#it /trans/cends /gender/!

[therighthandofvengeance]

sure, it’s a “heterosexual relationship” but, I mean, their characterization is extremely bi & aro/acespec , respectively. girlboss x malewife transcends gender.

[doomdoomofdoom]

I'm a guy. I'm a woman. I'm a dude. I'm something in between. I'm something entirely else. I'm all of these things. I'm none of these things. I'm a secret third, fourth, and fifth option. I am every gender and no gender simultaneously. no mortal words can contain me. i have become too powerful.

[fried-berries]

ally <3

HUH....

[transtalesofdoom]

The Ghost in the Mirror: Coming out to Myself

continued from here; long post about realizing I was trans all along. It's a good read, 4 out of 5 stars, recommend.

During the second half of 2023, I tried a different name. Just with my close friends and online, to see how it felt. Not even really for gender reasons, just because a strained relationship with my mother made me dislike my given name. At least that's what I told myself, and to this day I don't know if that was true or not.

Christmas that year was stressful. I spent it at my grandmas and interacted way too much with my family. On the 28th, in between Christmas and New Years, I was up in the guest bathroom, brushing my teeth way too late at night. I looked up at the mirror - and the person I saw was a man.

This had never happened before. There was nothing different about my appearance. I'd had short hair plenty of times before, and the current haircut wasn't recent, either. I had always seen myself in the mirror, and every flaw that came with it. The weird, mostly cis woman shaped blob of mismatched features. But not that night. Not in that very moment.

The person in the mirror was, undeniably, me. But a guy. A dude. A man. I was scared to blink or look away, just in case the moment would pass. I tilted my head. Turned it left and right. After a while, I dare to pull faces and ruffle my hair to change the perception of myself. It stays a dude. At the most extreme, I manage 'genderless bog witch caught at unflattering angle'. But it's still a guy.

And as I look at this version of myself, that looks no different than I usually do, and yet is completely different, it all falls into place. The new name I've been trying, it's the wrong one. The guy in the mirror has a different name, the other name I had been considering. The more masculine of the two.

But what's really, truly astounding, was my face. The same face I had scrutinized in the mirror so many times. The nose too big, the eyes too slim, the mouth too droopy. Until now. Now, out of nowhere, my face made sense. Everything had suddenly come together. This was my face. A guys face. And it looked exactly the way it was meant to be. It just made sense.

And that was the first time I felt gender euphoria.

Of course, finally realizing you're a dude brings a whole new set of questions. Especially if you're not of the binary variety. I'm going to fast-forward you to the conclusion of the next few months of questioning: Gender is unknowable, I trans-cend all mortal labels, but if I have to explain it, I typically go for "trans masculine" and/or "genderqueer", and yes I can still call myself "gay" when looking at women. Everything's gay with the right attitude.

[nicosraf]

Dina is my favorite bean and I love him a lot! I hope I see more with him and Lucifer!!! I love their interactions together!!! Also, do angels have genitalia? I’m wondering since Lucifer came up with the words “c*nt and c*ck”. I was wondering if they have either one or the other or both or Lucifer just invented having a junk! These are important questions 👀

!!! I'm really happy you like Dina! Dina is a fav of mine that'll get a lot of development as the story goes along, including with Lucifer! I hope you'll enjoy :) <3

Also, I'm actually shocked it took someone this long to ask about angel genitalia skskssk. But sure, I'll try to answer normally:

I made two things about sex organs vague in ABM: 1. Whether the angels have always had genitalia or whether it was created at some point in the book, 2. What the genitalia actually looks like.

For 1, it's because regardless of whether sex organs were there from the start, its complete absence from the angels' consciousness means they might as well have been genitalia-less. The Interlude actually tells the story of the creation, or discovery, of sex organs. So, did Lucifer, afterward, physically create the sex organs of other angels or just make them aware of cock/cunt? I don't think there's a difference really. I like that it's unknown. I like this uncertainty about whether Lucifer can create or not. (Is it creation just to name??)

2. Again, this is one of those things where I don't think it matters. Michael and Lucifer are gay no matter what they have going on between their legs. I use incomprehensible language when I refer to their genitalia because it's meant to be incomprehensible. You're not supposed to totally understand. (Though angel genitials (and sex) will be discussed a lot more in the sequel).

And it's hard to answer this without going on a big rant about the nature of God's complicated gender and how angels are reflections of him. I'll try to just be simple.

Functionally, angels, like God, are intersex, but you can imagine their sexual organs to be any manifestation of that or otherwise. They can be whatever. They can have a cock and a cunt like Lucifer said, or some way to switch between the two, or another option. They might be intersex but intersexuality has always presented itself in different ways!!

(And I want to mention that I wanted to leave room for a trans imagination (that phrase is a bit weird but yeah). Maybe Lucifer only has a cunt. Maybe the 'intersexuality' is less about biological functions and more about an angel trans-cending gender in a way very 1-to-1 with human trans people. Maybe all angels have top scars.)

If you're asking because you want to make NSFW art or write something NSFW, you have my blessing to literally give them whatever AHSKSHS They're angels. They're gay. That's all that matters.

Also, sorry I always have these weird, interpretative answers. I promise I'm not usually like this. ABM is just a weird book aha

[kadkadduwa]

pisha is sapphic. and trans(cends gender)

[noneuclideanwhimsy]

‘Are you transmasc or transfem’ I trans-cend linear time. My gender exits at every point in time and space simultaneously, and yet it does not exist.

[personally-i-practise-lesbomancy]

Uhhhh coming out ig

I have transcended Gender, (haha get it trans very funny) I'm not sure about labels as of right now (whether I'm a demigirl, bigender or something else) but I use she/they pronouns interchangably so tah dah B)

[kinkymagnus]

Would you say Magnus TRANScends gender norms??

i can’t believe i missed this one!!! fuck!! i meant to add it to the others but i must have missed it

but god you know what i do think this is my favorite

he absolutely does transcend the silly mundane gender binary of the modern western world

[inkmaze]

"trans"cending gender

🤔 perhaps... v glad u suggested a tag tho 🍀

[ao3feed-destiel]

Trans-cend

Read it on AO3 here!http://bit.ly/2IhoFxk

by KaylaAnne2

Castiel is placing his son, Jack, in daycare into the capable hands of Dean Winchester. Cas has had it hard as a single, trans dad, but he's doing his best. Dean accepting him helps him through some of the hardships he encounters as he comes to completely trust and love Dean.

Words: 4972, Chapters: 2/2, Language: English

Fandoms: Supernatural

Rating: Mature

Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings

Categories: M/M

Characters: Castiel (Supernatural), Dean Winchester, Sam Winchester, Jack Kline, Luci, Michael (Supernatural), Zachariah (Supernatural)

Relationships: Castiel/Dean Winchester

Additional Tags: trans!cas, Destiel - Freeform, Hurt/Comfort, Gender Dysphoria, Body Dysphoria, Love, Teacher!Dean, parent!Cas, Hurt!Cas, Support, dean is a good boyfriend, Panic Attacks, jack has panic attacks, cas is a good dad, Like oh my gosh, so sweet, period related dysphoria, self-conscious cas

Link: http://bit.ly/2IhoFxk

[stagmage]

September poetry vibes

(in order: i hate my gender but yours is worse by trans-cend, the love song of j alfred prufrock by t.s eliot, take by trans-end, i come with knives by IAMX, treasure by flyleaf)

[yourfriendphoenix]

Of course I'm trans. I've trans-cended gender

[qcrip]

This shoot is super important to me. Of course, as an homage to Dita Von Teese’s “Lazy”, but also as my own little “fuck you” to ableism.

We’ve all heard myth that disabled people leach off of society. Blatant lie. Most disabled people I know contribute loads to the world, through activism, work, art, community support, compassion, storytelling, innovation, sharing wisdom, etc. and hey, even if we didn’t, we’d still deserve basic respect and access. Everyone does! 

 Nevertheless, this myth means most (if not all) disabled people have times where we’re criticized as selfish for wanting basic decency: respect, access, privacy, autonomy, etc. Forget about real indulgence. 

 I really, truly do believe we all (disabled or otherwise) deserve & NEED a bit of indulgent pleasure in our lives. Unfortunately, whenever we do allow ourselves a bit of well earned hedonism, people use it as proof for their political agenda, or some sort of moral failing. 

 So here, for the politicians, media personalities, and random people on the street who believe disabled people are selfish, spoiled leaches on society. Check out me being more indulgent than you could ever imagine & looking damn good doing it.

[image desc: 3 photos of me, a nonbinary indian wheelchair user in lingerie and a pink robe. I’m surrounded by props including flowers, letters, a maraschino cherries, glitter, and a book that says “fuck your binary erotica that trans-cends gender”]

Photo by Sophie Spinelle of Shameless Photography

https://www.instagram.com/pansystbattie/

[reynirderolo]

trans(cending)gender

[weebhour]

also cant stop thinking about nobaras gender.......... it is so Deliberate on her part. this is her work gender this is her leisure gender and they are both the same but also different. little witch girl is like "oh so youre cis. you know it can be really helpful to examine your feelings about gender and its role in your life even if you still decide youre cis" and nobaras like girl i have transcended (trans-cended) you sorry. nobody gets nobaras gender (except maki whose gender is different but similarly deliberate) but she simply does not care.