#if you can’t respect my boundaries
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subbyprincessb · 1 year ago
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Half of ya’ll don’t even deserve my fucking attention.
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nacho475 · 3 months ago
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A Short Post About My blog
“Hey friends I hope everyone has been having a good day and I am too but there’s something I also need to let you know and there are a few boundaries I need to set. Recently I have been being harassed by haters and people trying to troll me on my account and I don’t appreciate it. I have been bullied and recently trolled by some people about my Wavier content especially the Wenclair community and I’m going to let you know that I don’t put up with any type of hate or negativity and if anyone is going to be mean I’m going to immediately block you and that’s what I had to do today and the other days I was being harassed so please be kind and respectful.”
“I respect those who ship Wenclair and other different ships we all have different tastes and that’s fine but please respect that I have my own favorite ships too and please don’t hate on it and know that it’s not a reason to be mean because I work very hard on my posts and content. Something else that I will not tolerate is dirty content as I have also been having a few followers posting pornographic gifs and I had a stranger like my post of a photo of me and he seemed like a pedophile and so I blocked him from my page. I am 23 years old but still it made me feel unsafe and I won’t tolerate sexual harassment in anyway I want my page to be a safe space for all of the Wavier shippers and for anyone who likes my content. I was always taught that if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say it at all so please let’s make friends here on tumblr and know that I am your friend too. I try not to post too much personal information about myself either and it’s for my safety. Thanks for reading and I hope everyone is having a wonderful day, goodbye.”
-Alexandra❤️
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alaskan-wallflower · 9 months ago
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i’m so done with this shit. i don’t want to get political but
why do people (namely in the sp community) insist on censoring israel and not palestine? like here’s the deal. i support the free palestine movements. i acknowledge everything that is going on in palestine
but you also have to acknowledge october 7th. you have to acknowledge what went down in its entirety. yes. i support free palestine. but here’s how it’s gonna be for me. if you wanna talk to me about not wanting matt and trey to make an episode revolving around israel and palestine, you either censor one or censor neither. i would be saying the same exact thing if people were censoring palestine and not israel. i don’t care if you ‘don’t want the pro israel people to find my post’, i don’t want either side to find my posts. i’m not fully educated on the issue and i don’t feel like getting into political discourse.
so that’s my rule. if you wanna send an ask in, you either censor both of you censor none. and yes. i get that this doesn’t directly affect me since i don’t belong to either religious/ethnic group. but it does affect people of those groups when you turn an entire group into what you view those involved in the war is. it may not affect me but it affects others. and i don’t stand with that. i don’t care which side you take in this conflict but i am not into the discourse that’s been going on in my inbox. i’m not fucking dealing with it. if it has the potential to hurt someone it’s not going on my blog and it will be deleted. i don’t care.
anyway. end of story. either censor both or neither. up to you. or don’t engage at all.
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himblebo · 2 months ago
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Should I force myself to talk to women on hinge
#I do not want to#but I am also actively trying to overwrite unrequited attraction that is actually making me ill#so like. idk.#would that count as exposure therapy in this context?#I was introduced to the concept of limerence and I feel a lot more normal about it#not in the sense of ‘I am okay now’#but in the sense of ‘this is a shared and recognized phenomenon that acknowledges the compulsive nature of it#and suggests that it may come from a similar neurological place/process/imbalance as OCD#so instead of well meaning people who don’t grasp how overwhelming these feelings are telling me to just try to date other people#I at least have the validation of ‘you are not crazy because other people have experienced this kind of debilitating intensity too’#and the suggestions for coping with and overcoming limerence include CBT/DBT#which is a lot more structured and helpful than my friends giving me well intentioned advice for something they don’t really understand#like I cannot tell you how much relief this has brought me#I don’t just have a crush on a straight woman and can’t get over it i literally have these non stop intrusive thoughts about her#coupled with the constant mental noise of i know she isn’t interested and i need to be respectful and maintain boundaries#it has literally made me feel like I’m losing my mind or some kind of stalker#but a mental stalker#anyway it has been incredibly unpleasant and upsetting and now I’m focusing on consciously stopping and countering those thoughts#and approaching it the same way as my other intrusive thoughts#also note: I tried to make an appointment with my therapist but she is overbooked and if this does not yield change I might spiral again
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bottomvalerius · 3 months ago
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Cis het monogamous people want to think their lives are so so so so hard because of the sexy Brooklyn polycule that wouldn’t fuck their dusty boyfriend lmao
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herawell · 6 months ago
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#negativity cw#mother mention cw#I’ve been in a funk since visiting my parents this weekend#And my mom ranted about my dad and her potential plans for divorce#It’s not the only reason I’m upset#I’ve got feelings about my job performance and my social life which aren’t helping#But being reminded of their marital woes feels like it’s brought everything else up#Half of me wants to ask my mom to not bring it up again#Which I know is a reasonable boundary to ask#But I’m afraid of the repercussions#She’ll respect it#But she’ll respect me less#Which should be okay since I’m an adult#But my mom is my closest confidante (which goes back to the friends thing)#I don’t have too many close friends irl#And even if that weren’t the case#I don’t want to poison the well#ugh#I really really really wish she hadn’t told me#She talked about how she’s glad in this country you can ‘take a man to the cleaners’#And she’s keeping her cards close to her chest so he doesn’t ‘hide the money’#And I know his behavior and inaction are largely responsible for the breakdown of the marriage#But now I feel like I’m betraying him by keeping quiet about it#And I can’t tell my dad because I don’t know if he would keep it to himself if push comes to shove#And it would nuke my relationship with my mom from external orbit#I have to spend Wed evening and Thurs with my parents#And I’m thinking of telling her tonight I don’t want to hear any more about it#We’ll have to see how it goes#But I can’t handle this tension#if she wants to vent about it she can talk to her friends or a therapist or a lawyer or whatever
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ishipmutualrespect · 1 year ago
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flayerlinked-archived · 2 years ago
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if 👏 you 👏 follow 👏 anyone 👏 on 👏 my 👏 dni 👏 list 👏 do 👏 NOT 👏 FOLLOW 👏 ME 👏
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kalamity-jayne · 2 years ago
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Grrr… I had to close my asks because some gross transmisogynists have to go around throwing wet blankets on other peoples fun.
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tboo-uc-on-toast · 9 days ago
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“You can do that??”
“ya you can”
“*sarcastic remark ohhh I had nooo ideaaa*”
Bitch maybe be less apathetic about literally everything you interrupted a private conversation, made me tell you about it afterwards and mocked the contexts of the conversation. Grow up and then I’ll see you in a better light
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bunnyplushy · 12 days ago
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Tapping the sign 🐇
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castle-calypse · 13 days ago
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yall today my bf stood up to his emotionally abusive father. he laid down boundaries and stuck to them and didn’t lose control of his anger when his dad tried to manipulate and gaslight him. he stayed calm and did it. 🥹🥹🥹
yall i am so proud of this man i could cry (i did actually). setting boundaries with a person like that is SO HARD but HE DID IT!!! HE DID IT GUYS!!!!
i just think a big win like this needs to be celebrated I AM SO PROUD OF HIM!!!!! HE DID IT!!!!!!
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bowlegsandbiceps · 15 days ago
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If you message me asking for money I’m reporting you as spam. I don’t care what the cause is.
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cupiare · 4 months ago
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i love lessons and not learning anything from them and getting pissed off at the same things again and again and agaaaaaain
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enrapture · 5 months ago
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You attract what you attract for a reason.
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brielarsonreplyguy · 6 months ago
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being forced to spend time with my mother tomorrow. i don’t want to go, and i already know that the day is NOT going to go well. i think i’m going to have a meltdown i can’t do this. currently googling how to not shoot my brains out when hanging out with abusive mother
UPDATE IT WAS CANCELLED
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