#idk someones probably explained it better)

[seethestarlights]

thinking about the folklore prologue and how taylor says "a single thread that, for better or for worse, ties you to your fate". thinking about how invisible string is a song about taylor's journey with that thread and how she thought it led her through hell and brought her heaven. thinking about how it turned out that that thread led her to a fate that was worse than she was expecting. thinking about taylor finding it difficult to leave the relationship because of all those signs that prove that they were destined to be together. thinking about taylor resigning herself to that fate, for better or worse.

[13eyond13]

Please tell me about art and media you know of that accurately captures the weirdness of dream logic and atmosphere and emotions... books and movies and video games and art and comics and YouTube stuff, whatever you want... you know, where it only makes sense on an intuitive level and falls apart when you try to explain it...

[expressionless-fr]

I think the problem with most of the polyphobes is thinking that one party is just a "third", and they're afraid that they're going to be the "third", and not get enough care, attention, sex or love which is not true at all ???

polyam isn't just for sex, it doesn't mean one person gets less of whatever the other two have going on, tf

[starrysharks]

Just out of curiosity I have to know your opinion on people adding "core" to the ends of words to describe preexisting fashion trends OR just slapping core onto the names of fashions that already exist. like i swear i have seen the word "punkcore" before or maybe im mad about a made up scenario. I have to add "aesthetic" or "core" at the end of search terms if im trying to find cool images for like. a pinterest board and i am lightly disturbed by it

when the style originates with the '-core' attached (think cottagecore) it doesn't bother me, but i honestly just think it's super unnecessary 99% of the time. like 'punkcore'... 'emocore'.... just use the prefix on its own like there's nothing wrong with it 😭 what really gets my goat grinds my gears etc is when people take a fashion style that has its own specific name and completely ignore that name and make up a 'core' (infamous example being 'cutecore' used for general kawaii fashion)... like why r u re-writing history like that....

[adore-gregor]

🙄🫠

[sskk-manifesto]

Atsushi's back in the game!!! ۶( ˆ o ˆ )

[lesbiansanemi]

I am so fucking sick of living with my roommate and his fuck ass boyfriend. Also watching my roommate burn every single one of his (already rather minimal, I might add) bridges for this guy is also kind of painful but also his relationship with me is one of said bridges so I'm almost past the point of even feeling bad for him lmao

[phagodyke]

kind of annoys me sometimes how I can happily listen to my roommate explain the entire plot of whatever she's currently into but when it comes to my interests she can only listen for a few mins before wordlessly walking out of the room

[snekdood]

i think im allowed to assume someones consuming their kinks in a harmful-to-others way if I have first hand experience with them sexually abusing me, personally.

[fettery-fetterie]

GIRL HELP WDYM I REACHED 30 TAGS??????? OMG???? I WASN'T EVEN DONE YET

ANYWAYS 31st: and that compared to a relationship where the communication lines are basically none or very fucking weak then yeah it is an upgrade I think. Idfk I was never in a relationship I'm just picking from the ones I've seen in my life

[letsgetitblog]

So glad I'm not the only one that feels like the ending felt a little half assed ☠️. Like only a little..

But the ending song was great though 🤷🏾‍♀️. So I'm not complaining much. 😂

[daedrabela]

i think that man genuinely poisoned my mind

[thnksfrthmmrs]

[bulletbilltime]

I love how moddable they made Celeste 64 tbh

Like they literally just have a file (Contents/Levels.md) telling you how to set up Trenchbroom to make maps, and how to add them to the game. And beyond the learning curve of figuring out how to actually use Trenchbroom itself, it's not too hard to get smth decent built.

[arionaleilani]

how tf did me facetiming someone i matched with on tinder turn into them giving me unsolicited advice about giving people your full attention after i already let them know that i recently got diagnosed as adhd and it’s hard for me to focus on just one thing/person and then them telling me that “based on my behavior” they think i’m autistic like ?? didn’t ask, we literally started messaging each other like a day ago, even if i am autistic (which wouldn’t be a bad thing if i am) when has it ever been socially acceptable to tell someone you JUST MET that you think they’ve got some kind of mental disorder/illness/disability/etc.

my friends have mentioned that i might be autistic and that’s fine bc i’ve spent a lot of time with them and they actually know me and i take their perspective of me very seriously because they’re the people who see me 100% unfiltered and have known me whenever i’ve been completely unmedicated. i trust their word.

this person from tinder, however, i have sent like maybe 20-30 messages to where we talked about nanowrimo and i was like omg it’d be so cool to meet someone who also writes, whether it’s as friends or as more, i would love that—only for our facetime call to be less than 20 minutes long and for them to try and diagnose me as autistic just because i, after ALREADY TELLING THEM that i have adhd and after them asking about meds and me telling them that i haven’t taken my adhd meds today because i didn’t have work and also i’ve taken multiple naps today which has made my head even more foggy and made it even harder than usual to focus, found it difficult to focus.

like. i wasn’t unresponsive. i wasn’t ignoring them. i was listening and i was responding, i just also was looking between my phone and my laptop screen.

which okay i understand that maybe i’m just frustrated because of the “based on your behavior” comment because an 18 minute facetime call does not give someone enough interaction time to try and fucking diagnose me as anything, and maybe this is more of a we just didn’t vibe and that’s fine, i don’t think they’re like a bad person or anything and if nothing else i’m glad the mismatched vibes were felt before deciding to meet up or anything, but also.

eighteen minutes. literally eighteen minutes and they fucking “based on your behavior i think you’re autistic” and “here’s some advice, when meeting new people you should give them your full attention”

FUCK that.