#is this considered deadnaming

[vraisetzen]

only real fans remember when loid and yor forger were called lloyd and yoru folger ✨️

[penofwildfire]

It's entirely irrelevant headcanon but I need y'all to know that Jay's deadname is Diana

[apollos-olives]

coworker deadnamed me today after literally 3 years of using my preferred name ???

[eyewyrm]

noel and identity loss...

trying to articulate why it feels wrong to call him charlie, because thats still him but at the same time not.

he's changed and things cant go back to the way they were, noel took up a new name one to remember but also to move on

i don't think noel is a fake name to him more so just a new identity he's taken up as an extension of himself. or at least someone he's rebuilt himself as after the dreamlands. i don't think he's discarded charlie as an identity but that he just has two names that are both very real to him, however just one of them is more in the forefront than the other so he'd be unused to his old name being used.

but i also think that he'd feel extremely disconnected to his old life and name that it would be uncomfortable and feel wrong for him, might feel that his past is catching up to him or maybe he'd be afraid that if he stops using noels name he'd be abandoning him in some way

or just using the name as an escape from the king in yellow who likely would've called him by his original name

i recognise this is like probably nothing at all but it is rotating in my brain and i need to get it out, i love saying shit and being completely incoherent

[ecstasydemon]

ive been trying to find this old EP called Good Life (and a self titled one) by a band called Captain Kidd for forever!! i loved this EP and listened to it on repeat in middle school. they suddenly took it down one day and ive been searching since. i even messaged the band at some point and got left on read.

i tried my search again today, could only find a few youtube uploads but no full EP. i was at my wits end and i couldn't help but message the actual band's fb acc to be passive aggressive and

literally feel like this image rn. NEVER GIVE UP ‼️‼️‼️

[softpine]

have you regretted what you named your sims?

ehhh i've never seriously regretted any of their names! if i did, i'd just give them a nickname or change it somehow. but there are a few that i definitely wouldn't choose today. like where did i even pull mikaela from?? (but i do love seeing people attempt to spell it in messages, it makes me laugh every time) and i guess i wish i had given stevie a worse deadname because i actually really love the name jett, but it's too unique for me to ever use again without thinking of her

[art-ofatypical]

OC-Tober: Day 5: Re-designed OC.

So much about Arrow has changed. He's not even in a sci-fi universe anymore lol.

[babyforestnymph]

man i really do like the name victor for myself it just clicked the second my mom said it when i asked her about what other names i could’ve had a lil while back i cant stop thinking about it

[maybemeursault]

look okay it's bad to erase marvin's canonical sexuality and the fact that She Likes Men but i literally genuinely with all my heart think that she is a trans woman

[riverin-stories]

name tags

[anarchypumpkincowboy]

Will someone come give me a hysterectomy I’ll make you donuts

[sinecosinewheel]

my best #1 elden ring theory is as follows, but here's my like evidence or whatever first:

rennala was the start of the carian royal line

the area where rannis rise is is called three sisters (n there are three rises)

rennala has three kids and no known siblings

theory: ranni rykard and radahn are all trans but ranni came out first

[meu-meu-kissy-ceutie]

In a minute thinking about how when i first propositioned the name euphony (during a high school thought experiment from an english teacher when i had considered and come to the conclusion i wasn't trans) i was questioned by the same teacher "Like the word on the wall" (Long story, english teach set dressing of synonyms for commonly used words/phrases including euphony) and just thinking like, do you think you're punching up? When you make fun of weird names, people trying to carve a path for themself either by picking an alliterative name or a symbolic one do you think you're punching up by talking about how wacky or zoomer or noun the name is? Go fuck yourself.

[moinsbienquekaworu]

Full sketchbook page of younger Constant doodles. I am rotating this OC like never before

[pinkdean]

might have to skip employment law tomorrow cause we're talking about religion and idk if i can be respectful to be honest

[silverislander]

my parents really seem to want me to pick up choir again now that i have a steady job and i really dk how to feel abt it

positives:

i do like and miss choir/ensemble music in general

i would like to join some kind of group outside of work (i really don't get out enough)

it might be a great opportunity to make friends which is hard for me. i should take any opportunity to do that that i can

on that note, might really help my anxiety

negatives:

the only choirs that i know of around here are either 1. women's choirs or 2. church choirs and i really very much don't want to join either for reasons i hope are obvious

i haven't really sang in a long time now. my anxiety got so bad i can't play or sing in front of others anymore, esp my family

i have had pretty bad experiences w making friends in musical spaces before esp w voice. i will get put in the soprano section and i am fully expecting that at least some of the other women there will treat me like i'm diseased bc i'm butch

^^^ which will absolutely make my anxiety worse

honestly i am mostly only interested in hanging out w other queer people. i just want to meet other people like me yk? it's lonely

now there is in fact a queer choir here and i am Looking at it (have wanted to join since the pandemic if i'm honest). however. their practice times are the exact same time and date as my mom's church band practice every week. so i have no way to get there. and i'd have to contend w my whole "not out to my family" situation and do the fucking hoop jumping w names/pronouns shit, esp for concerts. which is a nightmare