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tags: #stardew valley does not expect you to side against George #though if you do chastise penny for moving him without his consent he goes 'no it's alright thank you for helping' after penny apologizes #vidya games #I've always chosen to chastise penny for that
this is a sentiment that's been shared by a lot of tags so I want to point out specifically in this scene in Stardew Valley that it is a Heart Event scene for Penny. These are gained when friendship points hit a certain mark, and thus is explicitly - by how the game functions - a scene that is a reward for choosing to raise friendship points with that character.
In this case, yes, the game expects you to side with Penny, because it is a Heart Event based on her friendship level, and siding with her raises that friendship level. It is detrimental to your progress in Penny's friendship level to side with George, the man she moved, and yes, this means the game is punishing you for siding with the wheelchair user because it is taking away the points you have earned in order to reach this scene (and would have rewarded you with more of them otherwise). The dialogue from George is also the same regardless of which option you choose - and the creator of the game writing this scene so that the wheelchair user apologizes for being angry that they were moved without their consent is not an apt defense of the scene, because George is not a real person choosing to respond that way. Additionally, while people have claimed otherwise in the notes, I can't find any indication that George's friendship level is changed by you siding with or against him.
Additionally, the conversation with Penny afterward leads up to this:
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Penny says: It must be difficult to grow old... Player response options are: 1. I'd rather not think about it. 2. It's just a different part of life. 3. That's why we should respect our elders. 4. I'd rather die young...
(thanks to JNEY on YouTube for a clear recording)
None of these dialogue options appear to impact friendship level, just the ending comment Penny says. The cutscene ends after this. I have very little faith in the good intentions of writing that completely avoids the option of letting the player react positively to the idea of needing a wheelchair, but does allow you to say you'd rather be dead than have to rely on one.
#stardew valley#i play stardew a lot. i enjoy it. some of you are so fucking stupid about it though#this is not good! the diversity in the town is not good!#please stay critical of things you can mod to fix because they are still in the version that most people will be playing!!#patch me through to palaven command#i swear typing this shit out feels like that png of a person holding blocks in front of a baby#i've got it all under control
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*pats Zuko's head* This bad boy can fit so many near-death experiences.
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Read For the Spirits Chapter VIII here!
#atla#avatar the last airbender#zuko#atla fanart#prince zuko#atla art#new gods au#for the spirits#zuko's crew#Royal Guard Ming#atla ming#atla oc#(But not really cause she's a canon character)#spirit touched zuko#southern water tribe#atla fanfic#atla zuko#ponytail zuko#S1 Zuko has no chill#Is this a spoiler? I think it is but at the same time it isn't because we all knew this shit was going to happen.#I mean#Zuko + any of the Poles + blind determination = trauma#And at least ONE hanging-from-a-cliff experience#The spoiler would be telling you how he got there#So this is not a spoiler#This is BAIT#*insert evil cackle*#Look at my boy's face. He's so confident. He's so cocky. He's so “lmao wtf are you talking about I've got everything under control”#famous last words#*falls to the snow and dies*
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💖 Day 3.5 is now available! 💖
For the last couple of months, only Server Boosters had access to the 3.5 update... Buuuuut now it's available for everyone to play in the 14DWY Discord — and soon itch.io once I'm happy with the QA and state of the game — so please don't feel pressured to join unless you want to!!
The full devlog + even more screenshots are under the cut ^^
What's been added to the 3.5 version?
📺 Streamer Mode!
I've been told that it's difficult to stream and monetise age-restricted videos on YouTube and Twitch, so I added an option to remove the sexual content and strong language used in the demo.
Now y'all can invite Ren into your bed for cuddles without putting your streamer career on the line /silly /lh
This won't affect the 18+ rating or dark themes/elements of the game, however! Although Streamer Mode will prevent you from seeing any "gruesome" CGs in the future, most of the core elements of the game will still be tied to the choices and decisions you make. So you won't miss out on the overall experience by using streamer mode!!
⚙️ Custom Pronouns!
It only took me one entire year to get around to it, but you can finally choose your own preferred pronouns (or use a set of pronouns instead)... At the cost of being able to change them mid-game ^^;
Since the original pronoun screen wouldn't update until a new scene was displayed, I temporarily disabled the feature. But once I find a workaround, I'll bring it back!
💗 Choose how others perceive you!
You can now choose how the cast and narration perceive you! Originally, the narration was kept strictly gender-neutral (outside of pronouns and genitalia picked by the player), but this will soon change in future updates.
For more clarity: you don't get to choose the words specifically, but you can choose between masculine, feminine, and androgynous terms!
📋 Separate top and bottom genitalia!
You can now choose your tatas and pps separately! >:3
Alongside that, you can also choose your preferred body type!
I removed the "both" genitalia option because a few players still assumed it was an obscure version of "intersex". That wasn't my intention and I don't want to mislead anyone, so I took it out for now ^^;
I also didn't want to include a screenshot of the new genitalia choices in action (because it's NSFW), so y'all get the same character menu screen for the nth time instead lmao
📱 Relationship Screen Overhaul!
You can now change your own status for more immersion, and long-term Server Boosters will eventually be able to submit and use their own icon within the game as well!
Stalking finding your friends has now become easier by using "Buddy Maps"; a new app that allows you to see the location of all the cast members!
I want to offer players more incentive to check the relationship screen since they tend to miss the status updates, so hopefully this might help ;v;
It also says it "updates every few hours" so folks don't go overboard and check every 5 seconds to see where Ren is gdsghf (also keep in mind that he's a hacker lol)
🖤 Additional Scenes Update!
Day 2 received a brand new CG!!!!! Originally, I planned on only adding a few CGs sporadically throughout the game, but it didn't feel right to leave Day 2 so... empty... so I added a brand new CG to (hopefully) make things feel more balanced and natural!
If you decline Teo's offer on Day 3, Leon will now call and try to convince you to reconsider. However, players are still allowed to decline, and if they do, they'll reach a dead end.
After listening to feedback on itch, I changed some of the dialogue during Days 1-3 to make it seem more consistent! They're only small changes though, so it's honestly not worth looking for sdgjssga
🎶 Updated BGM and SFX!
I wanted to try out a different style of music to see if it fits the vibe of 14DWY more! The BGM features more acoustics to suit the "beachy" theme of Corland Bay, though I made a conscious effort to include piano elements as well to stay true to the original!!
I figured it'd be better to give players a live example before I make a poll (to see if they prefer the change or not) and publish it to Itch.
Some new SFX have also been added, though it's very minimal and honestly not that noticeable.
How to download and play the update?
(warning: clicking on the following links will open Discord!!) To download the Day 3.5 update, simply join the 14DWY Discord server, verify your age, and visit the "14dwy-updates" channel!
Alternatively, you can also wait until the update is publicly released on Itch to play it as well!! (It normally gets released shortly after a round of QA testing/getting feedback from the server, though I may release it earlier if I feel like it hehe ^^)
Enjoy!!
#14 days with you#14dwy#💖 — 14 days with queue.#🖤 — updates.#🖤 — spoilers.#I'm not gonna say much about my current doxxing situation because I've got it under control now + it's being handled privately#Plus I don't wanna give it/the people involved any unnecessary attention. I just wanna announce the update and Get Back To It™️#(''it'' bein the grind 💪 It never stops lmao /silly)#OG followers will also know that these topics aren't the vibe I normally have on this blog (or any of my accounts); so I don't think I'll—#—make ANOTHER public post about the situation and bring more attention to it (when I just want everything to be over and put to rest ^^;)#However I also don't want people to think that I'm... ignoring?? the situation entirely (because gettin doxxed is a very endangering thing)#So I DO want to quickly acknowledge it here and say that it's all currently handled + I'm safe and okay + this won't stop me from—#—continuing to work on 14DWY (and other future projects). I also don't want to give these awful people more power and incentive to continue#—this kind of pathetic behaviour; so the less attention and encouragement being shown will ultimately be better in the long run :3#Aaaaaanways!! 😮💨#My other accounts will be restored shortly and my askbox will be opened once I feel comfortable. I'll get around to following folks—#—again in my own time; so please don't feel offended if I unfollowed you during a moment of vulnerability and anxiety!!#This is all EXTREMELY overwhelming and scary for someone with SAD/AvPD; and I /gen can't handle seeing it all over my timeline ;v;#Sorry this got ranty and personal again hjdsgjsdh T_T I said I wouldn't say much; so I'll shut up now hehe#🖤 — shut up sai.
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Its 4:45 am rn rewatching ew
Transgender real
#eddsworld#tom shat his pants#eddsworld tom#ew tom#eddsworld fanart#tom eddsworld#tom ew#i love eddsworld#eddswolrd#edwrld#THE FUCKING SOUNDTRACKS-#URGHRGHURGHURGHURGHURGHURGURGHURGHURGHURGH#NOTHING AT ALL IM DYING ILISM!!!#WTFUTURE SOUNDTRACK-#AHHHHHH!!!!!#I CAN NOT EXPRESS HOW MUCH I LOVE REWATCHING THE OLD EPISODES AND LISTENING TO THOSE MASTERPIECES#ISTG REWATCHING THEM GIVES ME MOTIVATION TO ANIMATE#ILOVITILOVITILOVITILOVIT!#AND THE INTRO TO 25FT UNDER THE SEA?!?!?#SO BUBBLY MAKES ME GIGGLE LIKE A DUMBASS EVERY TIME#THE JOKES HERE ARE SO STUPID BUT NOSTALGIC I CANT CONTROL MYSELF#OH GOD THE SONG IN THE MONTAGE AFTER THEY GOT FLUSHED DOWN THE TOILET AAHH#I'VE NOTICED SO MANY STUPID DETAILS LIKE THE KEYCHAIN THAT SAYS “KISS ME IM GINGER” AND IT MAKES ME FEEL SO HAPPY#NEW STUFF TO DRAW#NEW HC#NEW IDEAS JUST POPPING UP EACH PASSING SECOND#I LOVE REWATCHING THIS SILLY SHOW IT MAKES ME HYPER OVER EVEN MORE#OMG THE MONTAGE OF TOMS LIFE UGGRRHHHHHHHHHH#CUTENESS AGGRESSION WITH EDDS DUMBASS FACE BEFORE THEY MAKE THEM FLY UP ABOVE THE WATER#I CAN'T I CAN'T I CAN'T I CAN'T
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Fellow UK people please stay safe out there 🙏
#ramble in furness#I've seen nothing but videos of riots all day#they tried starting in my town too#thankfully got under control quickly#thinking of yall
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Back on my RWBY bullshit again (ranting in my head about the Academies legal processes, how Ozpin isn't responsible for every bad thing that happens in the kingdoms, and how the belief of the previous point colors the fandoms views on certain things in the show)
#rwby#ozpin#no Ozpin isn't a neglectful reckless Headmaster who regularly lets students die under his watch#no Ozpin isn't personally responsible for the fact Cinder was trafficked and enslaved#no Ozpin never said the kingdoms were an unproblematic utopia just that they were in times of peace#no Ozpin doesn't control the other kingdoms despite personally working with the headmasters of each one#no Ozpin never claimed he was perfect and that he completely got rid of these issues i.e. systemic racism#seriously what is this fandom on? crack??#yes these are all real claims I've seen#the fndm: yeah Ozpin is just a man like he says!! he shouldn't be in charge of ANYTHING#also the fndm: Ozpin should be all powerful/all knowing and stop these things from happening altogether#me: ...what#i could bitch about it for HOURS#PICK A LANE
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Hey y'all another "I suspect this is atypical but idk how atypical" question, this time about blood sugar! Okay, maybe a few questions
if your blood sugar is in the fasting blood sugar range, but you aren't fasting, does that count as low blood sugar?
2. Is it normal to have low blood sugar symptoms at not-technically-low-blood-sugar levels (today, 93)? Like, especially when it's that way when you have not been fasting, but also in general
3. How do you word "hey doc my records say you took my blood sugar when I was fasting, but I wasn't fasting. That was like an hour, hour and a half after lunch and I'd downed half a gatorade before I walked into the office and my blood sugar was in the 80s. Is that...maybe...a problem? That it's happened twice?" in a way doctors will care about?
#the person behind the yarn#medical mention#I make sure I have protein and complex carbs and eat smaller meals more frequently#but - wait I think I figured it out#well. why it's happening again now not why it happens in general#usually I have this under control but after I have an allergy flareup I'll be off kilter for days to weeks#depending on the severity of the allergic reaction#but like three times in the last two days I've been on the edge of a stress-induced allergic reaction and haven't needed a benadryl#so maybe it got close enough to disturb my blood sugar???#my endocrine system is all fucked up and I know that can impact blood sugar#fun side effect I only figured out a week or two ago:#apparently sometimes low blood sugar can trigger a release of some adrenaline#which I did not know because my body kinda...did not have any extra adrenaline#but now I am on corticosteroids so I DO have some reserves#and it means I get high blood pressure when I get lowish blood sugar which has not happened for me in the past#so that's. something. probably good??? to be able to have noticeable adrenaline reactions to things???? but not fun
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Warning- this is a very petty post, but I think I'm entitled to at least one petty, pissed-off reaction every time I finish a classic novel that hit harder than I expected so take this as my quota for the year.
Also spoiler warning for a book that came out over a century ago but still, I didn't know the plot going in so don't want to ruin it for anyone else, if you haven't read it shut your eyes. (Also Local Tumblr User Going Wild Over Book Published a Hundred Years Ago That Everybody Else Already Read should probably be categorised as akey part of indigenous tumblr culture at this point).
Anyway I just finished the War of the Worlds and in between studying I've thinking about Themes and Motifs as you do, and idly looking for further analysis. I then accidentally ran into an article called 'A Quiet Place II Succeeds Where the War of the Worlds Failed' and:
Now I haven't seen any of the Quiet Place films, this is not a rant against them and of course everyone is entitled to their own opinions. But re: the ending of The War of the Worlds, I have to ask, did this guy somehow miss, uh, the entire point of the book or am I just utterly insane?
#You're right it's not very satisfying for humanity that the invaders are foiled by a bacteria and not human action! Maybe that's the point!#Maybe it's supposed to be FRIGHTENING and make you ask questions about what humans will do under extreme stress#Not be a morally uplifting tale about Humanity Heroically Defeating the Martians in a Glorious Hollywood Ending#Maybe it's MEANT to be unsatisfying because this is not a straightforward fairytale#I mean I've only read it once and don't know much about Wells' work so I might have misunderstood the point of the book too#But at places it is a very pessimistic view of the human condition and that's partly WHY IT'S SO POWERFUL#That doesn't mean there aren't moments of individual acts of heroism (the Thunderchild for example)#But the question is not just 'how will humanity beat the Martians and prove that we're still the masters of the universe'#Rather 'a) why is humanity so confident that it's ultimately in control of its own destiny#And b) here's lots of scenes of societal collapse and of people pushed to the brink and what would YOU do in those circumstances?#Would YOU feel remorse about silencing the curate even if it did lead to his death?#What if it rather than a foolish adult it had been a small child?#And even if they were weak did they DESERVE it? Yes it might have been necessary but should it be policy going forward?#Would you also be attracted briefly by the certainties that the artilleryman's (rather fascist) plan seems to offer so humanity survives?#But what sort of humanity would that be if it DID survive and is it worth it? The narrator feels he needs to justify the curate's death#The artilleryman would have probably never have thought it was anything OTHER than justifiable or indeed laudable#Under strain and stress would you start to turn against even your loved ones and become brutal?#Is that the only hope for human survival beyond complete surrender? And was the destruction of London maybe even 'cleansing'#In the eugenics sense or in the sense of a natural horror of dirt and germs?#And the vast exodus of six million people fleeing headlong in panic - we might not have seen that exact phenomenon#But didn't the twentieth century subsequently go on to show us unprecedented scale of slaughter and refugee movements and communal strife?#At the end of the day what really separates humanity from other animals? And what separates us from the Martians?#It's not an uncontroversial book- it was written over a hundred years ago for goodness sake and there are questions worth asking#about the way imperialism and arguments about eugenics and population control and all sorts of other dodgy areas operated on Wells' mind#But dear God I really don't think the problem with the book is that 'Humanity didn't save the day!'#Unsatisfying ending? Yes. A FAILURE? No not in my opinion- looks like it was exactly what Wells set out to do#Humanity didn't win the war of the worlds they had a narrow escape and though it might not be martians next time#Why wouldn't disaster return in the future? Sure we've studied their flying machines and even preserved a martian in a jar#But for all our science what have we ACTUALLY learned that will enable us to avert future human catastrophes? Ethically or socially?#Alright rant over- as usual my opinion is not universal nor necessarily well-informed this take just really got my goat
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even more wiped than normal this morning but the show must go on! on the schedule today: - gotta hoover - lay down after lunch - start collecting july photos to print + stick in my planner - maybe read manga/watch extra more of my show? - if i'm really flagging, floor time with a podcast :P
trying to do activities that keep me 'moving' but are hopefully neutral or recharging energy-wise, alongside the whole 'keeping my house running' thing also. always trying to adjust to the latest state of things and trying to do the most without making myself more unwell! glad to have lots of practice now so some good ideas to fall back on every time something comes up :P 💪
#meals aren't too strenuous today which is 👍#i've got it all under control! 👍#OH YEAH it's tuesday again no problem
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that's not a counterpoint that's just an entirely different point
art tips
don't call what you create "content". regardless of what it is. that's the devil talking. call it art, call it writing, call it music, call it analysis, call it editing, literally just call it what it is
I was going to put other things but oh my god please just don't call yourself a "content creator". you are a person you are making art / writing / music / etc you are an artist an author a musician
you are not an Image Generator For Clicks And Views. please. allow yourself to connect with your work by naming it properly and acknowledging yourself in kind
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Now I can't stop thinking about how one of Riku's fatal flaws in kh1 was his possessiveness which he gradually learned to overcome over the course of the series, whereas Homura kinda went the direct opposite of that and grew more possessive with each timeloop.......man I wanna write kh verses for madohomu so bad
#listen hear me out here#i've already pitched princess of heart madoka#that as a parallel to....whatever the fuck homura's got going on JSKDHFAJDG#i think i joked abt homunort like once#idk if i'd commit to that but at the VERY least this girl's got darkness she's gotta get under control#pushes her at any and all willing rikus#❛ ooc: shut up neg.
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//Hello, it's been a minute! Still around, just quiet and busy.
#ooc#this week hasn't been so assignment-heavy but I've been dealing with some nasty midterms#got some other ER verse things I want to reblog but I intend to make a dedicated sideblog for that soon so I'm waiting for that#Been lurking on discord and taking a look at the dash every now and then to keep track of things#wishing you all good luck on your stuff#I'm hoping I can get mine sorted out to be around again#Feels like there's some solid progress now- I feel like studies are a little more under control now even if time is still short#and more importantly I'm slowly improving my mindset on studies. No point in spending so much time stressed#over something that really isn't that important. I don't want that to keep me from enjoying what I do have and am lucky to have
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@squalodinoappreciationsquad
#dino at his other job perhaps?#squalo is impatiently waiting and dying for dino to let him say or do something#meanwhile dino is all#no no no I've got this under control#just watch#khr headcanons#dino cavallone
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man playing guitar hero with the actual guitar controller is really really fun. no wonder that shit was so popular back in the day. in my childhood i played a decent amount of gh with a normal controller, but playing it on the guitar is definitely more fun, at least once i got used to it
wish i'd inherited my older brothers' talent for the game but twas not to be unfortunately, no 5 star through the fire and flames on expert for me lmfao but i'm still having a lot of fun doing fairly well for myself on hard and barely scraping by on expert
the 2 songs that i've replayed the most so far are hotel california & eruption. hotel california strikes a really nice balance between being really fun & engaging to play while still being totally doable even for someone with my shitty level of skill. like it's not some super easy song where you're just strumming away at the same chord progression over and over for 5 minutes, there's lots & lots of hammer-on/pull-off sequences, but those sequences are very much on the easier end of the spectrum. it is, at least so far, the only song that i've 5 starred on expert, it's really fun and obv it's a super good song too
eruption is also very very fun cause it's literally just a 2 minute guitar solo and it's REALLY HARD. it's so hard that i really shouldn't be able to do it, like it's the final song in the van halen career mode which means the game places it on that same tier of final boss-type songs as like through the fire and flames & jordan & the like, but since it's so short it's actually just barely doable for me. at least on hard, i haven't even tried it on expert lol. it's also the only song where i've successfully done that both-hands-on-the-fretboard thing that i saw my brothers do back in the day. any time it could potentially be useful i'm usually too overwhelmed by the number of notes to even think to attempt it, but i'm pretty sure eruption is specifically designed for you to have both hands up on the neck of the guitar since that's literally what eddie van halen did whenever he played the song irl, which i do think is a really nice touch
#also sidenote#playing all this guitar hero is making me wanna start playing my real guitar again#like after a decently long session of guitar hero the tips of my fingers are pretty sore#which kinda brings back fond memories of the stupid steel strings on my guitar leaving marks on my fingers lol#it's been so long since i've touched my guitar i've completely forgotten every single song i knew how to play#i knew how to play like 5 or 6 different undertale songs!!! i played save the world AND hopes and dreams for my year 12 exam!!#i learnt shit like american pie & the man comes around!! the man who sold the world!!#cruel angels thesis! a bunch of songs from steven universe! the little guitar part from el mañana by gorillaz! various other random shit!!#i tried to learn the intro to crazy on you by heart and gave up in like 2 seconds cuz that shit's impossible!!!#now it's all been flushed down the memory toilet#i guess i can just learn them all again. i mean i've done it before right?#oh and another sidenote i just remembered#the first couple guitar hero games didn't get the rights to most of the songs so the soundtrack is mostly covers#and obv pretty much all of them are inferior to the originals#but i just wanted to make special mention of the cover of killing in the name from guitar hero 2 cause that shit was HORRIBLE#butchered an absolute all-time classic but they butchered it in a really funny way so it's fine honestly lmfaooo#like the instrumentation is fine. inferior to the original but prime rage is a high bar to clear so i won't give them shit for that#oh except the guitar solo omg they made that thing sound like shit lol#but the vocals. christ almighty. CONTROL I WON'T DO WHAT YA TELL ME!!! CONTROL I WON'T DO WHAT YA TELL ME!! UNDER CONTROOOOOL#guy is certainly no zack de la rocha is all i'll say. thank goodness they got the real version of bulls on parade for gh3
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I would like to go one day without feeling self conscious :(
#like i just. i'm fine!! mostly#but still i end up Anxious#they sure weren't lying that anxiety sure is disordered#idk i just think it's kinda messed up how apparently my anxiety's so bad i should potentially be on medication for it but it gets downplayed#this isn't really meant to be a vent vent i am just frustrated that i am genuinely almost always anxious to some degree#really hate when people take a “it's just anxiety” stance like sorry but it's not “just” anxiety#my ability to function in everyday life is affected severely#if i am not at college because its the holidays then it's a miracle if i leave the house more than once a week#sometimes it's a miracle if i actually leave the house at all#because my body seems to be constantly under the impression that i am about to be in danger#on multiple occasions it has tipped over into full-blown paranoia where i think everyone i see may be out to get me somehow#and that everyone i care about is just secretly waiting for the perfect opportunity to hurt me for their amusement#so yeah i kinda hate when people act like anxiety disorders are the “easy” mental illnesses because anxiety has controlled most of my life#the whole fearful-avoidant disorganised attachment thing i've got going on is fed into by my anxiety whilst also fueling my anxiety as well#the self awareness of it all is a really annoying thing too because. i know my anxiety is an irrational thing! i just can't do much about it#i try and i try but sometimes i just can't always win against my anxiety
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Hang..
#ran out of tags on the other post but I've got so manynof these#was best friends with a pair of roommates who became so intensely codependent that they both had breakdowns when the other studied abroad#a guy who had siblings regularly terrorized my friend who also had siblings with the corpse of a roachnfor over a year (roommates)#ive known ONE situation where the only chold terrorized an apartment of sibling people. but that's because they were all poc and she was#insanely racist. like so racist that MY little pale jewish ass got weird vibes from her on first contact#learned some good lessons from roommates but none of them are things I'd be able to explain to a kid#except maybe 'if you get the feeling someone's mad at you all the time but won't tell you for some reason just move out'#oh! my friend had a partner who was a terror of a roommate. as in she psychologically terrorized my friend and their roommates#once listened in on a convo that went 'i shouldnt have to warn people I'm walking into an apartment I PAY FOR just because they want a date#oh also @ my niblings sometimes situations are unwinable before you even get there. sometimes people just make up their minds about you#and you just gotta deal with the consequences of that decision. if you're in an unwinnable social situation just hit the bricks#you can't fix something that isn't functionally broken and it puts you in situations where every choice is wrong#living with people who grew up with fucked up sibling relationships created a lot of '0 good dialogue options' situations#cant leave the living room because then they asked for something and got it and that's shameful. can't sit in the living room. they want it.#again i could have been a way better roommate. for a multitude of reasons some under my control some not. but lord in heaven#but having siblings does NOT socialize you to live with other adults i hate that myth every situation I've lived in has proved it wrong#NONE OF US had any clue how to live with people who weren't our relatives#and this will happen to you. you will move out and realize the extent of your habits cause most people's parents just tolerate stuff#or your parents just got used to things that would drive other adults insane and they don't notice the things you do cause they're your kid#(or they might have even taught you those habits/level of cleanliness themselves)#one dude at the boarding house got mad about being asked to have basic responsibility for his room. so he left it covered in trash#and when they went to clean it it was covered in a fine layer of mold on almost every surface. genuine biohazard scene#got hit with 'youre the only person i don't regret letting into my house' from the woman we paid rent to when i moved out#and I'm like gee the bar is in hell 😭
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