#it's NOT ABOUT THAT
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people do The Crane Wives so dirty because they have songs about everything: toxic relationships, ancestry, love, loss, making mistakes, impostor syndrome, adoption, and so much more and not only do people make it all about romantic love (and choose the worst songs to do so lmao), but you have people PISSED at the obviously fucked up implications of these misplaced metaphors, but instead of taking it out on the people misinterpreting it, they take it out on THE LYRICS and I have to see a post with over a 100k notes saying "shut up" to one of the best lyrics from the band because it hurts their little ship, it's such a disservice
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But you guys remember Ed wasn't abusing Izzy before e10, right? We talk about them being messed up, toxic and codependent, but they weren't abusive before and some posts sounds as if he was doing it all the time. Yes, the Kraken phase was fucked up and Izzy got it the worst, but it was their shared madness, they were spiraling together. It wouldn't go that far if they didn't care about each other that much (tragic irony my beloved)
#I'm not negating all those posts talking about the cycle of abuse or that Ed could mirror his father#It's not about that#I just want to remind that Ed and Izzy were normal before#Sad and with problems but nothing extreme#Ofmd s2#Ofmd#Our flag means death#Edizzy#Edward teach#Izzy hands
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The thing about calling someone an "egg" is that it's extremely condescending. If an egg is someone who is transgender but hasn't realised it yet, then calling someone and egg is not just saying "hey I bet this person is actually transgender" it's saying "hey I bet this person doesn't understand themself"
it's SO rude. Trans people can have their own reason for not being out, or for not transitioning, or for not being 100% public about their sexuality/gender and it is not just about not understanding themself.
#held out from making this post for 10 years bc i wanted to avoid getting involved in the most thoughtless unkind discourse I've ever read#if you make egg jokes about people who aren't out yr like#literally doing the thing tabloid newspapers do about celebs sexuality#whilst also being as condescending as humanly possibly#sometimes someone is trans and not out#and actually DOES understand themself#you're not being helpful or kind for assuming otherwise#it's so patronising and rude#also if you reference that star trek thing in reply to this post then I'm legally allowed to kill you#read the post#it's not about that
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The Iliad is not about Achilles' pride, nor is Achilles an antagonist or a villain in it, nor was he ever meant to be seen as such.
#it is about a lot of things#but the thing you learned in school about hubris?#it's not about that#at all#patroclus's death was not a punishment for him#seeing it that way is a very christian framing#and an incorrect one at that#and one that is unfair to patroclus for that matter
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between itch.io bundles, humble bundles, and steam sales, i really feel like i own all the games. and yet my mutuals keep finding new $60-$70 games to talk about without me. not cool guys.
#not that i would play them if i bought them#it's not about that#it's about the principle of the thing#ideally the next step is you guys invite me over so i can lie down and watch you play#while you talk to me about what's happening#that would solve everything#adam yaps
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You know that feeling of complete desperation when you read a fic just in one sitting and that fic has been updated with a precise rhythm and you're like omg great just one day for the update but the day passes and there's no update and another one and then another one and still no update and you start wondering omg it was because of me? I somehow broke their clock worthy work. Did something happen to them? Why haven't they answered any question? Will this feeling of abandonment ever disappear?
#its just been two days and i know its completely understandable they haven't updated#it's not about that#like zero pressure to my writer mutuals#its about the experience of being a fan mostly#that feeling of anxiety
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Do I think Nandermo is going canon tonight?
I hope so, but not really.
I just don't trust this show anymore, don't get me wrong, wwdits is my favorite show, I love it with all my heart, but after experiencing last year's not exactly queerbating but invalidation (those articles and interviews saying that we were reading too much into the relationship, that why won't we just let men be friends...) It wasn't queerbating, it wasn't.
But what it was, was making fun of queer fans in a very reminicent way, and I've been through this before, so many times, I've been a gay person in fandom for over 15 years, I've been hurt before, made fun of, and I just don't trust, I can't trust them.
I guess that even after all the positivity and representation we've had lately I still have to protect my heart. After being burnt so many times putting on my clown makeup gets harder and harder.
But I really hope they'll prove me wrong
#and I know I know they've done an amazing job with representation#it's not about that#it's about those articles from last year#it's about me not trusting Paul Simms#it's my PTSD#I want to believe#but i can't#hope for the best but prepare for the worst#wwdits meta#nandermo
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Your friends watching something for the first time and getting to that scene VS you, the knower.

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#I think about this post every day#txt#fyi i posted this because the original post is unrebloggable and I did not think that it would get this many notes
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If your life is horrible and you need a new source of meaning and direction.... Do NOT find religion. Learn to identify plants.
#Me Fein#There is a terrifying worldwide shortage of people who know how to identify bramble/blackberry species.#We haven't sorted out dandelions yet#Or nettles#Getting to know your neighbours changes your life#You're no longer alone! Rubis fruitcosus is there.#Plus if you're under 40 you will suddenly be admired and lauded by old ppl who share your hobby and thought no one gave a shit anymore#Botany#Plants#When u write things about botany you can be assured they will be read by weirdos for centuries to come#Or if the text is lost itd loss will be mourned by weirdos for decades to come
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hey gamers I’ve started watching star trek does anyone else see the romantic tension between captain kirk and mr. spock
#I gotta get to the important questions first#I wouldn’t DARE ask this on reddit#no but actually I know SO little about Star Trek and I didn’t know that until I started watching#I’m intrigued I really am#star trek#star trek the original series#star trek tos#captain kirk#mr. spock#do I have to tag their full names idk#I’m only on season 1 still but I’m making headway#ack#text post#THEIR SHIP NAME IS SPIRK BAHAHAHA#THATS SO GOOD#spirk#BABAHAHAHHSHDURHDUUHEHUHEUHEUEHUE
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Look I love unconditional devotion love stories as much as the next person, but there's really something so deliciously raw about conditional devotion.
I have served you and I have loved you for decades, but I will not give up my principles for you. You cut out part of my heart and took it with you down that path that you insist on walking, but you walk it alone. Even when the bleeding, gaping hole you left in my chest kills me, I will not follow you.
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had a fascinating english class that resulted in the notes header “the forcefeminization of victor frankenstein”
#professor was very insistent about this#wild time#frankenstein#victor frankenstein#forcefem victor frankenstein#the trees speak english
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Really interesting thing I glimpsed on rednote today




I think We- we’re developing international class consciousness 
#ryders rambles#LIKE idk man i think it’s really cool how we’re learning about each other Ill be back with the reverse once I found a post on it
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being self aware suuuucks like yeah this thought pattern/behavior is stupid and pointless and a symptom. i know this. [does it anyways
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