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Jewish women and folks who feel this also applies to them, I want your thoughts and opinions.
I ask this because I hold jewish women's thoughts and feelings in high regard, and am genuinely curious about their thoughts on this. I do not use this term for anybody, and do not plan to ever, this is solely to see the opinions of you all because I have seen this term defined as derogatory by plenty of sources, and I also notice some jewish women embrace jewess as a term. I am interested in the potential nuances of this conversation.
This poll is for anybody who feels it applies to them. However, please don't vote just to see the results when it doesn't apply. I'm queueing this post for after the poll has concluded, as even I won't know the results until this poll is concluded. I genuinely want to have somewhat of an idea about the diversity of jewish women's thoughts.
This poll is inclusive to jews of trans and/or intersex experience, or experiences that aren't solely in the binary womanhood sphere. Those who genuinely are in the process of becoming jews, feel free to weigh in if this applies to you. This poll will not be used to judge or shame jewish women or justify what terms you should or should not use for yourself or what terms you ought to be comfortable with. Anything that is derogatory to jewish women and their feelings is not tolerated and you will be Banished.
Feel free to share this post if you'd like. If you want to see the results but cannot vote, please queue this post, like this post, or wait for this blog to reblog this poll. I cannot emphasize this enough.
And if nobody has told you: jewish women, you are amazing. You deserve love and respect, and your thoughts matter in every conversation you are in.
#jumblr#jewish women#personal thoughts tag#poll#jewish polls#again as a man and as a jew-in-progress i am NEVER going to use this to justify anything#if this term is derogatory then i do not use it and will not#i leave it to jewish women to define what THEY want and i simply want to be safer than sorry#there is no wrong answer to this poll and i tried to include some nuance in the answers but i know two jews three opinions#in the case that you vote and have a third opinion please feel free to share#i genuinely hope i did an okay (or even okay-ISH) job with this. i apologize if that isn't the case
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whenever I see someone making fun of the tidelords disappearance I get SO angry. Its just so insensitive to water dragons, and it ALWAYS comes from a wind, earth, or ice dragon. Like I don’t think you have any ground to stand on guys, your deities are still more neglectful than the tidelord and he’s not even here
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Dude your god has been gone for so long his long lost children came back before him
🪨 freshpebble-deactivated
Aren’t you the one who carved your fanart of femboy Icewarden into the side of the pillar.
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???? You’re literally a shade apologist
💫 see-the-stars Follow
HOW ARE THERE SHADE APOLOGISTS ON DRUMBLR IN THIS DAY AND AGE I THOUGHT THEY WERE ONLY ON DRITTER
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are we gonna just brush over the femboy icewarden thing
🦅 talonafan2477 Follow
@ see-the-stars the Arcanist is the ORIGINAL shade apologist what are you talking about
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btw “ice ice baby” is apart of from clan froststep that has a history of supporting the gaolers during the freezeflash war and thus the destruction of the banescales
🌑 walkingshadows Follow
Yeah but what about the femboy icewarden thing
🔥 its-gettin-hot Follow
you can excuse genocide but draw the line at femboy icewarden?
🌑 walkingshadows Follow
im not drawing the line i just wanna see it myself
🌺 bug-claws Follow
thats fair
#flight rising#fr#unreality#unreality tw#fake post#tw femboy#????#I PROMISE that i didnt mean to use it in like?? a transmisogynistic way I have only ever heard it used to refer to like#a guy (whether cis or not) who dresses in a feminine way and like… a term exaggerated by the internet?#please dont take this as me trying to like say that its NOT a derogatory term and that I was just ill informed but I dont really know#what else to do about it at this point#and my real intention here was to emulate irl tumblr posts and I fully understand that even using it in a comedic factor doesn’t excuse#the usage of a derogatory term but I don’t use that word in my normal vocab?#idk im sorry if this sounds bad long story short I’ve never seen it used in that way but I acknowledge that I could just be uninformed
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The funny thing about having been that pretentious child who was like "I'm too special and smart for video games, I read classic novels!" (secretly really wanted a GameCube) Is that now as an adult I am in fact reading those "classic" novels in bits and pieces in between dying stupidly in an MMORPG. So you know. These things can coexist, baby me.
#new thought: is there a star wars era or planet with jane austen regency vibes?#the codywan nerds will be all over that tag if they ever find it rip#(and if they do: i use nerd here as a gender neutral 'girlie' not as a derogatory term. i too am a nerd)
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If I see ONE MORE FUCKING PERSON be like "well I played and finished the dlc, but I'll wait to draw my conclusions about the lore until after the vaati video comes out"
FUCKING WHAT. It's not vaati's fucking lore! That man is just another fan, just like you! He is not your authority!!! Fucking dig up your own lore! All the information you need is there! Walk around the fucking game, open your eyeballs, and draw your own fucking conclusions!!!!!
I swear to fucking God you are all such cowards about "getting it wrong" that you are denying yourself half the fucking experience of the game by refusing to engage with the lore until someone tells you what to think about it.
Get your heads out of your asses!!!!!
#WHY ARE YOU ALL SO DESPERATE FOR AN AUTHORITY TO TELL YOU WHAT TO DO OR THINK#WHY ARE YOU ALL SO AFRAID OF UNCERTAINTY THAT YOU WON'T EVEN VENTURE INTO HYPOTHESIS#its a fucking video game!!!!! it is fully safe and fully fictional!!!!!! there are no repercussions for guessing wrong!!!!!!!#everybody wants to claim they're a free thinker until they get an actual opportunity to freely think#god you are all such FUCKING COWARDS#more seriously: i know that this is the main division between a lot of the ''male'' fandom experience and the ''female'' fandom experience#where ''male'' fandoms want to maintain this strict hierarchy from the Word Of God and information that gets disseminated from the top down#it's part of the ''gatekeeping'' that a lot of people experience when trying to get into fandoms dominated by men#where they are asked to ''prove'' themselves to ''real fans'' by reciting a number of deep cut trivia and hard number-based stats#it's part of the impulse to keep an idea of ''order'' and ''purity'' within a fandom where everybody is on the same page about stuff#but ''female'' fandoms have been traditionally rampant with both personal and collaborative speculation#it's part of the contempt male fans have for female fandoms and part of the reason they sling around ''fanfiction'' as a derogatory term#what i can't stand is that all the ''lore-casters'' for fromsoft games get treated as if they were Word Of God#not to get too religiousy but its like fromsoft creates for us a world and then just leaves us in it#but instead of taking that absence as the gift it is we start propping up prophets who claim they can access god's words and intentions#and then instead of just living in and appreciating the world we were given we wait for our prophets to explain to us how we should live#fear of criticism makes you weak i want you all to fucking think about that#elden ring
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there is something so incredibly funny at seeing how much offense fans of the toronto maple leafs take when someone insinuates anything about the experience there is less than optimal because like... why are you siding with an organization or a Concept over the actual people with opinions who have been around and made that organization what it is, lmao. it feels like it ultimately comes down to the crest vs players debate about being into sports, but i just think people love being obtuse on purpose.
seeing keefe say other coaches welcomed him to the "real" nhl after his time in toronto is like... first of all, he's just saying what OTHER people with experience have said... secondly, yeah duh. most coaches don't have to go through the scrutiny that people in toronto do, but watching toronto fans try to turn that into a good thing? like it's not. and it doesn't just have to be the way it is, but fans are brainwashed into thinking everything about the way it is now is The Best bc its in the center of the hockey world and if you can't hack it, you're less than. instead of like.. reflecting on why some of that makes the entire hockey-loving experience WORSE for us as fans and the people we root for than other teams fans have it. like pull your head out of your ass. god forbid there be any nuance to the way you view and cheer for teams just bc it's sports. there is something so pretentious and obnoxious and stupid about the way some leaf fans exist, yet they're the first ones to tear into you or say you're not thinking 'for the team' when you love one the faces of the franchise and continue to believe in them bc it doesn't agree with them, like lol. the dissonance is astounding, but man, if i don't understand why leafs fans are some of the most hated in the league.
#anyway sorry#im abt to use tumblr as my ranting place abt this shit bc it annoys me so fucking much#toronto most passionate fanbase my fucking ass honestly#i guess passion is the correct word but not in the complimentary positive sounding way tho flkdsj#hateful. annoying. loud. opinionated. obsessed (derogatory)#but also fans are some of the dumbest in terms of actual reading comprehension too like.#u see why organizations straight up get away with heinous stuff when fans behave like that or go to bat for some#crest over anything or any real people that have to do with it like lol
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In all seriousness, when I was in my 20s I spent way too much time reading tumblr and trying to figure out the right opinions to have on everything. It was pretty soul destroying now that I look back.
#although the people i consider my people (leftists and the left leaning) are always turning on people for slight disagreements#so i guess it was self preservation in a way#luckily i basically never posted back then only read#the truth is a lot of the disagreeing and fucking infighting on the left is internet sickness#and a lot of people who seem to know what they are talking about on here are actually talking out of their ass- seriously.#they don't need to know what they are talking about because everyone reading knows even less#my criteria for which leftists i respect is 'can they handle a slight disagreement with someone broadly on their side-#do they engage in good faith or do they mock and belittle?'#and i understand anyone on here with over a certain amount of folllowers who talks about politics will get bait and bad faith asks and stuf#i'm not saying you have to engage with bait in good faith!#just the real stuff.#i kind of regret this now but i engaged on a post that was using the word liberal in the coloquial (meaningless) tumblr way#that was when someone i followed (unfollowed now) apologised to the op of the post for my dumb idiocy- i was like ohhhhh#and then the op of the post responded to me like 'i'm using the true definition of liberal! which is: [really confusing explanation]'#the truth is there is no one definition because the left and right use it differently#when the right says liberal in a derogatory way they don't mean 'not those further left people though! they are really respectable + cool'#nah they mean the further left also#the point is the term liberal has no set meaning- it changes with context and no one bothers providing the context#i will stop now this is too rambly even for me
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i am SO for mr using nicknames and endearments on cwn, may it be in fanfic or canon. engong-gege? amazing. baby? perfect. baobei? Superb. legit even using wanning or smth. it’s so soft. so tender.
but god. “kitten” makes him sound like a discord mod or smth. y’all please
#buzz#erha#ranwan#can y’all tell that i’ve been reading nothing but ranwan fics for the past several months? i hope you can’t! i’m kind of ashamed!#imagining 1.0 mr w a fedora rn ngl. he’s got the attitude honestly#look i . sobs. gimme a m. like . i was reading fics again and i was like why are you using kitten. stop that#he has so many other nicknames. i’m begging you. on my knees actually#2ha#honestly his use of shizun is kind of an endearment sometimes. or a derogatory term but i am lovingly ignoring 1.0 mr. i do not see him. i#i am closing my eyes. just kidding i love him too. but he’s also a giant brat and a yarnball so like. my opinions of him are derogatory (af#(affectionate)
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i love you mona♡
#used 'bāo' instead of 'chinese steamed buns' and 'cheongsam' instead of 'qipao' bc those are the terms i'm used to ok~~~~?#th. thinking about doing the minami bonus too tbh... even though it's really far off from where i'm at in manga tls...#no im not procrastinating bc the next chapter introduces nozawa (derogatory) no w a y-#anyways. this page will be included in the last set of bonuses for volume 4... sooooo. maybe i'll have changed it a bit by then~? who knows#anyways! cheongsam mona i love you it really suits you frrrrr~~~~~
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I know there was some pushback on Octolings and inklings collectively being called turflings, but I’m gonna be so real, it makes more sense than inkfish.
Like they have ink sure but they ain’t fish they mollusks. I never rlly understood why the fandom used that term.
EDIT: ok apparently inkfish is like a term used about actual cephalopods irl, however
Also allegedly one of the shop characters says it in 2? Idk. I kinda loathed turflings at first but it’s grown on me. I guess realistically it’s probably more likely that both are used.
#but tbf I am poisoned with OCD and it may just not bug NTs as much#splatoon#octoling#inkling#turfling#sounds kinda weird but thems the brakes since they called inklings that instead of squidlings#I do like when fans hc Squidling to be a derogatory term tho gehahegha#fully use it as one when I write octavio 💀
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always “boy moms are sexist enablers” never “boy dads are sexist encouragers”
always “annoying tiktok girls are promoting EDs and unhealthy skincare routines” never “adult men are intentionally using teenage girls insecurities to groom them into this shit”
always “annoying housewife woman putting herself in a dangerous situation where she has no freedom” never “her bigot of a husband who now has control over her and almost certainly lured her into this”
always “teen girls are fucked up for seriously saying they wish they didn’t have rights bc they’d rather be property than deal with college” never “men are literally at fault for this in every single way imaginable. Also she’s probably not actually being serious dude.”
always “ugh annoying entitled Karen being rude to the employees” never “jfc a man harassing female GameStop employees being rude and sexist and then waiting for them to get off work to do God knows what”
always “ugh white women suck they’re so annoying” never “ugh white men are entitled brats and are infinitely more annoying than any white lady”
always “straight girls are the worst” never “straight boys are insane and violent with their homophobia in a way straight girls are not often”
always “women need to be more careful in bars” never “maybe men in bars need to be more monitored or given a different section if they Really just cannot stop fucking raping people.”
always “yoga moms soccer moms boy moms almond moms” never any derogatory terms for fathers.
Like is anyone else seeing a pattern
#sexism#it makes me angry that whenever I see feminist posts the only ones that get any attention are the ones shitting on a woman or a girl#What’s wrong with you all#Why are women always taking the fall#Also stop shitting on mothers! Holy shit!#I’m saying this as someone who was abused by my mom#Mothers should be treated with fucking respect#A lot of respect#Infinitely more respect than anyone else in society. Like they should be fucking worshipped.#She formed you from practically nothing inside her body kept you alive and growing inside her body and then pushed you out#Which is one of the- if not THE most- physically challenging things a human can do#Only for you to treat her like shit because of her sex. This woman who grew you from nothing. You wanna treat her like dirt.#And make derogatory terms for her and use those terms as buzz words and make her feel bad about herself and call her slurs and give#Your father more kindness and respect than you’ll ever give her simply because he’s male#Fucking shame job#Like I’m not even talking about my own family I understand things are complicated case by case but this is in the general sense#Society treats mothers like SHIIIIT#And it really pisses me off
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i really want to start making a table collecting statistics on the audience demographics i'll perform my aubrey material for (like what generation most of the audience is, whether i'm performing in a predominantly queer space, etc.) and how well the jokes land bc like. i need to collect more data points before i can properly present my findings but the results so far have been fascinating
#again i do not have enough performance experiences to make any definitive claims about who ''aubery's audience'' is#but i find it funny that any time i show my aubrey material one-on-one to a queer gen z person#they're always like ''i love it but straight people will definitely hate it or not get it''#and i get the inclination to be like. ''i like this thing so people like me will like this thing''#and cishet society seems so polarized w/r/t queer topics it's like. the assumption makes sense#however. whenever i've done an aubrey performance in front of an audience that's predominantly queer and gen z#i've actually received a primarily negative response!! and somehow straight people have never given me shit for my aubrey material#(''well straight allys don't count'' i told some of my aubrey jokes to a joe rogan dudebro and he enjoyed them)#(which yeah maybe could be a mark against my comedy but i like to think i opened his mind a bit at the very least)#i really want to test my aubrey monologues in front of a primarily gen x/boomer audience#bc so far i only have actual performance experience in front of gen z or millennials#and the older people i've told jokes to individually or shown videos of my stuff have really liked it#luckily paul has said a goal for when i'm in town this summer is to get me to perform my aubrey stuff in as many different places as possib#for both queer audiences and non-queer audiences so i can gauge reactions since i don't want to be confined to one demographic#so i'll get a lot of data points this summer#@ paul get me a performing slot at senior citizen pride lmao these are my people#(shoutout to paul going ''jess stop collecting the old homos!'' last time i was in town)#(and when i imitated him and was like ''old gay men are not your pokemon!'' bellini was like ''ok but they may be your audience'')#also one data point i really want to see the variation on is how my one specific joke plays in these different demographics#bc i have a joke that like. it's literally not even about AIDS and doesn't punch down at all#i literally say ''if you're gay and over the age of 50 you could violate the geneva convention and i'd still be like support our troops''#like obviously being like ''you have been through hell so i will let you get away with literal war crimes you deserve ultimate immunity''#BUT. in the line right before the quote i use the phrase ''AIDS generation'' not as a derogatory term but being like.#this horrible thing impacted the entire generation y'know? and bellini and scott and their friends call themselves that it's just the term#but when i said the phrase ''AIDS generation'' in front of my gen z audience i heard gasps and felt like they all hated me#and when i did the same line in front of millennials it wasn't quite as striking but their eyes did widen#like i was suddenly an ''edgy comedian''. but like this is a part of our history and it does inform the story i'm telling#the story i'm telling is comedic but it's grounded in this real world context#and i'm like. @ the audience who was offended: when was the last time any of y'all spoke to a gay man over the age of 50#bc bellini loves that section of the monologue and was offended that people would even take offense to that phrase
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Okay, actual serious PSA: trash talk is not fun once you start using words like "narcissist" to shit on your opponents, and it will get you blocked, regardless of who you're levying it against.
Don't fucking be that person, alright?
#the trash talk is for fun. do not make it not fun by doing shit like this.#there are very few reasons I might block somebody for trash talk cuz it is all in good fun but this is among them.#this goes for anything resembling a slur as well but I fucking HOPE that doesn't need to be said.#it probably does but yanno.#(i.e. some folks using various queer terms in a way that reads '(derogatory)' are on very. very thin ice.)#world wizard entertainment#putting this in the tag cuz I am so fucking serious about this but it is not gonna be rebloggable.
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I say I want a nice guy and don't get me wrong - I do. But when that nice guy gets playfully mean in just the right way in a situation where I can answer him in the exact same tone, mmm... My brains start leaking out of my... ears, yeah let's go with ears.
#this is about Atlas ASMR the Gentlemen collab - the second part especially#the petnames that are on the verge of affectionate and derogatory are just chef's kiss#'is that a gun or are you just pleased to see me?' - both actually#it is pretty much m4m though - there are some definitely masculine terms used towards the listener#I mean I love the movie and those videos surprisingly do somewhat transfer the homoerotism#of Hugh Grant 'accidentally' grabbing Charlie Hunnam's thigh
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A thing about the intersection of veiling and being spiritually a part of the environment around you as literally as your own flesh and blood
#wall kinnies rise up. do people still think kinnies is a horrifically derogatory term. i did not survive being skykin in the early tumblr#kin days to be told im anti-otherkin for using it#Sona: Petrichor#Spiritual: Self#Symbol: Veil#Symbol: Tools#Symbol: Sky
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im not joking but if one more relative in fucking bangladesh sits me down and warns me about the dangers of pride month and whatever the fuck since im moving to canada im going to kill myself im going to kill myself im going to kill myself
#literally im ok w being closeted till i die bc i love my parents and they dont bring up this shit#but what the fuck its literally so fucking annoying to pretend to be completely interested and ok when some bum fuck uncle is warning me abt#transgenders and drag queens and gay people like . im literally going to shoot myself#and it pisses me off even more when the relatives in question are so unreligious too like. genuinely why the fuck do u care#and sincerely leave me the FUCK alone gay ppl r not gonna kill me what the hell#sometimes i js wanna tell them i kissed a girl for the first time in the same house they were in just so they can freak out or whatever#anyway. anyway. i hate pride month im so sorry fellow lgbts but its so terrible for me#i wish they would continue to just be so ignorant and oblivious to everything pertaining to sexuality and gender#that way i can avoid their stupid lectures. like i literally am always the one forced to listen to this bc im too polite to tell them to#fuck off#and anger and frustration aside... its also just so hurtful lol#like to know sooo clearly that the love ur extended family have for u is so conditional even my cousins#how does who i love change what kind of person i am. if only they had any idea that the kind of derogatory terms they r using towards this#'faceless' force of lgbts applies to the same kid they literally raised. like. idk its so depressing#and if i lie and say im neutral to this kind of topics thats also problematic bc i gotta b violently against it#im genuinely so upset by this soz guys#praying i never return to bangladesh#hate it here lol
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prude is kinda whatever that's existed for ages tho in the current landscape i still think it's pretty unhelpful but if you call people puritans there is something incredibly wrong with you. fucking cut that out
#'but pink then which derogatory term should we use for people who react badly to anything sex related' maybe we don't. need that#esp when most of those people are minors or at least young adults#i do think it's a problem but requires more nuance and care and a lot less flippancy to address#pink.txt
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