#im sick of nastiness of my dash

[possum-socks]

it’s been a report spam block typa week what’s up with all the porn on my dash????

hey newcomers! it’s all bots and bot notes! please report them for SPAM, not mature content!

flagging them for mature content will just get them a content warning. you need to report them as spam so they can be recognized as bots!

to see less of it, you could maybe try to filter out words that are often used by bots. there are also settings that allow you to hide mature content behind a warning, but this would only work if the bot post was given a mature label, and unfortunately the droid army isn’t very good at tagging posts correctly.

the most we can do is to report them as spam.

i’ve seen some confused newcomers so please rb for awareness and stay safe out there.

[elliscousland]

good news: i am feeling way better overall, the antibiotics are doing their job & i am way thankful for it. i've also got some appointments to keep up on the og issue & dealing with this has put me on the fast track to getting / keeping insurance!

bad news: i do think i got sick from sitting next to a little girl in the er & that is kicking my ass so everything in my life is way behind right now. i want to write, but i have to clean house before i clean drafts lmao

[dykefoolish]

this is just my two cents but i think some of you are getting unnecessarily angry and if you're this angry with the event you should just stop watching bc im sick of seeing your nasty untagged energy on my dash

[meyhew]

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[yuudefensesquad]

when i still see ppl reblogging that one f*joshi artist that sexualizes mika and makes him so fucking feminine and genderbent to the point where its not even fuckin healthy

[louisadmirer-archive]

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[sanchoyo]

danny phantom season 2, eps 1-5 thoughts! opening the new season with episodes like these kinda blew me away. we had multiple serious episodes INCLUDING a two parter!! also, valerie :)

see prev episode thoughts in this tag <3

-I don't know what I expected s2 to open with. but danny portal incident in more detail was not it. (also, I hate to break it to you, sam, but danny's parent's bigass ghost hunting rv def chugs more gas than those vehicles, lmao. unless it runs on ectoplasm or something...)

-WHY WAS DESIREE IN THE SEWER? HAVING TEA WITH IT DOWN THERE?? Her making the giant cow come alive is a boss move, we've almost had all of my fav animals as ghosts now <3 I also don't like how sam was expecting danny to just, haunt the place so the cars wouldn't get sold? I KNOWWW I know she's 14 (and I had a very annoying phase like this, I think I mentioned in a previous post, I GET IT) but they're HIS powers, and messing with (1) dealership will not really put a dent in sales overall because they can just move the cars to another sales lot, and it certainly wont change the industry anyway, it's more of a minor annoyance for (1) location. Also, usually people who work at car sales places work on commission, so if they dont make a sale, they don't have money to pay bills, or eat. sam baby if u wanna be an activist you need to like, actually look into these things. with as much money as her parents have, she could be doing a lot..more useful things for causes she cares about? it's frustrating to see someone with resources who doesn't know how to use them. but shes 14 so again. cannot be really upset :/

-IS THIS A PREDATOR VS TERMINATOR VS FREDDY KRUEGER MOVIE BUT THEYRE ALL WOMEN?? you know, sam is so right to be excited about this. /I/ want to see this movie. that rules

-paulina inviting danny and friends to her quinceañera, aw! even if it is just to get phantom to show up :') and there'll be a meteor shower, and we KNOW danny wants to be an astronaut!! there's not a meteor shower every night!! the tickets are non-refundable, but..she's rich? like. gotta agree with danny, they never get invited!! I KNOW it's the principle of keeping promises, but if she was that upset, she should've said something. directly. I hated how she was like, passive aggressive about it through the episode, like you SAID IT WAS FINE, THAT YOU'D GO TO THE PARTY TOO. MOVIES SHOW FOR A FEW WEEKS IN THEATERS. IF YOU HAD A REAL PROBLEM YOU NEED TO TALK ABOUT IT. WE'VE HAD THIS PROBLEM BEFORE, SAM. YOUR FRIENDS. ARE NOT. MIND READERS.

-MR. LANCER GOING AFTER THE GHOST WITH THE FIRE EXTINGISHER LMAO

-this outfit is everything . anytime the show does an over the top cutesty pink outfit i WANT IT. it looks like shit I wear JKASDHF I HAVE a bow like that and a pink sweater. I need leg warmers </3

-SAMS GOTTA RE-HALF-KILL HIM??? thats fucked up. but also, he finally got his logo!! it took until s2!!! this episode was lowkey very fucked and I felt like it glossed over a lot. does sam have guilt about like. kinda KILLING HIM?? I know, he also agreed and walked into the portal. but. she made the choice to redo it SO quickly (even if it was because someone had to beat desiree) and danny, during their fight, brought up a lot of stuff sam's done in the past, meaning he was holding onto those memories and resentment was building. (I KEEP SAYING HE LOWKEY NEEDS THERAPY, BUT I THINK MOST EVERYONE IN THIS SHOW KINDA DOES) which...is a red flag? and then they didnt even GO to the party URGH I know she tried to make up for it, but it really felt like Sam fucked up and barely faced any consequences and got everything she wanted in the end. I KNOW it's a kids show obv they aren't going to go too in depth, and she undid the damage, kinda, but...I DUNNO how to articulate it but it rubbed me the wrong way.

-but on a note about desiree, her powers of wishes were STRONG ENOUGH TO ERASE NOT JUST THEIR MEMORIES, BUT DANNY'S POWERS?! fuck, if I was danny I'd be like, trying to make friends with her. I know they always have horrible side effects as most genie-granted wishes do, but...c'mon, I'd at least TRY to be like 'I wish no ghosts would hurt anyone in my town' or 'I wish vlad would lose his ghost powers forever no matter What and also forget about my mom' LIKE. SHIT DESIREE IS SO POWERFUL. rewriting reality powerful, basically!! appreciate her. respect her.

-aww, sam helping tucker pass the nurse's office so he wouldn't see because he's afraid of medical stuff? very sweet. I also don't like medical stuff, I've gotten a lot better at handling it tho. but seeing blood and needles still makes me feel lightheaded x_x

-FOLEY, BY TUCKER FOLEY. I want to make my own perfume, that's so cool. even if his first attempt isn't good, he's pretty consistently shown to have an inventor/entrepreneur streak in the show, so like. I can see him inventing or making something (or several somethings) that make him $$$ when he grows up :) proud of my creative son

-I know the 'creepy abandoned hospital on the edge of town' is a joke and the creepy hospital trope is so Worn Out, but in my town we actually DO have a hospital like that! my dad was born in it, but its not in use and hasn't been for, like, 20 years! it needs to be torn down but I think the city doesn't wanna pay the money. the inside is horrible, spray painted and broken glass and shit everywhere. but there's still like, rusty equipment and fucking DOLLS all over the place. the cops drive by it pretty frequently to make sure no one is like, breaking in. (because of water damage, some of the areas really aren't safe. also, asbestos, but people still go in anyway) but also, some of my town was used in a filming for a stephen king show. So it's lowkey spooky all over. just a fun personal tidbit :) to lead into saying, any hospital abandoned for any period of time is NOT safe to quarantine these kids in JKSAHDKF like I KNOW it's a ghost trying to do this, but NONE of these parents are even like, 'well, why dont we keep them in the regular, working hospital'....YIKES. this hospital looks pretty accurate to the one in town. grungy and spooky.

-fentons are tax evaders confirmed by jack's fear of being audited, lol no one is surprised

-ghost sickness via ghost bugs. horrifying concept. I actually expected it to be a new villain, not dr. spectra again! this is a very elaborate scheme. her new form rules, love the new costume. the way none of the bg kids seem to recognize her as their old school councilor. did we just forget about that completely?

-dash watching romance movies in the fucked up ghost hospital. same.

-'oh please, you're ghosts, do you have any idea what YOU smell like?' no, tucker, what DO ghosts smell like? I genuinely didn't know they would even have a smell, I actually want to know now.

-it feels like a while since we've seen jazz!! i was happy to see her again, even if she was a head in a jar for most the episode. I want another jazz-focused ep!!

-we finally see danny doing space-related stuff!! him and his friends stargazing to open ep 3 of s2. cute :) until, GHOST PIRATES!!!!! ...ghost pirate captain is a small child?? VOICED BY TAYLOR LAUTNER???

-oh, the easy listening is ember's song instrumental slowed. 'vapor drone' THEY VAPORWAVED HER!!! ember in a pirate outfit tho >>>>. and the cruise being called m.bersback JKASDHJK. ember adopting a little pirate brother is also pretty cute. concerning this teen and little kid have such bad opinions of adults, like, who hurt you?? (how did you DIE ALSO?? im always lowkey curious about that. we know desiree died at an old age, but her ghost form is young, probably mid-20s, so I wonder how that sort of thing works...its a more mental thing, isn't it?) but ghost team-ups are always cool to see, even if ember bailed after danny took her guitar. I guess she probably thinks youngblood can handle it (which, he's been owning danny this far in the ep, so...fair)

-tucker got that sponsorship from nasty burger for their radio!!! again, opportunistic money maker king, love to see it!!!

-danny taking control of the kids SO FAST. he makes a pretty great leader. no one is surprised, im pretty sure I said I think he's the most mature of the trio, once again, correct, because he's taken on so much responsibility already. all the teens suiting up in the jumpsuits to go save the adults and taking the ship over with a BLIMP. OKAY LETS GO. this feels like it should be a mid finale or straight up finale.

-...speaking of finales. why is ep 4-5 of s2 combined into a 50 minute episode? I havent even clicked play and im concerned. weird placement, like, this season JUST started and we're getting a two parter? okay...why are the episodes placed like this? why not put this at episode 10 or something, for a mid-season thing?

-this is also a cute dress. possibly my fav dress so far. can her parents give ME cute dresses, I'LL wear them.

-it turns out the castle fright knight was in is called pariah's keep and there's something worse than fright knight in there! lovely! fuck off vlad wtf are you doing <3 your hubris <3 is going to literally get you killed <3 'ring of rage' and 'crown of fire' are great names tho. ...vlad turning into a super polite guy when he was scared of mr. pariah was hilarious. and fright knight doing the same...I mean, it makes sense, he's a knight, he serves a king? happy to see fright knight again either way :) vlad telling him to call him tho, lmfao. you WISH HE WOULD. (I wish hed call me, too. 😔)

-so...jack being genuinely concerned about vlad...maddie really didn't tell him what happened at the cabin, did she. damn. if I was her id immediately come home and be like 'YOU WONT BELIEVE THIS SHITTTT THIS CREEPY GUY--' like, I feel like that stuff you need to tell your partner!!! I know she didnt want Jack to think she was an irresponsible parent putting danny in danger at that time, but STILLLL. maddie spilling boiling tea on him. get his ass. how is jack this oblivious to his wife's discomfort with vlad!! ughhh

-fenton wipe (tm). trademarked toilet paper.

-DANNY AND VALERIE BEING FRIENDS??? :D that was a cute moment. 'hey val <3' and 'if you like him like him, make a move, or someone else will ;)' at sam...damn!! I love her. valerie go for it girl!!! I hate how sam and tucker treat val also, like I GET IT YOURE PROTECTIVE AND DONT TRUST but if anything him befriending valerie will help when she finds out or he tells her like I feel like she'll be more understanding that they think! ALSO I feel like her reason for not liking ghosts is valid, like you haven't really explained the full story to her anyway! she doesn't seem to have any other friends after being booted from the a-listers so im like :( but seeing them kick butt together again was nice <3

-the ghosts all RUNNING FROM PARIAH DARK IS NOT GOOD, I thought he sent them to attack or something, but no. why doesn't someone just tell desiree 'hey i wish pariah dark would die' lol. once again I think she can solve every problem <3 but seeing all the enemies in one place, being civil and hiding together? love it.

-you just know danny's gonna have to clean up vlad's stupid mess. also, jack being willing to put on the ectoskeleton pants to help maddie, as soon as vlad heard it could kill him, he suggested jack do it instead of helping maddie himself? this is why jack got the girl, my man.

-ghost skeletons. how do you end up as a skeleton ghost in your afterlife instead of a humanoid like most the ones we've seen? lmao

-the ghosts just making new homes in various stores. I'd totally be setting up in an expensive clothing store if I was a ghost.

-valerie's dad is possibly the most useful adult so far, with that ghost shield expansion!!! and valerie saving vlad and danny, even tho shes been thru it already, shes still so good!!! this family rules.

-danny: *gently caresses valerie* :)

-*then he immediately TELLS HER DAD ON HER. and his first response is 'are you okay?' :'( such a good dad...

-*me every time fright knight breathes* youre doing SO great sweetie :)

-the fenton suit thing is so silly looking. does anyone take this thing seriously

-ALL THE GHOSTS FIGHTING WITH DANNY <3 AAAAA. and the fact that pariah isn't perma-defeated, but just locked away again. yikes. he'll probably get out again, won't he? it wasn't too clear, but if vlad DID make a pact with fright knight, I am rabid. I will beat vlad to death with the fenton bat (tm). YOU DONT DESERVE A COOL KNIGHT.

-valerie being direct with sam and challenging her? kinda love that, even tho I normally don't like 'catfight' type situations. because sam has been very passive aggressive about it which is annoying. valerie knows wtf she wants and wasn't even embarrassed to tell sam, but she did tell her, giving sam time to make her own move! and sam denied it and got embarrassed/mad! and sam did have a chance when danny was about to go off and fight, and she hesitated and didn't tell him. I feel like she's hesitating because they're friends and it might make it weird between the trio (poor tucker would be third-wheeling) but if u snooze u lose, u gotta GO after what u WANT girl. smh this is a No Tsundere Zone. 😤

[betrayher]

SIX MONTHS!!! six months to the DAY since i started writing this absolute hot mess of a lady. since then so much has happened - i’ve made so many new friends, and my life has changed in so many ways, most of them for the better. the community around this show is small but mighty and absolutely all thanks to @doctorobinson, bc without her i don’t think more than half of us would have ever seen it?? like. raise ur hand if it was stella who talked u into it. yeah. i see u.

writing smith comes with its challenges, but i think my favorite part about it is the evolution of her identity. i love nothing more than a sympathetic villain with a redemption arc but it goes beyond that even, into the territory of complete reinvention. the way she thinks of herself/presents herself changes completely over the course of the show and the way it’s coded (in both dialogue and occasionally costuming) makes me, a genderqueer mun, really happy. if you’ve been around for awhile u know i quietly hc her as genderqueer too. i just... really connect to this character, even if i think she’s a nasty little gremlin for like,, MOST of canon. especially then. i too am a nasty little gremlin. it is what it is.

anyway, here’s the “party” part. i want to celebrate those of you i’ve been writing with for awhile! those that have done intricate plotting with me, or that have developed a relationship between our muses through a bunch of threads since june. if you think that applies to you, feel free to comment and i’ll chuck her in your inbox with a little something that commemorates that relationship!

and for all the new friends - consider this a bit of a plotting call! i’m so excited to get to know you and your muse/s. i have so many aus that smith can fit in and i always love adapting new ones! let’s go on some adventures together :)

aside from all that, i will be rbing memes (and character posts from my archive) all day as i work on the bio i’ve been trying to put together for like,, a week now. i do owe a few starters, which i will be attempting to get through over the course of the day as well. you’re probably gonna get sick of me on dash! im sorry! such is the way of the smithaversary! 

[fansofvow]

im here to clear up some things.

edit: just scroll to the bottom for the tl;dr cause this is a lot but i think its necessary so it doesnt seem half assed or glossed over.

if you can’t tell by the perpetual lowercase here, its mod galen! i figured i should address the drama coming on here from a different perspective. no, this isn’t mod atlas dumping all her problems on me, she’s already tried talking abt it herself - its me deciding to speak up on my own accord after seeing the shitfest my dash has become.

keep in mind - i will be happy to discuss any of this with you guys civilly, but im not going to be kind to nasty anon hate. dm us, or just send us a polite ask, and we can sort things out! if we’ve done something ignorant, i promise you we will educate ourselves and apologise sincerely.

the galen thing

first and foremost - i saw some people saying its sus that i, an nb mod, was added to the blog right after the galen debacle. it was not to save face or hide behind me! ironically, the reason i got added now of all times was because mod atlas and i were discussing what was going on, i gave my thoughts on the matter, she asked me if id be interested in being a mod!

mod atlas then thanked me for my insight and educated her on the issue and figured it would be a good idea to actually have someone in the lgbt+ community on the blog - that way, these silly ignorant mistakes will not happen again. i wont let it happen. not to mention she’s getting pretty busy in her personal life so she thought itd be a good idea to bring someone else on board.

i believe that people can learn from their mistakes - i was also hurt by that misgendering galen post. i bitched about it too. but i saw that everyone involved apologised, genuinely didn’t mean it, and promised to do better. and i’ll hold them to that! but im not gonna start talking trash abt them on other peoples blogs just bc they made a rly ignorant post. if you’re cis, i really don’t want you speaking up on this matter anymore. its not your fight. youre not in the position to forgive nor condemn any of these people. trans folk, im not going to tell you that anyone deserves your forgiveness, that’s up to you, but what they do deserve is your decent respect. unless they say theyre blatantly against trans people - aka make a deliberately transphobic statement rather than one made out of pure ignorance - in that case, all bets are off lmfao. i dont take that shit lightly and ill come for you too.

to the person who made the misgendering galen post - you know who you are, i dont want to send you any more hate than you’ve already been getting so im not going to @ you, but please. reupload your apology about the post, cause i scrolled through your blog for ages and didn’t find it - if i didn’t see it reblogged on this blog, i wouldn’t have known you apologised. i wouldn’t have felt like your blog is a safe space for nonbinary folk. its important you own up to mistakes and keep the apology there.

the nahara thing

look. im poc. im also straight up sick and tired of lovestruck’s mistreatment of dark-skinned characters, especially black characters (why do half of them look like recoloured white people....?) like nahara. its important for our representation that she does well! that way, we can get more diverse li’s on our roster in the future instead of every skinny white person getting the spotlight and 9238428903 seasons. (i love you onyx and juliette, but what the fuck.)

that being said - i dont think what mod atlas said was that bad, especially considering it wasn’t here on fansofvow, the only thing reblogged onto here being her english lesson on galen’s route with a relieved comment abt how thats a series started right.

please understand - we’ve been afraid of the new characters’ routes ever since the strike. a lot of writers left, a lot are likely to be leaving, and we’re concerned about the status of the app. this wasn’t to shoot down nahara, but out of pure relief that we’re not seeing a downwards spike in the writing quality post-strike.

that being said - if you think nahara’s route is well written, and great - thats awesome! please give her all the love for us, cause we do want her to do well. she’s just not our cup of tea. can we please respect that instead of slamming this blog’s name? nahara is still doing well, im seeing hype for her everywhere- one or two negative opinions wont change that. we’re not even going to a leave a review in-app, which is the most important form of community feedback to lovestruck.

the posts have been deleted. please, give it a rest. keep loving nahara. quit the drama.

the nikolai’s route in school thing

all the students that saw the screenshots were 18+, and none of the examples were sexual in nature. teenagers get shown romeo and juliet in school, a play ending in a double suicide, but showing adults a few lines of good writing from a 17+ app is bad? its not like she showed them a scene from a straight up porno, its just a story that happens to have sexual themes in it. its up to the students whether they read the whole story or not, and they’re mature enough to handle it. that’s all im going to say abt the matter, cause im no teacher,

and lastly...

i see a lot of people saying that we, fansofvow, need to “set an example” cause we think we’re a “fandom leader” or somehow think we’re on some high horse cause of clout? i have no idea where this started because ik for a fact mod atlas has never referred to herself as a “fandom leader” or anything like that, and guys, we’re not that up ourselves. we don’t even have tons of followers! we’re just doing our thing to support VOW. please don’t put words in our mouths.

with all that out of the way, i hope we can move on and make the community a happier place for everyone.

-mod galen

tl;dr: people make ignorant mistakes sometimes. mod atlas has apologised for reblogging the post abt misgendering galen, wants nahara to do well, only showed non-sexual writing examples of nikolai to 18+ students and never called herself a “fandom leader.”

[sunnomnoms]

An S/O got into a fight defending someone against a bully. How would BF stop the fight? (I’m curious who you choose so the choice is yours!)

Oh I get a choice!!! Rad!!!! :D I’m gonna choose one of my faves (im a sucker for side characters). Sorry if it’s a little short, I’m sick right now and preeetty tired. Anyway, here u are!!!

Ojiro Mashirao

Ojiro is not, and never really has been a confrontational person. It’s not that he doesn’t know how to respond to certain situations, that’s what he’s studying to do in hero work. It’s just that... he would much rather solve issues with his words and reasoning if he can.

This being said, when he saw you getting backed into a wall by a second year who is notorious for being a bully to first years, he acted a bit on impulse and anger when he dashed between the two of you. It was almost out of character for him.

“Hey, this isn’t funny! Back off befor I get a teacher!” He shouted at them, almost in the second years face. It wasn’t like him to be this upset and threatening, but you meant a lot to him.

It didn’t take a genius to realize you had landed a few nasty blows on the second year. Their nose gushed blood, and their lip was busted. You had done some good damage to them, considering you only have a few cuts and bruises.

The second year had dropped the act, storming off and muttering under their breath about “stupid first years”. The threat was gone now, that’s all that mattered.

You were quickly drawing into a tight hug, a familiar strong tail curling around one of your legs.

“What were you doing!? They were almost twice the size of you, you could have been really hurt!” Ojiro scolded you, his face buried into your neck.

The sound of footsteps reached both of your ears, making you both pull away and turn towards the sound.

Ojiro blinked in slight confusion. It was a petite little first year from the management course.

“Thank you [L/N]-sama! That second year,,, they always take my money any chance they get. They’re a big strong support course student, and I’m always worried one day they’re gonna beat me to a pulp!!! I’m sorry you felt you had to intervene, I hope you’re okay!!! You really are a hero!!!” The short first year said, beaming with a bright smile. You shook your head, insisting there was no need to apologize.

It all clicked for Ojiro. You didn’t just pick a fight to be stupid, you were protecting someone! Of course you were, why wouldn’t you be? Ojiro mentally face palmed for not realizing it sooner.

When the little first year headed off, Ojiro turned towards you, admiration in his eyes. Man... he really loved you.

“You really are a hero, huh [Y/N]-kun?”

You met his gaze, your face flushed a bright pink. You quickly turned your gaze elsewhere, feeling feeling far too flustered.

“Ah... it was nothing, haha.” You muttered, to which he laughed.

After all of this, he’d probably take you to Recovery Girl. Or, if you truly insisted you were fine, he’d patch you up himself. Even if you really only had a few cuts and bruises, just let him patch you up. It eases his nerves.

Ojiro probably wouldn’t let go of the incident for awhile. He it’s one of the prime examples of why he loves you: your selflessness.

Occasionally he’ll tease you for “getting yourself into trouble”. The truth is that if he was in that situation and he had no other choice, he probably would have done the same.

Some good news is that soon after that incident, the same second year received a heavy punishment for a similar situation. Karma is a bitch, isn’t she?

[wormmomma]

Voice training: a socially acceptable form of antifeminism

voice training is essential as a transgender woman. its the hidden and important staple of trans womanhood. regardless of all the hormones we take or the surgeries we use to bend and break ourselves into trans womanhood the most innaccessible thing to the trans woman is the voice. trans women unlike trans men dont run a different octive due to hormones. our voices dont magically run at a higher octive jut because we the LOOK like they should, on the contrary our voices stay the same. so in comes voice training. the practice of training ones voice should be completly innocuous but unfortunatly it isnt. in my experience it feels physically uncomfotable, racist, and the staple of antifeminist trans medcalist ideology. 

i tried voice trainging but because im lazy, broke and love myself i quit. alot of paid vocie training seminars are run by white cisgender women and unpaid are run by white trans women who ultimately (in my own opinion) sound ridiculous. in the herculaean task of the ultimate femme voice white trans women reach this ridiculous femme affect that stays inside the high pitch valley girl female octive. the voices are very femme, womanly but also high pitch, shrill and ridiculous. i guess ill be the first to say it because im a black trans woman. honestly unless janet mocke, most of the cast of pose, rico nasty (i like her voice alot) or kat blaque run a voice training course im really disinterested in the concept aas a whole. the spectrum of youtube videos on voice training range from white women who have trained and broken there vocal cords into oblivion saying “you can somehow do the same without hurting yourself in a few easy steps to something somehow much worse. the other catgortiy is profeeesional voice trainers who are white to clinical cishet and ultimately realllllyyyy uninteresting. finally in the darkest part of the internet is antifeminst trans medicalist mostly using the practice to expresss there idea of TRUE WOMANHOODD, this malformed homunculous of the respectible housewife mixed with a dash of the quiet rich cool girlfriend. the straight woman all the boys love with the bubbly white valley girl voice who barely speaks unless spoken too. it was so bad i got kinda scared but because my partner was a very (unfortunatley) straight trans wiman i fell on deaf ears. i feel like the trans voice training had no space for black women. especially the more unconventional ones like myself who are more bookish suburban and are ulitmatly more alternative and less binary in ther gender presentation. the concept of voice training makes me sad as a angry riotgrrl feminist. i wanna feel free to use my voice and sing and spak the way i always have. fuck everyone else im a woman so its feminine. thats it. its the hairy armpits are femme now because i say it is of voices. which sounds nasty but thats a good summation of how i feel. im sick of trans women being to afreaid to do videos, podcasts, hell even porn without voice training. stop breaking your vocal cords and be happy with what you have its a social dysphoria that forces us to literally break our vocal cords. i dont feel uncomfortable with my voice everyone else does. the writiers room of south park and snl hate my trans femme voice not me. i love my voice and mydelf and my trans feminisity. so since im a black woman a singer and lazy im not voice training, but hey have fun yall live in that truth all im saying is that voice trianing is not my truth.

[instantezra]

hiya! so ive had a rough day, and i cant get my mind off it. long story short, my mom is emotionally abusive and im stuck at home. could you maybe write a fluffy comfort piece with roger? if not, thats totally ok! thank you love!!

yo so this has taken me way way way too long, but i finally got somethin for you and i hope you're doing better 💕💕 always feel free to reach out to me!! i’m always an ask/message away!!

no warnings (except for some cursing and just a lil sadness)! under a read more so i don’t clog up anyone’s dash :’) also this is college rog because he is a soft cherub boi

The red blinking dot on the answering machine reminded you of the missed calls from home, the ones you didn't have the energy to deal with. It reminded you of the missed calls from your friends, the ones that wanted you to go out for the weekend, drink to forget the week and party all night. The damn blinking reminded you that you hadn't the energy to even call Roger back. How many of them were from Roger anyway?

Shit. Roger.

In your defense, the two of you had only been officially "dating" for a month now. Sure, you had known each other for two years thanks to classes and labs together, but the whole "lovey-dovey" stuff was so new. And you didn't want to mess it up with bringing your personal shit into it.

The nasty buzz of your old apartment building's call system brought you out of the blinking light's trance. You pulled yourself out from the small nest of blankets on the couch, shuffling over to the intercom.

"This is apartment 304?" You croaked out. The rough sound of your voice was a reminder that you actually hadn't spoken at all yet today. Maybe you should have cleared your throat before.

"Love? It's Rog. Can I come up?"

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Within not even a minute he was knocking at your door.

"How did you make it up so fast?" You asked, locking the door behind him and nudging his feet. He nodded at your reminder and took off his shoes.

"Well, you've had us all worried sick. You haven't been answering my calls, hell, even Brian's tried calling a couple times for me. Is everything okay?" His hands found your shoulders, rubbing small circles into them with his thumbs as he held you out in front of him. "Did you at least go to all of your classes this week?"

"Jesus, Rog, yeah I went to class. I'm not ill, just-" a heavy sigh came from your chest, "not feeling myself I guess?" His eyes narrowed, trying to read your expression. The tears brimming in your eyes must have been a dead giveaway considering he suddenly pulled you into his chest and wrapped his arms around you. No words were said for a moment. He didn't need an explanation from you, and you didn't feel the need to give one up. All you needed was someone's chest to cry into and some hugs from the person you probably cared for most in the world.

Roger led you to the couch, settling you back down into your little fortress of blankets and pillows. He nestled in beside you and tucked the blankets up under your chin so far you couldn't help but let out a giggle. The small sound of happiness from your throat made stars form in his eyes. This man was an angel, turning you from a sobbing, stressed mess into one giggling at his sweet gestures.

"You don't have to say anything, and I don't need any answers. That's not your job right now. I just want to make you feel better, m'kay?" He pulled you into his chest some more. You could tell he was a bit nervous about the whole situation by his fingers drumming patterns into your back. It wasn't long 'til his big mouth had to keep talking. "But uh... do you need anything? Tea, biscuits, I can kick someone's ass if they even looked at you wrong?"

"No, Rog," you laughed, poking him in the bicep. "Just need you right now.” There was another moment of silence, but this one wasn’t really uncomfortable. The sounds of your heater kicking on and cars passing by and simply breathing filled the apartment. Instead of filling you with anxiety, it calmed you. “Thank you for coming, Roggie. It really does mean a lot. Really."

"Of course, love. Anything for my girl."

My girl. Holy shit. You were his girl. You were Roger Taylor’s girl.

That alone was all you needed. The stress of the week was draining from you along with the tension in your body. Instead of replying - which to be fair, the words wouldn't do what you felt justice - you kissed his jaw and cuddled in more. All you needed was the feeling of his fingers mindlessly tracing shapes in your back, the sound of his heart drumming in his chest, and your boy.

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[calleo-bricriu]

So, this is some absolute horse shit I thought I'd left in 2018.

You see, these two (justasimplesecretary/fear-in-psychology and wewhoareflawed) were part of a small group, with A being someone I'm 99% sure has an OC whose first name starts with the same letter, who decided they didn't care for a Grindelwald player who went by Miss T.

I have no dog in this race, I've only spoken to Miss T on a couple of occasions and had one short thread. I do, however, have almost 30 years of group RP experience one way or another under my belt and have absolutely no tolerance for people who act like this toward a player they just happen to personally dislike, nor do I think they ought to be allowed their feeling of safety in being anonymous; people like this bank on the fact that nobody wants to “start drama” so they never get called to task in public for their poor public behavior.

Fortunately for me, I realized long ago that that attitude means they just know they can keep getting away with it

But from what I was able to find out from the involved parties they decided they disliked Miss T for reasons along the lines of:

- Refused to let their character Godmode/be more skilled than Grindelwald.

- Refused to ship with their character.

- Got tired of plots where their character always had to be the center of attention or I'd pitch an OOC fit until they relented.

And Miss T eventually got sick of it and cut them off, which is entirely fair.

And they made a "burn blog" which is still up here https://only-good-somethymes.tumblr.com/ Since I don’t trust them not to delete it (they’ve renamed it at least once), the most recent post on that blog was one I’d written specifically after one of that blog’s owners demanded to know what ‘good callout’ vs. a ‘bad callout’ was: https://shark-eat-you-for-lunch.com/post/177429861259/hey-lets-talk-about-callout-posts#_=_ There’s very little reason for me to post the IM logs in which they’re both all giggly about their involvement in this until they realized I wasn’t laughing with them but, I do have those transcripts.

They also started going around sending anonymous messages to people who wrote with Miss T or who followed Miss T saying things like, "You know Miss T is into clopping right?" in some bizarre effort to discredit or embarrass Miss T.

Eventually Miss T deleted one blog and disappeared from Tumblr for awhile because of the harassment; I think they were back for awhile over the winter, but I forget the URL they had

I found out about it because two of the people involved somehow thought I'd find it hilarious; one hinted that she knew who was behind it and the other eventually told me and both were somehow blindsided by the fact that I read them the fucking riot act for their behavior.

But, silly me, I accepted their apology, their "it won't happen again" and what do I see on my dash this afternoon?

The same three bratty children still making the same jokes and behaving in the same way.

I don't know how any of them could still think this kind of thing is okay or makes them look good, and you can best believe I've filled in people I know are mutuals to warn them about the kind of behavior these people have no problem dishing out toward players they decide they don’t like, because they've proven they'll turn on you if you do something they don't like and have also proven that they may also just try to start a targeted campaign of harassment.

Make no mistake, almost 30 years of dealing with group RP that has included people like this has taught me that they will absolutely be nice to your face until you do something they don’t like, at which point their “friendship” will seem to cool and you’ll eventually find out they’re shit talking you to their newest group of friends. That’s a standard MO with roleplayers who think it’s funny to harass or make fun of other roleplayers they don’t like for whatever reason.

If you ever wonder why some people seem to have entirely new friend groups every 6 months while their old group is still active, it’s usually because they behave like this and eventually get asked to leave.

What those who are mutuals with myself and these two choose to do is ultimately up to them, and I’m certainly not going to tell anyone who they can and can’t roleplay with, but I have exactly zero problems in letting people I consider friends know the kind of behavior I experienced when those people were in my RP circles.

People who want to play with matches better be prepared to have a Fandom Old come in carrying napalm until you sit your asses down and either stick to your own private circles or learn to behave like proper adults.

I do not apologize for any part of what I’ve just said; the three of you have proven over and over again that you’re genuinely catty, two faced, nasty little people and I won’t even say I expected that from people who were 16 and 18 at the time, because I know several people in that age range who would look at this and be just as pissed off that someone would think your behavior is acceptable.

And, frankly, I hope Miss T is still around and writing Grindelwald, because their interpretation was great to read outside the threads that felt forced when you brats wanted all parts of the plot to be all about your characters.

I vaguely remember a name they had about two years ago but can’t find it anymore, and I really hope catty little brats like the above didn’t drive them off from writing entirely.

P.S. Pointing out someone’s objectively terrible behavior is not a “hate post” nor is it “starting drama”. If those three didn’t want drama they would have just taken the L and moved on when they had their falling out with Miss T.

[dickgreyson]

Hey man, anon who brought back up d*c and n**b sorry I was just so frustrated to see especially doc's pretty ugly art and fanon views have so much stupid love. I have to say the way you are talking about it now is very mature. I'm not going to lie and say sometimes I thought you went too far and it turned nasty, and the hate was really bad on both sides ! But I think you're the one who actually grew while they're still the same which is honestly sad. 1/2

as before, answer below the cut!

thanks for the messages, its good to hear that my message at least got thru to a few people.

to be brutally honest though, i kinda reject the ‘hate on both sides’ thing though? like i understand, my first few posts were p black and white and bombastic, bc i wasnt like starting a war. i saw something i didnt like and i made a post to like point it out and laugh w some mutuals. considering it was big discourse the year before, in my eyes it had been sorted out already

i agree that like some of my friends going into n**b’s weird incest discord server was a bit much, but she and her friends had been either sending me death threats, or encouraging their following to do the same. 

my blog is a funny blog, like for the most part i dont take a very serious tone. so i can understand how the posts were misconstrued. but me saying ‘hey this is antisemitic, and why did u draw duke like that’ is kinda vastly different from their whole approach

Honestly, i sorted out the Original Discourse w the two original people, we had productive conversations. i think thats why i didnt take d*c or n**b seriously, or handle them with much finesse. bc they werent involved, they got themselves tangled up for no reason. like dicks.

but for real, im glad it got through! i just got sick and tired of seeing this stuff cross my dash, and now it doesnt! so, a win

[galacticchaosminion]

allergies as usual have hit me pretty hard again. its been making me feel like im sick or something but im not. its not been the easiest to get comfy either. mixed with being sleep deprived for so long and hating my body while my arm hurts cuz of the arthritis in it where i broke it and a dash of over thinking how bad of a person i am and you’ve got one giant nasty mess.

[isa-ghost]

3

3. Rant. just do it 

Oh no. Okay, you asked for it–

Listen, if youre one of those people that are like wHaT iF cHaSe KiLlS HiS KiDs LoL oH nOeS!!!11!1! just,,, youre gross and fuck off tbh. I can take the “LMAO NEVER LET HIM BE HAPPY!!! UWU” people bc most of them are exaggerating and just mean that they want to see Chase break before life gets better for him, which I agree that he definitely needs some on-screen hardships aside from the divorce and such before he gets his happy ending but he better get a happy ending after whatever he suffers through. But the “wHaT iF hEs aBuSiVe, wHaT iF hE hUrTs HiS KiDs, wHaT iF hE KiLlS tHeM, oMg hEs aNtI bEfOrE hE wAs eViL” just,,,, ew. Go like,, take a really long shower pls, youre honestly straight fuckin nasty I cannot STAND people who are all “sunshine bby Chase is overrated so Im gonna make him as disgustingly violent and depressed as possible uwu”. I really try not to be shitty about other people’s headcanons and all that, but people who think theyre edgy and cool for making Chase a completely toxic and abusive piece of shit and tHaTs wHy sTaCy LeFt HiM just set me off so fucking hard, I DESPISE those kinds of people. Theyre just as bad as the “UWU KILL OFF CHASE!!! FUCK HIM WHO CARES!!!” people. Like??? A whole massive fucking chunk of this community depend on Chase for a lot of reasons. Whether its seeing a character who’s story is so close to real life vs fiction, relating and getting comfort through Chase because they too struggle with depression, or some other reason, a lot of this community looks up to him or relate to him or seek comfort from him because he’s got such a raw story to him. So for people to just shit on all of that and wish for him to be killed off or hope he turns out to be this god awful person or never get some kind of relief/happiness by the end of his story genuinely makes me sick sometimes. He’s a huge staple in a lot of people’s coping/recovery/etc. Honestly fuck you if you wanna take that away from so many people for the sake of angst or “”don’t give the character a happy ending for a change uwu””. Change is nice, but not when it means taking away something so extremely important and helpful to so many people. If you joke/theorize/headcanon Chase as a toxic, abusive, violent piece of shit then get out of my face and keep that shit off my dash. Like,, there’s probably nothing I hate more than people who think that shit is cool.

So there, I ranted. Keyword: ranted. This isn’t some bitchy legit post for people to start beef over. Its a strong opinion of mine I ranted about and that’s it. Please do me a favor and don’t start shit in the notes. :/ You can reblog, I’m just saying don’t start drama please.