#it's important babe

[feykrorovaan]

Babe, would you still love me if I was a wyrm?

[inkskinned]

love when men cry about body hair bc "it's hygiene" and yet 15% of cis men leave the bathroom without washing their hands at all and an additional 35% only just wet their hands without using soap. that is nearly half of all men. that means statistically you have probably shaken hands with or been in direct contact with one of these people.

love when men say that women "only want money" when it turns out that even in equal-earning homes, women are actually adding caregiver burdens and housework from previous years, whereas men have been expanding leisure time and hobbies. in equal-earning households, men spend an average of 3.5 hours extra in leisure time per week, which is 182 hours per year - a little over a week of paid vacation time that the other partner does not receive. kinda sounds like he wants her money.

love that men have decided women are frail and weak and annoying when we scream in surprise but it turns out it's actually women who are more reliable in an emergency because men need to be convinced to actually take action and respond to the threat. like, actually, for-real: men experience such a strong sense of pride about their pre-supposed abilities that it gets them and their families killed. they are so used to dismissing women that it literally kills them.

love it. told my father this and he said there's lies, damned lies, and statistics. a year ago i tried to get him to evacuate the house during a flash flood. he ignored me and got injured. he has told me, laughing, that he never washes his hands. he has said in the last week that women are just happier when we're cooking or cleaning.

maybe i'm overly nostalgic. but it didn't used to feel so fucking bleak. it used to feel like at least a little shameful to consider women to be sheep. it just feels like the earth is round and we are still having conversations about it being flat - except these conversations are about the most obvious forms of patriarchy. like, we know about this stuff. we've known since well before the 50's.

recently andrew tate tried to justify cheating on his partner as being the "male prerogative." i don't know what the prerogative for the rest of us would be. just sitting at home, watching the slow erosion of our humanity.

[wispscribbles]

Me @ Ghost: I sentence u to happy retirement, loser

[guzhufuren]

if characters in your live action omegaverse show do and say things like this in this order, it means there is mpreg going on, trust me okay just trust me-

[daphnalia]

and they were galpals

[jkvjimin]

STRONG BABIES 💪 | for @heybaetae [16/?] random gifs of maknae line cr. namuspromised

[gailynovelry]

I don’t like getting intense over petty things, but why are people calling large paragraphs “bad formatting” now. It’s just formatting. Sometimes, a larger paragraph serves its text well, and sometimes it doesn’t, and there is a LOT more that goes into making a text block readable than length alone.

Please please please fucking please stop inventing all-encompassing arbitrary rules about what features define “good” art and “bad” art.

[dappermouth]

Guyssss I messed up...! Miscommunicated with my tapestry printer about bleed lines and it led to some misprints going out (tapestries with white borders on one or more sides). I'm pretty sure I've emailed everybody that it might've affected but if I missed you somehow, message me so I can get you a replacement!

[pharawee]

👏😭👍👍🤧

[milkimae]

The fact that edgeworth’s office is on the 12th floor will never not be funny to me. There’s no way girlypop’s taking the elevator so is he like?? Just walking up and down 12 flights of stairs everyday ???

[wodimewoahtime]

this is hyumizisua to me

[inkskinned]

am i gonna put you in the book acknowledgements am i gonna be able to say your name without flinching am i ever gonna get a word in edgewise am i ever gonna recover the time i spent with you. computer virus kid; i arrived in your life already begging to be let in. somehow insecure i could even be your friend. like you had a line outside the door and we were all shifting our weight, begging.

you're so fucking good at that - at making people feel like they need to earn you, like you're a commodity none of us can afford. no kindness or careful communication could work on you - you were so good at just going-ghost, about deciding someone just wasn't cool-enough. something about that is super ironic. even the parts of it that weren't romantic felt like a romance book. i wanted you to like me so badly i scrubbed myself clean just so you'd spare me - what. your favor? a look?

okay okay okay. it's just a friendship - if it was even true that we were friends, if you even saw me as someone you trusted. on reddit someone would tell me girl literally just cut her out of your life, it's not that difficult. even i was aware of how fucked up the whole situation was. like, why the fuck do i even care about your approval? you're like, not even that fun to be around. you are often a little bit cruel.

but for almost four years of my life, i thought i had found someone like me. somebody who liked the same things i do. someone who liked to read and who liked making jokes with esoteric references and who spent maybe too much time on the internet and who was absolutely a little bit pretentious. i don't know, something about that was powerful and addictive.

i keep thinking about our last conversation. about how i said - okay, enough is enough. you pushed me too far, you really hurt my feelings.

and how you laughed and said - you think you're the victim?

[icelogged]

being an annoying girl should be a paid job

[bittwitchy]

Sebastian Stan. in a bathtub, which is all I actually got out of this movie.

[respectthepetty]

I like the Cutie Pie and Naughty Babe universe because the friendships make sense and are just as important as the romance, if not more.

Even when they tease me with my ghost ship, Yi x Lian, it's clear they care about each other.

And when they threaten each other, the threats land because they know and love each other.

Since these best friends know that their husband and fiancé WILL pick their friendship over them every time.

Their husband and fiancé have proven multiple times that even though they love their guys, their friendship is above all else.

And Lian and Yi are actual friends too who have each other's backs as well.

And they apologize to each other in ways that fit them (aka transfer money into each other's account when they mess up).

I don't have to squint to see the friendships because they are front and center. They are pivotal to the plot. These men love each other, and they will fight just has hard for each other as they would their romantic partner. They might lie to their partners, but they would never lie to each other.

And they will lie for each other.

They are not only friends.

They are best friends.

[veliseraptor]

truly always thinking about how my reaction to my horrible faves doing awful things is very similar to the one I had when the cat was tormenting a poor, hapless mouse that ended up in our apartment. I didn't hate the mouse or anything! but mostly my emotional response was "awww she's having so much fun! love that for her :)"