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#it's feels like an oven outside#so this seems apt#Rick Grimes#*#rg#S5#like i need an excuse#it's garbage can not garbage cannot#wear your jeans lower richard i dare you#no really i double dog dare you#hello illac furrow adonis belt v lines whatever the crap you wanna call them#i love arm#you know those sticky hands toys from the store quarter machines?#that'd be my existence#i am admiring the art that's all#im cultured
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You know. I’ve been debating this for weeks now but I’m kind of upset with your decision to have a baby. You were one of my favorite Mewtwo artist but now it feels like you’re just throwing your fans to the side like we’re trash. Don’t we matter to you at all? We’re the reason you can even make anything on Patreon but now you’re going to leave us with an unfinished story? Way to make us fee appreciated and loved…
Anon do you like
Need a hug??? /gen
#I’m going to make some bread tomorrow do you wanna help???#it tastes really good fresh out the oven with some butter#fr tho I love all of my fans but I’m not gonna apologize for making a choice#if you feel this way please like#genuinely go appreciate life outside the internet#I’m just some idiot making a story#I don’t mean to come off as rude but last I checked the choice to have a baby was between me and Q#so#respectfully#you have no right to be upset#especially if all you see me as is my content#I really hope your day/night improves and you learn to live off the love you could be feeling for yourself#and not the content/validations of some internet stranger#anonymous#ask
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When it comes to hygiene tasks and self care with disability and chronic illness, its pretty much a constant case of: don't let perfect be the enemy of the good.
Basically: it's better to do something, than to do nothing at all.
TLDR: Just because you can't do something "properly" doesn't mean you shouldn't do it at all. Do it half-way. Do it shitty. Do it barely. Do it on a technicality. But do what you can. Just try, because doing something will help you.
If you don't have the energy to scrub your body with a sponge, just rub soap over your skin with your hands.
If you don't have the energy to wash your whole body with soap, just hit the places where sweat accumulates, or where you're smelliest.
If you don't have the energy to wash with soap AT ALL, just sitting in water is better than nothing. It will wash away dirt and oils.
If you can't bathe or shower at all, a warm wash cloth is your new best friend. If that's too much, then try bath wipes. They're a bit bigger than regular wet wipes, and a bit more heavy duty. They're designed to help keep bed ridden patients clean in hospitals.
If you don't have the energy to dry yourself after a bath or a shower, just put on a bathrobe and get into bed. If you don't have the energy to get dressed afterwards, just don't. It can wait until you can.
If you don't have energy to brush your teeth for two minutes, honestly, just a cursory scrub is better than not doing anything.
If you can't brush your teeth twice a day, brush in the evenings. It will help take away the build up of food from the day.
If you don't have the energy to brush AT ALL, honestly, just take a cloth and wipe the plaque off your teeth. Rinse with mouth wash after if you'd like. Something is always better than nothing.
If you can't floss twice a day. Try once. If that's too much, try a few times a week. If that's too much, try setting aside a day once a week as a goal. If you can't keep a schedule, do it when you're able to. Hell, I keep some floss next to my bed so that if I forget and don't have the energy to go get it, I can just reach over.
If you can't iron your clothes, don't bother. Wrinkles are fine. Wear jumpers over wrinkly t-shirts. No one will know, and honestly, most people won't even care. If it's really wrinkly and it's A Big Deal And It Needs To Be Ironed, here's my life hack. Step 1: take a spray bottle, and spritz the item of clothing (while you're wearing it is easiest) until it's lightly damp. Step 2: use a hair-dryer on the clothes until they're dry. It gets rid of creases like nobody's business, it's easier than lugging out the iron and ironing board, and you get to have nice toasty warm clothes afterwards.
If you can't fold your clothes, try just hanging them up. It's less commitment. It's quicker to do. Granted, you need to have the space in order to do this, but it is also good at helping you downsize, and lets you visualise exactly what you have.
If you can't put your clothes away, invest in a couple of laundry baskets, and then just keep your clean clothes in the baskets. You can then separate washed clothes into underwear, pants, and shirts baskets. You can just leave them like that. I'm giving you permission to never fold your laundry again if you can't. Just leave it unfolded. Who's going to care? Something is better than nothing. If you can, try to put those baskets into your closet so that you can keep the clutter out of sight, and give yourself a more restful environment.
If you can't separate your clothing out into different categories and wash them "properly" (whites, warm tones, cool tones, darks, delicates / switching between hot & cold washes / paying attention to laundry instructions on the label) then just don't worry about it. If you cold wash your clothes, colours won't bleed. Maybe gradually over the course of dozens of washes there'll be some changes in hue, but it's really not as high stakes as the One Red Sock In The Whites Turns Them Pink trope makes it out to be.
I've pretty much come to the point in my life where if a piece of clothing can't survive the washer and dryer, then it's just not meant to be. I colour separate my clothes, and if I have the energy/remember I'll take my bras and jumpers out of the washing machine to drip dry. But otherwise, I leave it to the universe.
If you can't separate out your recycling, then don't. If you have a large amount of rubbish you need to get rid of but the idea of separating it out properly is stopping you from doing so, then just don't worry about it. I know it's not ideal, but if you have garbage in your room/house and you need to get rid of it, please just get rid of it. Don't let the problem get bigger and harder to deal with. Don't let "doing something properly" get in the way of keeping your living spaces clean. Please. Give yourself understanding.
If you can't wash your dishes, get paper plates. Obviously, it's not ideal, but it is better that you eat food than skipping meals. It is better that you have a clean kitchen, rather than having dishes piling up and making it harder to look after yourself.
If you can't prepare meals for yourself keep making the tasks easier and easier. If you can't do recipes, then simplify. Use pasta sauce from the jar instead of making it. Eat canned soup. Buy food you can just stick in the oven. If you eat fish fingers and microwave veggies every night, it's better than not eating anything at all. It's better than having to fork out money on take-out. If you need ready-made meals, then get them. If you're literally just eating a raw cauliflower for dinner; 1) I see you, 2) me too, sis, 3) something is better than nothing.
These are the basic things you need to do every day to function as a person. They are your activities of daily living. Brushing your teeth. Bathing or showering. Using the bathroom. Getting dressed. Eating. Drinking. Sleeping. Keeping your environment clean. You don't need to do these things perfectly, but they need to happen in order for you to have a decent quality of life.
And it breaks my heart, because I know that so many disabled people can't do these things every day. I'm not saying this to guilt or judge, I'm saying that these are basic needs; you deserve these things. These things bring dignity. If a disabled person is unable to do these things, it diminishes their quality of life. It robs them of dignity.
If you need help to do these things, Its okay to ask for help. It's okay to need help. But if you can't get that help and you have to do these things by yourself -- or you just plain want to be independent and do it without help-- then don't hold yourself to standards you can't meet.
Don't let perfect be the enemy of the good. Doing something is always better than doing nothing. Even if it's not perfect. Even if it's not done well. Do what you can.
#lord knows that im still trying to pull myself out of the muck and into independence and dignity#i had to set a rule for myself that i need to wear clean clothes every day. and that i need to wear pyjamas to bed#that one's been hard. sometimes I dont have the energy to do it and i just stay in the same clothes for two days at a time#or i go to sleep in what i was wearing. but when i do follow that rule my quality of life is drastically better#not feeling dirty or gross goes a long way to making you feel more like a person#i also made a rule that im not allowing myself to look frumpy outside anymore. that means clothes that look nice#no more trackies and pj pants and all that stuff. i basically lived in perpetual pyjamas for four years and im over it#i still dress comfortably but the important thing is that i dress. i look put together. i wear things that make me happy#(and i didnt need to buy anything to do so. i just needed to start taking better care of myself)#and i stopped letting perfect be the enemy of the good. i started doing things shitty rather than not doing it at all#and the more i keep pushing with my ADLs the better i feel#what helps is now i dont have to contend with stairs and that has made a dramatic change to what im able to accomplish#ive also finally built up enough strength in my body that im able to go to the shops by myself. so i can buy things to make easy meals#and mum doesnt mind if i just put some things in the oven or air fryer for us for dinner.#i still cant really cook. i felt bad about that for the longest time. i didnt even try bc i knew what id make would be disappointing#or it wouldnt be up to the standards of what everyone else was making. i was so sick of feeling like a let down all the time.#now i just make what i can and my mum doesnt complain bc shes in the same boat.#and yeah. having help would be nice. it would mean id be able to do more than what i can do by myself.#and its great to see how far ive come. but im not a burden. and when i have the accommodations i need i can do a lot more#i do something rather than nothing and my life has dramatically changed since then. ive just gotten better and better.#chronic illness#disability#chronic pain#spoonie#one things for certain and thats that im never going to let myself rely on anyone else ever again.#i never want to be on the other side of that ever again. I don't want to be anyone's burden. i dont want that hanging over me#i do things by myself or i dont do them at all. and god fucking willing i'll never go back to needing as much help as i used to#i really didnt realise just how much of an obstacle living with stairs was in my life. it was the biggest barrier against everything#stairs stopped me from being independent. if i couldnt traverse them i just didnt go anywhere. my world shrank so much#and not having the proper wheelchair shrinks my world even more. im stronger than i used to be but im still severely limited in where i go
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It's wild to me that people keep posting about summer temperatures being dangerous outside of any context
Like. Yes you're right and you should say it, the heat is bad and lots of people are at risk and we should all be aware of the signs of heatstroke or whatever. That's not what I'm talking about.
It's the people posting stuff about how 90° F is or isn't hot / is or isn't dangerous / is or isn't uncomfortable without any mention of humidity or wind or cloud cover.
Guys I was out doing stuff in 113° heat the other day and it was hot, yeah, but there was shade and a light breeze and basically zero humidity and it was fine. I didn't love it, but eh.
Likewise I have gone for walks in full sunlight and 80% humidity when it was 87° out and I wanted to fucking die. It's... kind of an important distinction.
#also like#is this about doing something out in that heat for thirty minutes#or about being out in that heat for four hours#or about being in a relatively cool house but needing to deal with running ac and occasionally going outside#or about being homeless in that heat#I can tell you when I step out in July and it's 117 for one second it actually feels good like you're a loaf of bread in an oven but then#oh then that second is over and it very rapidly becomes a Very Bad Time#also on that note holy shit the difference between 110 and 113 and 116 is massive to me#three degrees jump for each but hoooooooly shit
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I NEED. TO DO. OR MAKE SOMETHING. PLEASE
#actually I haven’t had this overwhelming creative energy in a while it feels TERRIBLE thank you very much#okay the thing is. there’s like many things actually so I am going to go Explode in the tags now#the first thing that I am like painfully terribly aching to do is Write something#I talked about this the other day but like. first of all I haven’t added anything to my poems collection for a while and the other day I re#d this beautifully beautifully written story and now I’m like. INEED. TO WRITE A FUCKINGN BOOK#and then there’s also Knitting. a few months ago we impulsively purchased a bunch of knitting tools and now it’s just sitting in my house b#cause I tried it once and I couldn’t do it so I kind of. gave up. now suddenly I want to like. knit a scarf AND ITS EATING AWAY AT ME#I NEED TO LIKE. SIT DOEN AND WATCH A YOUTUBE TUTORIAL AND MAN I COULD TOTALLY DO THAT BECAUSE IM ON HOLIDAY#BUT LIKE. THERES A MILLION OTHER THINGS I WANT TO DO SO IF COURSE THE OPTION MY BRAIN PICKS IS#DO NOTHING AT ALL.#also this is a bit of a silly one but like. I have this long long loooong list in my notes app that I started in 2021#and it’s just Big words. and like. the thing is they used to stick in my brain. I used to be able to add them to the list and use it whenev#needed. now I just write it down and it’s GONE and that makes me want to put myself in an oven because WHY.#I NEED. TO BE THAT PERSON. WITH THE USELESSLY ABYSSAL VOCABULARY#SO I REALLY JUST WABT TO SIT DOWN FOR 2 HOURS AND MEMORISE AND STUDY BUT then again. my brain is all or nothing and#usually it is the latter#another thing is my sketchbook. haven’t added to that in a while and I want to do that but then I will have to wait til sunset or daylight#because I physically cannot create art with artificial electrical light. but then I’ll have to wait til tomorrow and#I really also want to go outside and just exist before I have no time to after break ends#so Yeah.
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damn i want a warm sesame bagel rn
#i think the bagel shop is open until midnight but i don't feel like going outside plus it won't be fresh bc they turn off the ovens#so tomorrow morning maybe#soapbox
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Reminder for any small furry pet owners with no AC; check on your pets and wipe them down with a cool cloth. If you have some of those plastic reusable ice cubes dedicate one or a few for your pet and gently cool them down by gliding it over the fur on their necks or under their armpits.
Brought to you by; my shorthaired cat Pikica looked like roadkill until I cooled her off for a bit and now she's her happy, slightly destructive self again. After being a lil menace and strutting around she is now curled up in her spot on the couch napping.
#moca talks#pets#pikica the spawn of peace destroyer#summer heat#cats#dogs#i did this for the first time last year and now she meows at the cooler door anytime she feels hot#i take her collar off and she nuzzles against it until she's sufficiently cooled off#so yeah. if you're hot so are they#my weather app says it's 28/31°C outside and I know that if it's hot inside rn opening my balcony would feel like opening an oven#also no that's not a filter my phone camera's been like that for a while#i either need to clean it up again or I need to buy new glass#given my phone could classify as a hand warmer most of the time it might be smth else tho
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i think its obvious that i dont live well, like, i eat spoiled food and don't take care of myself, my home, or my belongings, right? everyone can see that, i'm not subtle about it. i rarely clean, i'm cheap to the point of insanity about things like food half the time, i'm not living well.
so i hope it means something serious when i say i cant fucking stand the way my dad lives
#red rambles#every other fucking appliance in this house is broken. Hey dad can i use the oven? no its broken. Hey dad can I use the upstairs bathroom?#well the toilet's broken but you can shower up there. Hey btw we only have one of two shower doors. Try not to soak the bathroom. Hey can#use the downstairs bathroom? yeah but the hot water's broken so only one of the taps on the sink does anything. Hey dad why are there holes#in the ground outside. Hey dad why's it so cold in the house. Hey. Hey#and the answer is always Something's fucking broken#but he'll shell out for fucking spotify premium. He'll buy me good earbuds but he won't get his fucking kitchen fixed#i can feel myself living similar and its really seriously making me want to fix my life lmao#i hate it#i refuse to live like this
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ok virgil is cold and all but he doesn't rival janus's living ice cube status
#he needs to preheat the house like an oven before he comes home#every inch of his body has to be covered in cloth before he can step foot outside#or mass consequences ensue#their body temperature is very important to me#virgil is a torch accumulated with the power of the sun in comparison#i feel very strongly about this#ts virgil#ts janus#janus sanders#virgil sanders#sanders sides#anxceit
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the process of making it isn't my favorite thing in the world, but nonetheless homemade garlic bread is The Best because I can make sure it will have, a) enough garlic, and b) the correct soft-to-crunchy ratio
#content is for other people#I feel like my garlic bread desires are fairly simple and yet the options for purchase so often fall short#the specific thing for me is I cut it in cross-sectional slices but not all the way through the bottom#garlic butter goes in between each slice and then it goes in the oven in foil still in loaf shape#imo this is superior than halving the loaf lengthwise and baking face up bc multiple planes of each portion will then be garlic'd#and then you can take off the foil partway through so the outside crust gets crispy but the inside stays soft and melty#....anyway this has been spontaneous kitchen opinions with James /o/
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we have officially entered permanently frozen hands and feet season
#i mean i always have cold feet and hands but now its even worse#like now my bed is like an oven but my feet somehow feel as if ive been walking on snow#and its not even that cold outside#okay unrelated but i need to clean my floors there's hair and yarn pieces all over it#okay now im really going to bed#jo says stuff#personal ramblings
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So fucking cold in my apartment right now! I have to get ready for work but I don't want to move from under the blankets.
#It is 15 degrees outside with windchill making the feels like 2 degrees#And my dumbass left the heater at 60#Gonna warm my pants in the oven
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oh ok
#i didnt . notice 😦#it kinda feels like an oven outside#38C is 100F btw#and 43C is 109.4F#the heat wont stop me from drawing tho 🔥
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watched elemental . pixar treads water ‼
#cherryz txt#i watched one a them camrips with the slots ads plastered on them which was funny#disney aint gettin a penny outta me .#anyhow its like funny as fuck how elemental is just zootopia if zootopia wished it could be turning red.#does this make sense. JNGFKJSNGDF#when they aint doin sequels theyre just ripping themselves off#its not like a Bad Film that u should Never Watch its just like . whatever#ohhh its a kids movie...... sure but like idk . kids deserve more variety i think#also that bit near the end where waterguy calls firegirl a coward is like . wat lol .#absolutely dissonant with everything about waterguy up to that point . itd make more sense for him to be like#'ive been trying to do everything i can to show u how u can be free and honest to urself but u have to take that initiative too'#or something to that affect instead of like . some boring generic schlock dialogue u know??#but then again i feel like most of the movie was generic schlock dialogue JHFKJDSNGDSLG#also the character designs were whatever . yadda yadda i hate u hyperrealism being expected of 3d animation etc etc#BUT i feel like even outside of that aspect the designs of the main 2 are just like. so first draft yk ?#i think a lot of secondary and incedental designs were more interesting but even then its like#again . treading water . someone said hey draw some fire people and water people and stuff#took the first color drafts and ran with em yk ?#i think a unique visual style wouldve helped to a degree but like . really coulda used moer time in the oven overall#ALSO. disneys first nonbinary character? on screen for 1 scene . and i swear to g-d i heard them get called her????#(obvs ppl can use any pronouns they want forever irl but like . make a big show of nonbinary character and then????)#(couldve just been camrip quality take this w a grain of salt)#(either way disney vaguely gesturing at queerness to sell rainbow pins for 20 dollars grrrrrrrrr)#capitalism kills creativity <3
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109 F equals ±42 C...
#that's pretty hot#the hottest in my city was 36 or 37 i believe#i was going feral#i had to drive 2 hours under the sun#my car window got no protection film or whatsoever#it feels like im inside an oven#the ac didn't help#cant imagine how it's like if it's 42 C outside#tapi kayaknya masih lebih panas#surabaya#atau#bekasi#wkwkwk
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it is too fucking hot in this building
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