#it sucks!

[tiefighter]

also, if you respect the person enough to give a shit you WILL use their pronouns, because if you don't try you're not worth being around.

*grabs your hands and speaks to you in a tone that is so gentle* they/them pronouns stop being universal once you learn a person's pronouns. Sometimes that person's pronouns will include they/them and in that specific case you are allowed to keep using those pronouns for that person. In any case where you learn a persons pronouns and that person doesn't use they/them, you should no longer use those pronouns for that person. If you continue to use they/them pronouns knowing that person doesn't use them, you are now misgendering that person. Kindly stop doing that please. Thank you, I love you.

[geeneelee]

To me. Especially given his “that’s the part of you I envy” line. Toshiro reads a lot like someone who is also autistic but has learned masking and social cues the hard way as someone with a much stricter upbringing.

And yeah if you have been shamed into thinking that being direct is bad and openly emotional is shameful then running into someone who ignores those rules even when it’s causing problems is incredibly frustrating. It’s not fair to the other person but being forced to learn to mask and meeting someone who can’t or won’t can cause intense resentment.

[spursthatjinglejanglejingle]

The way that Kim breaks his one cigarette a day rule if Harry doesn't ask him to join precinct 41 at the end of the game but not after the tribunal when he (depending on the ending) kills two people, gets the shit beaten out of him, and watches his partner almost die breaks my heart. Especially with how the cigarette he smokes after the tribunal is described as "having medicinal properties", it implies that being left behind is more painful to him than getting beaten until he's concussed.

[w3irdoartist]

Hay yoh!

I'm trying to get more art done, but I hit a block rn. So gimme some time and I'll probably be posting more art every other day.

Meanwhile here's an Auron sketch

And I'm opening commissions again soon

[gayrob0t]

I hope my work look implies I am taking things very seriously

[lilirot]

The whole LaDS should have a male MC thing is like frustrating not because I disagree with the sentiment it's because I know it will never happen. LaDS is made by Infold, a chinese company, and the CCP does not like the LGBT+. Even if they developers wanted to, which it's impossible to know if they do or not, they couldn't because they could get in trouble with the goverment. That's why the whole "Hey, no gay fanart for the contests" thing happened. No one should be harrassing other players for having a male MC OC, or shipping the boys together. Like, just ignore/block them if it offends you so fucking bad. But, also, you're screaming into the wind if you think the developers will add a male MC option unfortunately.

[mazzy-rockstar]

Happy 18th birthday Whatever People Say I Am, That’s What I’m Not.

[nei-ning]

Me: I feel like I want to wrap up Christmas gifts (I have medium size bag full of them already).

Me: *gets the gifts, Christmas gift papers, scissors and tape on living room's floor* I should have Christmas stickers where you write the person's name. Where the heck I have put those? I bought a lot of them last year. *checks the places where they should be* Hm, weird. They are gone. Well, I can use a marker on the paper. I bought 2 of them from Japan in 2019. I should have them here... *check the drawer* They are gone! That can't be right! They have to be here!

Me: *starts to check the drawer, finding freely roaming stickers and sticker book* *sits down and puts the stickers in the sticker book - This takes 15-30min*

Me: *starts to put items back in the drawer after making a mess, not finding markers* I can't believe they are not here. Where the heck they could be...? Oh well, I keep searching.

Me: *eventually finds big marker which is used on writing on clothes* ... Well, this have to do for now. I need to buy smaller marker next week if I can go to near by town.

Me: *sits down and start to wrap gifts* *wraps 2 tiny gifts* Huh, I'm done! I can't do more. I continue tomorrow.

ALL my energy went on searching those damn markers! >:O

[yaoist]

every time something senseless and terrible happens i see more people forced to swallow the "life is hell and people inflict incredible senseless violence on each other and also unthinkable horrors happen every day for no reason and everyone who could stop them chooses not to" pill

[mozukumi]

the urge to not discourse post and not lose precious moments of my life on this earth to online arguments

vs

the absurdity of seeing people discuss their real lived experiences of being attacked by dogs and being told that it's their fault for having bad vibes and the need to respond.

FIGHT!

[rolandkaros]

lol at the Alcaraz post about Zverat…proves your point

i'm assuming you mean his insta post of them playing together......yeah i mean his socials may or may not be run by someone else so it might not be him specifically posting them...........but even if it wasn't him he's definitely a player that's been super buddy buddy with zverev anyway. idk. it's tough. but also we've known this for a while. big sigh and move on i guess

[fractalkiss]

re-read an old fic throughout the whole day. this was the fic from a prev fandom that made me want to start writing and posting fic 6 years ago. it's crazy how so much of it is still in theory formative to me but why do I feel like I've changed beyond recognition

[plottwiststudios]

Storytime! Page 1 of 19

It’s an oldie with writing years older than Women of Xal, but it’s a neat ride! The premise is literally the title: Don’t say the word, and you win. Written by the Women of Xal guy and drawn by the Women of Xal gal. I’ll (try to) queue up the other pages so we reveal 1 page a day at 12PM EST.

Artist Link: @nekojirou

[anti-transphobia]

I do feel bad having a lot of reblogs centering around transmasc issues specifically and not more posts about transfem and nonbinary people, but unfortunately, repulsive lateral violence is the current discourse, which means that a lot of posts made about those issues are said BECAUSE "who is actually the most oppressed" is the current topic of discussion. So even posts that seem normal or even agreeable have language you have to look suspiciously at and when you check op you do in fact find that those posts about transmisogyny are because they got mad trans men are speaking up about the violence they face.

It's very similar to how ace discourse was. Completely normal seeming posts, in the context of a really bad couple of years where saying you're ace/aro publicly even once led to getting anon hate, were actually criticisms of the idea that other people face hardships. Hell, though people scoffed at it when I said it, even completely unrelated FANDOM posts could be clocked as being made by someone whose current fixation is hating on aspec people by the way they keysmashed. Because it wasn't just a discourse, but like a fandom, and fandoms follow quirks and trends and I could read it in a keysmash easily, check their blogs, confirm I was right, and block.

Anyway my point being that the issues, general and more specific, faced by non-transmasc trans people INCLUDING those issues caused by other trans ppl is EXTREMELY important to me, however I just unfortunately don't see a lot of people talking about it in good faith. And hell, me talking about my experiences about how afab trans people have harassed, sexually assaulted, misgendered, body shamed me, and leveraged their agab specifically to harm and exclude me for not being like them is something that I can't talk about without worry of it coming off as "trans men are evil". That's just the current culture. A reasonable worry of a post sounding like thinly veiled transphobia is silencing victims of the thing these transmasc oppression deniers claim to hate.

Anyway I definitely do reblog good posts like that when I see em but I'm really not on Tumblr much anymore

[docholligay]

Fuck the other beatles I guess, why the fuck do IMAGINE?