#it has so much I common with GF and yet there's not a lot of love for it
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1stposition · 2 months ago
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Ngl can y’all pack up this “stud who couldn’t pick up her gf” trend on tik tok cuz it’s seriously lame as fuck. I know y’all r tryna be funny and I can usually take a joke but I failed to see what’s funny..
Y’all continuously expose yourselves as weirdos because why am I seeing comments full of 101 repackaged homophobia and misogyny???!!! Wrap it up.
All it takes is ONE stud to go viral on the internet for yall to start comparing studs to men, dogpiling them, invalidating their identities, spreading anti-black, misogynistic, and homophobic rhetoric, and start reinforcing toxic ideas of masculinity AND IM SICK OF ITTTTTT.
Bc why the fuck r yall comparing her to jojo siwa?? is yall fuckin for real?????? A lot of yall needa reflect on why y’all hold masculine women to the same standards as cis men QUICKLY
EVERY DAY yall get online bashing stud/butch lesbians and giving hetero mfs the green light to target and shit on them and it fucking infuriates me. It shows that yall view them as a performance, not individuals that have broadly unique relationships with masculinity. Y’all shove your heteronormative standards of masculinity onto studs and put them in a box as if they exist for your amusement.
Leave that woman alone bc it’s seriously getting annoying that we have to keep telling yall to RESPECT MASC LESBIANS. Quit degrading her because YOU’RE insecure about your masculinity and feel the need to belittle someone to feel better about yourself. It’s sad loser behavior. I hope she’s not reading yall hateful ass comments and feeling bad about herself. Y’all know that the shit yall post online can hurt people and it’s fucked up y’all don’t care.
Also idgaf about the “it’s because she got stood up by a man” SOOOO????? What does that have to do with yall projecting your insecurities onto someone else?????? Why do yall hold masc lesbians to this standard of being better than men at everything????? That’s an internal issue, deal w it and stop making it everyone else’s problem.
And to the fems that r hating, I’m disappointed yet again but not surprised bc for whatever reason so many of yall feel the need to make it known u view masc lesbians as inferior to the rest of the community and I will never understand it. Y’all r too dumb to realize how stupid u sound when u say shit like “they sleeping on us fems” bc whooooooo???? Why r yall always competing w studs????? It’s mad weird
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Boooo tomatoes tomatoes throwing tomatoes 🍅 👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾
And to the mfs that r commenting “she needs to start lifting” “she’s supposed to be strong” ACCORDING TO WHOOOOO???????? LMFAO TF. WHO R UUU????? You’re a fucking nobody talking shit online. Your opinion is irrelevant and holds no value, shut up. Deadass.
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Did y’all forget about the existence of disabled studs/butches while typing this nonsense??? It sure sounds like it. It’s ableist as fuck to say that physical strength is the determining factor of masculinity, cuz BULLSHIT. It’s NOT. Someone being unable to lift as much as the average man does NOT discredit their masculinity r u serious??? How someone defines THEIR masculinity is personal and not for u to validate!!
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OH!!! -And fuck social expectations!!! NEWFLASH: NOBODY HAS TO CONFORM TO ANY EXPECTATIONS SOCIETY FORCES UPON THEM!!! Where tf did the “responsibilities for relationships” part even come from???? A woman (or man) can provide protection and safety for their partner in various ways, not just physical.. but to even assume that someone is incapable of being a protector because they’re not physically strong is FALSE!!! Log off!!! This is textbook ableism and ignorance at its finest
I swear if y’all just picked up a book or read an article on the complexity of stud/butch lesbians we wouldn’t need to constantly address this shit. Y’all wouldn’t call butchfemme dynamics heteronormative. Honestly, if yall just started using common fucking sense and minding your business that would solve majority of the problem. It doesn’t take a genius to tell u that masculinity is a made up concept and that it can be anything u want it to be, not just the shitty patriarchal version y’all push onto people.
I also wanna clarify I’m aware that the girl who posted the original video stated that the stud is NOT her gf and that she wishes yall would stop bashing her and gtfo out her comment section (rightfully so). I just wanted to speak out about this video that’s been circling around recently bc I’m sick of y’all disrespecting stud/butch lesbians
And real quick since the straight men think they’re hot shit for shitting on masc women and lesbians - especially shut the fuck up. Ty.
To all the studs and butches (disabled included) reading this, I want u to always remember how important your existence is to this world. I look up to u with so much admiration and gratitude. I’m happy I get to experience living on the same planet with such amazing, beautiful souls like yours. Fuck what anyone else says, stay true to yourself and continue inspiring all the baby gays and butches out there. There’s a community that cherishes u and has your back forever. I love u x 💋
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witlesswitnesstm · 5 months ago
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Hmm I remember talking with my gf about this on vc, but, the Jayce and Mel vs Viktor in the council room fight. I was trying to figure out what made it so weirdly sensual.
I mean there’s the obvious example of the weird moves that Viktor pulls when grappling/choking Jayce and whatnot, but I was thinking. Choking/grappling is really common in arcane. Arcane has a ton of different fights, so, why is this one different? I’m not a fighting expert, this is just my observation.
The main 2 matchups I’m thinking about to compare are Jinx vs Ekko and Vi vs Sevika.
Jinx and Ekko are literally a canon couple, and yet their fight didn’t have much romantic tension at all. Instead they focus on the nostalgia aspect, paralleling the childish, rebellious aspect of fighting vs the brutal reality. It’s more about the dichotomy, so it makes sense why there wasn’t much romantic tension, despite Ekko literally straddling Jinx when he’s about to make the final hit.
With Vi vs Sevika, the tension is a lot more clear, with Sevika slowing down, making intentional moves as a power play (ex. Holding Vi’s chin, pinning her against the wall with her arm) but it doesn’t read as odd for a few reasons, I think. One, the age difference between Vi and Sevika. Sevika was shown before the explosion looking relatively similar to her act 2-3 appearance, so it’s inferred that she’s a lot older, and therefore, more experienced. 2 is the lack of history between them. Vi and Sevika had never formally interacted before their fight, only going off the face that she knew where Jinx was.
I feel like both of these factors make Sevika sort of playing with Vi more of a predator vs prey dynamic, or, David vs Goliath kind of. We know Sevika’s capability and status as Silco’s right hand woman at this point. We’ve seen Vi fight too, (even more) but it still feels like a power imbalance imo
This kind of power play is what the writers intended to do with the Viktor fight, I presume, but it ended coming across as really weird.
Jayce and Viktor already have a history of romantic tension, so this fight only exasperated it. Jayce and Viktor had known each other for years, making Viktor’s decision to go slow and be so intentionally dominant, a lot more, intimate? Idk, idk what I’m talking about. Mel is there as well, but her power set kind of disengages her from hand to hand combat, unlike Jayce. Although Viktor reaching out to her through her shield was 𝓯𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓴𝔂 in its own right.
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flowery-mess · 1 year ago
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Noah dating tall girl
This one is for us tall girlies, I usually see Noah and small girl and I'm not a fan of size kink, so here you go tall queens💗
Noah is really tall, so you'd still get to be shorter than him
Or if you're taller than him I can imagine it's just a bit and nothing to too noticeable
So you wouldn't miss out on him towering over you or feeling of protection that comes with his height
You'd be a perfect height for him to give you forehead kiss without bending his head
It's also very practical for living together, because you can have all drawers or mirrors instaled one way that fits both of you
You can share clothes (I do that with my bf and I love it) and it still looks good on both of you, it's not too long or too loose
When you go to a concert together, which I can see would be a common activity while dating Noah, you easily agree on where to stand in the crowd so you both have the best view
At his own concert he can always see you in the crowd, if you want to enjoy the show from crowd not from backstage
Hear me out - in dating stage Noah would drop you off after date and you would have a make out session in front of your place, because you wouldn't invite him in just yet, and he doesn't have to bend down to kiss you, so he lasts longer right?
Sex is great because all of 8 limbs can reach everywhere
And also you can do all positions
In missionary he can easily give you kisses, because your faces are on the same level
Which is also great for eye contact during missionary
Omg there is so much practical things
Holding hands? Also solved
You want to wear heels? Also solved, because you're still shorter, the same height or a bit taller than him
Honestly I think he would find tall girls attractive, have you seen the video from M&G where the fan was really tall and he checked if she's wearing high platform shoes and she wasn't? That man is down for a tall gf for sure
If you share car you don't have to set the driving seat all the time
Imagine your kids, they'd be taller than both of you
Giant bed, because you need lot od space to fit both of your bodies
It's easy to take cute pictures, because no one has to bend or pose weirdly
When you're on a fancy vency event, wearing cute dress and heels, you can dance in a comfortable way, your head on Noah's shoulder
If you're having fight you don't have a feeling he's towering over you in a bad way
In general I think being on the same level, literally, is great thing in a relationship
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dandelion-drawing · 2 months ago
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Angela!!
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I love her so much I want her to be happy forever........
I think Angela has a secret gf and that's probably who she's talking to in the fence picture. Also I shade every TMRoHM character with a unique color, and Angela gets yellow! I felt like it was fitting as yellow is a very common yet vibrant color in nature, and Angela is very, very connected with nature! (Especially considering she was, CANONICALLY, supposed to turn into a tree). In my lore the change isn't exactly permanent. Lore below :3
Also old signature is on these, it's on a lot of stuff. Please don't mind it :/
In the beginning of her time in the Magical Realm, Angela rather quickly turns to gardening as a hobby that is very special to her. One day, she found a tree's sapling dropped in the desert, presumably dropped by someone carrying several. Angela took the sapling and planted it at a forest's edge, where she raised it like a child. The tree grew enough to bear fruit, even though it was small, after just a couple years. The tree was very important to Angela. It was her child, her art...
Unfortunately, Horse Man, careless as he is, took the tree's fruit as snacks for some party. (He wasn't entirely aware of the tree's importance until afterward, but still.) Angela was devastated. Her tree was barren. And in her grief, she literally became a tree herself, growing tall over rocks and land, carrying the dying sapling as a piece of her.
She also sprouted flowers that grew into tiny, mobile Angelas. The Angela Flowers were numerous and typically short lived (The longest living only getting to around 6 months old). They represented tiny aspects of Angela, such as a single emotion or a specific personality trait. The flowers were peaceful, and Angela could see through them at times.
The area she grows in is kind of a ways off from civilization. A few people still visit her though. Her gf who I have yet to make, Dennis (they are friends :D ), and Horse Man sometimes (he becomes increasingly nervous around her after the transformation). Despite this, though, she's alone more often than not, sitting in a secret room within the soul of the tree. Her branches can move like arms, but she almost never moves besides to make her face.
(Side note, the story of Angela having an important tree and its fruit being taken by Horse Man and Angela subsequently becoming a tree herself and growing flowers of herself is written in the proposed episode synopses for TMRoHM available on Filmcow's Patreon! The details of why the tree was important, what the Angela flowers represent, what the tree looks like, the tree's location, who still visits Angela, her room- basically all the details not stated previously were made up by me :3)
And that is all I will say for now!
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karticatyt · 2 months ago
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oops looks like it’s done already that was quick
we now have Ally’s gf!! i’m not really sure what she is, like a snake, ice cream, countryhuman? sorta. monster. lol
Cori doesn’t have much going for her in terms of story or personality yet but… oh boy she certainly has a history in my life… hah. i’ll go into that a little bit under the cut since it’s a lot. it had a big emotional impact on me so read at your own discretion.
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i’ll keep this description as vague as possible for privacy reasons. back when i first made Cori, she came from a Deltarune rp game i used to play on roblox all the time during the same year chapter 1 released. (Checho’s Deltarune Roleplay, if anyone is familiar) there was another user i met who i used to do a lot of shipping roleplays with involving Cori and an OC that the other user had made. over time that user became a lot more… unstable, for lack of better words and things got really complicated and stressful for me. i was put into a compromised situation emotionally and i’m honestly grateful that things didn’t go worse than they did because i could have been put in a lot of danger otherwise. i do not look back on that user or those roleplays fondly and it stopped me from using Cori as a character at all for a long time afterwards. some years back, i redesigned/rewrote her so that she wouldn’t have that emotional tie to that time of my life anymore. the more i thought about it, the more i realized that she and Ally had a bit in common in regards to their shipping history. although Cori’s background is a lot more distressing than Ally’s, i thought it would be a great idea to pair the two together as a way to completely rewrite their shipping history and put their pasts aside. it helped me to come to peace with what went down and move on from it, painting both characters in a better light in my eyes than they used to be in. they make me much happier now :)
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austinslounge · 4 months ago
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I am a black fan and I took high offense to that anon saying what they said about the twitter user possibly being black and that’s why they want Zoe and Austin to date. Why does that even matter what race they are? People of all races project themselves with celebrities. But even more why insinuate that it would be wrong if Austin did date someone of color? I’m sorry for venting but that anon was extremely ignorant for that comment and they should be mindful because there’s all kinds of different fans from different backgrounds.
Thank you Anon for sharing your personal viewpoint on this issue. I appreciate your sentiments, and I totally agree with you. ❤️
There was a lot implied in that ask (imo) and you're right, it didn't sit right with me. It was the assumption that the Twitter user might be shipping Austin w/Zoe because she might be Black like Zoe that is really weird to me.
There are lot of reasons why some fans might ship Austin w/Zoe that have absolutely NOTHING to do with the fan's (or Zoe's) race!
For example:
She's gorgeous
She's talented
They both seem to have a love of film in common
They both love music and play musical instruments
They seem to have a lot in common
They played love interests in a film together
Some fans might just like their height difference together lol
HELLO -- That kiss scene together bts had a LOT of chemistry (let's be honest lol!)
They've been spotted out together before in the past during filming.
They actually both mutually follow each other on social media - Austin has been following Zoe for years tbh (which is definitely more than I can say for Austin and all of these other celebrity women that fans have been shipping him with lately lol.)
Fans have shipped Austin with other actresses for a lot less reasons...So why the Anon would automatically jump to the conclusion that the Twitter fan (whoever she is) is only shipping Austin with Zoe just because Zoe is Black, and the user herself might be Black just seemed really weird to me, and a strange assumption.
It's even stranger to me because no other actress that Austin is shipped with gets this type of assumption, when the self-insert from fans is happening with those women too! Yet, nobody says anything. Fans definitely self-inserted themselves in the Kaustin shipping, and that's why it got so huge in the first place, because certain fans who saw themselves in his gf, were self-inserting themselves in that relationship. The fact that the Kaustin Ship got so big in the first place when Austin never even looked genuinely happy with her most of the time is just proof right there that fans just liked seeing him with her and were living vicariously through her. Don't think I forgot about all of the snarky, blatantly ageist, and downright rude remarks from shippers during that time. 😒
Anyway --
The jump to automatically assuming that shipping Austin with Zoe is something racial, when no other fans who ship Austin with Madelyn, Kendall, Jodie, Florence, Olivia, Emily, etc. get that same label is what doesn't sit right with me. 🤔
It couldn't possibly be because the Twitter user just likes how Austin and Zoe look together? Or, maybe just likes their vibe based on pictures they've seen of them filming?
Like you said, Austin's fandom base is diverse. I think it's a beautiful thing! 😊 I love that about Austin's fandom! He has fans from all over the world, fans who are all various different types of races, and fans who are all various different ages. Even much older women love Austin! I think it's wonderful! Let's not limit this beautiful man to only one group/type of fan. I've seen that happen in many other fandoms before, and it's really unsettling.
Lastly -- Austin has dated a woc before (for many years actually), so to me, it's not too farfetched that he could possibly date a woc again one day in his lifetime. Even if he had never dated a woc before in life, it still doesn't mean that he could never. I've seen plenty of men date a woc when most of their previous gfs were not woc. (Tom Holland and Joseph Quinn immediately comes to my mind)
Anyway, sorry for this long essay, but hopefully this answers your ask.
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allisluv · 8 months ago
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hello yet again! :)) how do you think johanna would be with a dark humoured girlfriend? i honestly think she uses dark humour herself but i'm interested to know how she'd be with a gf who also has a dark sense of humor! :)
based off of my own unhealthily dark humor lol, my favourite joke of mine is "lydia deetz merch i own! starting off with my dead mom" (though i make a lot of jokes my heart lowkey aches) and im deadass not even lying when i say this, my 13 year old self literally sent a cover of Dead Mom (killer song btw) to my friends with the caption of "cover of dead mom because my mom just died" 😭 music was my only way of comfort LMAO 😭
sorry for the rant! didn't realise how long this was till i typed it, here's a cookie for reading so much of my bs 🍪!!! :)
as a member of the dead dad club who also copes with humour, i feel this on a whole other level! if you ever need to talk, i'm always always here lovely <3
i lowkey think the first time you make a dark humour joke like that, jo is taken aback because she didn't expect it and then she's like "... am i even allowed to laugh at that?". after the initial shock wears off and as it becomes more and more common for you to cope by joking, she'll relax into it and be like "same."
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sooniebby · 1 month ago
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mcyap is back ‼️cries, sorry it took so long to come back
hate finals 💔
but yea i get wym with the last names thing too. dont wanna comment too much on colonialism (still got lots to learn 😞) but i do agree. imo it's just the way they keep white supremacy and shit going, and that was probs the idea even in the past. tho if thats not right feel free to correct me. also scottish 😭 do u know about the meme where it's like the power rangers and then the villainess asks one like "what is your purpose/what are you representing" or something like that and he knocks her out and says like "IM SCOTTISH" idk why it just reminded me of that..
also yea, turning off ur brain is great honestly 😞 wish i could too
abt your mom, thats so sweet 😭 if your mom is into thai bl i will literally scream and cry from joy. my mom is too (more for novels tho)
idk if thaipod is legit either tbh but it's the only ad i ever get. it might be bcs i have my electronics in english but i think my browser thinks i am a foreigner 💔 rip... im honestly happy to hear that ur learning thai tho, i feel thats not very common 😭 tho i agree, i also dont like writing chinese characters very much 💔 typing and reading is much easier imo. tho i still struggle with some of the logic in thai too
actually, im not in college yet, but by 'college stuff' i meant like preparing for entry (i fucking hate tcas) 💔 criessss... however i can tell u a bit of an overview abt unis in thailand
so, the main universities in thailand are:
1. Chulalongkorn University (top one and generally considered the best university in thailand, bkk)
2. thammasat university (known for being a left wing uni, many ppl who align with liberal politics go here, bkk)
3. mahidol university (known for medical school, bkk)
4. chiang mai university (university in the north, also known for stem subjects)
5. Khon Kaen University (university in the northeast)
6. Prince of Songkla university/Songklanakarin university (i may have spelled this wrong 💀) (university in the south)
7. Kasetsart University (agricultural university)
8. Assumption University/ABAC (private, catholic university. has many connections to catholic schools all over the country. theyre administered by the Brothers of St. Gabriel)
smth like this. campus life varies on the university you enter into, and also what youre majoring in. personally, i am going to CU cuz my dad's alumni there. the environment there is very high class i think... theyre also in a commercial and business district (siam square and samyan). i cant say how the living life is there, but i know damn well, cuz it's the top uni, everyone is competitive as hell 💀 probably very nerdy too. tho i would stick to how bl portrays it mostly cuz imo it's probably mostly right. i reckon most bl authors in thailand do graduate in thailand or at least studied in thailand at some point
np again, and sorry again this is long as hell 😭 i hope you pass your classes too
(ps 1: knockout is great, read it w my mom a bit)
(ps 2: did you watch the next prince yet?? im waiting to binge it all but so far it's going great)
(ps 3: NAOKI NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO 😭😭😭💔💔💔 i thought he thought that hiyori is the reader's girlfriend and i nearly flipped out until i saw the thing abt hiyori's gf 💔 i need naose kun to come back 💔)
yeaaa, I need to like actually look for more resources to learn Thai. Thaipod was just the first thing that came up when I was trying to write the alphabet. But I don’t think it really helped me learn lol
thanks for the list of colleges. The new Thai character I have is a boxer and the reader is supposed to have already graduated college so I don’t need to worry too much about it—but for future characters I’ll keep this list in mind.
have you read My Stubborn? Or the recent one that came out, Reset? Shiiiiit, Thai dramas are hitting it out the park omg, the drama is crazy… I haven’t watched the next Prince yet, wanted to wait until it was finished. I know the couple tho, they’re pretty much dating right? They’re so cute online.
yea, probably should’ve shown the gf more so people didn’t assume Naoki was talking about Hiyori. Cuz Naoki knows Hiyori lol, she just wasn’t seen because the flashback took place mostly during their senior year so she already graduated by then. In my efforts to make the story stick solely in reader’s focus, might’ve forgotten to flesh out Naoki’s thought process a bit
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deeplightblue · 11 months ago
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I think I am still really struggling with this JD issue and how it really feels like people are giving him and Nic a lot more grace vs what they’ve given Luke and co. I’ve not been around this fandom nearly as long, so I very much might be missing something, but it really does seem like there are a lot of similarities between what A and JD have posted about L&N. Like, I’m not trying to be difficult, but I feel like I must be missing something because it seems like A has just gotten branded a mean girl and hated by folks from the jump, while JD has been given a pass?
Thank you for expressing how you think & feel about the situation so kindly. I understand what you mean but don’t totally agree with you.
I can’t speak for the whole fandom but I think the reason why I don’t like A’s vibes is she seems to enjoy the chaos that being with L brings. I wasn’t around till May so I don’t know what went down before then, but even in the pap pics it gave me a weird vibe seeing her running after L and trying to hold his hand. She let people tag her account in the pap pics, she let the initial fan page tag her in their posts, she even lets the current weird troll fan account commenting under her posts. I’ve seen multiple people saying A blocked them, but somehow she let’s the ones with the most smoke be around.
But honestly I don’t know if she is a mean girl or not, I don’t think we know enough about her to come to that conclusion. I don’t think she is that malicious girl who likes to tease the fans of her bf. I think she might be insecure and immature, and probably wants to show off her bf but cannot do so. I just hope she won’t come out of this relationship with a broken heart.
As for JD, I don’t know much about him but he comes off as someone that minds his own business. He doesn’t share Nic openly a lot, goes out with his friends, keeps filming stuff etc so he seems a bit more mature to me compared to A.
But I think another factor is definitely timing. Before London premiere a lot of fans knew L had a gf but they weren’t the majority. Most people found out via the pap pics and unfortunately the common consensus was it spoiled the release of part 2. So that relationship is now tied with the idea “spoiling launch of a project so many people worked so hard for” whether it is the truth or not. But about Nic’s alleged relationship we still know nothing, only speculations.
And yet, still so many people started to throw hate on her btw.
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alchamy34 · 11 months ago
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Calling all Ghostfox shippers (part 2)
So, before I talk about this ship I just want to say that anyone against it shouldn't bother commenting because I'm saying why this ship should be canon. It deserves to be canon because Gwen's existence in the comics is supposed to represent lesbianism and her girl boss nature.
It's no secret that gwiles ship is offensive in a misogynistic/homophobic way.
Ghostfox has shown more potential which explains accuracy on Spider Gwen in the comics. Gwen Stacy and Ami Han have a dark relationship with grief. These two have so much in common.
The annual showed little time and I know why. If the chemistry was a bit more noticeable then fans would immediately argue since it's a threat to Gwen's purpose in the movies. I'm not gonna force people to stop shipping gwiles but I just hope each individual has their unique and observant mindset to explain why they like the ship. If you have your own individual opinion then I'll respect that.
But personally I think spiderverse is doing Gwen dirty.
Ami is less unfortunate as she hasn't been on screen yet (idk but someone can correct me).
I'm a huge fanatic on nine tailed fox spirits and I see some reasons why marvel webtoon comics by Korean writers/artists started with her. (I am aware of Silk but she's part of the spider man franchise. Ami isn't spider themed okay?)
Ami seems like the poison ivy to Gwen's harley quinn. Except they aren't villains.
@nyan4ko has mentioned that Ami would be the sweet supportive gf. And Gwen would be the funny but grateful one.
Ami being the sophisticated kdrama styled super spy and Gwen being the smartass punk chic seems like a very interesting dynamic. Gwen would definitely always love Ami in fox form or usual form and Ami would love the excitement of Gwen being chaotically heroic. If they interacted more then we'd all have a clear understanding of what kind of dynamic the pairing would be like.
The fact that Ami already knows how to be flirtatious is good as Gwen would be the first person Ami wants to flirt with when not on missions.
Gwen would be hilariously flustered and blush.
This would be so cute af, sweet, funny and enjoyable if Marvel wasn't cowardly.
At least there are A LOT of fans who love the symbrock ship. I already wrote a couple fanfiction on that.
I wrote a couple ghostfox fanfics already:
Ghostfox Anthology
Post Chaos
The Good In You
If you want to read them then be my guest. And the other user I mentioned before is someone who knows Gwen is supposed to be sapphic and is okay with admitting it. And so am I.
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inchidentally · 2 years ago
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@watehry asked for me to a carlando zodiac analysis like my landoscar one <3 (reminder I am not Lando levels of expert at astrology so this is me taking from a bunch of sources)
this one got kind of weird for me though bc the astrology is crazy black and white simple and gave maybe a little too much insight for comfort?? anyway proceed if you still want but also skip past if the parasocial stuff is too weird (it rly kind of was for me in places)
Scorpio and Virgo are a slam dunk as a match in friendship. simple as. Scorpio is ambitious with highly changeable super-charged moods and pretty damn needy. Virgo is all about "optimization" of themselves but extremely forgiving towards other and so self-reliant that it's easy for others to rely on them (sometimes more than they should).
this worked out perfectly for them bc Lando has had so many different needs throughout his career: an extremely young rookie needing a strong leader, a struggling teammate who needed someone to provide all the fun and reassurance, then no longer a teammate who needs a friendship that fits around his crazy schedule and existing friends, and a competitor who would honestly be a lil devastated if Carlos didn't still try and look out for him on the track. Carlos has been able to cater to all of those different things without ever losing himself. he finds Lando fascinating and fun no matter what.
honestly with Scorpio being a Fire sign and Virgo being an Earth sign there doesn't need to be much digging beyond that. their equal passions balance out beautifully and has strong enduring power.
Scorpio's birthstone is Topaz and gemstone is Citrine. Virgo's are Blue Sapphire and Topaz respectively.
a lot of the usual Virgo traits don't uhhh rly apply to Carlos as a beautiful cis man born of extraordinary privilege who has a rarefied hyper masculine sport as his job (he is never 'in his own head' and never over-intellectualizes lmao) he wants? he gets.
Carlos is a solid extrovert with a seemingly undrainable social battery which also counteracts more stereotypical Virgo qualities. but he is also an extremely hard worker who shows intense focus and mastery over whatever he pursues. very very Virgo.
he's also endlessly curious which makes him a great people person as well as a student of his sport and nothing is more attractive to him than someone who is fully open and vulnerable. he would have absolutely no idea what to do with an Oscar for example. they'd both be very happy and respectful in each other's company but only if someone else provides a common topic. otherwise it would be radio silence.
but little rookie Lando Norris who has been starved of the superstar attention he had in his junior career while he toddled around after Fernando? he and Carlos fit together like chicken and breading.
"Virgo wants order while Scorpio wants power" says a whole lot about how compatible they are. they want the same things but in completely different ways. it's why Carlos can factor in helping Lando get a podium and Lando has no problem admitting that Carlos helped him get there.
pitfalls of their relationship are down to the fact that they are so complimentary yet both are strong-willed. Virgo thinks far more logically and doesn't want to compromise by factoring in Scorpio's ever-shifting ambitions and emotions. it's honestly a very good thing that they've chosen friendship/bromance over anything else. they can keep that sweet aspect of romance but without having to suffer the restrictions and complications of a romantic relationship.
and um it might also explain why Carlos was the one to push Lando into finally having a girlfriend. from what I vaguely know Carlos himself had a longtermish gf ? for his McLaren years ?? and he'll have found it easier to deal with Lando's neediness with a gf for Lando to focus on.
not to get too parasocial about real life stuff here but we can all kind of agree that Max F's girlfriends have to accept that his friendship with Lando comes first. or at least equal to them. that's because once Leos find someone happy under their control and protection it's an absolute lock for life. Scorpio Lando wants attention and reassurance, Leo Max wants to be the leader and the rock. Scorpio needs to be in their feelings at will and Leo loves living in the moment. they sort of already found their person in each other oops. but since cis straight people relationships already center around ferda culture it works just fine.
by contrast, Carlos as a Virgo would have his own strict ideas of what his relationships should look like and I'm gonna take a wild guess that his family have inscribed ideals of wives and babies and being a provider into his DNA. when Carlos gets married it's going to have to be Lando who works around the schedule and makes good friends with Carlos' wife. fortunately he seems to be able to do that just fine with Max's partners so I don't see any issue there. (this is what I mean when I said this got very weirdly intuitive about real people)
as long as the Scorpio/Virgo friendship is free and easy for each party to come and go as they need to, they'll literally be bonded as family til they die. I can't read Lando's actual feelings well enough bc he uses so much deflective sarcasm but Carlos and his family absolutely adopted him as one of their own. Lando might take a little bit more of Carlos' generosity than he gives back but that's just their way. I'd say Max F is the bff who will always be there and Carlos is the bff that Lando can meet after months apart and it'll be as if it was just yesterday.
as Lando said they're much better off not being on the same team because they were juuuust on the cusp of the teammate rivalry not being fun anymore. I miss the challenges together but we'll always get carlando content anyway and won't have to see their relationship erode, fail and then heal but never be quite the same again (sorry but like w Daniel). it's also why the landoscar astrology reinforced everything we feel about Oscar being tailor made for Lando as a teammate.
ship/fic-centric stuff
let's get the rough stuff out of the way first: long term romance between Scorpio and Virgo is… tricky. especially both of them being men. I'll go ahead and say that they're much better off having a steamy hot affair for a while but then letting it settle into platonic but extremely deep friendship. you could easily have Lando's main love interest having to accept that Carlos has the same role w Lando that Lando does w Max F.
that being said! the sex is fire. Virgo Carlos would be a confirmed masc top (literally wants to do "power play") bc a feeling of control is so fundamental for him. Scorpio Lando would be raw arousal and want someone he could fully trust. he'd be over the moon to do anything and get as kinky as Virgo wanted.
Carlos would want to shower Lando with gifts and big expressions of love and adoration. while Lando would eat all of that up he wouldn't see it as the same as spending quality time together and sharing the same bed etc. definitely would need to be a chapter dedicated to communicating of needs etc.
Carlos would break very quickly in a secret relationship. it would sap him of everything he wants to bring and receive in a relationship. Lando wouldn't last much longer because his partner denying him romantic love in public would eat away at him. it would either end them or be a catalyst for deciding to be open and damn the consequences.
carlando angst is a whole other level because of how much they both want to remain bonded together. but there's also plenty of juicy fodder: miscommunication (Carlos' fault) jealousy (Lando's) possessiveness (Lando's) a need to be in charge (Carlos) lying for the other's protection (Carlos) wanting more freedom (Lando) caving to societal/familial pressure (Carlos) cheating born of passion or dissatisfaction (Lando) silent treatment (Lando) dismissal of feelings (Carlos) angry words that they wish they could unsay (both)
or the most complicated of all which would be Carlos VERY likely assigning Lando the "woman" role and being unable to have a romantic relationship not based on heterosexuality. don't worry he'd gay sex it up bc sex is His Thing but there'd be specific no-go things for him in bed. this is because of the whole rules obsession and occasional lack of emotional connection problems. this could go really sweet and involve negotiation and self-exploration or it could just be super kinky or it could be really angsty and lead to Carlos almost losing Lando entirely. just know that it'll need solid work shown to bring Carlos out of mainstream gender norms if he even does. he will resist efforts made to rattle the world he's built for himself. if it's dark fic that features social homophobia/internalized homophobia then it could be left as is rather than trying to fix it (as in, they're fighting for their lives or live in constant peril so their relationship doesn't get the attention it needs)
the power balance will always be in favor of Carlos so you'll need to take very good care of Lando and stay in his head most of the time for him not to lose himself completely. think of how Lando always mirrors the vibes of the men he is with at the moment and that a lot of carlando is Lando following Carlos like a puppy.
Carlos will never back down and won't have the capability to deal with fights but he will never EVER reject Lando. if he needs to walk away from a fight he'll state the fact first and do it as a way to clear his head. but he'll always come back. literally Lando could have walked away from him and married someone else but it would just take Carlos seeing his number calling for him to drop everything and be there for Lando like nothing had happened.
Carlos may need to hold all the cards but life without Lando is impossible for him. they'll either be intensely loyal friends in a multiship fic or on a steady track to Carlos putting a ring worth the gross national product of a small country on Lando's finger.
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You're tags about early hiatus leading to calcified headcanons makes me think about why certain parts of the fandom are so against the idea of yang being butchier and cling to her beacon persona so hard. Odd to me beacon yang's whole thing was she was putting up a front to hide her insecurities, yet early fandom portrayed her as some femme fataleish fashionista that flirted with everyone and talked about her boobs nonstop. But even beacon yang was never like that, and now we have a yang that wears big butch boots and overalls and bomber jackets and likes to manspread and actually it's her gf that likes to get prettied up for their dates while yang watches with heart eyes from afar. Sorry for the essay, I just wonder why early fandom saw a show that telegraphed pretty well that it's about turning tropes on its head and decided "no I want the surface level version of these characters and any change or development that differs from it is bad"
I totally agree and ended up writing an essay in turn!
I think it’s especially annoying when fandom does that with Yang’s V1 “persona” in particular since (1) she got the least amount of development of the girls in V1 (we really don’t “meet” Yang til we get her backstory in Burning the Candle — hell we don’t even get an explanation of her semblance until Painting the Town) and (2) all the girls have grown and changed since we met them, so why are some folks SO stuck on early Yang? But I do think it taking so much longer to really “meet” Yang means there were huge chunks of time between the Yellow Trailer and V1 and then V1 and V2 where people filled her character in how they saw fit and have clung to that.
I think there are sort of two buckets. In the bad faith group are the weebs who saw big boobs and an empty vessel of a character they could project onto. To your point, the show told us from the get-go in her trailer and in her song that she was “more than meets the eye”, but the shonen-brained who are accustomed to fanservice and 2D female side characters saw Yang and assumed she was for Them (and feel betrayed that she isn’t and have made it everyone’s problem). I dont have a lot of patience for those types — they can go watch 99.9% of shonen anime if they want that (though I hope for their sake they expand their media diet…).
I have some more patience for the second bucket who just don’t really understand the lesbian experience and how it can be to re-contextualize your identity once you’ve figured yourself out. Because in some ways you only really “get it” if you’ve gone through it. Yang settling into herself is SO cool to me, because I was similar. In high school, I was pretty femme / assumed I was straight / etc. And even once I understood I liked girls, knowing your identity and integrating your identity are two different things. It’s so normal to me to see Yang “become” Yang as she has (from the way she dresses, her posture, the way she sits, her chivalry, etc) because I lived it. But I think it is lost on some people who just see her “dykeyness” as a retcon and not a development — so to them, I want to try to be patient because I realize what’s obvious to me comes from my lived experiences. (Again, the bad faith folks who wanted surface-level digestible anime waifus don’t get my patience here).
But to those coming at Yang in good faith, Yang coming into herself and getting more butch as time goes on (Yang was always going to be more than her first projection - they spelled it out) is no different than Weiss and Blake settling into their ‘true’ selves (and their color schemes have slowly come to match their aura/soul colors). It’s also a pretty common experience when sexuality is yet another thing piled on top of the identity crisis that is your late teens/early 20s.
I also find it a little silly that people glom onto V1 Yang as this flirty party girl because it’s not even supported by actual canon. Yang plays video games and is like a super-nerd about the table top game they play in V2, but none of those “I miss V1-3 Yang” types are like “why doesn’t she play video games and board games anymore? What a betrayal of her character”? Like why isn’t “gamer bro” Yang part of That fandom’s flanderization of her character? There’s more support in canon for that than her supposed puns…
Anyway, went off on a tangent there, but TLDR: Yang’s butch-ness is completely organic and part of her settling into herself, just as the other characters have settled into their true selves. I dont have time for the folks fueled by entitlement, but I can have time for the folks with empathy who might not have all the inputs to understand it but are willing to listen (and my inbox is open!).
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magical-glimpse · 2 years ago
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Hexing, evil eye and everything harms
So, I recently got hexed and talked about it, and I think this is a great time for me to talk about what hexes are and how to protect yourself from them, as a continuation of my two protection posts.
First, what is baneful magic ?
In the dictionary :
Baneful : Causing harm, ruin, or death; harmful. Portending harm; ominous. Having poisonous qualities; deadly; destructive; injurious; noxious; pernicious.
Usually, what people call baneful is actually super relative to culture, religions and individual practice. it can includes : hexes/curses/jinxes, love spells, domination spells, blood magic, binding, banishing etc. There is a lot of rhetoric from different people that try to keep people away from these spells. For example the rule of Three, which states that everything you put out comes back three times, is a Wiccan religious belief that is in no way applicable to all witches. Some people's views of "karma" or other "universal justice" ideas. I am personally of the opinion that, if your guide and your moral compass agree, there is nothing wrong with giving universal justice a little boost with a bit of a reasonably measured hex. But as a general thing, it should take place in an informed, cultivated practice and not just a "i'm mad at my ex so i'm gonna pick this random tiktok spell i saw and write his name on it". No. That is the best way to get yourself in trouble.
What is a hex ?
A hex is, at its core, someone sending negative or unwanted energy your way. We can commonly see a few types of hexes:
The Evil Eye, the most common, easiest one, that everyone probably got at one point in their life. At its core, the Evil Eye is about people wishing ill intent on you from seeing you succeed. As an example, I made eye contact with someone that was jealous of me while i was on stage and i almost tripped on a floor that had no reason to make me trip. It is usually considered to be easy solved by not showing your achievements you know are jealous, basic cleansing, throwing salt over your shoulder, using a talisman etc. I'm pretty sure most if every culture has a concept of evil eye so look into what you resonate with best (in the limits of what is open to you).
The Jinx: it's almost the cute version of an hex ? It's like causing a bit of a bad luck, like missing the bus, breaking your phone screen, missing an appointment etc. it tends to not last very long, a few hours or so.
The hex: it is both a general term and what people tend to do. It's the " can't keep one up with a new gf", "have constant bad breath", "flat tire", "might lose your job" one. it can wildly vary in intensity depending on your current protection, how close the target and practionner are and the nature of the spell. The Curse: This is when shit goes DOWN DOWN. Generational trauma typa shit, illnesses might pop up typa shit, divorce typa shit. To this day, I have never seen anyone being truly cursed. Usually the energy ends up being transformed into lessons for the descendants or the target after a while, and its goal it to point out specific toxic behaviors or issues rather than just cause chaos.
How to cast a hex ?
I am pretty sure i answered a ask about this once, my goal here is not exactly to give a recipe for all hexes but at least guidelines so you know how to start and where to look. Hexes, just like all spells, are about creating an energy and sending it. In this particular case, it is about creating "mud" and throwing it at someone. Here is the thing: you cannot throw mud without getting your hands dirty. How dirty your hands get depend on what you are throwing, if you are taking precautions and how much you are cleaning after. I know it gets told time and time again, but don't do a hex as your first spell if you dont have a good handle yet on protection and cleansing spells. The reason why they are recommended for beginners is because they are easy, don't typically explode in your face easily, and they are diverse, therefore allowing you to test out what you vibe with and don't. Also, they teach you necessary skills. Otherwise, it works as any other spell. If you do it with leeway for the universe (and you take precautions and cleanse) the cost for you will probably be energy, headache etc. If your goal is to specifically make a certain situation happen for someone, it will require a sacrifice on your part, that you may not have control over. I am currently being coached and taught about spellwork, so in a few months I might revisit this post and explain things differently and add more info.
How to know you have been hexed ?
If bad shit starts happening out of nowhere, it might be worth asking the question.
Here is a list of things I have experienced or have seen people experience from being hexed:
nightmares
sleep paralysis
bad luck
fire alarms going of at specific hours
people being unusually mean or intolerant to you
getting weird or scary visions (VISIONS, not hallucinations, if you are not intuitive this does not apply, if this is not already in your belief system this does not apply)
stuff falling, breaking, not working, getting lost etc
having difficulty reading, channeling
feeling blockages
getting sick, nauseous, getting a migraine, getting a crisis of an already existing illness
getting into arguments
protections and wards acting weird
pets acting weird
The thing is, any number of those things can happen for a hundred reasons that are not even remotely spiritual. If there is another possible explanation, check it first. I promise you it is a lot more likely than someone hexing you.
Okay, so now i know i got hexed what do i do ?
Congrats you got hexed.
Start by not panicking.
Even though it sounds scary, it is probably a lot easier to get rid of it than you think. You can start by checking my protection 101 and protection 102. Cleanse deeply yourself, your room and your spirit and add some protections. Once it is done, if you still feel negative energy around, you can try cleansing one more time, or it may mean your guides are inviting you to look into yourself and heal some parts of yourself that the hex brought out.
After you got hexed
This is the official point where you can start throwing hands with the person that sent you the spell. No, i'm kidding. Okay, maybe not. But yeah, it is a point where you restore your protections and can pat yourself on the back for succeeding at getting rid of an hex. Good job!
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Two questions:
1. You’ve mentioned before that you write on a very, very old laptop called Joshiba. Do you have your ATH and GF drafts backed up somewhere in case it dies? 2. Out of everything you’ve ever written, what’s your favorite sentence?
1. You’ve mentioned before that you write on a very, very old laptop called Joshiba. Do you have your ATH and GF drafts backed up somewhere in case it dies?
Oh yes. Data loss is one of my least favorite things. Losing some fanfic files on the family computer as a kid cemented that aversion into me. And yet I have lost data many times since then, most notably in 2010 when my laptop Archimedes died out of nowhere, which killed most of my music compositions from one of my most important periods.
I'm quite paranoid about data loss. These days I will typically make a backup every three or four months (or less if I have done a lot of writing or otherwise feel the need to back something up sooner), and I have more than one independent backup device.
I actually got a warning just this morning on my main computer about an impending hard drive failure, so I did a full backup of that one and ordered a replacement drive.
2. Out of everything you’ve ever written, what’s your favorite sentence?
That's a deliciously provocative question, and there are so many different ways I could tackle it.
It would very likely be a fiction sentence, as I both care about my fiction more and put more effort into editing and refining it. But I should at least mention that I've done some nonfiction sentences that I'm really proud of. I love it when I can elegantly bring a thesis together, or synthesize a truly fascinating new idea, or perfectly summarize a thing. In all cases, my great nonfiction sentences are masterpieces of insightfulness and clarity. Clarity and insightfulness are the common factors, the reason you would spend your precious time reading my often-verbose, self-indulgent ramblings.
I don't have any such sentences in mind off the top of my head, sadly, or I would happily share one. I suppose I can leave it to anyone who has been a longtime reader of my journal to volunteer any favorites they can think of.
To get on with the fiction:
I put a lot of thought into first sentences: the first sentence in an entire story; the first sentence in a chapter or section; the first sentence introducing a new character; their first sentence of dialogue. When it makes sense to do so, and when I have the opportunity, I also put a lot of thought into last sentences.
There are the "high art" sentences, the ones that attempt some feat of technical prowess or showcase my skills or artistry. These tend to be longer and/or highly stylistic.
There are the "punchy" sentences: short sentences that comprise their own paragraph to underscore a point, ideally to resounding effect.
There are sentences that I am personally biased toward for external reasons, such as ones involving Silence doing Silence stuff.
There are sentences that have deep, personal resonance for whatever reason.
There are the sentences that depart from literality and become in some way transcendental, often assuming an omniscient voice and openly musing in the company of the reader.
There are sentences that don't look like much on their own but become very powerful in context. (Not unlike the aforementioned "punchy" sentences.)
And of course there are miscellaneous sentences that I just like for whatever reason.
(It's also worth noting that, with the way I write, often the great stuff is only resolvable down to the paragraph level, not the level of individual sentences. And some of it is only resolvable down to the scene level, with no great sentences per se even if the scene itself is very strong.)
Different sentences can excel in different ways, each in turn making a compelling case to be my "favorite." I can like sentences because of some aspect of their structure—their rhythm, for instance, or their alliteration or some other literary quality, or their feel on the tongue or in the eye. Or I can like sentences because of their imagery, the contents they convey, irrespective of their structure. Or I can like them because of their meta function, their role in advancing or pulling together the story or important thoughts therein. And so on. I don't consider these various properties comparable, which makes it very difficult to conceive of one supreme sentence above all others.
Even if that weren't so, the way my memory works also makes it virtually impossible for me to select a favorite without going back and rereading all the fiction I've ever written (lol) or whatever subset thereof I think most likely to produce leading candidates for my favorite.
In lieu of this I am quite limited in what my memory is able to recall at the moment on its own. The sentence that has stuck with me the most in recent months is not especially remarkable on its own; it is one of those "Silence doing Silence stuff" sentences and it really loses a lot of its punch without the context of its paragraph and wider scene, and since it is also something of a spoiler I don't think I will post it here, but it's basically an affirmation of her power, which I love.
Since writing the previous paragraph I spent over an hour looking for a good sentence in order to give you something approaching a satisfying answer, but alack my brain was not plugged into creative writing mode at all today and so I have found this a most unapproachable, inapprehensible exercise tonight. It's funny how, some days, it's like the text itself changes. There are times when I absolutely love this stuff, and times when I just don't connect with it at all, and sadly today is one of the latter.
But perhaps if you could refine the question (and catch me on a better day)? I often find that this helps to unlock my mind, if the derivative question has some new substance which helps me to conceive of the query differently.
Anyway! I've written quite a few sentences in my life. Maybe, given my complete uselessness, it would be better to ask the people who have read some of them what they think. I'd be curious to know, myself.
I can tell you one of the leading candidates for my favorite sentences that I haven't written, however. It's from Dickens:
And Scrooge said often afterwards, that of all the blithe sounds he had ever heard, those were the blithest in his ears.
For context, the preceding sentence is:
He looked so irresistibly pleasant, in a word, that three or four good-humoured fellows said, "Good morning, sir! A merry Christmas to you!"
And I suppose that says a lot about me.
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As someone who first watched the show at the uncritical age of 12, I'm curious, what else would you criticise about Gravity Falls?
The lack of woman writers leads to Dipper and Mabel's development being very unbalanced in Dippers favor which leads to Mabel feeling like she's not allowed to go through any meaningful arcs which leaves it feeling like shes selfish and doesn't have to give up or learn anything by Weirdmaggedeon. This isn't speculation either, Alex admitted while talking about why Wendy was so underdeveloped that they just didn't have a ton of women in the room and it was harder for them to write women in general.
In addition, Ford is a real anchor on the show. It's so obsessed with keeping his identity secret that we can't have the characters (namely Stan) talk about him and his relationships with the family. Then he comes into the show far too late, and to make up for that he takes up an inordinate amount of screentime-near cutting Stan out of the show for the latter half of season 2-yet only spends that time with Dipper. He never has any meaningful interactions with Mabel, barely any interactions with Stan that have meat, says literally one line to Soos over the whole series, and legit never speaks to Wendy once. And this further the imbalance of Dipper and Mabel because Dipper being stapled to Ford from his introduction means Dipper gets a lot more screentime while Mabel is relegated to B plots and runners (along with the rest of the characters).
The show has other issues like the buying into Bill's hype too much leading to Sock Opera being the worst episode of the show and ruining his credibility as an interesting force of nature, or it's focus on side characters in the eleventh hour that it doesn't have time for like Robbie or Pacifica, but those are honestly pretty common and miniscule for cartoons like GF so I don't hold it against the show too hard.
So those are the big two and they both feed into Alex just having a problem with balancing characters and needing a more diverse crew. Something that (if he ever works in the industry again) is easy to fix.
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How do we know that if he has been seen with a girl (no pic no proof) that it’s not one of his female costars who we haven’t actually seen filming yet or with a member of the film crew or even an extra?? It could literally be anyone and if he is seen with a girl it could be completely innocent and god forbid just a friend who he knows - shocking I know that he can have female friends who are just that!! Mind blown 🤯
Why does every girl HAVE to automatically be a girlfriend or even a prospect - I mean seriously WTF and then some fans wonder why he’s never seen with females in public?!?!? You’ve just answered your own question (obv I don’t mean you or the fan accounts who actually have some sense and don’t feed into the frenzy as you lot are the only ones keeping me sane!)
I just hate that some fans want to pigeonhole him and try mould and make him into something they want him to be. If he doesn’t fit into their ideals then they complain - he’s not doing enough films, or doing ones that aren’t box office contenders or he’s picking the wrong films full stop. He’s not being seen at enough events but yet if he goes to every opening of an envelope he will be wrong. He’s not doing enough to keep him popular or in the media (think he had his fill with Voldemort plus a whole lot more) Add on the constant duexshit pinning him to everyone and anyone then everyone going wild but we all know when he eventually does get a gf that she will practically get a full autopsy from said fans. Who will then Stan them to the extreme but only if it fits their ideals.
It’s all draining and annoying as hell and that’s as a fan just imagine if he saw even a quarter of what we do. I think we can all now see why he chooses to stay off social media - it’s for his own sanity!!
How do we know that if he has been seen with a girl (no pic no proof) that it’s not one of his female costars who we haven’t actually seen filming yet or with a member of the film crew or even an extra?? It could literally be anyone and if he is seen with a girl it could be completely innocent and god forbid just a friend who he knows - shocking I know that he can have female friends who are just that!! Mind blown 🤯
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Thank you for speaking reason in here girl.
Some fans online are losing their minds and common sense.
Austin has friends who are women. Ashley Tisdale being one of famous ones we know of. Keep in mind, Austin grew up around a sister, so I'm sure he is comfortable around women, not only just men.
I'm still not sure where this Barbara woman would have known that information (is she stalking him?) in the first place.
Why does every girl HAVE to automatically be a girlfriend or even a prospect - I mean seriously WTF and then some fans wonder why he’s never seen with females in public?!?!? You’ve just answered your own question (obv I don’t mean you or the fan accounts who actually have some sense and don’t feed into the frenzy as you lot are the only ones keeping me sane!)
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I think what it might be is that Austin is so ridiculously good-looking that some people just can't fathom that he would actually be able to be just friends with a woman. So, in their minds, any woman who so much as breathes within a 20 ft radius of him must be a romantic prospect. 🙄
I just hate that some fans want to pigeonhole him and try mould and make him into something they want him to be.
It is truly exhausting. 😩
Add on the constant duexshit pinning him to everyone and anyone then everyone going wild
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That's a new one for me! 😄
but we all know when he eventually does get a gf that she will practically get a full autopsy from said fans. Who will then Stan them to the extreme but only if it fits their ideals.
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Say that out loud! It's so true! 📢
You hit the nail squarely on the head with this one.
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