#is it a defence mechanism?
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Chopper, a concerned professional trying to watch out for the safety of his patients:
Law, a dramatic edgelord:
Me 100 episodes ago:
#I want to know if he's doing it on purpose#like. is he self aware?#is it for fun?#is it a defence mechanism?#is it autism?#is this behavior a result of his no doubt lovely upbringing?#can't confirm a diagnosis until I've watched all the episodes but I'm taking notes#trafalgar law live reaction#one piece#doctor vs surgeon
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i think sometimes 'jane austen girly' jason todd would try and screw with damian after getting particularly agitated by his never-ending formality, and just start matching it in every conversation.
he turns into a walking shakespeare play until damian himself gets annoyed at the way he's being spoken to and tones it down.
#this goes hand in hand with the whole damian talking more and more formally as a defence mechanism thing#jason todd#damian wayne#batboys#robin#red hood#the robins#batfam#batfamily#dc batman#dc comics#dcu#dc#gothihop speaks
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I will never not be devastated at the fact that Edwin, this (forever-)16-year-old who doesn't know how to fight like Charles, or use a weapon, or anything like that, can run so much faster than Charles, or anybody in the show for that matter. Because he's had to. He's had to for 70 years. And he's still waiting for the other shoe to drop.
Crystal (in her 'past life') learnt to insult people because (it seems like) that was the only way people would listen to her (aka her parents).
Charles learnt to immediately go on the offensive (to protect others, not himself) because he can't let anyone else be hurt the way he was hurt by the person who was supposed to care for him.
Niko learnt to forgive people and take the kindest route because that was how her dad taught her to be, how he'd want her to be.
Jenny learnt to close herself off from people because she's been too open in the past, and she can't afford to be vulnerable again.
And Edwin learnt to run, because there was no point in fighting back, because the only way he wasn't going to have to watch his own corpse be horrifically murdered again and again was if he ran.
The final scene of the show is the first time he's stopped in one hundred and eight years.
#didnt expect to write 5 mini character studies but hey#dead boy detectives#defence mechanisms#edwin payne#charles rowland#crystal palace dbd#niko sasaki#jenny dbd#dbda
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8x06 time loop au where tommy keeps reliving the day of the break up — tries breaking up with buck, tries not breaking up with buck and delaying the inevitable for another day, tries never having the conversation in the first place, tries distracting buck with sex, tries fucking off from los angeles, tries ghosting buck, tries picking up a shift and dying in a helicopter crash for fun, tries anything and everything until eventually it turns out that the only way to get out of the time loop is to let buck see the real him and dig up every terrifying word of vulnerability hidden inside him 🫡🌚
#when u avoid letting ur bf see anything of substance as a defence mechanism for six months and time loop gods are like#hehe no 🥰#bucktommy
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jordan playing it off bc they think marie only hooked up with them bc their minds got messed with so they’re acting indifferent towards the situation even tho they obviously like her and she likes them back but now she thinks they don’t like her like that because-
#THE WAY THEYRE IN MASC FORM TOO#THEY USE MASC JORDAN AS A DEFENCE MECHANISM#i could go on about how jordan feels insecure or inadequate after being second place to luke and that’s why they’re so obsessed w being#first and they don’t think marie could actually like them even tho SHE DOES#THE ANGST IM KIND OF HERE FOR IT LMAOOO#gen v#the boys#the boys gen v#marie moreau#jordan li#limoreau#mariejordan#jordanmarie#ship
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Bitzel perfectly summing it up
Like seriously, if you still follow him after everything, what is it gonna take?
#dream neg#dream situation#discourse#even the usual defence mechanism#that no criticism is ever in good faith bc it's just antis#has to fall apart at some point?#or you know#not
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the urge to change my url to valsiltverses so i can memorialise her vs. my conviction that living dead girl (which my url is a reference to) IS literally about VAL so why should i change it
#🐉#plus i think some people might kill me with hammers and knives if i change my url again. and id deserve it.#and i dont like how awkward valsiltverses is. i have 'liarsmessiah' too but i dont really want to call myself prophet of lies lol.#considering that one of my biggest self recovery projects has been unlearning compulsive lying as a trauma defence mechanism
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"I was gonna say you're like a son to me.. but you're more than that."
"It ain't that complicated!"
How quickly that shoulder pat of comfort turned into a condescending one.
#he makes me feel so emo#this life was never meant for you but your fate was forced#the way dutch (and hosea) talks to arthur like he's stupid will never sit right with me#like they've been by his side over 20 years they KNOW he isn't stupid because if he was he would have been gone a long time ago#not only is arthur incredibly emotionally smart but he's a trained conman vault breaker gunslinger horse rider you name it#the fact that his own adoptive parents break him down like that hurts#it's a manipulation tactic on dutch's end - break your victims self esteem to make them chase your praise and approval#hosea I believe has just gone along with that kind of attitude but in a different way he just likes to jest lightheartedly#arthur doesn't see the difference though and it's understandable but he takes it to heart#the worst part is that hosea sees through his tough guy act and has called arthur out on it#his act is a defence mechanism to protect himself from being too vulnerable - in arthur's mind#and it isn't a sudden thing it's very likely something that has built over the years given the life he has lived#and hosea notices he knows this#but they still jab at arthur#oh it hurts#is he your son dutch? or is he your guard dog? your personal workhorse?#playing through the second time is opening my eyes more and more#rdr2#red dead redemption 2#mick squeaks#mick rants#mick gifs#arthur morgan#dutch van der linde#liveblogging#you guys gotta understand - arthur seeks and longs for dutch's approval he'll never say it but it's the key motive behind his loyalty#and arthur *rejects* dutch's comfort#he doesn't *want* dutch to pat him on the shoulder because he knows dutch is digging them an even deeper hole#he doesn't want that touch he craves#it's so insanely monumental for such a small scene because it shows us how arthur feels without telling us
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Stranger Things x Breakfast Club AU (part ?)
#hopper is Vernon in this AU because damn them kids#billy is obviously Bender cause I mean#duh#Steve is Claire cause he’s princess s1 Steve who’s constantly trying to fit in and impress everyone#and then we get to the others#and we’re changing it up#cause we know the breakfast club explores the different challenges teens face#and tries to stereotype them etc#just hear me out cause I haven’t fully fleshed it out#but Jonathan is the weirdo quiet kid who billy mostly leaves alone because he isn’t pretending to be someone else#and Jonathan’s at home problems are his daddy issues and the (sometimes extreme) overprotectiveness of joyce#Robin is here#she’s GAY GAY GAY#I’m still trying to figure out her problems at home#something that causes her to make fun of people/push them away as a defence mechanism#and then there’s Nancy#who’s so afraid of becoming her mother#who everyone thinks is in a happy nuclear family#but she knows it’s all bullshit#and she’s so worried she’s gonna end up like that too#anyway#those are my rough hcs for this AU#my art#doodle of the day#stranger things#billy hargrove#traditional art#Jonathan byers#Jim hopper#breakfast club au
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number #1 tactic that people use to not sound as racist as they are when they talk to black people: 'uhh so you AMERICANS need to stop pretending everything is about YOU. why should i know this im not from the us :/' (= is talking about like. a phenomenally internationally well-known black artist)
#myposts#kendrick lamar#drake#i updated it from 'white europeans' to 'people' because some people pointed out that 'gringo' is probably more south american lingo#but the point i wanted to make is like. there is this subset of european people (quite a lot of them)#who try to deflect by saying them not knowing these things isn't because of an active lack of disinterest in black culture and influences#and like. them not knowing who a certain black person is is never an educational failing on their side of any sorts#but instead are pretending that like. they are by virtue of being european always correctly educated on What History And Art Is Important#like. 2 months back that one post pretending that 'us europeans dont need to know all your AMERICAN writers 🙄' talking about james baldwin?#like just because that person didnt know who james baldwin was#they immediately were mad at the implication that They Didn't Know Someone Of Cultural Significance#and twisted it into 'well he cant be that important by virtue of me not knowing him'#like completely ignoring that the european school system also has. race problems and also ignoring that he lived and wrote in France too#but like. its this really racist defence mechanism of like. 'well you stupid americans always make everything about yourselves'#i hope i make sense i didnt think this would blow up lol#and like some people in the notes of that post were so smug about not knowing who Kendrick Lamar is#bc to them thats like 'oh im too cultured to be listening to rap of any sorts' like completely dismissing his music as kind of second class#by virtue of it being rap and black music and him not being in the White Mainstream as much as other musicians#(i mean hes still like 24th most listened artist worldwide but you get what i mean)
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What if the reason Agatha’s magic siphons other peoples magic and life when they attack her is because as a child Evanora would use her magic to harm Agatha as a way of punishment? So now whenever someone else attacks Agatha/uses magic one Agatha hers automatically assumes they’re trying to kill Agatha and reacts in defence?
#agatha all along#agatha harkness#evanora harkness#she was never a decent parent to Agatha#you can’t convince me otherwise#her abuse is what made Agatha into who she is in the present#it’s 100% a self defence mechanism#the way Agatha acts it’s like no one told she was no longer in that house anymore#because with the way she’s treated she is still in that house just with different people
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Jason Grace with his stiff posture and completely straight face
#The funniest thing in the world could be happening#and he’d be like#😐#not bc it isn’t funny#It’s just a defence mechanism#my poor boy#jason grace#heroes of olympus#percy jackon and the olympians#percy jackson#riordanverse#percy jackson and the olympians#my child <3#jason grace my child#pjo fandom#rick riordan
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Friends with Benefits Nikprice, but it was never clearly negotiated and they just kinda fell into it over the years. Nik is desperately, achingly in love and John being John is just as passionate and fiery in the sack as he is in the field, and their friendship often blurs the line all over the show.
It's Nik PoV, so we can't see John's fear around intimacy - genuine intimacy where he has to open his heart, not simply use his arse and mouth well - and how he thinks that letting Nik in will only end in disaster and loss. Everyone leaves John Price, after all. He's doomed by the narrative.
#nikprice#captain john price#cod nikolai#more on this later#in 12 hours maybe#but also pining nik is top tier nik#and abrasive as a defence mechanism JP also#Spotify
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#mindless self indulgence#i love msi#msi#msi band#selfharrrm#self ship#tw sh implied#$h tumblr#pro selfship#proship selfship#selfship#the coping/defence mechanism siblings
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People who say Robin was "cool" in s3 and that they changed her character completely have no idea what they're talking about, okay, s3 Robin straight up ASKED to be included in Steve and Dustin's little spy game. If she really had a dgaf attitude, they'd have had to wear her down to help translate the code cos of her language skills. No, girlie walked in there with purpose, she had a whole list of qualifications ready, she wanted IN on that activity, as much as she acted like she was above it. Robin Buckley was just an expert at masking you have to believe me she was always neurodivergent coded.
#i refuse to get into every similarity between s3 and s4 robin rn#that can be for another day#but i will die and rot on this hill#ROBIN. WAS. NEVER. COOL. SHE. JUST. ACTED. LIKE. IT. IT. WAS. A. DEFENCE. MECHANISM.#stranger things#stranger things 3#robin buckley#maya hawke
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persephone tim canon real
#persephone tim#the mechanisms#the mechs#udad#ulysses dies at dawn#saymbles#you'll have to tell us the story sometime mechs fiction#significant quality decrease from last time i did this#in my defence i was on my ipad last time and sitting in my history class#this time im laying in bed on my phone
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