#it was my friend who's trans fem
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There's nothing quite as healing as two trans people being mildly transphobic towards a third trans person who happens to be a dick about gender and transness
#its like ah finally someone i can express this too without worrying about if they're using this as a way to express their general bigotry#someone who i can have a nuanced conversation with#it was my friend who's trans fem#and me#a trans man#being bitchy about a third trans person#another trans man#and my friend started the conversation with#'i feel a little bad saying this because you we're sitting right next to me but...'#basically this guy passes in the general public#and expects that to translate to this overwhelming trans and very queer space#so he expects to be read as a cis man#even though he wears shirts that show his top surgery scars and always has at least one trans pride thing on him#and he thinks that just existing with people thinking hes cis is going to single handedly end toxic masculinity#and then he comes out as trans to the other trans people expecting us to be shocked#like dude#you very obviously and visibly code yourself as trans#and this is a queer enough group to have picked up on that#we already know#he has almost a superiority complex about it#especially towards me#because were the only two trans men in the group#so he's acting like hes taking down toxic masculinity left and right and im copping out by being openly trans#like first of all i was here for a year before i even started transitioning#so being open was never a choice i made thats just the way it had to be#and second of all#get over yourself#you're just some guy#and you're not even that good at the job all of us are here to do#op
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everyone always talks about ‘medic reader’ this and ‘teammate reader’ that but what abt weapons engineer/mechanic reader ?
just a silly little fella who helps out the 141 with their weapons when they go out of whack, who works very closely with the team to coordinate certain weapons for specific missions .
they’d probably have a really close bond with soap , both having fun with testing demolitions together . who’s able to add in ideas and carry conversations with you when you ramble on about weapons . johnny pulls you close to him when they get startled from the loud noise of an explosion , laughing a little at how they excuse their sudden vulnerability with ‘not expecting it to be that loud’.
price who seeks them out when he’s having issues with his cm901, having to endure your age-long lectures about not accidentally slamming the barrel to hard. he subconsciously makes sure the brush his hand over yours when he finally retrieves his now-fixed weapon.
yeah nyways weapon mech! reader has my heart
#ill add gaz nd ghost later i just got an insane creative block so i stopped there#but yayaya weapons mech reader reminds me of my friend who’s a weapons engineer for the caf !! so proud of her fr#୧ ‧₊˚ 📧 ⋅#cod modern warfare#cod mw2#cod mw3#cod x reader#cod x you#cod x y/n#john price#captian price#john price x reader#price x reader#price x you#price cod#john soap mactavish#john mactavish#soap x reader#johnny mctavish x reader#soap cod#cod fanfic#call of duty#cod drabble#gn reader#fem reader#male reader#trans fem reader#trans masc reader
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Just a reminder for my fellow “masculine” presenting gays that while it’s totally normal to be worried about what the next 4 years could mean for our community, we need to have some perspective. You and I have the privilege of blending in with cishets in a way that our more effeminate and trans peers simply don’t have. This makes them easier to spot and target, which is why we see much higher rates of discrimination and violence against them compared to the rest of the community. This is especially true for trans people. So while it’s valid to be worried just remember who’s really in danger here, we have to have their backs!
Something as simple as offering to walk a friend home at night when they don’t feel safe, accompanying them on a trip or for an appointment, or even just affirming to them they’re safe with you can have a such a huge impact. Now more than ever it’s so important we stand in solidarity together as a community and show our support for each other. Don’t forget your privilege and do what you can to keep our fem/trans peers safe!
#Sorry for the rant but I have lot of fem/trans friends who are genuinely terrified right now and my heart breaks for them#text
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So... I'm going to do it. I'm going to come out before this month is over. The exact date is dubious, but I will. Honestly it's terrifying, but I've held this in far too long and I can't wait anymore.
I could still use a bit of support in keeping my nerves up, so, y'all mind giving me some support to keep me pushing forward?
#queer issues#queerness#queer culture#queer#trangender#transgender#trans#transfeminine#transgirl#transfem#trans fem#trans woman#lgbtq+#lgbtq issues#lgbtq#lgbt#I will be out to at least my mom by the end of this month#And if that goes well#I may start opening up to some of my closer friends who don't know#lgbt+#important#personal#personally important#Been building up for three years now#i'm very scared#This also means it'll be my first birthday where some people actually know me as me irl#so that'll be interesting#christ this is terrifying#coming out#trans community
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'[Insert feminine term/behavior/fashion/etc here] transcends gender!!!'Well,maybe i wanna be a girl anyway.How about that.Bitch
#genuinely this is one of the most annoying mentalities ever when applied to strangers💀it's always fem stuff too never masc stuff#i'm not a trans woman but i am a biracial black one who was raised by the white side of their family and had ONE girl black friend as a kid#and i'm autistic too so you imagine how deprived of appropriate femininity for someone like me i was and yes i was a big tomboy back then#but now i'm super femme and it brings me so much healing and comfort and fun and even-you guessed it-gender euphoria!!!#which is why i id as transmascfem instead of just transmasc because my womanhood is instrictly tied to literally every part of me#i fucking like that being femme means i'm a girl!!!i'm also a man but i refused to crack for so long because i thought i had to give that up#i got this shoved onto me directly for the first time on a fic about a transfem egg hc too you 'transan///drophobia' bitches are sick#misogyny cw#transmisogyny#transmasc#transmasculine#trans men#demigirl#bigender#genderfluid#femme#femmegender#xenogender#catgender#dragongender#ghostgender#softgirlgender#momgender#autigender#plantgender#transmascfem#trans women#herogender#💌#summerposting
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sometimes I like. forget how much I like girls cuz all my fictional thoughts tend to revolve around men but god. I fucking love women
#a little ironic that i KNOW i like men but all my actual crushes have been on ppl who are women or fem-aligned#ah technically there was mo. she was trans at the time...? so i did like a man then#i think it mostly comes down to i form crushes on friends and all my friends r fandom aligned so largely fem#thoughts.ddz
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chat,,, chat the voices keep telling me to bring her back,,,,
#boy oh boy only my friends will have any idea who this is<333#i mean maybe not after redesigning her almost beyond recognition but yknow#nova<3333 my old sona#boy we had a good run#but then my gender got trans'd and she got left behind#BUT i have so many plans to put them through the horrors you dont even know chat#oh and shes trans fem/genderfae now btw#i will be getting her more pronouns too<33#because whats an oc if i dont give them copious amounts of neopronouns am i right chat#anyways yeah#the horrors#:3#art#drawing#digital art#digital drawing#furry#sfw furry#sfw furry art#oc#oc art#oc artwork#Spotify
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hateeee when ur venting with ur trans friends and they call u an egg 😒 like you're right i love you but guyssss don't say thaaat omg!
#my 2 best friends are trans men and sometimes i tell them that if i was a guy i would be into men and they gave me the You Are Trans Stare#and i say that despite being lesbian and loving being lesbian i don't like the word 'girlfriend' or even wife#the idea of being someone's girlfriend or wife even a woman's makes me so icked out idk#i also tell my friends how like. gender is performance and a means of attracting ppl bc if i like someone who tells me they like femmes#by god i am going to become the most femme femme this world has ever femmed#i didn't know people actually dressed femme unless they were trying to get someone's attention. whaaat.
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i hate that i get the biggest surge of creative energy and Do Stuff motivation between the hours of 2am-5am. Like i’d like a normal sleep schedule.
ALSO! It’s I want to Do Stuff with Others. Like everyones asleep as they should be! But I’m over here like “oh I should ask this person what they think of this idea. Lets make this thing together”
Also! Wish capitalism would fucking die. Everyones busy and has jobs (and school but thats important stuff so please do it) and I’m over here being a NEET. Actually it’s embarrassing but moving on. (got a school advisor app thing this week super excited and nervous <not for reasons you’d think>) But like, I /know/ friends who’d want to create and do things but unfortunetly are burned out by work and school and shitty fucking people.
Can’t wait to get into the film program. Little scared cause I don’t want to have to deal with the whole “Oh u don’t watch movies? What was the first marvel movie budget” or smth. It was really fuckin annoying in highschool. And it felt like it was cause I was “fem presenting” (I wasn’t. I was p masc. Just higher voice, small, quiet and all around fem socialized) So idk, the way I react and read the situation is an attack on my knowledge <Which I’ll always admit I live under a rock>
#snazum talks#that got long and derailed lmao#once had a dude who has no idea im trans p sure ask me a basic hockey question#it was ‘do you know carey price’ and YEAH DUH#he got very confused as to why I got defensive and agressive and I blamed it on being tired idk#i fuckinf hate that instant response to be defensive about knowledge but i cant help it#especially when growing up its assumed u dont know basic stuff cause ur a woman or just into it to see cool#this is what i mean by fem socialized.#also live with my mother who believes women cant do men jobs (my dad laughs at this idea) when i was like#‘yo its easy to fix the tub found a yt vid’ but shes like ‘oh no just wait for ur uncle or my bf’ like brooo we can fix it now!!#anyways yeah dude i could talk forever its bad#if u see me talking online a lot its cause my friends r busy and i cant socialize with anyone
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How many kinseys are you, if you don't mind me asking?
Don't really know honestly, I'm mostly attracted to girls at the moment but I think at least some of that is coincidental. The major axis of attraction for me is not gender, but more proximity to transness. Trans people are so hot.
I think in terms of actually being in a relationship with someone, I don't think I'd mind as long as they understood Gender and I didn't have to explain myself to them.
#I think if I had to label my sexuality it would be something like “t4t bi lesbian”#Though there's a reason I don't really do labels or anything beyond saying I'm trans#Anyway most of this is hypothetical#The only person I've actually had sex with so far is a friend who's a cis (fem)boy#So calling myself a lesbian is a bit of a stretch#I am curious what prompted this ask though
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I don't understand why there's such a pressure on representing your gender identity outwardly when it's literally so fucking dangerous. If you're brave enough good for you. If you have enough mental strength, good for you. But y'all need to stop taking that and using it as an example of how trans ppl should present themselves and then making them feel less than and invalid when they don't do it your way. It takes a lot of strength and a lot of bravery and a lot of mental strength, to be able to do that. Like an astronomical amount. Expecting everyone to have that ability is weird. And I know, logically, people don't expect that. When you actually sit down and have a nuanced conversation, everyone understands this.. but the way trans ppl who don't pass or don't outwardly represent a binary gender on their bodies, get invalidated and treated like they're not good enough bc they're not as brave as you,is ridiculous. It needs to stop.
#people are superficial and self absorbed#yes trans ppl too#and when a trans person like that transitions or outwardly expresses themselves and even moreso when they “pass”#they DO (not always) make it a point to invalidate you or leave you out of the conversation#if youre not able to express yourself as well as they are#ppl put others down in order to make themselves feel valid#thats gotta stop#ive been irl friends with 4 trans guys#all who outwardly transitioned and are expressive and open about it#all 4 of those trans guys have excluded me from my identity#misgendered me relentlessly#i keep having to reiterate that im a man bc ppl see long hair and and “fem” clothing#and imply that im not a man bc of it#yall are obsessed with cis normativity#youre obsessed with the gender binary#youre obsessed with pink meaning girl and blue meaning boy#you have not done the work to unlearn that ignorance at all#stop making ppl suffer bc youre insecure and ignorant#anyways its easier for me to look the way ive always looked and to be hidden. im used to living that life. i can cope with this saddness and#distress ive had since i was 4.im used to it... i cannot cope with more pain and distress added on by making myself an open target for hate#trans ppl arent martyrs and we should stop forcing ppl who arent comfortable and dont feel safe from the public and themselves#to be martyrs
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and remember kids, one transmascs dysphoria is a fems euphoria
Aka ftm and mtf clothing swaps are always beautiful to me
#Lovelovelove finding a genderqueer person who shares my size#GET ALL THE FEM CLOTHES MY FAMILY GIVES ME AHAHAA#They came over once and i threw like three skirts/dresses#Peyton rants#Also not just trans ppl also genderqueer ppl all around#I lean more masc when it comes to clothes#Even though im genderfluid :3#And my genderfluid friend is more fem#So we go#🤝🤝🤝#FRIENDSHIP
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fuck it when the queue runs out it runs out. i'm going to cohost and furry fediverse. i'll update this post here when i do but i want to go to bed lol Cohost: https://cohost.org/norrkatt Mastodon: https://bark.lgbt/@Norrkatt
#one thing i am frankly tired of is me and my trans fem sisters / my thembos / etc being harrassed just for existing#by fucking dumbasses who skim read an american biology textbook from fuckin 1982#and have the religious (if not just internal if theyre athiest or agnostic) brainrot that of a medieval peasant#i swear to god. if youre lgbTphobic emphasis on the t in any way shape or form youre on the losing side of history#there is literally NOTHING YOU CAN DO to disprove that because time is a circle my friend#ever repeating an algorythm#like if you cannot look at another human being with love or just leave them alone#just because you cannot understand#you need therapy#and before someone implies i do....i am in it. i am diagnosed and fucking medicated. sugma#and i hate talking about heavy shit. bro i just wanna be online and joke around but bigots keep fucking around
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ughhh soooo many cool trans women work at the local nerd store :’3
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ugh
#eli.txt#having thoughts. mainly abt how like. most ppl in my life who arent in my friend group probably wont believe me if i say im trans#since im pretty fem presenting most of the time and i like it that way but they wouldnt Get It#my family sure as fuck wouldnt get it. my mom wouldnt get it. no one would get it theyd probably think im lying for attention#they tend to think i do that like when i said 'hey i think im autistic' a lot of my relatives and family friends straight up said i was lyin#i dont want to like. never come out. at least my mom deserves to know and i want her to know but when i think about how no one would Get It.#i just want to cry a little ngl. they dont fucking get it#im not going to sacrifice the way i like to look and act just to make people understand me better#bc. i know my mom wouldnt get it. but i know she loves me so much that she would try to get it.#there are people in my family i know wouldnt bother to try to get it if i was the most binary masc presenting trans guy in the world.#and i dont care to try to please them. they dont even have to ever know. its my mom that scares me#ive had. very few. discussions abt the genderisms with her. they never go well.#shout out to when i said i wanted a binder and my mom started crying. lol ✌#idk man i just. goddammit i wish i could just beam the way i interact w my gender into other peoples minds so they Get It but i cant do that#idk!!!!!! this is stupid#i just i am sad
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i really need some trans masculine people in my life, like where do i find them.
#honestly i wrote and rewrote a post about a specific thing that happened recently where i felt misgendered by a friend and confused on how#to feel about it#but really the problem comes from having no one in my life to talk about this with#like i know trans women and i know feminine nb people but i want...#like there really feels like there's this missing component#this isn't a new thought im just idk#i need more friends in general and i feel like ive been isolating myself instead#i feel like I'm in this weird middle ground where I'm not dude enough for the dudes but im more dude then the *waves hand* like#queer fem crowd#and those seem to be the only groups around me#like I'd really like to talk to other people who are on t#also i want a trans bf 😔 there I'll say it#release it into the universe or whatever#(but also i just want friends)
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