#it was my friend who's trans fem
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There's nothing quite as healing as two trans people being mildly transphobic towards a third trans person who happens to be a dick about gender and transness
#its like ah finally someone i can express this too without worrying about if they're using this as a way to express their general bigotry#someone who i can have a nuanced conversation with#it was my friend who's trans fem#and me#a trans man#being bitchy about a third trans person#another trans man#and my friend started the conversation with#'i feel a little bad saying this because you we're sitting right next to me but...'#basically this guy passes in the general public#and expects that to translate to this overwhelming trans and very queer space#so he expects to be read as a cis man#even though he wears shirts that show his top surgery scars and always has at least one trans pride thing on him#and he thinks that just existing with people thinking hes cis is going to single handedly end toxic masculinity#and then he comes out as trans to the other trans people expecting us to be shocked#like dude#you very obviously and visibly code yourself as trans#and this is a queer enough group to have picked up on that#we already know#he has almost a superiority complex about it#especially towards me#because were the only two trans men in the group#so he's acting like hes taking down toxic masculinity left and right and im copping out by being openly trans#like first of all i was here for a year before i even started transitioning#so being open was never a choice i made thats just the way it had to be#and second of all#get over yourself#you're just some guy#and you're not even that good at the job all of us are here to do#op
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gofishygo · 8 months ago
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everyone always talks about ‘medic reader’ this and ‘teammate reader’ that but what abt weapons engineer/mechanic reader ?
just a silly little fella who helps out the 141 with their weapons when they go out of whack, who works very closely with the team to coordinate certain weapons for specific missions .
they’d probably have a really close bond with soap , both having fun with testing demolitions together . who’s able to add in ideas and carry conversations with you when you ramble on about weapons . johnny pulls you close to him when they get startled from the loud noise of an explosion , laughing a little at how they excuse their sudden vulnerability with ‘not expecting it to be that loud’.
price who seeks them out when he’s having issues with his cm901, having to endure your age-long lectures about not accidentally slamming the barrel to hard. he subconsciously makes sure the brush his hand over yours when he finally retrieves his now-fixed weapon.
yeah nyways weapon mech! reader has my heart
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mattoyaki · 25 days ago
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Just a reminder for my fellow “masculine” presenting gays that while it’s totally normal to be worried about what the next 4 years could mean for our community, we need to have some perspective. You and I have the privilege of blending in with cishets in a way that our more effeminate and trans peers simply don’t have. This makes them easier to spot and target, which is why we see much higher rates of discrimination and violence against them compared to the rest of the community. This is especially true for trans people. So while it’s valid to be worried just remember who’s really in danger here, we have to have their backs!
Something as simple as offering to walk a friend home at night when they don’t feel safe, accompanying them on a trip or for an appointment, or even just affirming to them they’re safe with you can have a such a huge impact. Now more than ever it’s so important we stand in solidarity together as a community and show our support for each other. Don’t forget your privilege and do what you can to keep our fem/trans peers safe!
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fobnsfwdoodlesbackup · 11 days ago
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Finding out Pete wrote the lyrics for Baby Blackout by Daisy Grenade and going insane. She was a teen girl writing about a breakup your honor. Anyways, here's Pete on the cover of his own shojo manga because he deserves it and I think he'd like it.
(more webweave-y gender truthing type shit below the cut)
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demuredeadbeat · 8 days ago
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I don't consider myself part of 'the queer community'. I actively avoid groups, labels, gatherings. I don't need to describe why.
But is transandrophobia one of the reasons?
Lol, duh. No shit.
#deadbeat talks.#trans nsft#gay nsft#mlm nsft#transandrophobia#transmisandry#misandry#'being a man must be so boring' 'don't you just hate it when men' 'being a gay can't be a choice bc who would willingly pick men?'#choke?? lol.#vent post#personal vent#hell repackaged and internalized homophobia is just shoved in my face by fellow gay men like. im not laughing at your self hatred.#i like men. you wanna be friends with the manhaters so bad go kiss them then. since kissing men is SUCH a fucking pain.#you wanna specify bigots specify bigots. you wanna specify trends specify trends.#you're not specifying when you fucking say men and congrats i don't wanna hang around your fucking fem only club.#saw 'being a man must be so boring' as a reel comment and ik exactly who they meant and ik exactly who it actually hits.#not interested not interested not interested blocked blocked blocked - I'm very. Fucking. Tired.#Ive ditched several 'friends'. girls. fem aligned ppl. nonbinary ppl. 'oh im not talking about like- TRANS men-' I'll say it again. choke.#i did not work through cultural fearmongering as a child teaching me to be scared of my male classmates and scared of my masculine self.#i did not work through unlearning homophobia and accepting femininity through detaching dysphoria from hating all things feminine.#i did not learn the difference between toxic masculinity and healthily being oneself and ultimately accepting myself as a man.#i did not go through being accepting myself as tomboy girl then a hesitantly queer nonbinary then a finally steady trans man.#to have practically EVERYTHING I FUCKING SEE from supposed allies queers and feminists be 'lol men amirite'.#again.#choke.#i did not learn the markers of abuse assault and true predatory behavior and how it was separate from gender and anyone could do it.#for ppl to then turn on ME for being a man.#you want your abusive boyfriend your misogynistic father your creeper uncle your hatecriming classmates whoever to treat you as a person.#you're not. talking. to all. men.#and you're sure as shit not talking to me.
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monorayjak · 1 year ago
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So... I'm going to do it. I'm going to come out before this month is over. The exact date is dubious, but I will. Honestly it's terrifying, but I've held this in far too long and I can't wait anymore.
I could still use a bit of support in keeping my nerves up, so, y'all mind giving me some support to keep me pushing forward?
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letheldosage · 2 months ago
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sometimes I like. forget how much I like girls cuz all my fictional thoughts tend to revolve around men but god. I fucking love women
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thenamessparkplug · 5 months ago
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chat,,, chat the voices keep telling me to bring her back,,,,
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dykeofmisfortune · 11 months ago
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hateeee when ur venting with ur trans friends and they call u an egg 😒 like you're right i love you but guyssss don't say thaaat omg!
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snazum · 11 months ago
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i hate that i get the biggest surge of creative energy and Do Stuff motivation between the hours of 2am-5am. Like i’d like a normal sleep schedule.
ALSO! It’s I want to Do Stuff with Others. Like everyones asleep as they should be! But I’m over here like “oh I should ask this person what they think of this idea. Lets make this thing together”
Also! Wish capitalism would fucking die. Everyones busy and has jobs (and school but thats important stuff so please do it) and I’m over here being a NEET. Actually it’s embarrassing but moving on. (got a school advisor app thing this week super excited and nervous <not for reasons you’d think>) But like, I /know/ friends who’d want to create and do things but unfortunetly are burned out by work and school and shitty fucking people.
Can’t wait to get into the film program. Little scared cause I don’t want to have to deal with the whole “Oh u don’t watch movies? What was the first marvel movie budget” or smth. It was really fuckin annoying in highschool. And it felt like it was cause I was “fem presenting” (I wasn’t. I was p masc. Just higher voice, small, quiet and all around fem socialized) So idk, the way I react and read the situation is an attack on my knowledge <Which I’ll always admit I live under a rock>
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kinkyrius · 9 months ago
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How many kinseys are you, if you don't mind me asking?
Don't really know honestly, I'm mostly attracted to girls at the moment but I think at least some of that is coincidental. The major axis of attraction for me is not gender, but more proximity to transness. Trans people are so hot.
I think in terms of actually being in a relationship with someone, I don't think I'd mind as long as they understood Gender and I didn't have to explain myself to them.
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nururu · 1 year ago
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I don't understand why there's such a pressure on representing your gender identity outwardly when it's literally so fucking dangerous. If you're brave enough good for you. If you have enough mental strength, good for you. But y'all need to stop taking that and using it as an example of how trans ppl should present themselves and then making them feel less than and invalid when they don't do it your way. It takes a lot of strength and a lot of bravery and a lot of mental strength, to be able to do that. Like an astronomical amount. Expecting everyone to have that ability is weird. And I know, logically, people don't expect that. When you actually sit down and have a nuanced conversation, everyone understands this.. but the way trans ppl who don't pass or don't outwardly represent a binary gender on their bodies, get invalidated and treated like they're not good enough bc they're not as brave as you,is ridiculous. It needs to stop.
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pey-up · 1 year ago
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and remember kids, one transmascs dysphoria is a fems euphoria
Aka ftm and mtf clothing swaps are always beautiful to me
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norrkatt · 1 year ago
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fuck it when the queue runs out it runs out. i'm going to cohost and furry fediverse. i'll update this post here when i do but i want to go to bed lol Cohost: https://cohost.org/norrkatt Mastodon: https://bark.lgbt/@Norrkatt
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toadsrbutch · 1 year ago
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ughhh soooo many cool trans women work at the local nerd store :’3
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dreamcast-official · 1 year ago
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ugh
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