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#btw if you're following me for tf2 you may want to leave i am no longer hyperfixated unfortunately. bless.#i don't wanna play with you anymore#i've got a NEW interest now!#(i have loved this comic for 4 years)#rhian's silly little art tag#tpoh#tpoh rgb#the property of hate#idk i wanted to practice colors#and also draw an actual human person for the first time in months#leae me alon.e#real ogs know i have really old tpoh fanart from this blog that i deleted!!#i didn't wanna draw the other eye
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hey there!! i'd been checking this blog for a while, and I really wanted to say you're a great source of inspiration haha! I really love your dog characters and your lore! The amount of research and dedication is really amazing!! about ludovica's gf, do you mind if I come in with my vision as well? I think she'd be a really fluffy dog, maybe with curly hair. so my mind went to the portuguese water dog; but then i thought of two versions: long hair and short hair. so i drew both (tried my best to make her look like a lady and not a grandpa haha)
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#I'm so sorry this ask is almost a year old at this point and I'm only now responding to it auh#but I keep thinking about this version of the mystery girlfriend habitually I think this is the first headcanon design anyone came up with#I absolutely adore that she's a fluffy curly dog it's such a bold and distinct choice#I don't have any ocs with this specific fur type so it would be a new and interesting challenge trying to get used to drawing her#and I totally get the struggle about the unintentional grandpa look heh it's the same thing with wirehaired dogs#the portuguese water dog is a fitting breed to pick considering the setting imo#I previously tried to make a lagotto romagnolo version of her but the curly face fur was really muddling her expressions#the white eyebrows are a clever move they're pretty and make her face so much more readable than a solid black would#the white streaks on her ears are a wonderful detail too they kind of remind me of frankenstein's bride haha#and I appreciate the fact you drew her in a period accurate dress! the rosy pink goes really nicely with her stark black and white fur#the sketches are so sweet their chemistry comes through so clearly#thank you so much for putting this much thought and effort into her! again I'm sorry I kept you waiting#I truly hope you didn't think I disliked your concept although I wouldn't blame you at all if that's the impression you got#I think I have another ask of yours somewhere in my inbox I'll try to find it#gift art#pouletpourrisoldblog#Ludovica#own characters#I'll come back to give the gf her own tag once I've decided on the name
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It's always funny to me when in an lu fic the chain is offered bananas and don't accept them. Like, you're offering these high energy adventures free food?? Fruit they'll have never even heard of before??? A ridiculously expensive imported good at best?? AND it boosts your attack?
Not ONE of these idiots would ever turn down something new and interesting to eat at least once. They'd be all over those bananas and immediately get dubbed yiga and I'm honestly surprised no one has used it in a fic yet 🤭
#I know it's for plot reasons but it really shows the author's hand lol. 'just a quick bit of standard suspicion now move along we have more#Interesting things to do'#Again I get it it's always funny to see them fail the vibe check and get plied with a random fruit#There could be a fake out where they ask for the bananas and while everyone's panicking they go 'I've never had one before I'd love to try'#Or someone brings up kohga and they're like who???#But you could make a whole fic out of the chain getting mistaken for yiga and getting chased out of everywhere that's heard the news#And them travelling around trying to clear their name when they don't even know what happened.#Heck maybe they figure it out when the yiga mistake then in disguise too XD!#Also featuring as many Wild assassination attempts as you want. Like he's hunting them down but he travels faster than news#Spreads so he's rarely on time and can't set traps#And the 8 of them keep fending him off but he's really got the upper hand and DEEPLY unhappy#I'm just saying it'd make for some EXCELLENT scenes and I know y'all in the LU fandom like your misunderstandings#The chain strolling along in faron like yum these are delicious we gotta stock up while we're here#And in the tree above them wilds eye's twitching#loz#legend of zelda#linked universe#lu wild#lu chain#loz fic#fic ideas#fic prompt#loz link#loz lu#yiga clan
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I just heard another writer trying to figure out which self-publishing route to take, and all I'll say is that I'm glad I found Draft2Digital. (More accurately, I'm grateful to my more knowledgeable writer friends who told me about it a couple years ago.) I don't even use the free services as much now that I've learned to do fancy formatting etc on my own, but it sure is nice that the option is there.
TL;DR: you upload a manuscript, they make it presentable and available everywhere from Amazon to your local bookstore, and they charge you zero dollars, only taking a cut of the profits they helped you make. A small cut.
They are run by Writer People who want to help other Writer People succeed, and it shows.
#psa#I've heard them give talks at writers' conferences a couple times#and it's always exciting new information#the last one led to several promos that I got to join in#which worked out great#and! they have good customer service#that's a biggie#especially after dealing with ingram#(ingram wants to work with large companies and only begrudgingly offers its services to individual authors)#(then refuses to help them in any competent way)#(I published two books through ingram and am NOT interested in going back)#(not now that I've found a vastly superior option)#tell your writer friends!#writer life#self-publishing#indie publishing#independent publishing#indie author life#getting published#Draft2Digital#writblr#writeblr
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god's gone? damn. how about a roadtrip just to make sure?
#i feel like arkin would be stubborn and crazy enough to go hunting for god like an idiot LMAO#asa's just going along for the ride for the laughs#im thinking also that since asa is a demon he needs to meet a certain requirement to attain someone's soul outside of like deals#i'll think more on that later but for now I NEED THEM TO MAKE OUT SLOPPY STYLE#also in response to your earlier tag ab who got me into the collector spoopieere-#i was looking for new horror movies to watch and the collector fell into my feed from the heavens- v.v i dont remember the exact post#but for some reason my brain clinged to that movie like a lifeline T_T#not that im complaining cause now i have gay men to fixate on#i just think its really funny cause i've never been crazy invested in any fandom or general interest for longer than like 2 months typicall#so this is new loll#anyways enough rambling from me lolll#btw TYSMM!!! ur comments always make my dayy <33#arkin o'brien#asa emory#collectkin#the collector#the collection#my art
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I analyze fandoms the same way I analyze the media they're built around and that should concern all of you
#the MXTX fandoms are FASCINATING#They reflect their books#(SVSSS has the most‚ most creative‚ and some of the best AUs and is also twice as unhinged as the other two combined)#(MDZS has the most and prettiest art (the settings and character design cannot be matched) and most interesting dynamic analysis.)#(TGCF has the cleanest (RELATIVE) fandom and the biggest obsession with its main couple (rightly so) It also has the least shipping overlap#but they are also distinct creations of themselves- I've seen the LEAST amount of mpreg in MDZS#(desite the fact that WWX would LOVE that!)#Now why is that? let's think about it#hmm. Well‚ since they already have the juniors‚ a lot less people are making up new kids- and therefore requiring mpreg#or they're taking advantage of characters like Xue Yang who could've used a good dad or two.#very interesting!#but don't worry! this analysis is not confined to the MXTX fandom!#you ever look at how the fandom for The Song of Achilles (TSOA) reflects its books?#First of all they've got some AMAZING art#and the book has amazing descriptions#and‚ interestingly‚ this fandom has unusually well-divided attention among the parts of the book#which reflects a very nice significance everything seemed to have when I read them#we also have a majority of popular AUs that are “they're happy now fuck you‚” my favorite being them adopting Hyacinthus#and honestly? the book wanted them to be happy too#you could feel it#anyway I love analyzing shit and I will never run out of victims#analysis#fandom#mxtx#mdzs#svsss#tgcf#tsoa#ramblings
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The thing that really bugs me about when they don't give Charles a cane if they insist on making him walk is that even if he's suddenly not paralysed anymore HIS LEG MUSCLES WOULD BE WEAK AS FUCK!!! He'd need a cane bare minimum to help him walk, more likely a walker or crutches. It's shitty to take away our disability rep but also just... does not make sense. Unless they specify that whatever cured his paralysis also fixed the myriad other issues that come with that. Even if they do say that still fuck them give my man back his wheelchair.
from what i know, for the most part whenever charles' disability is 'done away with' it's because his mind/soul is transported to a new body. it's seldom because his paralysis is 'magically healed' in the body he has currently
though in some cases, this doesn't make charles' mobility permanent: we've seen it more of a mental battle in these cases when it comes to charles walking, and while his body is capable his mind makes it difficult:
[Uncanny X-Men (1963) #168: "Professor Xavier is a Jerk!"]
BUT this does not include the earliest instance of charles' disability being put aside: we first see him walking in Uncanny X-Men #23 utilizing special braces that are operated psychokinetically. or something idk its a weird device thing
[Uncanny X-Men (1963) #23: "To Save a City"]
he hasn't died yet and so the body he has in this instance is the same one he's had since the lucifer incident- probably shouldn't be able to walk with ease, without at LEAST a cane. imo.
#snap chats#i've referenced issues 23 like nine times at this point vjELAKJELKAJV OOPSIE#but yeah.. i dont know EVERY instance where charles is suddenly able to walk but it generally does go#'he got a new body hes better now'#its never really a Just So situation like issue 23 is- THATS the one where it should probably not be possible#honestly the 'mental' angle is.. interesting to me#it reminds me of this one video i watched in high school where.. i think it was sight? some impairment was removed from someone'#and they had a hard time adjusting because they were so used to their life with their impairment#i dont know if 'appreciate' is the word but i do think it being a mental battle even despite a 'healthy' body is an interesting angle#it at least helps solidify that charles at his core is a disabled man... imo...#all in all i just wish theyd mitigating his disability- he's depicted able-bodied about as much as physically impaired atp#and unless they decide to break his legs/spine again i cant imagine that changing#charles in his chair may just be reserve for 'side stories' but does the xmen universe even fw charles anymore now that hes in space#grim future for depictions of his disability i think...
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Potential January Reads
A Brilliant Night of Ice and Stars by Rebecca Connolly
Rhododendron Pie by Margery Sharp
So Big by Edna Ferber
Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte
Vibrant Paradoxes by Bishop Robert Barron
The Diary of a Country Priest by George Bernanos
Doctor Thorne by Anthony Trollope
Katherine Wentworth by D.E. Stevenson
#monthly reading lists#books#i have so many specific books that i've been lining up#(especially since at the end of the month i was saving new books for the new year)#that i don't need the wider categories#the january categories are still represented#we have lots of vintage fiction (including an american one)#the first book is the story of the carpathia's rescue of the titanic#soon as i saw that premise i was like 'yes please'#it will cover january's category of a book with a cold setting#i read the first couple of chapters and a novel from the perspective of real people is very weird but i like the story so i'll keep going#i also started 'rhododendron pie' and it seems delightful#it's about someone straddling the worlds of normal grounded people and artsy people#and as someone from the world of normal grounded people who likes artsy stuff but still has the perspective that a lot of it is quite silly#i think it will be nice and relatable#i think i'm going to succumb to jane-eyre-ry#every time i consider a different classic reread my brain's just like 'what about jane eyre though?'#'vibrant paradoxes' is a book of essays that i got for free along with my book of church fathers#it's a very thick book to give away for free and looks good#i love essays and these are nice and short#it'll be good to dip into through the month#(i also want to read the church fathers book but that's not something to put on a monthly reading list)#(just something to read through thoughtfully like the bible)#'diary of a country priest' caught my attention months ago#and now that the library hold came in i have zero interest#but maybe putting it on a list will convince me to try#i'd kind of like to keep this one-barchester-a-month thing going and 'doctor thorne' is next#'katherine wentworth' is exactly the kind of vintage fiction that january is made for and i'd like to try and get it off my unread shelf#oh and i forgot to mention someone recommended ferber's first book#but when i downloaded that one i also figured maybe i should read the famous pulitzer-prize-winning one
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The Trojan Horse/La guerra di Troia (1961)
Ignore the complete mischaracterisation of Helen and the inaccuracy of events, you need to see this sequence of how Paris dies. It's absolutely WILD.
#helen of sparta#paris of troy#menelaus#trojan war#tagamemnon#The Trojan Horse (1961)#film#*waves* hello its me. back again with another old movie clip.#I guess this is just what I do now. I've fallen down a very niche rabbit hole here haven't I asdfghkjj#I skipped around this film for the fun of it and then proceeded to stumble upon THIS juggernaut of a scene that left me :O#just speechless really. there's so much inaccuracy going on here but you've got to admit they made an incredibly tense moment.#this is the most villain-y helen I've seen I think. Not a fan of how she's depicted here at all lol#but the imagery of helen refusing the sword and dealing the fatal 'final blow' with the TOUCH OF HER HAND... absolute cinema#the red dress to match with the achaeans' red clothing... already changing alliances.#and need I say anything about the crown? and literally everything that happens between menelaus and paris here? It's NUTS#poor paris. what a gut punch of an end to your life :( the directors were out for your blood in this movie#(fyi. if the voices sound unsynced/stilted it's because they're dubbed)#rn i dont intend to watch this film further. im just neurodivergent + delight in finding shiny new objects related to my interests#teehee c: a collector of weird and obscure information at heart <3
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#family death tw#i have‚ still on my phone‚ a voicemail that my mother left me in 2009‚ after her mastectomy#she never got over the habit from the nokia days of feeling like she needed to shout on a cell phone#(you could hear her convos from three rooms away. you know the type.)#and there's a scratch in how she talks‚ presumably from a sore throat post-op#but she makes her voice light. 'it's MOM. i'm FINE. everyTHING WENT WELL.'#reassuring me‚ her teenager daughter living 4000 miles away#i'm in my thirties now#and one year ago today my mother stopped me after breakfast and said 'elizabeth i don't feel so well'#and died before lunch#i can try to tell you what i've learned this year: that you adjust to a new normal and then have to keep adjusting#how you spend a good chunk of your adult life being a caretaker and then have nothing to do with your hands#or how you never really stop mentally flagging things that you'd think they'd find interesting#or how strange it is to look at some family pictures and be the only living person in them#but mostly i'm so grateful i have that voicemail.#it's become one of the most precious things in the world to me.#'i'm feeLING PRETTY GOOD. quiT WORRYING. i'll be trying to call you laTER. LOVE YOU. BYE.'
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I can't believe I'm gonna say this but... I'm starting to consider taking a break from Genshin and just go play Wuwa instead for once 😬
#abbey plays genshin impact#I've been just so uninterested with the whole Natlan region in general#Fontaine was gorgeous and had amazing characters#with unique personalities and all#but Natlan feels so... mid in comparison#it has some good things but it's just not the same#the new patch just arrived and I have no motivation to play it#not for the story nor the new characters#I'm sorry but I'm one of those people who absolutely hates Chasca and Ororon's designs 💀#I'm also not pulling for Mavuika even though I do like her#so yeah idk...#meanwhile Wuwa has Camellya now and she looks so good#plus maybe it's time to give the story a chance#people agree that it got a lot better#and it even won an award for that#I'll think this through but yeah I'm really considering it#playing Wuwa and coming back to Genshin when Furina's rerun comes#I mean man... I'm more interested in Zenless and I used to not like it as much#and HSR is being as peak as always#and then there's Genshin lol#anyways
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I've watched the reintegration scene SEVEN TIMES now and I still get full body chills from it..
The slight change in his voice when he says "you mean what quarter?" is INSANE!!! Ever so slightly more child-like and higher in pitch than all his previous answers ... Fucking 😭 And then the editing.. how was his posing so precise despite the costume changes ?? The precision angles and exact same expressions. The scene and episode ending with the phrase "who are you?" The same phrase that starts the show?? (And again when Mark first meets Reghabi)
SHOCK. AWE. WONDER.
#sidebar I will never NEVER forgive Twitter for spoiling it for me#it was still the DAY the episode aired#opened Twitter and BAM the very first thing I see#no tags no spoiler warning#nothing#I shut the app so fast#but it was too late#I knew he would reintegrate at the end of E3 before getting to watch it for myself#maybe this is extreme idk I'm autistic for reference but I felt sick and cried and stayed up all night#because I was so upset it was spoiled#due to this experience I have a new rule lmao#no social media NOT EVEN A PEEK until I've seen all severance content as it comes out#not giving the internet another chance to do that to me again#I have fully learned my lesson holy shit that sucked#saw a comment earlier saying they're sad they can't watch the ep for the first time again#and got jealous#because they got to EXPERIENCE A FIRST TIME#I KNEW IT WAS COMING THE WHOLE EPISODE UGGHHHHHHHH#anyway just had to whine and cry about that for a bit#I know it's my fault :( I know better now#I've never been hyperfixated on an actively airing tv show before in my defense#it's always been on things that literally can't be spoiled#where everything I could possibly learn about the interest was sought out and welcomed#wow I am the yapper right now I'm done lmao#mine
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everyone moved on but I stayed right here

#see I was /there/ when moa was coming out and everyone was excited about annabeth's reunion with percy#but this whole reyna/annabeth exchange was immediately intriguing to me#like on one hand I've already said I don't like how annabeth is written in moa. but on the other hand there's something interesting here#you've got annabeth being so forthcoming (out of necessity) and now suddenly reyna is one of the characters who knows#best what annabeth has been through. and they already met! she's known annabeth since she was 13 (well not actively. but still)#and now she's finally gaining insight into the girl whose hair she tended to on circe's island before everything was ruined and she and#hylla were attacked by the pirates#the argo crew needed to leave new rome so fast bc of the eidolons but man. I really wanted more out of this#you have annabeth making so many assumptions about reyna and her love life in this scene but notably reyna is NOT forthcoming about her#own life. she didn't really share anything about herself. but maybe she would have if they'd had more time.... I love them together#it's just unfortunate how little of reyna you get to see because she's not one of the prophecy 7. would have loved to see her#talk more to annabeth (even just as a friendship thing since you guys know I'm a toxic reynabeth stan 💔)#they should have made out at least seven thousand times tho#baye.txt#pjo#reynabethposting#annabethposting#reynaposting
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Been a bit quiet (aside from story posts that I occasionally draft) but I've been archiving a lot of old stuff including my OG Fletcher legacy to have easy access to it in the docs (and maybe get some inspiration/thoughts for the characters who are still relevant in my verse by seeing how their original development went) and damn one of my main takeaways was that I absolutely slept on Kyle and Lyra as a couple. Now that I have a special soft spot for couples that are best friends first I see their beauty and I love them both separately and together😭
#sims#ts4#sims 4#kyle fletcher#lyra brighton#I'll admit something: back in 2016 I was full on simping for kyle and regretted giving him lyra because-#-I wanted more of a self insertish spouse for him hahahaha#like a “not like other girls” shy girlie who's a bit out of this world that was more like me#and lyra is a tough presence (but man I see her deeper now and she got some development privately and she's also so vulnerable!)#so I didn't connect with them at the time as a couple#I mean the legacy also didn't do them justice#but I kept giving them both different spouses#and I liked them both with their recent spouses but they lacked the wow factor (ironically for kyle it was lyra's sister lillian)#and for lyra it was owen (they were good but it felt a bit one sided on owen's part) and then a female character whose name I've changed#but it's like when I put kyle and lyra together again everything clicked. they have potential to rise so high in my ship ranks#fun fact: lillian is dating another kyle's former love interest right now. evelien (I redid her in ts4 and spelled her name in a dutch way)#alsoooo the OG fletcher legacy will turn 10 this year and for this occasion I want to sort all of the heir-spouse duos for good#there are like a few that are still WIP. some heirs *cough* katherine *cough* got done really dirty with the spouses#also the founders gen is a headache. do I doom claimee again#and I want to continue the legacy too to gen 10 and beyond!#because it got tricky in gen 8 with two separate lines now so it doesn't really exist beyond 8 anymore (aside from mirene's kids in 9)#who also need new spouses I guess#so yeah it's gonna be so much fun idk if I document all of it but will try to show highlights because I mean this is where it all started
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Today I want to share the joy that Reading A Newspaper has brought me recently (yesterday).
Because you see, it's not very often that I can read a several pages long good quality feature on a band that I'm something of a fan of, considering that until last year at best, all and any musical favourites I had were next to unheard of in the, let's call it, professional music business. And said feature also gave a few mentions to the one and only fav band of all time which I'm also still not used to being able to read about in my language (because it only happened like 5 times in total so far anyway, but still). And I can buy the newspaper in my local store in this minuscule town and find Sparks inside, like wow, it really is My Sparks, in this real life physical newspaper that I just got. This was like a belated but very epic christmas gift for me and I'm not kidding.
But well yeah getting to the point now, Franz Ferdinand are starting their tour soon promoting their upcoming new album and they're stopping in Poland too, so there was this whole 14-pages long overview of their whole career, and while I was obviously interested in the whole thing I was most hyped about the fact that there would have to be something about FFS and Sparks there and this brings me to my delighful observation that wow, all of this is so, connected in a way. Like how there are these connections in inspiration and collaborations between many of my favourites that I didn't even think about probably being a thing before, but when I think about it it just makes so much sense. Like how in this interview with Alex Kapranos, the interviewer brings up Talking Heads and specifically Fear of Music, because the new Franz Ferdinand album also has this sort of overarching theme of fear. And it's funny because that's the first Talking Heads album I've ever listened to and still my favourite from them to this day and overall one of my all-time favourite albums. And I guess it shouldn't be that shocking that it'd come up here because Talking Heads were super influential and inspired thousands, but also until now I didn't think about how both these bands share the general direction of creating dance-able type of rock with lyrics that are often on the more reflective and "intellectual" side. And also that album has been recommended to me as the most TMBG-like of theirs so. Wow I wonder why I like it.
Ok there were also all these other things that I want to mention too, so, other miscellaneous points of interest:
In the debut album review, the reviewer said that during Tell Her Tonight Alex sings a lot like Russell Mael, who likes to sing in falsetto. And well I know there's also the Sparks connection in the form of FFS to come later but still, this was such a great SPARKS MENTION!!!! moment for me anyway. But also they got one thing wrong, because it's not that Russell likes singing in falsetto, Ron forced him to sing in falsetto by writing all of his songs in this crazy uper range of notes, and that's a very important detail !!!!!!
And ok I had no idea that Piss Off already existed in some form as far back as 2004!! Or I knew about this and then I forgor. Either way, fascinating piece of information
I need to know more about how these star-based ranking systems work because why would you call FFS an "excellent album" and then rate it 4 stars. Instead of, I don't know, 4 and a half or 5 maybe?? Especially since it apparently has only 2 "weak songs". And I have some major objections when it comes to this too, because we're calling Things I Won't Get a weak track now?? It's just underrated as heck, and that's a hill that I will die on
Also I could never be a music reviewer because these people can fit their whole commentary on one song within one sentence and I feel like I would have to write at least 3 paragraphs on even the least exceptional of songs on a given album before I can feel like I did it justice. I mean, this whole post itself shows how much of a problem this is for me, lol
Also guys were we all aware that FFS turns 10 next yeah. Oh god. Well I need to remember to keep my tradition and preapre a cool piece of fanart for that occasion then. Maybe they should give us FFS 2 to celebrate, I'm pretty sure there'd be lots of interest among the fandom in something like that. Anyway
Well also this wasn't the only article in this whole thing of course and CAN YOU BELIEVE IT, there was a little bit on the Harrison & Belew Remain In Light Tour, which I will also be attending!!! Lots of great stuff is cooking for the first half of 2025 for me musically I can't lie
And also CAN YOU BELIEVE IT, that a year and a half since it was supposed to be released "worldwide" and long after I already lost hope that I'd ever see it in a cinema, they're releasing Stop Making Sense in cinemas over here too. Fucking finally!!! By gods and heavens, that rare moment when you learn about something crucial through a goddamn instagram ad of all places. And then they also reminded me about this in an actual article so well wow. Can you believe this. I can't. So stocked for next saturday when i'm seeing this movie the way it was always supposed to be seen hehehe
Ok I think that's it. Thank you for reading and maybe I should really make that personal website for my rambles in the new year. I'd definitely put that thing to use.
#god this post got away from me and grew in scope very fast. i mostly just wanted to say that it made my evening#to read and learn something very interesting about bands i like and realize that there are connections between them that i didn't see befor#and how all of that might have influenced me and my musical preferences without me having any idea about it?#and ok does this go under my long posts tag? well it definitely should#goose monologues#but well yeah some obligatory sidenotes in the tags now#all in all i must say that i'm REALLY hyped for the show now. i mean both of them. (franz & remain in light)#and i've been thinking about how the new album comes out on january 10th so. very soon. and the show is next month after that#and maybe it'd be a good idea to listen to the other albums before that. because i've only listened to 3 of them in full so far ooops#i mean it's not like they have that many albums anyway it's fine.#but also i confess that i didn't know any of the other band members names besides alex until i read this article#i mean i didn't even know who else is in the band at all so.#please forgive me for my ignorance. but well what better way is there to ring in the new year#than by blasting franz ferdinand? just like that one post said#wait i should be able to find that post actually just give me one moment
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Started watching a youtube video about like crazy influencers "unschooling" their kids and made the mistake of scrolling down to the comments, they're full of Americans going on and on about how homeschooling is actually very important and if you don't like it you're AUTHORITARIAN and INFRINGING ON PARENTS' RIGHTS
And man I will never get those people
Do they not get that children have rights beyond what their parents want? That the idea behind mandatory school attendance is that every child has the right to receive an education, they should all get the same basic starter package, and the only way to facilitate that is by having public professional oversight? And if some schools are bad then that just means they need to be improved? But the idea has value and needs to be pushed for instead of just given up on?
Do they not see that it's massively neglectful to make it possible for parents to completely isolate their children from any oversight or outside contacts?
And they're all like "well kids in public schools get abused too!!" yeah but at least it's more likely for things to be caught when there are more eyes on them. At least they're guaranteed to come into contact with worldviews different from their parents'. At least they're guaranteed to be around other kids.
"But my homeschooled kids have so many hobbies and friends!" that's great, good for them, does that mean the kids who don't are an acceptable sacrifice?
"But they don't even learn useful life skills!" teach them during break then.
"But the government indoctrinates them!" Ah you're the reason I don't like homeschooling.
"I was bullied during school and I don't want my kid to go through that!" I'm really sorry that happened but are you saying you didn't even let them try? You didn't let them do something that would massively benefit them because of your own trauma? You didn't even let them attempt to learn how to function in a school setting surrounded by their peers? And IF they did get bullied there would still be so many options, depending on how severe it is you could work it out with the help of teachers or a school counselor or therapy or a school change... instead you just decided that you're qualified to teach your child literally everything they need? And that they're better off just hanging out with their parent every day than becoming more independant with their peers? Because you're scared of something that hasn't even happened yet?
I just. I just cannot comprehend this mindset.
I had an absolutely horrible awful time in school, for most of it I had no friends but a huge case of undiagnosed unmanaged ADHD. And I still know that it would have been SO MUCH WORSE for me not to go to school. I wouldn't have learned how to function at all. I wouldn't have learned social skills.
It actually reminded me of a discussion I had years ago with two coworkers about this exact topic, one of them was a mother who was writing her master's thesis on homeschooling which she was a huge advocate of because school is so bad for kids you see, kids just suffer and as a parent you should be able to protect them, a sympathetic viewpoint right? Well she was also an antivaxer. Obviously she wouldn't be receptive to any arguments around parents indoctrinating their children by isolating them from the world so I didn't bring that up, but I did carefully say that I thought it was a difficult balance to strike because the state does have a responsibility to ensure children are being taken care of properly, and you need some oversight for that -
This woman fully rejected the idea that the state has any such responsibility. And the other coworker who was mostly standing with us and nodding vaguely (that was most of what he did at work) agreed with her. And I was just standing there BAFFLED. Like what did they think a state is for???? A state has obligations towards ALL its people! Especially vulnerable people like children! Children have rights and the state has responsibilities!
And yet these two people, grown adults, one of them writing that thesis, fully acted like I was the crazy one.
Somehow I just keep getting into situations where people don't know how basic rights and laws work but don't believe that my understanding could possibly be right lmao. When I was still in law school I could have probably written you a comprehensive explanation of what articles of the constitution this is based on. But I wasn't in law school anymore, I was just a dropout waitress and completely baffled on top of that, so it was just the weirdest end to the conversation we could have had.
Anyway I always think of those villages that neonazis move to in large groups very deliberately to create places that are dominated by them, and they raise their kids there surrounded by their ideology. The most extreme ones never register their childrens' births because then the government has no idea they exist and can't insist that they have to go to school or anything. Imagine those kids growing up knowing only what their neonazi parents and their parents' neonazi friends tell them. They don't even stand a chance.
Absolutely wild to me that in some countries they don't even have to go that far, they can just not send their kids to school.
#talking#welcome to silky writes an unstructured rant because she got mad at youtube comments#the “i was bullied so now i won't let my kids go to school��� argument was new to me and it sure is terrible!#and somehow all the comments justifying homeschooling seemed to be from parents currently doing it#not from people who were themselves homeschooled#they were instead commenting on how bad it was for them#anyway i'm super sympathetic towards rare cases where homeschooling may actually be in the best interest of the child#but making it something parents can just decide to do for any reason is insanely dangerous and a disservice to children#schools can be improved. you can't just throw your hands up and say that schools aren't perfect so parents can just do whatever#that's just throwing countless kids out with the bathwater#ok now i've gotten distracted long enough i'm gonna put up my new laundry basket
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