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Temuera Morrison is such a beautiful man whose face was done so dirty by TCW and I can't get over it
#yael man liker era:(#blushing and twirling my hair about tem tho#he's sooooo gorjues#such a good choice for jango n the clones#but now half the clone content out there doesn't even look like him#temuera morrison#star wars#jango fett#clone troopers#like idc animated clones look so weird#if you find them attractive then fine...#like ok but look at tem come on
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before you know about women, you hear that you do not need to love the man, just that you need to love him through his manhood. which is to say you have seen the future painted in lamb's blood over your eyes - how your mother shoots you a look about your father's inability to cook right. how your aunt holds her wineglass and says i'm gonna kill em. men, right! how your best friend bickers with her boyfriend, how she says i can't help it. i come back to him.
you learn: men are gonna cheat. men aren't going to listen when you're talking, because you're nagging. men think emotions are stupid. they think your life is vapid and your hobbies are embarrassing. men will slam things, but that's because men are allowed to be angry. if you get loud, you're hysterical. if a man gets loud - well, men are animals, men are dogs, men can't control their hands or their eyes or their bodies. they're going to make a snide comment about you in the locker room, about your body, about how you're so fucking annoying. you're going to give him kids, and he will give you the money for the kids, and you're going to be running the house 24/7 - but he gets to relax after a long day, because his job is stressful. the man is on stage, and is a comedian, and says "women!"
and you are supposed to love that. you are supposed to love men through how horrible they are to you - because that's what women do. that's what good women do. wife material. your father even told you once - it'll make sense when you're older. it was like staring down a very lonely tunnel.
it feels like something's caught in your throat, but it's all you know, so. it's okay that you see sex as a necessary tool, a sort of okay-enough ritual to keep him happy, even though he doesn't seem to care about happiness as-applied-to you. it is relationship upkeep. it is kissing him and smiling even though he didn't brush his teeth. it is getting on your knees and looking up and holding back a sigh because he barely holds you as you panic through the night. it's not like the sex is bad and you do like feeling wanted. and besides! he's a man! like... they're another species. you'll never be able to actually communicate, right. he isn't listening.
you just don't get it. you don't feel that sense of i'm gonna climb him like a tree. mostly it just feels fucking exhausting. you play the part perfectly. you smile and nod and are "effortlessly" charming. and it's fine! it's alright! you even love him, if you're looking. you could have good life, and a good family, and perfectly happy.
in the late night you google: am i broken. you google i'm not attracted to my husband. you google i get turned on by books but not by him. you google how to get better in bed.
the first time he yells at you, it almost feels like blankness. like - of course this is happening. this is always how it was going to end up. men get angry, and they yell, and you sit there in silence.
you mention it to your friend - just the once - while you're drunk. she shrugs and says it's like that with me too, i just try to forget and move on. men are always gonna hear what they want to. pick your battles and say sorry even though he's in the wrong. you play solitaire online for a month. you go to your therapist appointment and preach about how you're both so in love.
after all, you have a future to want. nobody lied about it - how many instagram posts say marriage is hard. say real love takes work. say we fight like cats and dogs but the best part is that we always make up. how many of your friends say happy anniversary to the best and worst thing to ever happen to me. if you really loved him - loved yourself too - you'd accept that men are just different from you.
the first time she kisses you, it's on a dare at a party. something large and terrifying whips through your body. you wake up sweating from dreams where her mouth is encrusted with pearls and you pick them off one by one with your teeth. fuck. you sit at the computer and your almost-finished game of sim city. you think about your potential perfect life and your potential future family. you google am i gay quiz with your little hands shaking.
you delete each letter slowly. you don't need to love him. you just need to keep going.
#warm up#writeblr#this is also about being ace btw#my identity has slowly shifted over time and maybe if everyone is REAL cool i'll talk bout it#bc it's complicated and nuanced. but this is like#trying to warn u that if you find it “relationship upkeep” to have sex with ur partner#and don't actually enjoy it or seek it for urself. u might just not be attracted to them.#which is fine ! ace ppl can be perfectly happy in any relationship they feel good in!#but also i wasn't as straight as i had expected!#> the first time i saw dick i was like. huh. oh okay that's fine i guess#> the first time i saw pussy i was like. WAIT ACTUALLY HANG ON I GET IT#i just assumed sex wasn't all it was cracked up to be ya know#but also like. btw? this IS NOT saying ''u might be gay not ace''#bc tbh i'm grey ace/demisexual#it's saying u might not be into ur partner. explore urself & ur feelings. turn inward.#TAKE THIS IN THE MANNER IT WAS MEANT> GENTLE AND KIND#AND NOT IN A WEIRD INTERNET WAY PLEASE#bc the truth is that there ARE ppl who are gay who assume that they just ''don't like'' sex#and ace ppl who might need a different partner w/different needs#and i would have REALLY needed to hear ''check in w/urself about if u actually like sex''#WAY EARILIER in my life. but nobody said anything bc they assume if ur having sex. u like it.#not just the actual act of sex. not once ur turned on. do you ACTUALLY like it. or is it a burden?#even if ur gay. check w/urself. maybe ur more ace than u realized. in which case. ADDITIONAL FLAG BB#i love collecting my flags. i'm at like 354 at this point#but also btw this is about how toxic relationships are SO normalized that u can be in one#and have everyone around u being like ''THATS JUST MEN LOL''
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list of accomplishments in sunghoon's diary: #1 rode the vikings TWICE (p.s. jake only rode it once so extra points)
#enhypen#*jelly's#enhypenet#sim jaeyun#jake#park sunghoon#sunghoon#he was so proud of himself oh my god#ofc jake would bring it up GOD i love them#also THAT SECOND GIF ?????#GOOD LORD PARK SUNGHOON YOU ONE ATTRACTIVE FINE YOUNG LAD#i can't stop staring at it#he's so handsome#tbh this could have ended at the fourth gif#but i can't find it in me to delete the frames of the last one so#in the set it goes !!#i regret nothing hihi#i'm staring at the second gif again#he makes me blush soso bad :((
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Queer ships are universally different and not comparable to straight ships in ship wars because without the ship/feelings/reciprocation all characters involved would still be queer because their queerness exists and is represented in them independently from specific romantic feelings and that queerness would still deeply affect their characters' relationships to themselves.
Queer ships are not the same as straight ships because queer ships are inherently indicative of something deeper in the individual that is affects their character arc to the core and straight ships are love stories.
Basically, the queer experience and the straight experience are not the same. I feel like people should know this, and I feel like people do, so I assume they just don't realize that that's what the conversation is. But I'm not fighting for the ship. I'm fighting for the characters to be queer. Your characters were already straight. You get what I'm begging for regardless. You think we'd have equal things - love stories - taken away but you're wrong.
If two people don't get together I don't have a love story to live vicariously through anymore. If two people aren't queer I'm not in the story anymore.
Hope this helps.
#lgbtq#stranger things#byler#buddie#sorry you like milkvan better than j@ncy that is upsetting if you dont get your fave#genuinely#but you can still have CHARACTERS you are represented by#you got a love story taken#i got a person#diff.er.ent.#i'm not fighting for mike to reciprocate will's feelings on will's behalf common misconception#i'm fighting for mike to be both queer and happy#and that in his own right requires will#if it didn't that'd be cool too#but 1. queer 2. believably happy#i never said a ship name even once there#but actually it's one of the reasons i find queer stories more interesting#because regardless theres something to rewatch for#oh mike didn't develop feelings for will until season 5 episode 5? that's fine! he was still queer the day troy screamed about fairies in hi#s face though. he was still queer when he described attraction in non gendered language. he was still queer when will said it's scary to tel#l people deep truths about yourself they might reject.#no matter what there is a retroactive recontextualizing fact about them that influences everything they do.#rewatch power!!!
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unpopular opinion: borderlands (2024) has many MANY issues but the actors' age isn't one of them. in fact, they easily could've made a fantastic BL movie populated only by ugly octogenarian+ actors.
#you could age up every borderlands adult character in every game and it wouldn't make a single difference to the plot#concept: the og vault hunters arrived on pandora as a sort of shitty retirement scheme under crushing intergalactic capitalism. go.#(one of the characters uses a walker just to really hammer home that they're all Old now) (its bloodwing)#also no one needs to be pretty this is pandora it's fine#even moxxie and the sirens only need to be attractive to the other characters. we the audience don't need to find them hot or whatever#borderlands 2024
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every art critic, teacher or tutorial maker who tells you that your character designs must be conventionally attractive or appealing is a big fat liar
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Fine, I'll admit it. With long hair...
He's very attractive. He really is.
But, he's a harebrained trend chaser, who will butcher his good looks for fickle fashion.
He also looks like he should be wearing a kilt, not a cloak. Because of the long red hair, not David's nationality.
#good omens#crowley#good omens crowley#diary pages#good omens fandom#fine he's handsome hot even#but he's a trend chaser#no i get adapting and that he'd need to have short hair in certain time periods like the roman empire#but when one can why not return to your best looks - he seems like he ditched the mane forever#crowley you stupid idiot moron#also did he come from hell or did he escape from braveheard he looks scottish with a trademark sign#maybe it's a bi girl thing maybe it's a me thing but men usually have to have long hair for me to find them attractive#there are exeptions paul bettany as michael in legion the frontman of behemoth even michael langdon#don't get me wrong david's a very good looking man but he's not eye candy short haired XD#tbh everyone men AND women are mostly attractive me with long hair#good omens gifs#my gifs#david tennant#trend chasing is lame tbh some style choices are to be timeless#wait speaking of that does he wear the sunglasses so people wouldn't assume he's wearing colored contacts#me to my fem!Crowley: my baby#me to regular Crowley: you stupid idiot moron
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OK. QUESTION FOR GAY PEOPLE ONLY. AND BY GAY I MEAN HOMOSEXUAL NOT JUST GENERAL QUEER AS IN STRICTLY ONLY ATTRACTED TO THE SAME SEX.
I realized recently the difference between finding someone attractive and personally being attracted to them I need to know if this confusion has led other gay people to sexuality crisis.
#gay#lesbian#polls#Like there are certain Very Few famous men that like. I definitely consider them attractive. I’m just not attracted to them.#I hypothesize that this sort of crisis is more common with lesbians#Gay men get to act flirty with women all the time and it’s fine and normal everyone knows he’s not actually personally attracted to her#He just finds her attractive#Lesbians…we don’t get to do that as much. You mention a man is attractive once and suddenly it’s all “hmm so ur bisexual”#But goddammit. Sometimes men are just attractive. I have eyes. Doesn’t mean I’m into them personally but I can appreciate it!
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#1 #2
#for me I’d go with 1#tbh I think popular and academic thought has definitely swung that way these days#ive seen it suggested that the first one resembles the 'most happy' medal too#as an aside#(people can be nasty about her looks here. same as they are w Jane Seymour in a big way. you might not find them attractive or whatever and#obviously it’s fine if you don’t think they’re beautiful - people say so about these portraits#but just leave it at that. no need to be a wanker in how you go about it#even worse when people try and frame it as if they 'objectively' werent attractive)#anne boleyn#polls#history polls#Holbein
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sometimes I think about how everyone is so obsessed with how they look and think other peoples' opinions are what determine if they are attractive or not. by that logic, i'm one of the ugliest people to ever exist because i've never, to my memory, had a random person tell me i'm attractive in any way just by looking at me. I've only had people give me pity compliments after I say something like the last sentence lmao. but I don't accept those. I don't want your pity
#lee text#random thoughts with lee#i'm doing fine without being told i'm attractive. be like me. stop complaining about looks ans calling yourself ugly fbbfnjdsnns#i only think people with good personalities are attractive and pretty si if you care so much what others think:#get a better personality LOL#(what i mean by that is work on yourself and stop trying to use physical appearance to get what you want. its weird and wrong)#((wrong in many ways like looks dont last. thats superficial and doesnt matter. beauty is subjective#YOU WILL NEVER BE ATTRACTIVE TO EVERYONE so give up and find a new hobby))#i feel like this will sound super mean to certain people who have what i call Ugly Syndrome (they think theyre ugly and blame failure on it)#but these people never seem to listen to listen to logic and feel bad about themsleves no matter what you say#even if you call them beautiful multiple times a day. so who cares at that point fhdhhdjjsj i cant help them and they annoy me#i guess thats the unempathetic side of my autism coming out. i live on an empathy sliding scale ive come to realize#lee rambles#if this does offend you maybe think about it. really think about how to fix that issue within yourself. i genuinely hope you get better#also people who use “i do it for myself” but its obvious they actually care more about how others see them. you also suck. get well soon.#I dont want anyone replying to this getting offended or well actuallying me or something. either take the tough love or go love yourself#one of the gremlins in this brain doesnt empathy. its me. the unempathetic gremlin. but i still hope you recover quickly.
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#maybe im just not#that attracted to men#and that is fine#but like i dont know#i've always been more ~picky~ with guys in the sense that#i see the men a lot of yall reblog and think 'ok' and move on without any sense of attraction#but there are guys i am attracted to (you know who you are)#and with women hm i dont know#i think i find more women beautiful but dont think of them sexually#but that might be fear or uhhhh conditioning myself into not thinking about them that way growing up#where i didnt realise the gender stuff#so#i dont know#sex! its complicated!
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I’m saying it right now. Some of you are a little too weird about gerard way tbh.
#.txt#saying this as an mcr fan#time and time again I’ve followed mcr blogs and time and time again i have been made incredibly uncomfortable by the way they talk abt them#those are real people ………#like I get this is kinda to be expected of parasocial bandoms but like. idk#and like it’s Fine to find gerard attractive and get rock hard over some of their tour outfits or whatever#but like…. be normal about it? please? that’s still a real person?#‘he’s a slutty little secretary that sucks off his boss under the desk’ that is a person in his 40s.#<== something i actually saw someone say about him once /srs#suggestive#i guess#idk i’m just saying i feel like some of you really haven’t grown out of your teenage rabid mcr fangirl days
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I would just like to thank you because your post on the subject of proshipping was what allowed me to firmly take a stance against proshitters. My blog is non confrontational and I don’t want to argue with people so I unfortunately had to remove the tags and block replies on my post when people started replying to argue with me but still it was your post which gave me the confidence to make this post in the first place and for that I thank you.
Although I've been particularly avoidant to any sort of discourse lately, I am glad I could have helped you (or anyone in general) have confidence to express themselves and try to speak out on issues that constantly infect fandoms and make unsafe spaces for basically anyone. Sorry that your post got dogpiled by a bunch of chronically online people LOL! Trust me, those people got literally no argument that they werent CONVINCED into believing LMAO.
#ask#I've been less actively bitchy about it but my stance has stayed the same#adults into that should not be allowed in the internet and they are backhandedly gr**ming children into embracing that creepy shit#and then children (who i dont blame for being into that stuff its not usually their own fault) desensitize themselves and actively LOOK -#-for creepy pe/do//ince//sty ships to ship because children just have a natural desire to “fit in” -#-which some children find that in following a contrarian crowd#so when they see art they like and dont yet understand the issues with it and then see the artist getting flack for it they jump to-#prxshitty defense and then that just causes them to grow up embracing that shit bec they think it makes them cool or unique or something!!!#and then that causes a spread bec then obviously impressionable minors attract other impressionable minors T_T#trauma response I dont doubt is true to some degree and i pity those for that but 1. keep that shit private im sorry but venting doesnt-#-excuse romanticising that shit and basically CONVINCING other impressionable children that its fine when you must KNOW its not okay if you#-KNOW its based on trauma and thats all you have to validate it#and 2. like thats unhealthy on its own right...... but like ok.....#((though i dont promote harrassing kids or telling them to hurt themselves like that doesnt rlly do much esp if theyre already traumatized)#I believe young people like that should try to strive to at least keep that stuff private esspecially if theyre an adult because idk how-#-adults DONT see the gr**my aspect behind it (bec from what ik most adults dont care about being surrounded by minors T_T)
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toxic character trait is that i have to be a correct hater. if i am a hater i’m not just going to blindly hate something. i will read/watch/listen to something i know i’ll most likely dislike because i need to *truly know* if i dislike it or not (i cannot listen to a song i decide i dislike too many times, because i might brainwash myself into liking it).
like colleen hoover novels?? not my cup of tea, i still read three of them just to make sure, because i don’t know want to just blindly dislike something i *think* i’ll dislike. i have to have a solid case, it’s like i’m preparing for court, but it’s actually just stating my opinions online. like what if i actually like it, what if i was just letting myself think because it’s not something i’d usually like, i’d dislike it? what if i’m just holding myself back from enjoying something because others dislike said popular thing? etc. people like them for a reason, and it is nice to try to find the reasons they do. like if i’m going to be a hater, i need to be certain that i *am* a hater. if this makes sense.
#this isn’t saying popular or overhated things are bad LOL#i love taylor swift songs#and i did enjoy hazbin hotel LOL#this sparked because i’m reading a cowboy romance btw because my friend and i thought it would be funny#i can now say i dislike it but also sometimes it is fun but then you get the man’s pov#also apparently to like cowboy romance you must like cowboys#and i am not that big of a fan of cowboys#as people cowboys are fine but i just do not find them very attractive in romance novels etc 😔#meg’s incoherent thoughts#sorry this is very much a ramble#i’m really adding the incoherence to my talking tag rn
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Sometimes I periodically think of that one "article" about how Doctor Who finally has an attractive cast again(???) so it's easier to Care™ now(???????). For a variety of mocking reasons, but mostly because the woman who wrote it had this whole thing about her teenage shame at being attracted to DTen. and how Embarrassing™ that was for her when he was like. The most BASIC celebrity crush you could have.
#EVERYONE was in love with this guy.#I mean maybe she had a much different teenage experience than I did but he was very much like. an Acceptable™ celebrity crush to have#she also went on this whole thing about how she ''''just couldn't get into'''' the pcap or jodie years (which hmm gee wonder why THAT is)#when like. girl. if you wanted hot people BOTH of them were RIGHT THERE.#also her thing of 'I couldn't be attracted to david's successor due to his weird headgear choices did you know he wore a FEZ' <-SKILL ISSUE#and like. don't get me wrong it's fine to find people attractive and have that augment your viewing experience. but she was framing it#in a way that said the show has NO MERIT AT ALL if there aren't people she can find Super Hot™ in it. which. I am BEGGING y'all to#engage in a richer living experience. that is just...SUCH a limiting way to live#I personally think art and media should be less pretty. in my expert opinion. just have regular people who look like themselves.#it would be good for us.#I'll die on this hill too#alyssa or whatever your name is you are my Sworn Nemesis I will not rest until you are defeated#you're allowed one parasocial enemy and this is mine
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ik liking piercings and tattoos is subjective but i hate the ppl on the piercing poll going ‘you guys find piercings attractive?’ like grow up 😭
#like if you don’t find it attractive that’s fine but I can’t stand the bitchiness for ppl who do#like I got mine bc /i/ like them#and like if my mouth is going nowhere near you then uhhhh it’s none of your business really??? 😁#mrow.org
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