#is this considered deadnaming

[vraisetzen]

only real fans remember when loid and yor forger were called lloyd and yoru folger ✨️

[penofwildfire]

It's entirely irrelevant headcanon but I need y'all to know that Jay's deadname is Diana

[apollos-olives]

coworker deadnamed me today after literally 3 years of using my preferred name ???

[eyewyrm]

noel and identity loss...

trying to articulate why it feels wrong to call him charlie, because thats still him but at the same time not.

he's changed and things cant go back to the way they were, noel took up a new name one to remember but also to move on

i don't think noel is a fake name to him more so just a new identity he's taken up as an extension of himself. or at least someone he's rebuilt himself as after the dreamlands. i don't think he's discarded charlie as an identity but that he just has two names that are both very real to him, however just one of them is more in the forefront than the other so he'd be unused to his old name being used.

but i also think that he'd feel extremely disconnected to his old life and name that it would be uncomfortable and feel wrong for him, might feel that his past is catching up to him or maybe he'd be afraid that if he stops using noels name he'd be abandoning him in some way

or just using the name as an escape from the king in yellow who likely would've called him by his original name

i recognise this is like probably nothing at all but it is rotating in my brain and i need to get it out, i love saying shit and being completely incoherent

[ecstasydemon]

ive been trying to find this old EP called Good Life (and a self titled one) by a band called Captain Kidd for forever!! i loved this EP and listened to it on repeat in middle school. they suddenly took it down one day and ive been searching since. i even messaged the band at some point and got left on read.

i tried my search again today, could only find a few youtube uploads but no full EP. i was at my wits end and i couldn't help but message the actual band's fb acc to be passive aggressive and

literally feel like this image rn. NEVER GIVE UP ‼️‼️‼️

[softpine]

have you regretted what you named your sims?

ehhh i've never seriously regretted any of their names! if i did, i'd just give them a nickname or change it somehow. but there are a few that i definitely wouldn't choose today. like where did i even pull mikaela from?? (but i do love seeing people attempt to spell it in messages, it makes me laugh every time) and i guess i wish i had given stevie a worse deadname because i actually really love the name jett, but it's too unique for me to ever use again without thinking of her

[babyforestnymph]

man i really do like the name victor for myself it just clicked the second my mom said it when i asked her about what other names i could’ve had a lil while back i cant stop thinking about it

[maybemeursault]

look okay it's bad to erase marvin's canonical sexuality and the fact that She Likes Men but i literally genuinely with all my heart think that she is a trans woman

[sinecosinewheel]

my best #1 elden ring theory is as follows, but here's my like evidence or whatever first:

rennala was the start of the carian royal line

the area where rannis rise is is called three sisters (n there are three rises)

rennala has three kids and no known siblings

theory: ranni rykard and radahn are all trans but ranni came out first

[anarchypumpkincowboy]

Will someone come give me a hysterectomy I’ll make you donuts

[dyke-mecha]

Cool also just got deadnamed in the roommate group chat.

[technovillain]

the chilling thought that lizzie's full name could indeed be elizabeth

[the-adhd-duck-on-your-shoulder]

i'm a girl in the same way i'm catholic

[tiredflowercrown]

I was gaslit by a fellow student as a child

Wtf

How am I just realizing this

[aurischolar]

oh my god. before my surgery yesterday a nurse or something came into my little ward room and they were all like “hi, you go by veer right? oh sorry- is it pronounced ‘veer’ or ‘verr’?”

and i was just gobsmacked… verr..? Verr??? where do u get that from V-E-E-R 😭 bless the staff for valiantly attempting to use my name and pronouns tho fr

[pperfectly-wrongg]

if youre in a soulmate au and youre trans does your soulmate have your deadname or your real name