#its because im gender fluid

[lyloneliness]

Firstly, when you get this, you have to answer with 5 things you like about yourself, publicly. Then, send this ask to 10 of your favorite followers (non-negotiable, positivity is cool)

Aww thank you so much for sending this to me!!I feel so honoured (((o(♡´▽`♡)o)))

Hmm this is a tough one..! I never know how to answer when asked something I like about myself since that changes constantly (。┰ω┰。)

My art style! (Even if y'all don't really know it since I only posted a few drawings here, and when I draw fan art it's not my habitual art style (-ω-；) ...)

I'd say maybe my creativity when I'm really focused on something and do a lot in a short amount of time, with a lot of ideas about details and symbols and deep meaning, and the result is like- way better than what I inagined first! It sometimes happens when im drawing or writing! (｡･ω･｡)

I like my capacity to understand things. Like, my mind makes a lot of connections all the time and it helps me understand things super quick, or on a deep level!

Since it's cause of the previous that this one exist I'll put it here : how I can make people feel understood and safe with me (more irl but still-). A lot of people told me that I have a vibe that makes them feel good around me, and I like the fact that I've come so far compared to who I was before, that I've become someone others (and myself) can feel good with ^^

And lastly, my taste in friends! I'm surrounded by amazing people and I'm glad I choose them as my fav people! (๑°꒵°๑)･*♡

Hehe, thanks again for thinking of me with this one @lovelyalicorn ! Made me think a lot and was really a nice experience ✧(｡•̀ᴗ-)✧

[dailykugisaki]

Day 112 | id in alt

Why does the cursed technique harm Inumaki but not okkotsu? Is it stupid???

[neonbuck]

does anyone know whether estrogen and testosterone actually affect how easy it is to cry, or if it's just a mental thing related to transitioning in general? i've been on and off T for years and i still couldn't possibly tell you which it is

[cruelsister-moved2]

yeah just constantly realising how much ppl who are attracted to men can genuinely not comprehend just. truly not being and how much thats at the root of every stupid discourse about lesbians because you think we're repressed or lying or gatekeeping & our sexuality is based on exclusion and misery rather than believing that we are actually pursuing joy & pleasure and are just very aware of where that joy and pleasure isnt found for us. because you never reached the stage of development that involves recognising other people's interior lives are different from your own and you're so used to living in a world that revolves wholly around men and their approval you genuinely believe we're lying when we say we're not interested. kill yourself

[aaronymous999]

Okay imma say it right now because some people do not get it!!

Being queer is not a choice, but you’re not necessarily “born this way”.

I was a gay man up until the age of 12. I loved boys and I was a boy. Now though? I don’t like people. I’m happier than ever. And it wasn’t a choice I made to just stop liking people. My body just decided not to be attracted to anyone anymore. And that’s okay. If in the future I like boys again, that’s okay too. I was born queer, but my queer identity will never be the same my whole life, and that’s okay :)

[sunsoak]

Everyone’s all “nonbinary is included in every sexuality” until a nonbinary person who is on hormones prefers men who like men and women who like women and all of a sudden I’m being problematic and offensive to…….. well everyone I guess

[timeisacephalopod]

The way conservatives frame being trans as some kind of "social contagion" while literally calling for the erasure of all trans people from public spaces is wild because who the fuck decides to Be Gender because it's so cool politicians are telling you you shouldn't exist on the news?? Like the idea that trans people are deciding to be trans because it's a social media trend akin to the cinnamon challenge or the fuckin ice bucket challenge is an absolutely bonkers argument to make in the middle of "these people shouldn't exist" speeches. Surely at least one of these brainless lumps have taken a half a moment to consider how something could even become a "social contagion" when they're personally railing against the existence of these Very Cool People??

Plus, you know, implying whole swaths of people are too stupid to figure out their own damn genders is uh, deeply insulting to suggest just because they're confused about how being trans works.

[boycannibal]

im like being genderqueer is about being yourself and not keeping to societys standard and when im having a girl moment im like i want to get my hair done i want to get my nails done i need to go shopping and get a pink starbucks at the mall while im at it

[corneille-moisie]

now that i think about it, it's more than likely that the first time i saw the word "gender" in a non-cis context was also in a blam honey context

so i probably legitimately have ryonai to thank for the first step of my "i'm not a girl/woman" realization 🤔

[scuba-divers]

THE MAYOR OF MOONLIT CITY IS TRANS??!!

[waxydoll]

I love identifyin as queer because i dont have to explain myself at all.

I thought you were a dude why you wearing nail polish and a skirt?

Queer.

Do you like men or women? Are you bisexual?

Im Queer.

Are you cis or trans?

Bitch im fucking queer.

[vexedpuff]

I'm a bi racial, bisexual, that's possibly gender fluid. I couldn't pick a single culture group, so im not allowed in any of them.

[chloecorvid]

... man.

[icarusredwings]

I love how you write call girl Wade and having her as gender fluid, honestly I live for a gender ambiguous take on him, it scratches the brain PERFECTLY

And Logan would be obsessed

Just constantly having Wade in his lap, not letting her get more than an arms reach away unless absolutely necessary for their little scams

Girl why you always in my inbox as anonymous.

Were friends. How am I supposed to tag you in cool posts if I dont know who you are.

I do like genderfluid wade and ive been messing around with them for a bit. Wade is literally the "I think im gender fluid but theres a gunfight going on 24/7 so idc about that rn"

So if logan were to genuinely ask, gently bring it up, Hed probably joke at first like wym haha im not a girl and logan would just blink and be like "Just be who you want to be" and suddenly- He's at a dress shop, sitting outside the dressing room awkwardly making eyecontact with the employees who walk by to see him holding 18 different dresses.

"Sir you cant smoke in here"

"You want me to put it out on your forehead?"

When wade comes out theyre in this really pretty kind of pinup dress. "What do you think!?"

Logan sighs, puts it out on his boot and smiles fondly. "Well arnt you gonna spin around?"

So he does and then giggles. "It has pockets!"

So he looks up to the clerk like "What other colours you have of that?"

Wanda has all sorts of dresses now but her signature for gamble nights is a short sparkly one almost similar to sabrina carpenters and a garter with prada heels.

Even pearls. Real pearls to match what ever colour suit logan is wearing. A small "dibs" on her at all times.

By definition Call girl means a sex worker who works by appointment only rather then standing the streets or working for a "any time" brothel.

Sometimes tables get suspicious.

"Whos the girl?"

"Ahh nutin. Just a call girl."

"You pay'er to walk around witcha or smth?"

"Something like that. I play better if I have someone pretty to look at instead of ya ugly mugs."

Pretty much, anyone who makes an appointment dies. Mainly because thats her profession. To butter up her targets, take'em home and then takem out in body bags. Since call girls are "higher class" then regular prostitutes they often have protection with cartel or mafia, especially in this particular setting.

So yeah, sometimes Logan has to grit his teeth and play pimp. "Sell" Wanda off to a sorry sap but it makes him so happy to know she just comes back home and fucks him silly to soothe his jealousy. Its a rush lifestyle. Always on the go, always having the adrenaline of winning or the endorphins of flirting, leading them on, the relief that rushes down wandas back when she finally gets to kill them.

Its a great little scheme they have going on here but sometimes theres more trouble then they bargin for or sometimes one of the players will call wanda ugly and it sets Logan off and sends wade into a hysterical session of tears and refusing to let anyone see them for awhile without any make up on. It pisses patch off a lot actually because he works hard to make sure she feels pretty at all times, even telling her how pretty she is while holding her hair back and their head in the toilet. Cancer is not any kinder to them in this au but at the end of the day if Wanda can make everyone in this room want a piece of his ass while said ass is sitting on Patches lap? Theyre happy.

[maddestmewmew]

i fucking love chucky/childs play and i think the best way i can encapsulate the energy of this series is with this:

in seed of chucky (2004) they introduced a genderfluid character (who is a doll person) who was the child of chucky (person in a dolls body) and tiffany (person in a dolls body) (but they werent born as a person and became a doll, they were just born as a doll.) and the twist was that the reason theyre genderfluid is that they are two twins stuck in the same body (a doll) and when they are reborn as a human twins (dolls in peoples bodies) they become one boy and one girl, and its like Ohh okay its 2004 i understand. this is as woke as it can get.

and then a real life decade and a half later in the tv series, chucky (yk the serial killer doll) befriends a gay tween (sorta) and tries to convince him hes chill about the kid being gay, so he says the famous "gendah flooid" line, so i guess last chucky (the serial killing doll) checked, he had one kid, who was one doll, and gender fluid. (sorry. gendah flooid)

but then the twins are brought back, and they are still dolls in human bodies, but theyre adults now, and dont know they used to be one doll, and they show up because theyre visiting their mom (person in a dolls body in a different persons body but the person is real life actress jennifer tilly who plays tiffany as a doll and also as a person and also as a doll who is pretending to be jennifer tilly) and they are both nonbinary now, and solidly Two People who are not dolls, so it kinda addresses both the idea that glen (who im realizing now i havent said the name of) is a doll with the spirits of two twins within them while also not fucking up the nonbinary rep too badly.

but then one of the twins gets shot and is dying, so the other twin is like "fuuck..we gotta put our formerly doll now human souls BACK in the doll to save my twins life!"

and then they Do and now the genderfluid doll who is actually not genderfluid and actually just possesed by two souls with differing genders who are now human but are actually both nonbinary are now actually one soul who is a doll and is nonbinary and is in fact the same doll they were in the first place.

and then they move to england.

[am-i-the-asshole-official]

AITA for making out with my best friend?

Ok so, my (16ftm) best friend (17mtf) and i were hanging out in the choir room during our shared lunch period because she had asked me to come there and cuddle her because she's been feeling terrible lately, and while we were cuddling she told me what the reason was: her partner (20, gender fluid) had cheated on her and she found out over our winter break from school (as of writing this, 1 week ago). She was really upset about it and ended up kind of just rambling at me about how she's going to give them another chance because she loves them and still wants the future theyve been planning together for over a year and a half.

A bit of context is needed before i get to the part where i might be TA. From late october of 2022 to early september of 2023, i had a huge crush on my friend and she knew about it since december of 2022. While i dont actively have a crush on her anymore, im the kind of person whose attraction/feelings never really go away fully. This didn't change anything about our friendship, but its also worth mentioning that she also had a crush on me for a few weeks until she started dating her partner in november of 2022. Throughout our friendship, we've talked a lot in a specific channel in a discord server i made with all my closest friends. That channel is named horny jail. This is relevant.

All of that is important because today when we were in the choir room and she told me about her partner cheating, she also mentioned that there was a small but extremely loud part of her brain telling her to use me as a way to kind of justify giving her partner another chance, because "if i do it then i can't be mad at [partner] for doing the same thing". She then clarified that "use" meant doing gay horny shit because of the things ive told her, not like emotionally manipulating me. She then asked if i would be okay with making out with her, and i hesitated for a while and thought it over because she was clearly very upset and on the one hand, i could help make her feel a bit better in the moment, but on the other hand i know she's going to regret it soon. As you can see in the title, i decided that helping her feel better in the moment was more important, so we made out for a few minutes and then we went back to class.

I feel like i might be TA because i knew she was incredibly vulnerable in the moment and would regret it, but i still made out with her and im like 10% sure it was partially me just indulging the part of myself that still is attracted to her.

So, AITA?

What are these acronyms?