#its the same as when str8 white women act like they cant help but date racist men cuz hes just sooo hotttt

[cruelsister-moved2]

ppl pretending feeling attraction never changes when u find out more information abt someone its not giving the best vibes in all honesty. im not seeing the difference between u & the bioessentialists of various stripes who think you just experience attraction by like detecting someones Female Pheromones or w/e. we do this in various ways all the time without even noticing & it’s extremely normal to think someone is cute, find out they’re a gender you’re not attracted to, and feel differently. you can’t tell people’s gender just by looking at them and idk what it says about gnc people, non passing and closeted trans people if you believe that you can. finding someone good looking has never defined your sexuality this is such a shallow conception how are the same people who love to be like HUMAN SEXUALITY is mESSY and COMPLICATED the same ones who act no different to ignorant straight ppl who just lose their minds at the idea of a gay person having eyes and being able to notice when someone of a different gender is good looking 😭