#is this considered deadnaming
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only real fans remember when loid and yor forger were called lloyd and yoru folger ✨️
#spy x family#loid forger#yor briar#lloyd folger#yoru briar#the olde days#is this considered deadnaming#do lloyd and yoru only exist in the vacuums of the minds of readers who have been reading sxf since it came out?
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It's entirely irrelevant headcanon but I need y'all to know that Jay's deadname is Diana
#libber left him with a note with his name on it and an order to not tell him a that he was adopted#diana was cliff's mother's name#libber named him after her because she felt guilty about taking cliff's baby from him (even though she was entirely justified)#no one EVER called Jay that name tho#it didn't suit him from the beginning#he doesn't even consider it a deadname it's just. not his name.#the name change timeline goes diana→di→dee→deej→deejay→jay#ninjago#ninjago jay#jay walker
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coworker deadnamed me today after literally 3 years of using my preferred name ???
#i kinda just sat there like :/#even my producer was like ??#idk how it could be an accident considering no one calls me my deadname ever#but ok
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noel and identity loss...
trying to articulate why it feels wrong to call him charlie, because thats still him but at the same time not.
he's changed and things cant go back to the way they were, noel took up a new name one to remember but also to move on
i don't think noel is a fake name to him more so just a new identity he's taken up as an extension of himself. or at least someone he's rebuilt himself as after the dreamlands. i don't think he's discarded charlie as an identity but that he just has two names that are both very real to him, however just one of them is more in the forefront than the other so he'd be unused to his old name being used.
but i also think that he'd feel extremely disconnected to his old life and name that it would be uncomfortable and feel wrong for him, might feel that his past is catching up to him or maybe he'd be afraid that if he stops using noels name he'd be abandoning him in some way
or just using the name as an escape from the king in yellow who likely would've called him by his original name
i recognise this is like probably nothing at all but it is rotating in my brain and i need to get it out, i love saying shit and being completely incoherent
#may be hard projecting but i think that noel wouldn't respond to charlie on instinct#or at least wouldn't realise that he is the one being called#maybe he'd jump or flinch at the name but wouldn't perceive it as being him ; it'd just be a name he'd recognise#me with my not-dead-deadname that i use for government stuff because changing legal name is complicated#and it's not like i entirely hate my original name since it's already genderneutral all things considered but still feels so WEIRD#i can deal with being called it but it's just not ?? who i perceive myself as?#DOES THIS MEAN ANYTHING??#anyway taking up the name of someone/something that is important to you is core transgender experience right#i'm normal and i have normal thoughts about characters i enjoy#i am just saying things and people can agree/disagree with whatever they want btw i love making thigns up#detective noel#malevolent
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ive been trying to find this old EP called Good Life (and a self titled one) by a band called Captain Kidd for forever!! i loved this EP and listened to it on repeat in middle school. they suddenly took it down one day and ive been searching since. i even messaged the band at some point and got left on read.
i tried my search again today, could only find a few youtube uploads but no full EP. i was at my wits end and i couldn't help but message the actual band's fb acc to be passive aggressive and
literally feel like this image rn. NEVER GIVE UP ‼️‼️‼️
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my father told me my little siblings (nine and eleven fucking years old) aren’t old enough to know about trans people, so im not allowed to come out to them during the entire ass fucking week im staying here 👍👍 welcome to deadname fucking city population me
#I haven’t even been here a full day and im already sick of hearing my deadname#for the love of god they tell two year olds about pronouns I think a middle schooler can handle it#considering coming out at thanksgiving dinner out of spite
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have you regretted what you named your sims?
ehhh i've never seriously regretted any of their names! if i did, i'd just give them a nickname or change it somehow. but there are a few that i definitely wouldn't choose today. like where did i even pull mikaela from?? (but i do love seeing people attempt to spell it in messages, it makes me laugh every time) and i guess i wish i had given stevie a worse deadname because i actually really love the name jett, but it's too unique for me to ever use again without thinking of her
#she doesn't really have negative feelings about the names jett or jay because she chose those herself rather than her birth name#which is why i feel fine bringing it up#obviously if someone used those names for her while knowing she goes by stevie now it would be a different story#but otherwise they're more like stepping stones#especially jay because that's something asa suggested with love and care#so i don't know if she would even consider them deadnames#that's an interesting question#i would love to hear from trans people who used to go by more than 1 previous names/nicknames#do you feel differently about those names now?#anonymous#asks#nonsims#brandi answers
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OC-Tober: Day 5: Re-designed OC.
So much about Arrow has changed. He's not even in a sci-fi universe anymore lol.
#digital art#my art#original character#oc-tober#oc tober#bweirdoctober#oc: arrow#also both arrow and aily are both chosen names they dont consider aily a deadname its just like. babys first namechange.
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man i really do like the name victor for myself it just clicked the second my mom said it when i asked her about what other names i could’ve had a lil while back i cant stop thinking about it
#i reset my island on animal crossing and made my name victor just as like a little test to see how i feel#and you guys i really like that name 😵💫#i feel like victor suits me SO well#ill always go by moon still and honestly with my family i use a nickname of my deadname but its at least a pretty neutral name lol#but i’m strongly considering going by victor … Maybe ah#ah much to think about!!!!
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look okay it's bad to erase marvin's canonical sexuality and the fact that She Likes Men but i literally genuinely with all my heart think that she is a trans woman
#the repetition of in trousers = gender roles forced on him#i'm still alive and sick of counting#something's missing in my life... i have a family#i love being marvin SHE IS SOOO IN DENIAL#banging his groin with his fist#SHOULD HIS MOTHER BE BLAMED.#i tell him he's a person- he says i'm just ridickalous#btw she is literally distancing herself from her body and sense of self... man i can't begin to express how feral i am about this.#uhm also projecting onto miss goldberg because she is “perfect womanhood”#miss goldberg is transition goals#no literally she's obsessed with her !!!!#“made me what i am today” COME ON. FUCK.#also the constant references in both in trousers and falsettos to marvin being a boy. internalised transphobia you will never understand her#she's so attached to the women in her life and fails to be a “good man” for them as she tries to fit herself into a typical male role#and she's unclear and simplistic over typical male family roles (eg “daddy makes good money // that's what daddy's for)#“listen i'm a bastard bummer with a penis” she's so in denial my lord#a person who likes to lie too much SHE IS LYING TO HERSELF 😭#i try too much to impress other people#her suicidal thoughts as well! she is contantly thinking about how she will die or what will happen when she dies or whatever#LITERALLY DEADNAME.#how the body falls apart first the groin and then the heart..! she literally only considers her value as a man to be her groin#and even then she fucking hates it#uhm and also i feel him slippimg away. of course you do#“HE” is liyerally dying.#“people might ask does he feel awful that and was he grieved”#i'm done i'm tired now. maybe more coming soon#also pavelkaramazov if you see this *I* sent the in trousers ask i was just on anon because i hate my main blog#in trousers#marvin trilogy
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Will someone come give me a hysterectomy I’ll make you donuts
#I’m tired of pain#I make really good gluten and dairy free lemon glazed donuts#and maple chai donuts#crazy how I’d literally almost gotten my ob to sign off on me getting a hysterectomy when I had insurance#until my mom said my name instead of my deadname and the Dr realized I was trans#then suddenly I couldn’t get a hysterectomy and I was told to not bring it up again because I was ‘too young’#trans man#endometriosis#pcos#those were why she was considering signing off on the hysterectomy cause I kept ending up in the er from pain and bc wouldn’t work#I would’ve settled for her putting me back on T but this was a very bigoted Christian obgyn clinic#and she tried to say that T would make everything worse even though it has been the one medication to actually stop my symptoms/pain
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name tags
#riverin art#underestimated the power of long-term deadnaming in a space i regularly have to be in /derogatory#it Was a needed push for me to take action on my end to change things and have my environment be more tolerable#but yeag. still uncomfy feelings in the moment that caught me off guard all things considered#i'm EXTREMELY fortunate that my work place is lgbtq+ friendly. but i'm still anxious for specific individual interactions yanno#the horrifying ordeal of being known and all#gender#thonks....
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my best #1 elden ring theory is as follows, but here's my like evidence or whatever first:
rennala was the start of the carian royal line
the area where rannis rise is is called three sisters (n there are three rises)
rennala has three kids and no known siblings
theory: ranni rykard and radahn are all trans but ranni came out first
#wheeltext#elden ring#one of the towers is named rennas tower and ig that could be the snow witches name considering how big of a kinnie ranni is#and that she was going under that as a pseudonym in her snow witch cosplay#so unfortunately the only flaw in my great theory would be ranni introducing herself using her brothers deadname#THEN AGAIN one one of the towers called fucking seluviss tower so ahe mightve just renamed it after her mentor when the other two bailed.#ranni the demigod student of the snow witch empyrian and possible great rune wielder called upon the ancient laws of dibs
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Going back to my dads is always a trip
#my sister broke up with her long time bf. my baby brother is getting REALLY into golf after another sister.#my stepmom still uses my deadname (which i havent used in 4 years and legally changed more than a year ago)#also they keep grabbing the cat!! shes scared you're traumatising her!!!!#anyways#ent talks#HOW IS EVERYONE SO GOOD AT USING HE/SHE FOR THE CAT BUT WOULDNT CONSIDER IT FOR A REAL PERSON#(im sorry venus you're real just not a people)
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In a minute thinking about how when i first propositioned the name euphony (during a high school thought experiment from an english teacher when i had considered and come to the conclusion i wasn't trans) i was questioned by the same teacher "Like the word on the wall" (Long story, english teach set dressing of synonyms for commonly used words/phrases including euphony) and just thinking like, do you think you're punching up? When you make fun of weird names, people trying to carve a path for themself either by picking an alliterative name or a symbolic one do you think you're punching up by talking about how wacky or zoomer or noun the name is? Go fuck yourself.
#This is about how people love to make fun of 'goofy' names without considering folks ya'know naming themselves#like theres not a win option if you pick your own name its 'wow why did you pick that'#the reason doesn't matter either it's like a deadname (weird) a noun (weird) an inspiration (weird) or any other thing (weird)
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Full sketchbook page of younger Constant doodles. I am rotating this OC like never before
#truly what inspired this was finding what they were called before#because they were not always constant! they picked that out as a family tradition#the tiefling thing of having virtue names#i made it into 'around coming of age some cultures of tieflings will change their names to a quality they want to embody'#constant's mom is named passion for example#you could find a mystery or a dashing or a quiet or a resolute#how common that is varies by region and it's tied to specific cultures among tieflings#all the tieflings you see in bg3 have tiefling names and not a single virtue name in there#but constant's mom comes from a family that does it#and constant wanted to as well. they felt it was a good coming of age custom#they picked constant for steadfastness. predictability. regularity. dependability. constancy!#and because they wanted it to be a name name as well since their dad isn't from that tradition#and so having their birth name lets me kind of see who they used to be. well it's the same guy! but they're not constant Yet#they haven't committed to this specific way of living yet#they were almost curiosity. or insight maybe. something like that (in universe. me the creator i never considered anything else seriously)#but they wanted to be there for people more than to focus on discovering things#and their curiosity is so very regular it works with being reliable honestly#you know they'll touch that button and go check the weird book out and lick the spider and drink the potion. you plan for it#by the end of the adventure their companions see some strange little mystery and go 'constant. please don't touch that' by reflex#but yeah it's made me think of baby constant-who-wasn't-constant-yet#i feel weird putting the name out cause it's not a deadname but it kind of is?#they're not that kid anymore in the tiefling tradition way and in the trans way. but also they were that kid in both ways once again#anyway. my darling. constant crestridge. they didn't make it alliterative on purpose btw it just happened#wow i have an ocs tag now#bg3
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