#kathi rants

[kathiscuriousworld]

I think my roman empire is that Charles "I would only go to hell for you/ I rather spent the eternity on earth with you than paradise/ we have an eternity to figure this out" Rowland is already more invested in this relationship than many people that ARE toghether are in theirs.

They live already a healthier married life than most of reddits AITA!

[linguafrencha]

HI public service announcement JUST LETTING EVERYONE KNOW THAT I AM SO FUCKing HAPPY I HAVE A BOYFRIEND WHO IS THE BEST

Everything is just going so great at the moment this has been the best year of my life

I LOVE LIFE

Thank you me for holding on and for getting where you are

I Love you 16 yo suicidal me who didn’t know if they were gonna make it to 25

I Love you 20 yo anxious me who could barely leave the house

You did such a good job of getting better, thank you so much for staying alive and refusing to believe there’s nothing you can do

If anyone is struggling with mental health right now i am here to tell you that it will get better because life can’t always be terrible and you will figure it out because you are smart and beautiful I promise I promise I promise

I Love you

[archiveofpiaandkathi]

The Remus Lupin Question

I can't help myself. I can't imagine Remus Lupin as Badboy casanova and I can't imagine him just like grandad.

i think he is both and nothing of it at the same time.

He is the mastermind behind the marauders pranks.

He is some sort of self destrsuctive, like forgetting to eat or not getting enough sleep.

With his lycantrophy goes some sort of depression and a lot of physical and emotional pain.

Not Remus was the mother hen of the marauders, but James who especially fussed about Remus after full moons.

He had grown over the years, his friendship to the marauders, the girls, some ravenclaws and hufflepuffs and even some of the slytherins, pushed his self esteem.

He knows, because of his loving parents how healthy relationships work and I believe that he has to give Sirius steadiness and safety when they first started dating, because Sirius never really had a rolemodel for a healthy lasting relationship.

Sometimes he is the one that talks some sense in the marauders and sometimes he has the ideas to let their pranks go through the roof.

He likes to read, because books were his portals to the world when he was little, but also likes to spent time with the people he cares about. A win win is when he can spent time with Reegulus and Lily talking about books oder reading toghether.

So on the one hand he is really vulnerable and relies on his friends and boyfriends and on the other hand he is very confindent and stable and some sort of glue for his friends and spot of safety for his boyfriend.

[fletchingbrilliant]

End Credits in Film

The credits that roll at the end of a film are crucial for more than one reason

Obviously, there is the acknowledgment of every hand and mind that went into the project, but

There's also the allowance to wind down, to take in what you've just watched; even if you've seen it a hundred times, it's part of watching the film

And of course the score/soundtrack. The music chosen for the end credits is very intentional, even in many movies made today

It doesn't matter that some movies have more disposable end credit tracks

The point is that there is value in the end credit for even more reasons than I listed here

I bring all of this up because I've encountered - what is for me - a new issue with streaming movies. Not only do they include ad break style fade-to-blacks even when you're not stuck with ads during your viewing (I always keep the remote handy to mute the ads when they come up and don't even glance at the screen because fuck ads), but now I find that some services play the end credits at breakneck speed, also cutting off the music prematurely. So not only can I not use the music and energy to wind down and absorb my experience, but I can't read and appreciate (and easily look into more should I want to know more of their work whatever their task) the many people who made the film.

A lot of people say the art of film is dying. I couldn't disagree more. I lived through the sludge that the 90s and -shudder- the 00s gave us, and so much of what I'm actually watching today is fucking incredible. The ability for smaller creators - and creators from almost any country - to put out next-level work available at my fingertips is unprecedented on every conceivable level. It's the services that largely make these films available that are doing their damnedest to make these experiences as expedited and protracted as possible.

Remove our awareness of what's going on around us and we are that much more malleable, that much more suggestible to blind purchasing, binge watching, and other obnoxious tactics that gain billionaires more money, and leave us as the scapegoats, the ones to blame for our "shorter attention spans" and our "fickle" manner of consuming media.

[kaffykathy]

Sometimes I look at Lancer's core book and just think about how lacking it is in significant details for all the factions, like who is the current leaders of Union, to founders and owners of the many corporate entities.

I know that doesn't sound like exciting lore to anyone, but for Union, there's no one like the Camerons from Battletech or the Karl Franz from Warhammer Fantasy. And I can see that it was probably purposely implemented like this for the reason that these entities are bigger than the identities that lead them, and that's why when a name like Johnathan Harrison pops up along sith a small blurb of who he is, we start to realize his significance and why Harrison Armory is the way it is. He was basically a fascistic General from Seccomm that fled and made his own Union how he saw fit, and his clones still live up to his legacy to the current setting of Lancer.

At the same time, Union doesn't have any of that. There's no lore about some, or any politician of government in the Core Book at least other than the seats and chairs that they fill. The reason for this is to give the players the ability to make their own interpretations with the world, but it's really saying something when your big government super power claiming to be in a utopian golden age doesn't have a face to its actual organization.

(Side note: if anyone ever tells you that their realm is a Utopia, you should be taking that the same way that someone says that a ship is 'Unsinkable'. Sorry to burst your bubble Pilot NET, but some of you really need to read between the lines about this. Especially with how much of a bureaucratic nightmare DoJ HR is.)

I know that it's very much the case that Massif press could have done this intentionally to show in the Lancer setting that the sum is bigger and more significant than all the parts added together. The world of the setting is too big to care too much about one individual or planet without weeding in a reason why in most cases because unless you're playing a mission book like Solstice Rain, you probably wouldn't be visiting any of the planets or people brought up in the first place. But the thing is, to me, is that this really makes Lancer less lively than I think it should. When I read about the Albatross, I wanna know about their heroes and significant feats and journeys. I could just play and Albatross, but having record of the daily life at the perspective of a nomadic Lancer would have been told so much more than I think the actual descriptions give.

It's why I love the blurb of text on the Sisyphus NHP. It builds a character, tells a narrative, and humanizes this being most probably would only be used to get a better roll. It also implies how cycling actually works for an NHP and the significance to it. And from all this, we can see that Sisyphus knows that his fate is to be cycled and die over and over again. Something barely given full page and it's just text on equipment.

And yet we don't have anything like that for the bigger picture. We don't know that the leaders of Union generally feel or think about the world surrounding us. We don't have a set uniform for Union or any other of the major players. And as a person who was fascinated with historical things like what soldiers wore during the battle of waterloo, or what camo patterns did a certain tank use, I feel like it's a significant diservice to not give us official uniforms and outfits for Union.

Imagine what cultural reflections that could have impacted the clothing an officer would wear.

I don't know, Lancer really likes to skim on the actually interesting descriptions, but I still love it. It's just that it really doesn't give me enough reason to care about things like Cradle or the Solar System in its current timeline. There is a lot of telling, and not showing in the lore for me, but they don't even tell things that historical nuts like me might be interested in.

[vivaciousoceans]

I gotta rant about something that as a Olivia Benson fan first, really bothers me. Elliot would’ve NEVER left Kathy for Olivia. Ever. They had to kill her off to even give eo a chance. And I just feel like Olivia deserves better than that. Better than being somebody’s second choice. They can spin it however they want to. The facts will always be the facts. I don’t think Elliot would’ve ever looked twice at her (in a romantic way), had Kathy lived. I always did feel like Olivia loved him more than he did her. I also feel like that’s what scares her the most about Rafael, is for him she’s his first and only choice. And she’s never really experienced that type of unconditional love with anyone.

You’re 100000% correct. Elliot would’ve never given Olivia the time of day if Kathy was still alive. He had ample opportunity to leave her, to get a divorce, for god’s sake, the show was in season 12 when he left. He spent 12 years as Olivia’s partner, never once making a move, not even when he was separated. I don’t doubt that Elliot feels something for Olivia, I don’t doubt that he loves her in his own selfish way, but she is NOT the love of his life. If she was, if she was truly the woman he couldn’t live without, Italy wouldn’t have been far enough. When Kathy was leaving him, he continued to show up, and yes there is a difference because she had his kids, but also he wanted HER! As evidenced by them making Eli. Olivia has always been his work wife. The wife he goes to for emotional support so his real wife doesn’t see his demons, the toll the job takes on him. Rafael has always only had eyes for her.

He doesn’t have a wife and 5 kids holding him back. He doesn’t have the baggage of a failed relationship 15 years ago (Brian Cassidy) holding him back. He’s never going to ask her to give up her job to ride off into the sunset with him (Ed Tucker). If she let herself, if she truly let herself fall into him, she could be happy, loved, cherished, and that scares the shit out of her. Because who could ever love someone made from a monster? Who’s been broken over and over by countless evil men? Who could actually want her? Who would actually choose her? And Rafael is right there answering every single one of those questions with “me”, and that terrifies her. She’s never been loved unconditionally.

And the idea that somehow Kathy is the reason Elliot never pursued Olivia is ridiculous. The fandom paints Kathy as this jealous bitter wife who won’t let Elliot go, when she did!!! And then she didn’t even know for sure that Elliot and Olivia hadn’t talked in 10 years. She still praises their partnership on her deathbed. Elliot is the one who couldn’t let Kathy go. Elliot is the one who abandoned Olivia without a word because “her voice would’ve made him stay” as if her voice had ever been enough to make him choose her.

[hwajin]

might be a full on lesbian

[ten-of-imps]

Kathy H. is really observant, detailed oriented and aware of her own inner sensations, which I guess does support at least high Si function. She's typed Isfj but that was maybe 10 years ago if not more.

[shelyue99]

The Best Years of Our Lives (1946)

[running-with-kn1ves]

Just finished watching Misery (1990) with kathy bates and when I tell you it is the PERFECT movie for you folk who enjoy twisted kidnapper vs. Kidnappee scenarios, you'll love this movie. The synopsis got me interested right away but when I watched it I enjoyed it ten times more than i expected. It's nothing revolutionary, but it's got that dark fiction edge that i think really made it enjoyable, especially with how smart james caans character is. I love a good mc who tries to manipulate their kidnapper back and succeeds

[cabensonsgirly]

Elliot is a shit dad too. When Kathleen was exhibiting Bipolar symptoms, he'd rather pretend nothing is wrong with her than try and help her get better.

I understand finding out your child having a serious mental health issue is upsetting because my parents struggled deeply with mine but at the end of the day, they stayed and they're doing everything they can to support me.

Kathy stayed with Kathleen to make sure her daughter is safe and knows she's loved and asked what she can do in order to help Kathleen.

The only time Stabler cared was because it'd make him look bad and even then he wanted to sweep it under the rug.

Don't tell me that's what good parents do because they would focus on their child and make sure they get the help they need. Then he has the audacity to get pissed off at Kathy for trying to do what he's avoiding? He can go kick rocks.

[kathiscuriousworld]

Am I the only one that reads the beginning of their old abadonnend fics and I think, I like that how does it end? And then remembers that I actually have to write the ending to know how it ends?

[thebrainofmae]

something doubly evil abt Kathy Hochul trying to ban masks after killing congestion pricing, at least temporarily (which would have brought in badly needed funds to repair and upgrade the subways and also would have led to cleaner air because there would be fewer cars in Manhattan), which she did, btw, in direct opposition to the state assembly which had been working on that plan forever. This as she and Adams continue this insane narrative of some giant spike in violent crime on the subways so that they can justify spending absurd amounts of money putting cops and fucking state troopers on platforms to fine fare evaders and kick unhoused people out into the rain.

The two of them are going against the will of the people to turn the subways into derelict surveillance states, knowing that millions of people rely on them every day.

I still can’t get to work on time because of delays but no worries, because now we’ve saved the subways from the nefarious ways of *checks notes* people wearing covid masks or trying to find shelter.

[drewbs]

DO YOU EVER JUST FALL IN LOVE WITH LITERALLY EVERYONE

LIKE SINCE WHEN WAS THAT GIRL I SIT NEXT TO IN THEATRE SO FUCKING PRETTY AND WHY IS THAT ONE DUDE THAT SITS A FEW SEATS BEHIND ME IN BAND SO FUCKING NICE???

NOT ONLY THAT SINCE WHEN DID THAT ONE KID THAT I PASS BY IN THE HALL HAVE SUCH A PRETTY VOICE?????

LIKE I WANT TO REALLY AGGRESSIVELY BECOME YOUR BEST FRIEND but i sure as hell am not gonna talk to you because i’m really intimidated by that :]

[kaffykathy]

I have a story to tell, haha.

When I was at my OIC, there was a place that was offering programming classes as a "equal opportunity program" with York Solutions - this is known as their B2E program, I was eager to take it - and people that are offered it already know why.

I was very optimistic about this, only to be stumped by their fucking logic tests. A timed, 1 hour logic and mathmatic test.

I really didn't know how I could even prepare for it.

This completely threw me out of wanting to do programming, as I felt like I didn't have the mindset for such things...

You apply for 20 jobs on Indeed. The silence is deafening.

You apply for 20 jobs on Indeed. Half of them require you to create an account on the company website. You leave a trail of ghost accounts that will be used once and never again. You never receive a response.

You apply for 20 jobs on Indeed. One employer offers an interview, but it's so rare for you to receive any response that you forget to check the website and you miss the time.

You apply for 20 jobs on Indeed. One employer offers an interview, but you don't know the magic words that signal to the esoteric mind of an interviewer that you're fit for the job.

You apply for 20 jobs on Indeed. One employer e-mails you saying that 'unfortunately, you do not have the qualifications we are looking for'. You check the job again and see you applied to be a menial labourer.

You apply for 20 jobs on Indeed. Half of them require a car. No one stops to ask how you're supposed to afford one with no job.

You apply for 20 jobs on Indeed. One employer offers a job. The commute makes you want to die in your sleep.

You call the HR manager for the workplace in hopes of arranging an interview more directly. They don't even have an answering machine.

Employers complain that no one wants to work anymore.

[kaffykathy]

To all you people out there that are annoyed that there's no more Niche things. I would like to let you know that there still niche things you just don't know what niche is anymore.

Mecha anime and tabletop games has always been niche. Comics outside of DC and Marvel exists. And there's that god damn boomer shooter explosion we had a while back.

Fucking reading for fun has been a niche thing since forever, anything that isn't shoved down your throat at school or a best seller is still widely available.

If people are passionate about it, there's a niche underbelly. Stop being childish and thinking because popular stuff you know gets lifted by the industry that everything else should have Mandalore number or get canceled.

I'm just mad because there are still niche markets out there and people are being sad over nothing. Fucking hell.