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cosmicredcadet · 3 months ago

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For how much the Aspec community loves to claim it's dismantling amatonromativity, I can't help but notice how many aspecs play right into amatonormativity and refuse to acknowledge or admit it when it's pointed out.

There's only so many times you can watch aspec people trying to fit other forms of attraction into the romantic framework until it gets tiring and becomes obvious that a lot of you haven't genuinely deconstructed amatornormativity and internalized aphobia as you claim you have.

#text #aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #aroace #aspec #if you think this is talking about you maybe stop and ask yourself why you think that #and maybe start deconstructing your beliefs and biases #theres only so many times I can read “the x attraction version of romantic term!” before I want to explode #This is a conversation no one wants to have but we desperately need to have #if we actually want to start deconstructing amatonormative ideas within society #we all have to be on the same page and unfortunately some of us are still on the page of amatonormativity

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