#if you can’t respect my boundaries
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Half of ya’ll don’t even deserve my fucking attention.
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A Short Post About My blog
“Hey friends I hope everyone has been having a good day and I am too but there’s something I also need to let you know and there are a few boundaries I need to set. Recently I have been being harassed by haters and people trying to troll me on my account and I don’t appreciate it. I have been bullied and recently trolled by some people about my Wavier content especially the Wenclair community and I’m going to let you know that I don’t put up with any type of hate or negativity and if anyone is going to be mean I’m going to immediately block you and that’s what I had to do today and the other days I was being harassed so please be kind and respectful.”
“I respect those who ship Wenclair and other different ships we all have different tastes and that’s fine but please respect that I have my own favorite ships too and please don’t hate on it and know that it’s not a reason to be mean because I work very hard on my posts and content. Something else that I will not tolerate is dirty content as I have also been having a few followers posting pornographic gifs and I had a stranger like my post of a photo of me and he seemed like a pedophile and so I blocked him from my page. I am 23 years old but still it made me feel unsafe and I won’t tolerate sexual harassment in anyway I want my page to be a safe space for all of the Wavier shippers and for anyone who likes my content. I was always taught that if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say it at all so please let’s make friends here on tumblr and know that I am your friend too. I try not to post too much personal information about myself either and it’s for my safety. Thanks for reading and I hope everyone is having a wonderful day, goodbye.”
-Alexandra❤️
#my blog#no haters allowed on my blog#my story#just be kind#I am being bullied and harassed#please stop just be nice#my boundaries#don’t be mean#we all have different tastes please respect that#to my trolls on my blog#leave me alone#please stop harassing me on my blog I am asking nicely thank you#what I post and who I ship is my right#I will always ship wavier#team wavier 4 life#stay off of my blog if you can’t be kind#no dirty stuff tolerated on my account
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i’m so done with this shit. i don’t want to get political but
why do people (namely in the sp community) insist on censoring israel and not palestine? like here’s the deal. i support the free palestine movements. i acknowledge everything that is going on in palestine
but you also have to acknowledge october 7th. you have to acknowledge what went down in its entirety. yes. i support free palestine. but here’s how it’s gonna be for me. if you wanna talk to me about not wanting matt and trey to make an episode revolving around israel and palestine, you either censor one or censor neither. i would be saying the same exact thing if people were censoring palestine and not israel. i don’t care if you ‘don’t want the pro israel people to find my post’, i don’t want either side to find my posts. i’m not fully educated on the issue and i don’t feel like getting into political discourse.
so that’s my rule. if you wanna send an ask in, you either censor both of you censor none. and yes. i get that this doesn’t directly affect me since i don’t belong to either religious/ethnic group. but it does affect people of those groups when you turn an entire group into what you view those involved in the war is. it may not affect me but it affects others. and i don’t stand with that. i don’t care which side you take in this conflict but i am not into the discourse that’s been going on in my inbox. i’m not fucking dealing with it. if it has the potential to hurt someone it’s not going on my blog and it will be deleted. i don’t care.
anyway. end of story. either censor both or neither. up to you. or don’t engage at all.
#got another ask talking about tratt palestine-israel stuff#i deleted it#i’m not fully educated on the topic therefore i don’t want to engage in discourse#however#i also am not into turning one group into irredeemable monsters. i support free palestine and i’ve run a few fundraisers with school clubs#for it#but you need to acknowledge october 7th and how this makes some people feel#then again you need to take what i say with a grain of salt because i’m not jewish nor muslim#so i can’t really talk about it personally affecting md#south park#skipper speaks#kyle broflovski#(tagging kyle because most of his fans are the ones doing this)#this isn’t just on my blog either like i’ve seen it on other peoples blogs too#idk if im really validated in saying any of this because it doesn’t affect me personally#but come on#i don’t wanna get political on here#so respect my fucking boundaries#god
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Should I force myself to talk to women on hinge
#I do not want to#but I am also actively trying to overwrite unrequited attraction that is actually making me ill#so like. idk.#would that count as exposure therapy in this context?#I was introduced to the concept of limerence and I feel a lot more normal about it#not in the sense of ‘I am okay now’#but in the sense of ‘this is a shared and recognized phenomenon that acknowledges the compulsive nature of it#and suggests that it may come from a similar neurological place/process/imbalance as OCD#so instead of well meaning people who don’t grasp how overwhelming these feelings are telling me to just try to date other people#I at least have the validation of ‘you are not crazy because other people have experienced this kind of debilitating intensity too’#and the suggestions for coping with and overcoming limerence include CBT/DBT#which is a lot more structured and helpful than my friends giving me well intentioned advice for something they don’t really understand#like I cannot tell you how much relief this has brought me#I don’t just have a crush on a straight woman and can’t get over it i literally have these non stop intrusive thoughts about her#coupled with the constant mental noise of i know she isn’t interested and i need to be respectful and maintain boundaries#it has literally made me feel like I’m losing my mind or some kind of stalker#but a mental stalker#anyway it has been incredibly unpleasant and upsetting and now I’m focusing on consciously stopping and countering those thoughts#and approaching it the same way as my other intrusive thoughts#also note: I tried to make an appointment with my therapist but she is overbooked and if this does not yield change I might spiral again
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Cis het monogamous people want to think their lives are so so so so hard because of the sexy Brooklyn polycule that wouldn’t fuck their dusty boyfriend lmao
#rambling#like I promise you my love you have soooo many options#sorry you only date serial cheaters who don’t respect you as a person#couldn’t be me though#you can’t even say ‘well men ain’t shit’ cause I got a man that respects my boundaries 🤷🏻🤷🏻🤷🏻
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#negativity cw#mother mention cw#I’ve been in a funk since visiting my parents this weekend#And my mom ranted about my dad and her potential plans for divorce#It’s not the only reason I’m upset#I’ve got feelings about my job performance and my social life which aren’t helping#But being reminded of their marital woes feels like it’s brought everything else up#Half of me wants to ask my mom to not bring it up again#Which I know is a reasonable boundary to ask#But I’m afraid of the repercussions#She’ll respect it#But she’ll respect me less#Which should be okay since I’m an adult#But my mom is my closest confidante (which goes back to the friends thing)#I don’t have too many close friends irl#And even if that weren’t the case#I don’t want to poison the well#ugh#I really really really wish she hadn’t told me#She talked about how she’s glad in this country you can ‘take a man to the cleaners’#And she’s keeping her cards close to her chest so he doesn’t ‘hide the money’#And I know his behavior and inaction are largely responsible for the breakdown of the marriage#But now I feel like I’m betraying him by keeping quiet about it#And I can’t tell my dad because I don’t know if he would keep it to himself if push comes to shove#And it would nuke my relationship with my mom from external orbit#I have to spend Wed evening and Thurs with my parents#And I’m thinking of telling her tonight I don’t want to hear any more about it#We’ll have to see how it goes#But I can’t handle this tension#if she wants to vent about it she can talk to her friends or a therapist or a lawyer or whatever
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#things are so hard sometimes#someone really doesn’t respect my boundaries#and it’s annoying and frustrating#and honestly I’m sorry for the situation they’re in#but it’s theirs and I wish I wasn’t included in all this#I know I come off as insensitive to their eyes but I really honestly can’t go through the situation#and i assure you I’m way too a sensitive person#I’ve said many times I can’t do it#but they keep not respecting that#eh I’m sorry about this but I needed to vent#I should probably take a piece of paper and write down#on top of that#I have the worst sore throat#and a cold#AGAIN
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if 👏 you 👏 follow 👏 anyone 👏 on 👏 my 👏 dni 👏 list 👏 do 👏 NOT 👏 FOLLOW 👏 ME 👏
#[ i can’t even count how many times this has happened to me this week alone#and i’m so TIRED#i’ve tried to be nice about it i really have#but this tells me you did not read my rules at all in the first place or you just decided to blatantly ignore them#i do NOT want you to follow me if you follow these people please i beg you#it’s not a difficult task just please please respect my boundaries bc this is actually starting to actually get very upsetting#and i’m sorry for making another post about it but idek what else to do idk why i have to keep saying this#and i will hardblock you if you do this bc i’m done like i’m sorry but if you can’t respect me then bye#ig i need to add smth about this to my pinned post i just don’t know how to be any clearer about it ]
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Grrr… I had to close my asks because some gross transmisogynists have to go around throwing wet blankets on other peoples fun.
#I’ll probably reopen my asks eventually…#i hate that trans women like me have to constantly compromise our enjoyment of things like this website#just to accommodate some stupid assholes like the putrid chasers who can’t respect basic boundaries#it just sucks when you’re feeling yourself so you post some selfies to bask in it and then some asswipes make you feel gross for it
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“You can do that??”
“ya you can”
“*sarcastic remark ohhh I had nooo ideaaa*”
Bitch maybe be less apathetic about literally everything you interrupted a private conversation, made me tell you about it afterwards and mocked the contexts of the conversation. Grow up and then I’ll see you in a better light
#Kms 😭#My friends are all so apathetic it drives me insane#They care about nothing but shit like social media and when you have serious conversations with them they either do that fucking embarassin#Laugh people do or go “oh that’s not my problem have fun”#😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫#Literally wish I was joking#Why the fuck are we friends#I am actually losing my shit#i don’t want to be here‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️#If I don’t reach out first nobody can be bothered to talk to me#If I was in the sims 2 I would be seeing that rabbit rn#I can’t wait to get out of this school#You ask them to respect your reasonable boundaries and they dont#Then pull you aside in public to apologise for doing it 4 times and you just have to go “oh it’s okay :)” when in reality I KNOW it’s been#Four times#its insane how forgettable you are#I’m going to cry I swear 😭#I wont
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Tapping the sign 🐇
#one of the first things you see on my blog. it’s a boundary set clearly#if you can’t respect this how can I expect any other boundaries to be respected??
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yall today my bf stood up to his emotionally abusive father. he laid down boundaries and stuck to them and didn’t lose control of his anger when his dad tried to manipulate and gaslight him. he stayed calm and did it. 🥹🥹🥹
yall i am so proud of this man i could cry (i did actually). setting boundaries with a person like that is SO HARD but HE DID IT!!! HE DID IT GUYS!!!!
i just think a big win like this needs to be celebrated I AM SO PROUD OF HIM!!!!! HE DID IT!!!!!!
#his dad hung up on him three separate times because he got so mad#this was all over his dad buying plane tickets for a 9 day trip over christmas that he did zero planning for#he bought tickets TWO WEEKS BEFORE A NINE DAY TRIP#no hotel room no rental car#just asking to crash on our air mattress and trying to get his ex wife to let him stay with her and my bfs brother#none of us can take any time off to spend with him#and I can’t stress this enough: he started yelling at my bf for asking him about his plans#like who tf are you staying with and when?#your ex wife (my bfs mom) decided she didn’t want him there after initially being convinced to say yes by his brother (who lives with her#when they first started talking about the trip my bf said he could only stay with us for 3 days so wtf was his plan after that#HE DIDNT HAVE A FUCKING PLAN#and he yelled at my bf for trying to figure things out and asking him to get a hotel and respect our boundaries of only staying 3 days#AND LEAVING HIS EX WIFE ALONE#I am so so SO proud of my bf for standing up for us and not letting his dad bully us all into what he wanted#if he wanted a better trip he should have planned a fucking NINE day trip (11 counting travel days) MORE THAN 2 WEEKS IN ADVANCE#and today he took a really big step into ending the cycle of abuse#guys I’m crying again I’m so proud of him#meeg talks#tw abuse#tw emotional abuse
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If you message me asking for money I’m reporting you as spam. I don’t care what the cause is.
#personal#I’ve been unemployed for 9 months and I’m about to lose my house#tumblr is my escape and i don’t want to be constantly reminded that im fucking broke#is that selfish? yes#is it a boundary? also yes#if you can’t respect that block me
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i love lessons and not learning anything from them and getting pissed off at the same things again and again and agaaaaaain
#p#why can no one respect boundaries these days what cesspool of feral animals have i landed in#and then also telling me what to do. We have ourselves a problem here#idk why everyone just assumes i’m easily persuaded and/or ‘playing hard to get’#i’m not playing ?? 😭😭 why r u ignoring what i say and then acting surprised i get pissed of wwwhhy can’t you just take me seriously#LIKE I DONT GET ITTTTTT AND IM STILL THE PROBLEM????)-&2929&/2&/2@&2@2 IM ILL TEMPERED IM FUSSY IM WHATEVER ..??’wkwkw#animals. in the worst of ways.#i have to lock myself up and live like a monk i can’t keep raising my blood pressure like this
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You attract what you attract for a reason.
#something I’m realizing lately#value yourself to notice patterns and setting boundaries#realize shit and grow in environments that nurture me challenge me and allow me to grow that strive on mutuality and healthy habits#you can’t make people change or be different they have to do that themselves#what’s meant to be will be#teaching myself a lot of respect and taking my time to heal and grow as a person#I know I’m not perfect and I’m not striving to be I’m just trying to be better and learn and grow into a better version of myself#mistakes happen but they are a part of life and they’re there to teach you things to not allow them to continue as that becomes a choice#rather than a mistake and what you allow will continue#realizing that everything has something to teach you is the greatest advice I’ve stuck with since birth#.
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being forced to spend time with my mother tomorrow. i don’t want to go, and i already know that the day is NOT going to go well. i think i’m going to have a meltdown i can’t do this. currently googling how to not shoot my brains out when hanging out with abusive mother
UPDATE IT WAS CANCELLED
#i can’t just say no btw my mom doesn’t respect my boundaries and will push me into saying yes#i already know what’s going to happen. if i don’t act really super positive the entire time she’s going to throw a hissy fit and then fuss#she’s already started by asking me repeatedly ‘are you gonna be angry and argumentative tomorrow or are you going to let me have a good day#the urge to purposefully ruin her day bc she said that bullshit to me#like i’m tired of her assuming i’m angry and violent all the time#i think it’s bc i’m black and she’s white and she think that if im not smiling im on sapphire#whatever!#i wish she would just go by herself bc even tho i’m in a depressive episode i feel 10x better when she’s not near me#she’s the one who sent me into a depressive episode btw
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