won't smell it once it's washed, in case you're worried about that. Softener is terrible for clothes, it actually ads a coating to fabric so if an item is supposed to pull sweat from your body, like workout gear, towels, or summer clothing, it looses the ability with just a couple washes with softener. And fire resistant clothing like baby clothes will lose the ability if washed with softener.

•If it's the smell you want, I recommend wool dryer balls. They help dry your clothes better anyway. But for scented clothes, add like 5 drops of any essential oil to a couple of them, or dip them in a hydrosol like rose water for a bit and then toss them in the dryer. I've heard people do this with perfume too, but I've never tried it.

•Treating stains is easier if you do it as soon as it happens. Or as soon as you get home. If you can't wash it right away, put a couple drops of laundry soap on the stain and dab it into the stain with a damp cloth, or use a stain spray if you have one. If the stain is cooking oil, hair products, or any type of grease, put a couple drops of Dawn dish soap on it. There's a reason they use it for oil spills. Just don't add any to your washing machine, it can cause the machine to suds up too much and break it. When you wash the item, check if the stain came out. If not, air dry it. Heat sets in stains so drying it in a machine will make the stain impossible to remove.

•If you have the space please air dry your clothes in the sun. Please. It's so good. It makes your clothes smell great, makes them last longer, helps remove stains, and brightens whites like bleach never could. I live in an apartment but I hang clothes next to the window in the spring/summer and its so good.

-Clothing labels lie. Here's a breakdown of what needs special care and what doesn't:

•Wool and silk are cold wash only. Hand wash if you can, but if you must machine wash, use cold ONLY. Use a delicate setting if your washer has one. It should be air dried. Get a drying rack. If you absolutely cannot air dry, dry wool clothing on cold/delicate for 10 minutes at a time until it's barely damp, then leave it open on your bed/couch or over a chair. Do not dry silk. It's expensive, why would you ruin it. Hang it on a hanger and hook it over your door if you have nowhere else to hang it. It dries quickly.

•Cotton can be washed any temp, but everything lasts longer in cold wash. Dry on normal, only dry on high if the item needs disinfecting or if the item is thick, like a pillow, bath rug, or comforter.

•Linen is indestructible. Linen is stonewashed to soften it, which means people put the fabric in large washing machines filled with rocks to beat it so it softens. Wash on high and dry on high to soften it more if the item is stiff, but a cold wash and normal dry is fine otherwise.

•Synthetics like polyester, acrylic, nylon, etc. are best washed cold and dried on normal/warm. More delicate items like thin blouses, stockings, and anything with lace is best air dried, but can be dried on cold/delicate if necessary. Synthetic clothes are more prone to staining so treat stains as soon as they happen.

•SOME dry clean only clothing is fine in the washer, but I'd say dry clean it if you're not sure. If it's an item with no lining it's usually fine, but always air dry these. Dresses, blouses or skirts with stiff linings will lose their shape in the washer. Easiest way to tell, if you turn a dry clean item inside out and there's a white paper like fabric lining certain areas it can't be machine washed. That's a stabilizer/interfacing and it will get ruined. Always dry clean suit jackets, coats, and anything labeled dry clean that's filled with feathers. Some suit pants can be machine washed, but make sure it doesn't have any interfacing. If a dry clean item has lots of colors on it, like a multicolored shirt, or a black dress with a white collar, dry clean it. It will get ruined otherwise.

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I think that's everything, but if anyone has any questions, especially for doing laundry with a disability/low spoons, ask on this post or in the tags. My inbox seems to swallow messages but I'll keep checking this post.

[am-i-the-asshole-official]

WIBTA for taking everything I can from a former friend?

I 20 met this guy J 24M last year through a mutual friend, and since we happened to live in the same neighborhood we hung out more. For context, during this entire time I am/was also supporting an unrelated person financially, so I need every penny and have way less than J.

J has borderline personality disorder and does not go to therapy. I don't want to vilify anyone in the same situation, I'm just bringing it up because J's bps deeply impacts every aspect of his life.

He'd been going through some tough times, with his love life going to shit, cutting off his toxic family and having to find his own apartment etc, so I helped him often.

Since neither of us have much, we shared stuff regularly, e.g. he'd buy me food sometimes and I gave J my skateboard, among other things. I painted his walls & decorated, because I have the skill necessary and he doesn't. I went out to look at furniture with him. I asked my parents to give him furniture they were selling (he got it free). I frequently went to his place in the middle of the night, whether he had splitting migraines or thought someone had tried to break in. I helped him organize a Christmas party, even though he cancelled it because he got angry at someone or something. I cooked for him a few times (he doesn't cook). I let him use my washing machine after he moved into his new apartment without one, even though he owned a cat so all his clothes were covered in cat hair and I have a severe cat allergy, meaning I couldn't do my laundry normally & sometimes it came out with cat hair no matter how hard I tried (this lasted 8 months and would have gone on indefinitely if not for following events). Btw I did all of this without asking for anything in return.

Earlier this year, because of his ridiculously high expectations, he dumped his best friend at the time (the mutual friend), and assigned me his new best friend. After a few months, they became friends again anyway but I kept the "best friend" title.

In July, he hurt his dominant hand during an angry outburst. I was there when it happened but he seemed fine at the time. When he came to do his laundry the next day, Sunday, he told me that his hand was sprained and we talked about how he'd need to see the doctor the next day. He agreed to go. He promised to go to the doctor.

I know he's not good with going to doctors, especially on his own. So I texted him the next day and asked if he'd already gone. He responded "Nope, don't feel like", and upon asking why, he said that "it'll heal on its own anyway". Which to me read as 'I don't care.'

This pissed me off. I blocked him. I planned to unblock him once I'd calmed down, probably in a few days. I was really upset about this because it happens regularly. Him not going to the doctor when he should is a pattern, a bad pattern. He's gotten me sick that way.

The next day he texted my partner, asking if I was okay. They explained that i was upset at him for telling me he'd go to the doctor but then not going. He blew up at them that it was none of my business anyway whether or not he went to the doctor. Whined about his medical anxiety (which is valid but wasn't the point). Said that the sprain was healing so he didn't have to go. They argued for a while until my partner got tired and stopped responding.

Apparently I am now no longer his friend. He asked our mutual friend to tell me to pick up my stuff. I'm busy these days, so I haven't done it yet.

When I pick up my stuff, it's gonna be a whole list of things: a seat/cushion, a stovetop, 75€ worth of comics, a measuring tape, the skateboard, a box. I'll also bring him laundry detergents that are laying around at my place still.

Now WIBTA if I ask him to also give me pain medication to replace all the meds I gave him and money for the furniture I got him for free at the time (I'll ask 40€ even though they're worth more)?

What are these acronyms?

[dmercer91]

ebug’s sister, dm91

part one

saw a few of these on this beautiful, beautiful hellsite, and it made me create a blog

photos are taken from pinterest !

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blakefriarr_: my brother is an ebug, episode one!

i wandered along the glass and got several photos of losers on knife shoes, and then i forced jj to let me meet some of the devils after thoroughly examining the roster on the nhl app

the pretty country boy looking one with the missing tooth smells like wood and vanilla

middle hughes smells like axe body spray

cap just smells extraordinarily expensive.. like stupid expensive.    

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jj.friar31: what is WRONG WITH YOU

jj.friar31: PRETTY COUNTRY BOY AND MIDDLE HUGHES???? you SMELLED THEM???

→ blakefriarr_: i mean they were standing right next to me it’s not like i shoved my face into them and took a whiff?? get over urself jj

jj.friar31: you’re not coming next time istg

→ blakefriarr_: oh you got a license?? thank GOD i’m really tired of chauffeuring you to your dates it’s incredibly awkward 

→ blakefriarr_: i hope you don’t think i’m letting you take my car my backseat is NOT big enough for your extracurricular activities 

→ jj.friar31: oh dear god okay i’m sorry you’ve proven your point

→ blakefriarr_: i meant your pads jj get your head on straight

user2332342: axe body spray? yeah that checks tbh

user231372: @/njdevils @/dawson1417 @/jackhughes @/nicohischier 

njdevils: hope we get to see you again!

→ blakefriarr_: i’m going to assume this is because i am a godly individual and not because jj can at all stop pucks

user827402: pretty country boy is... accurate?? in like the weirdest way @/dawson1417 

dawson1417: thanks! (i think?)

→ blakefriarr_: both pretty country boy and wood/vanilla are compliments so yes you’re welcome 

→ jackhughes: @/blakefriarr_ also thank you, then?

→ blakefirarr_: @/jackhughes axe body spray is NOT a compliment jack please change whatever it is that you use to create that horrid smell

→ jackhughes: @/blakefriarr_ ouch

→ dawson1417: @/jackhughes hA

nicohischier: before i thank anyone.. good expensive? or like, asshole expensive

→ jj.friar31: you have no idea what you have just started

→ blakefriarr_: shut up jj i’m trying to think of something painfully clever and horribly dad like 

→ nicohischier: @/blakefriarr_ forget i asked. thanks :)

→ blakefriarr_: @/nicohischier wait no i got it 

→ jj.friar31: NO

→ blakefriarr_: fine

quinnhughes: ha, middle hughes 

→ blakefriarr_: glad you like it, eldest daughter hughes

→ quinnhughes: honestly? better than assuming i use axe body spray 

→ blakefriarr_: fabulous

dougieham: do i ask if not getting a comment is a good or bad thing

→ blakefriarr_: mint gum and baby laundry detergent 

→ dougieham: that’s so neutral i’m almost afraid

→ blakefriarr_: don’t be! i have allergies

drayanewman: only you could pull this off and giggle at it like it’s a video of a kid falling over 

→ blakefriarr_: it really is a talent, isn’t it?

→ dawson1417: well now i need to know how you giggle at videos of kids falling over

→ blakefriarr_: @/dawson1417 i’ve never not known how to respond to something in my own comment section before

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