#i'm like LOOK AT ME. I'M WEARING A TRANS PIN AND A PRONOUN PIN. I HAVE A MOUSTACHE. USE YOUR EYES.

[beaft]

being transmasc is fun bc if i want to pass i have to constantly monitor everything i do and be hyperaware of my body language and limit my range of expression and speak in a monotone and wear boring clothes and then half the time it doesn't work and people just assume i'm an ugly dishevelled woman. but also if i don't do any of that stuff then i'm a transtrender who deserves to get misgendered for not trying hard enough. also by "fun" i mean it fucking sucks

[teaboot]

Okay yeah on one hand, my gender and sexuality and mental health has nothing to do with doing my job, so I get how announcing my identity and who I am / am not attracted to could be considered as "Inappropriate for the workplace".

That said, everyone who sees me (gestures to cis-passing, straight-passing, masking neuroatypical self in gender-conforming work clothing) and assumes, in the back of their head by default, that I'm a straight cis allo neurotypical person, so the topic has already kinda been brought up in a way. My saying "actually, no" isn't so much an abrupt announcement as it is correction of an assumption.

And correcting those assumptions is important, especially for persons like me who occupy positions of authority, who appear in court and in community conferences, with business owners and CEOs and at-risk members of the public, 'cause when I say, "these are my pronouns, I'm this" then people like me can feel safer, and people who aren't like me get to see that one of us exists in the real world and isn't some scary hypothetical phantom.

And in the future, when someone says "you can always tell who's trans" or "autistics can't hold down real jobs" or "bisexuals are flirty and promiscuous by nature" or "asexuals aren't real, they're just basement-dwelling terminally-online tweens", they can remember that one time they met me in a professional setting where I was who I was and the world didn't end.

So when they see someone who, by chance, does match the image of their stereotype, they'll know that's just normal human variation and not a universal role.

So, it's not so much that I want to "insert my deviance into the workplace"- it's just me saying, "look at me. I'm here. We're all here, and for every one of us you see, there's a hundred others that you don't. Because you don't know what we look like, and wouldn't know unless we told you."

The status quo, the closeted life, is, "becareful who you come out to, because you could be surrounded by enemies, and you wouldn't know until it's too late".

When I wear a pin, when I out myself in a small, subtle way, I say back: "be careful who you lash out at, because they could be surrounded by defenders, and you won't know until it's too late."

It says, "if you couldn't recognize me without this flag, then how many more of us might be out here with me?"

And the statement "you cannot attack me, we're safe here" should not be banned in the workplace

[crimeronan]

rafi and i started talking about this tweet as bluesey:

which then led to an elaborate college-aged AU shitpost wherein blue is the nonbinary barista at a coffee shop on campus where gansey and adam are going to school together.

and upon hearing that the coffee is for gansey's boyfriend, bc gansey wants to protect his reputation and establish that he would never on god's green earth drink this much caffeine at once, blue says "your What????"

aloud.

in..... perhaps the most macroaggressive way imaginable.

mainly out of surprise. except then the urge to double down takes over, like:

gansey: YOU ARE WEARING A PRONOUN PIN????

blue, who for some godforsaken reason has apparently decided that "you look like a straight prep" is a slur: yeah i'm. trans and homophobic

gansey: ....THERE'S A BI FLAG ON YOUR LANYARD??

blue: yeah i. just. hate.... gay people

gansey: i am literally bisexual. wh. what is happening

blue: ok look man i know my views are controversial i get it if you want to complain to corporate but look at us. between the two of us who is more likely to be a victim of los jibbities phobia. it's your word against mine. god WHY is this happening. sorry i also dont want me to be saying the things i am saying

gansey: 😨⁉️

so basically, just.

[genderqueerdykes]

hai!! im looking 4 some advice ..

i'm an intersex trans woman. however, due to life experiences, genderweird fuckery, & DID, sometimes i feel like a trans man. but at the same time i feel like my manhood is through the lense of my womanhood if that makes sense? the closest ive gotten to describing it is "transfemmasc trans guy/butch". but also i have a hard time figuring out how to let these two sides of me "co-exist"; i worry that people will choose 'one' of me over the other. so i guess i'm asking how i can let my womanhood and femininity coexist with my manhood and masculinity without neglecting either of them due to social pressure. thank u :)

good question, thanks for asking!

it's good to remind one's self that masculinity and femininity don't cancel each other out, nor do manhood and womanhood, so fortunately, they can exist alongside one another without invalidating each other. when it comes to certain people, when you're trans, they'll find a way to misgender you no matter how you identify. and sometimes, strangers will misgender us on accident with no ill intent regardless of how we try to present, how many pronoun pins we wear, and so on

it's important to be addressed properly by others, but generally i say focus on building an environment where you feel comfortable with these things first and foremost. even if it's just when you are at home, if you're able to validate your feelings and identity on your own, it helps so that you may not need as much of that from others. people close to you should be talked to to make sure they're addressing you properly, and if they choose not to, that's on them

every person on this earth has a completely unique experience with gender and identity, so it's natural that it will be difficult for others to completely understand our identities, especially when they are unique to our situations, like having DID, being intersex, and so on. you are going to have an extremely unique experience with gender, and it's alright to explore it how you see fit. how others think and feel about it isn't important, that's important is you finding ways to present and be referred to that make you feel the most like yourself

i hope that makes sense! take care, best of luck. it can be very hard being an intersex trans woman at times, but you're not alone. i am an intersex trans woman too, and i have DID as well. it can be hard to navigate these things but we have to take them one step at a time. gender can certainly be confusing when it comes to plurality, that's for sure! let us know if you have any more questions

[transgenderpolls]

*such as ze/hir, xe/xir, ey/em, fae/faer, etc. ie: they follow the same grammatical rules as regular pronouns. it/its is excluded from the definition of neopronoun for this particular poll mainly because there's contention as to whether it's considered a neopronoun - but there will be another poll later to account for it/its users, as well as a poll for those who use nounpronouns.

**the assumption here is that they would be able to tell your neopronouns in the same way that people know to call men "he" and women "she." as in, it would be a casual, subconscious understanding of how to refer to you.

[fuck-customers]

where i work rn they let me have pins on my visor I'm required to wear as a uniform- which I'm very grateful bc I'm trans and initially sound like a chick. so tell me why this stupid ass coworker, whos only known me with using my preferred pronouns keeps calling me she/her. they are on my hat. he can see and read them. every time i call the dude out he gets so righteous- going off how he "didn't do that" and all that nonsense when 3 other coworkers have called him out for it. he spent like an entire 2 minutes trying to fix a sentence he used she/her in reference to me and completely missed the point. i had to look him in the eyes and tell him i use they/them. and then a day later he does the same shit! i just stared at him that time. he could read my visor while he actively was using she/her. I'm so fucking tired of working with high schoolers/fresh out of highschool kids. I'm submitting my resume to a boba place in town so hopefully i can at least lower my hours here

Posted by admin Rodney.

[guesswhat-im-trans]

What Being Trans Means to Me

[Plain text: What Being Trans Means to Me]

(Note: This post is going to be more... poetic, I guess? than other posts I've made in the past. I felt like it today.)

Being trans means a lot of things to me.

It means feeling dysphoria every day - and no matter what I do to try and stop it, it's still there. Just quieter.

It means not fitting in with the girls. But not fitting in with the boys, either.

It means everyone sees me as a girl. And I can't do anything to stop it.

It means wearing pronoun pins everywhere (and still getting misgendered).

It means wondering whether I want to look pretty, or whether I want to pass.

It means second-guessing my outfit choices every time I leave the house.

It means only really feeling safe and respected around other trans people.

(Okay, that was a ton of sad trans stuff. We're moving on to happy trans stuff!)

It means feeling so, so good about myself when I wear buttoned shirts and ties.

It means having fun pronouns. Like xey/xem/xyr (my favorite neopronoun that I may... have invented? I see xe/xem/xyr a lot but never xey/xem/xyr).

It means Blahaj (unfortunately I don't have one yet, I'm doing all I can to get one)

It means defying social norms and being myself.

It means challenging the status quo.

It means being brave. Because being trans is scary sometimes.

Being trans means being me.

[ollieofthebeholder]

I had, weirdly enough when I describe it, the absolute sweetest interaction at an IHOP today.

We'd been sat at this booth for a little over an hour, eating and planning for this year's NaNoWriMo, when a waitress who was not our waitress came over and leaned down.

"Can I ask you a question?" she said quietly.

My friend, instantly alert, asked, "Oh, do we need to go?" (Thinking we had overstayed our welcome, since we had already paid the check and our waitress had just in fact collected the signed slip.)

"No, no," the waitress assured us. "It's just...I hope you don't mind..." She turned to me and asked, so quietly I almost didn't hear her at first, "What kind of...what are you on? Because..." She gestured at my face.

For those who don't know, I look like this:

(And yes, I'm wearing those buttons today. The one you can't really see clearly in this picture is the Genderqueer pride flag with my name and pronouns.)

It turns out the waitress' son, who is 21, is trans, has been on HRT for four years, and is becoming frustrated that his beard is not growing in as thick as he'd like. His mother had tried to reassure him, but he was still upset and insecure about it, so when she saw my pins and realized I was at least some flavor of trans (the shirt I'm wearing today also has vaguely trans colors in it, although that's not intentional, it's actually just a blushing blue crab in a viking helmet sitting in front of a typewriter but the graphic is flaking off badly - side note, Redbubble sucks), she came over to our table, hoping I wouldn't be offended, to find out if the testosterone I was taking would somehow help her son grow thicker facial hair.

I actually felt kind of bad having to tell her, "I'm so sorry to tell you this, but I'm actually not taking any. I'm intersex. This is natural." She was genuinely astonished.

It just...it made me feel good. I live in Virginia, which isn't the most conservative state out there but is still on the redder side of purple. And here was this mom who not only supported her son enough to help him with his transition, she was willing to step out of her comfort zone and ask another visibly trans person for advice. And listening to her talk, it was so obvious she loved her son and was trying her hardest to do right by him, to refer to him using the language he preferred and talk about him as naturally as she would if she'd known he was her son from the day he was born. And she seemed really grateful when all three of us assured her that even cis men don't get full, thick beards right away and that he'll get there, he just has to give it time.

Just...yeah. Made my whole afternoon. The world needs more mommas like that.

[transfaguette]

my thing abt "pronoun circles" is that like. you dont have to out yourself in them? if you think its safer to say "she/her" instead of "he/him" then u can do that? u saying ur pronouns isnt supposed to be like. Im Transgender And You Can Tell Bc I Told You Pronouns Instead Of Having You Assume Them... like ideally cis ppl would be doing this too and ive been in environments where cis ppl DID introduce themselves w pronouns or wear pins. if the goal is normalization, if the goal is "genderqueerness should be accepted" then we have to like. Do Things to Normalize It.

(bc this website is like an active pvp zone i wanna clarify im not trying to criticize you or start an argument...! ive had lots of Talks w my trans friends and family abt this and like I Get It lol and i dont necessarily disagree. likewise it's just my opinion that 'pronouns circles' are supposed to make things safer For Me and it is not for stealth trans people at all to begin with... i feel like ppl blame nonbinary folks for a lot of things transphobic cis ppl do vis a vis gender neutral language and 'pronoun circles' and stuff like 'you shouldnt assume ppls pronouns' a lot. which isnt what ur doing but it is the reason why im Sharing my two cents. anyways i hope u have a good day bye bye)

maybe it's a bit of irrational anxiety but i just hate misgendering myself because i'm just..lying. I feel like when someone who looks like me (presumed afab and not a typical cis female) says she/her, people breathe a sigh of relief. Like oh great, we thought you might have been trans but good to know you're not. and they cling to that. because queerness makes them uncomfortable and they don't want to be uncomfortable. and then if I ever want to get close to someone I feel like I have to shatter that expectation. I don't know. It's also why, for Me and Me specifically, giving my correct pronouns is going to be a confirmation of my transgender identity. not just because "giving your pronouns is something trans people do," but because people know I am not a cis man.

It's all about the environment, too. a queer meet up where I Want to be open about my identity, that makes perfect sense. Training at a new job? That's incredibly unfair to me, a person who is not stealth nor out, and just wants to exist in the world as myself. I don't know these people, I don't want to have to divulge this or get into it. It takes my agency away.

It does bother me a lot that this isn't a perfect solution and not everybody likes it. I wish there was something better. I wish it was simpler for me. I just know what I wish cis people understood and could be more careful about how they approach scenarios like this. I appreciate your kind approach though and I really, really wish this was an easier dilemma to solve.

[your-subby-creature]

Intro Post:

Hi! I finally remembered to make one of these, let me know if I missed anything :^)

Last updated: 09/02/24

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Basics

Names: Creature or Hal/Halogen

Age: 20

Pronouns: he/it/pet/they

Gender: Genderqueer Trans Man

Interested in: anyone of any gender, especially other queer and trans people <3

Relationship status: Relationship Anarchist, single

Role: Submissive Verse (leaning bottom)

DNI: Minors, Pedos (MAPS/NOMAPS/PEARS),bestiality/zeta, bigots of any kind or those who fetishize them, ED / weight blogs, self-harm (SH) blogs, no age in bio/pinned, anyone who doesn't believe that consent is always and forever the highest priority

Non-kinky interests: queer & trans community and history, art, crochet, baking, podcasts, nonfiction books, disability and neurodiversity, paganism, psychology, language/linguistics, history (I'll love you forever and also never shut up if you ask me about my research <3)

What I look like: Since I don't post or send pictures I should probably describe myself. I'm a white 5'0" (152.4 cm) fat and invisibly disabled guy. I'm entirely hairless due to an autoimmune condition (alopecia!), have grey eyes, and wear glasses.

DMs: Open

Asks: Open

Taken Emoji Anons: 🐑, 🍯🐾, ☆, ✨️,🎀, 🦴, 🐺🦊🐶, 🦊🕳, 📸

Tags: #Creature originals (original posts), #Creature responds (asks) #Creature scenes (based on scenes in dms or requested) #Creature rambles (misc thoughts), #Creature Studies (academia), #Creature polls (polls) #Creature denial (denial challenges) #puppy playtime saga continues (exactly what it sounds like)

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Kinks

Favorites: cnc, obedience, (cock)worship, control, praise, (loving) degradation, humiliation, objectification, hypnosis, free use, training, pet names, pain, impact, bruising/marking, cockwarming, discipline, sexual torture, ownership, oral fixation, dehumanization, boywife, petplay, orgasm control, body writing, domesticity, cages, corruption, experimentation/scientist kink, anal,

Soft limits: blood, detrans/misgendering (just ask first), light choking or breathplay, heavy piss, light burning, kidnapping, rimming, needles, bratting, wet and messy, lactation, vomit, primal chasing, spitting in my mouth, heartbeat/cardiophilia

Hard limits: Raceplay, scat, abdl, bestiality/zeta, snuff/gore, pregnancy / birthing, sissification/feminization, hard breathplay, drowning, real incest, feederism, guns, fat fetishism, bald fetishism, SH fetishism, ED fetishism, farts/eprocto, abandonment, fuckpig, sub/sub competition, prolapse, ocular trauma

Presume anything not listed above is something I am neutral to / okay with. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask!

My body: I am on T but have not had any surgery. Acceptable terms include chest, tits, slit, cunt, pussy, hole, (t)cock, (t)dick, and ___parts (e.g. puppy parts or needy parts, etc.)

Terms: I love masculine, neutral, or objectifying terms! Anything that is not explicitly feminizing (eg good girl, princess) is fine; whore, slut, cunt, and bitch are alright. Do not call me slurs without asking. Never use the words annoying, worthless, useless, or pig(gy) in reference to me.

Safewords: For scenes and role-playing I tend to use the stoplight system (green/yellow/red), but if asked for a unique personal safeword, I use "Fluoride"

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Interacting

Pictures / Videos: DO NOT ASK ME FOR PICTURES OR VIDEOS. Presume that I will NEVER send them unless I initiate and explicitly ask your consent to send them. However, feel free to send me any pictures or videos of yourself or of things you find hot (as long as it's all legal and consensual and doesn't violate my limits.)

Audios: I MIGHT send audios with your consent during role-play through a Vocaroo link that I will delete once the scene ends. This is subject to my own judgement, but you are always welcome to ask. You are free to send any (legal, consensual, limit-abiding) audio whenever you'd like.

Calls: Presume that I WILL NOT call you (yes, even on platforms where I don't have to give out my number) unless I initiate and explicitly ask. This is due to privacy concerns and is non-negotiable.

Asks: Asks are open and I love them! I'll always try to answer them, unless they directly violate one of my limits or ask me to doxx myself in some way.

Messages: Anyone is free to message me! I will always try to respond unless it goes against one of my limits, and I reserve the right to stop messaging at any time. Feel free to role-play, scene with me, etc. You get one strike on misgendering me in messages (e.g. "good girl") before the scene immediately stops and you most likely get blocked.

Role-play, flirting, or scenes: Within the confines of my limits and the understanding that either of us can stop or revoke consent at ANY TIME, feel free to role-play, flirt, or scene with me. Please note: I am autistic and have a tendency to unmask during scenes where I'm being given orders to enact IRL. For me this means following certain patterns of typing, taking instructions literally, and requiring clear directions.

Meet-ups: I WILL NOT meet up with you. Non-negotiable.

[aropride]

(using past tense because i don't see this type of art/comic around much anymore, tho im sure they still exist. using "body image" as shorthand for all the other stuff bc character limit lol. also i wanted to use a more neutral(?) word for "tucute" but i couldn't remember what we called ourselves at the time/if there was another word lmao. but y'all know what i mean)

(if at the time they were helpful but in retrospect were harmful, vote for the "negatively" option)

examples of these under the cut if you don't know what i'm talking about. warning for misgendering, transphobic, possibly dysphoria inducing caricatures of trans men.

[line break so tumblr doesn't eat the keep reading button]

(ID 1: art of a white feminine trans man. he has pink hair, is wearing makeup and a choker that says "boi," a flower in his hair, a shirt that says "kawaii," a pink skirt, and pink leggings with hearts on them. he has a large chest, a slim waist, and leg and armpit hair. he is surrounded by tumblr tags, mostly trans ones.)

(ID 2: a comic showing two white trans guys labelled "gnc trans guy" and "transtrender". the first has a short undercut with grown-out pink hair. he is wearing a pastel blue and pink shirt, grey shorts, and trans striped socks. his chest is flat and he is drawn with sharper features. the second has a slightly longer undercut and is wearing a tight pansexual pride crop top, a he/him pronoun pin, blue shorts, and rainbow socks. he has visible boobs, a slim waist, and is drawn with softer features. a list of what makes them either "really" trans or a "transtrender" according to the artist is next to each person.)

(ID 3: a comic showing two trans guys. one is titled "this is damian. damian is a trans man. he is an average looking brown man with short brown hair and facial hair. he has a sweater on and is wearing jeans. a speech bubble says "i just want to live my life like everyone else". the other person is titled "this is skye. skye wants to be a trans boy, but she's just a cis girl who needs to feel special." skye has a blue undercut and a pink clip in his hair. he is wearing a galaxy shirt and the straps of his binder are visible. he is wearing jeans. speech bubbles surrounding him read, "soft boy~," "space child! ❤️," "gender is a feeling," "you don't need to have dysphoria to be trans," "truscum don't interact," cisgender people are sooo boring!," and "I bought a binder so I'm a real trans boy!"

end image descriptions.)

[symphonic-scream]

Some Okujima/MakoHaru from the Transboy Haru arcana swap au

Okay so Makoto is just another schoolmate to them until Kobayakawa tells her he needs her to find out what they want and why they're connected to Kamoshida

So Makoto investigates.

Haru sniffs out how pathetic she is instantly and he just. "Goddamn. I need her to break"

Shiho: oh, that's Niijima-Senpai. She's just a puppet for the principal, thinks it'll get her into a good school.

Haru: "thinks"?

Shiho: ...the last two who did what she did? They work at Wild Duck burger.

Haru: that's not fair!

Futaba: well he let Kamoshida continue his bullshit, so I wouldn't expect him to be very fair

Haru: but what about Niijima? We can't just leave her to suffer...

Shiho: she got herself into this, I mean,, but. We can look into it, I guess

Shiho isn't super keen on helping Makoto at first. But then she finds out Makoto had actually tried to get the school to install an elevator while Shiho was recovering. And that Makoto nearly lost her spot for that

So then she's *extra* eager to help

Shiho: I couldn't see it, but she was always trying to help us, the other students... Fuck, and we screwed her over! We played into Kobayakawa's hand!

Cause his plan was to turn Makoto into a shell by distancing her from her peers and it worked

Until Haru and the gang trick her into going into the Metaverse and she awakens and goes to stay on the Yoshida couch while taking down the man that ruined her teen years

Makoto: I'm sorry I couldn't stop those rumours about you not being a guy

Haru: ...I am trans, like. For real

Makoto: ...oh. STILL-

Makoto all drowsy after their awakening, having to be half carried back to Yongen. Haru gets them a blanket and PJs from their basement and head back to the beef bowl shop

Makoto: hey, Yoshida,,

Haru: Haru. We're friends now

Makoto: r-right,, Haru,, thank you. For saving me

Haru: everyone deserves a chance, Makoto.

Makoto: ...yeah. I'll, see you in the morning,

Makoto is crushing instantly

Makoto hugs Haru on impulse when the change of heart takes place. Big, warm hug. Soft tears in his shoulder

The next day, Makoto comes to school from their first night back with Sae, proudly wearing a new pronoun pin and pants, and they look so at eade

Their social link with Haru is. Haru comes along while Makoto apologizes to their classmates and students they screwed over with Kobayakawa, and setting up for uni applications

And then the ROMANCE

Cause one student Makoto apologizes to is Eiko, who thanks Makoto for stopping her from ruining her life when they were friends as kids. And they keep talking. And Makoto invites Haru on a double date

Makoto: it, doesn't have to be romantic. But this is her first girlfriend and, we're the queerest people she knows- but- i wouldn't mind if it was romantic-

Haru: I'd love to go on a date with you

They kiss in an alley after the date, Makoto's back to a wall, arms around Haru's neck, basically making out, Haru's hands under their little dress sweater, just

Makoto: I've liked you since you first saved me,

Haru: damn,, I can't tell when I fell. Just, all I know is you make my stomach spin and my head float

Makoto: I can't wait to have things with you. Hand over my jacket when it's cold, cuddle with you in the mornings and evenings, to kiss you goodnight and good morning and-

Haru: you're hot

Post plot like. Man,,

Makoto wants to be a school administrator. To make things better. They're starting low, as an education assistant, and they excitedly tell the teachers about the vacation they're taking to help their husband heal from surgery, and then a small trip with their friends for a reunion

Haru, with his nice little neighbourhood restaurant and cafe, and scheduled dick surgery, all set for their first year post secondary school

They got married, went on a trip with their friends, and it was Strikers Strikers happens much later here for funnies and they meet the Shadow OPS fully

Haru and Makoto not having their own kids. But they babysit the three young children of a former teacher, his husband and their wife

Strikers but it's been like 4-5 years not like a few months and it's CRAZY

Makoto: damn, I almost missed this

Goro: LEAVE ME ALONE

Morgana: *loud eating noises*

Futaba: NEVER!!!!

The gives years later with Haru looking mostly the same but slightly more buff? And Makoto, dressing in darker, baggier clothes. With ties and sweaters for work and big tees and shit otherwise, Undercut with a lil ponytail with it, glasses

Makoto: this is my husband!

Haru: my partner,,,

Toranosuke being so excited to have more of his sons home. It's been just him and Morgana for a little while. Bear hugs Haru when he and Makoto come back for his surgery

Tora: my boy! Haru,, oh and Makoto! You both look so well, welcome home

Makoto always eats so well. They were just having instant ramen while living with Kobayakawa, and now? Haru is so loving and cooks to show love

They have their own little apartment in a smaller neighborhood, close to the smaller school Makoto works for, with Haru's diner at the end of the street

Makoto: ready for your dick surgery, babe?

Haru: I was born ready. Are you ready to deal with me post op?

Makoto: I was born to care for you

Naoto, Kanji, and Rise show up with their three crotch goblins to help out after, cause one of them has had said surgery and the other two? Were there to help heal

They have an older daughter and then two twin boys. The daughter is Kanji and Rise's, and the boys are Naoto and Rise's cause au magic trans people can have kids cause I said so

Rise: no, no- you can't climb on cousin Haru, he's not feeling well

Twin 1: is he sick?

Twin 2: is he dying?!

Naoto: hush, boys. Cousin Haru will be fine, you just can't climb on him. He had surgery

Daughter: oh! That's why he's got the ice on his lap?

Makoto: yup, and it's why everyone needs to be a little more quiet. We want him to heal well

The trio give Haru little forehead and top of head kisses. Cause they always saw him as like a little brother or little cousin

Makoto: my brave guy,

Haru: heyyyy!!! Doc,, thaz my partner,, they luuuuuuve me!

Makoto: oh, poor boy, they got you on the good stuff, huh?

Haru: I'm penis man now

Makoto: youre penis man now, yeah. Let's get you home, penis man

A few days after the nerves connect, they're on a train back to Yongen to stay with the Yoshida family once more, before they end up on a roadtrip that'll end with the world bringing back two lost souls

Anyways. Ywah

[harpieisthecarpie]

tbh One of the many things I don't like about beauty culture (particularly anti-aging and weight loss) is how immutable it makes our bodies out to be. It makes Beauty a linear path, and even temporary deviation from that path is warned against, because "you know you'll never look the same after, right?"

You need to develop a skincare routine early because if you get bad acne that'll leave acne scars.

(What's wrong with acne scars? My brother has acne scars.)

You need to watch your weight because even if you lose it, you'll still have the stretch marks.

(What's wrong with stretch marks? My brother has stretch marks on his back from puberty. My aunt has stretch marks from giving birth to my cousin.

I have stretch marks, and I don't mind them. I don't mind being fat, either.)

You shouldn't get weird piercings or shitty tattoos, those marks are never really gone.

(What's wrong with piercings and tattoos? My favorite teacher had a Tweety Bird tattoo on her ankle, it's one of her only features I remember. My first dormmate at university showed me all her stick n' pokes, and told me all the stories behind them.

My cousin was afraid to tell our grandpa about his tattoos, but he was excited to show them to me. Now he asks if I like the designs every time he plans a new one.

The cashier who stopped wearing gauges was nice, why do you care about their ear lobes?)

Don't get plastic surgery, it ages you and makes you look weird. And you can't undo it, ever.

(What's wrong with people who've had plastic surgery? A few of my tias had it before I was born. That's the only way they've ever looked to me. My friend got her nose restructured to help her breathe. My friend gets botox for her chronic migraines. My friend got work done, you aren't owed a reason.

You say you hate toxic beauty standards but you mock the people that buckle under them. Why don't you focus on the industry making money from pain, instead of criticizing the people its hurt?)

Don't frown, you'll get wrinkles. Don't squint, you'll get wrinkles. Don't skip any part of this 26 step skincare routine, or you'll get wrinkles.

(My grandparents have wrinkles. My parents have wrinkles. My teachers had wrinkles. My coworkers have wrinkles. Scientists and poets and athletes and truckers and artists and blue collar workers have wrinkles, too.

When I'm afraid I'll never be accepted, I remember who has wrinkles. Trans people who transitioned young. Trans people who transitioned last year. My family correcting each other on my name. A parent seeing my pronoun pin and subtly teaching their kid that I'm worthy of respect. And that they're safe to be themselves, no matter what.

"Do you wanna ask the nice librarian for their help finding a book? I'm sure they'd love to help."

What a beautiful thing to hear. What a beautiful person. What beautiful crows feet and smile lines and forehead wrinkles. I hope I live long enough to have those.)

[cw: references to self-harm and sh scars below, ends at next bold]

Worrying about the scars was never the thing that stopped me from self harming. If anything, it made my depression worse.

Before and after and during, I'd think "I'm sorry future me, if there is one. I know these will just be horrible reminders. I know they'll make us ugly. I know they'll make us unloveable. I know you'll look back and hate me for this. I know I'm being selfish, but I don't know how else to survive."

It's almost funny, how none of that is true. I usually don't even notice my scars at all. They're faded enough no one else does either, but I'm comfortable bringing them up, if I want to. They're not notable, just part of my skin.

Sometimes I run my fingers over my silvery scars to feel the healing I never thought would happen. I never thought they'd get to fade.

[cw for sh references ends]

I told my therapist that I used to hate the thought exercise of "what would you do if you met your younger self?" because I hated myself so much it extended into the past. And I didn't want my future self to be so arrogant as to like themselves.

Then my therapist asked me the question, of course. "What would you do if you met your younger self?"

And I said I'd laugh and let them get a punch or two in, because I knew they'd want to. I said I'd hug them and tell them "It's okay if you hate me, I don't mind. But I don't hate you, and you can't stop me."

So, yeah, I don't like how beauty culture makes being alive so linear, so definitive. I always heard about the marks on my body that they knew I'd regret. Like my body was a tally of my failures.

A person changes countless times throughout their life, and those changes are rarely permanent. You change your favorite song, your fashion style, your career, your beliefs, your family, your sleep schedule.

You feel better. You feel worse. You feel better again. You feel the worst you've ever felt. You feel okay. You feel happy. You feel guilty about feeling happy. You feel, constantly, for your entire life, and you can't force one feeling to stick.

Your body is no different, it will change along with you, no matter what. Don't punish yourself when it does.

[beechbloom]

Bakugou reacting to his s/o coming out as genderfluid

Tw: misgendering, bakugou’s typical aggressiveness

Both amab and afab folks should be able to relate to this <3

Your gender is what now?

Like he cares

He fell in love with you for you not your fucking gender stability

You walk in on him researching it later that day

The next time he sees you he’ll ask you what your pronouns are currently while not making eye contact

If you tell him your pronouns don’t change then he’ll pause for a second and be like “oh…”

Curse Google that good for nothing search engine he’ll kill it for not telling him genderfluid people can settle on just one pronoun

But if your pronouns do change he’ll quietly ask you for them any time he sees you to make sure he doesn’t misgender you

Tbh it'll be difficult to stay in the closet after telling him cause any time he sees someone misgender you he'll have to display intense self-control to not throw down with them right then and there

If someone misgenders you — and you're not in the closet, they die

Doesn’t matter if it was on purpose or not

Anyone who so much as dares look at you with the wrong gender in mind will regret it

One time he misgenders you on accident and instantly shuts up

He’ll stay like that for a few seconds, dumbfounded

Until he’ll turn his attention to his class

“YOU BASTARDS MISGENDERED THEM SO MUCH IT RUBBED OFF ON ME! I’LL KILL YOU!!!”

To which Sero helpfully responds “We don’t even misgender them that much!!”

If you're amab and let him see you dress fem then

Let's just say that,, he didn't expect to really feel anything upon seeing you in those clothes but... maybe he does think it's cute,, just a little bit

He'll make an effort to compliment you — albeit in his own complicated ways

ESPECIALLY if people give you shit for it

He'll first beat them to a pulp, and then say how you shouldn't let extras like that have any control over how you feel about yourself

"You've got more style than any asshole like that will ever have"

Almost rivals you in trans knowledge after a while

"Don't wear a fucking binder while training. I thought you knew this shit." (if you’re afab)

If you don't have clothes that feel good while masc then you're in luck

Cause if you ask to borrow his, he will shove them in your face

"You better give them back later"

He says, not actually caring if you do or not

If you use pronoun badges, he will too

He'll wear that fucking he/him pin proudly no one can stop him

Same if you use pronoun bracelets or whatever he'll do it too

And if you wear pride merch, take a wild guess what he'll do

If you're uncomfortable going to a pride event alone he'll 100% go with you no questions asked

Will fight anyone who says he shouldn't be there

"My partner needs me here so I'm supposed to be here you fucking moron"

Also, technically him liking you makes him pan but he doesn't really give that much thought nor care

All this pride stuff feels more like your thing than his

Although if seeing him in pan colors makes you happy, he'll do it in a heartbeat

[thebloodbringscolorandfluoresce]

INTRODUCTION.

Hello; ladies & gentlemen, and everyone in between. Welcome to my blog where I post my poetry and cute pictures (of me included).

About me: you can call me Ames, or Angelcake (I like that pet name).

18 y/o, I use she/they pronouns; I'm a AFAB demigirl, bisexual & asexual (caedo). I'm mostly a good bean with a big heart, a fucking brat and switch (and a soft girlie). I like cute, creepy but also soft, kinky things. I like to explore my recovered girlhood thru photography and poetry, I also want to be more open with my sexuality but not in a very sexual way, and be open with my thoughts.

Status: In a relationship! I am not interested, may respond for +18 anons, but it's pure fantasy. I only fuck around with my sweet lover.

Ask: Open!

Anons: Open!

Taken Anons: 🦇

Mutuals: I am open to be mutuals! Just be over 18 please!

WARNING: my content may be explicit, in some instances, triggering. My poems are based on many life experiences and feelings of mine.

DNI:

Minors (my blog is for +18, I am an adult, but dw I don't post much NSFW because that's just not me)

I'm okay with men interacting, but... Creepy men, you disgust me! I ain't interested in nudes or s*xting, and don't get started with the "not all men" ramble. Be a good boy and just be nice to me, I'd prefer not to interact with me if you just wanna get off to me and try to turn me into a dumb brat.

Just because I like to post pictures of myself, does not mean I am your baby girl or anything. I am a BRAT! I am an attention seeker, but I deserve respect, it's important in the bdsm world alongside consent.

Racist, White supremacists, Homo/Transphobes. If you're overall a hateful person, fuck off!!!

Pro-ED, SH, self-destructive behavior. You can get better, you need to get better. I believe in you.

Biphobes, specifically terfs and biphobe lesbians! Just because I also like men, doesn't mean I am not a true sapphic too. And trans women/men/enbys, I love ya ❤

Acephobes, do not ask/send me nsfw pictures, I am not okay with that.

Over a certain age range, 30 and up be polite please and do not ask me for nud3s and stuff, I may be an adult now but that's creepy.

Some of my likes and fun facts: I'm part of the alternative culture, aiming more for a scene/emo look. Other aesthetics I like are grunge, western, fairycore... Basically eerily kinda vibes. I also love pink and small cute things, I collect CDs and pins mostly.

I love cartoons, art, video games, makeup and fashion. My favorite game franchises are Silent Hill, COD and RE.

Some of my favorite music includes Jazmin Bean, Halsey, Elita, Asking Alexandria, Mitski, Pierce The Veil, Poppy, BMTH, Slipknot... Anyways, my music tastes are pretty wide; mostly 90's to 2000's music.

I've been writing poetry since 2020, and I wish to publish my book one day.

I'm incredibly shy, and somewhat sensitive; my heart is too big for my own good sometimes. Currently trying to live life again.

BDSM Section (+18)

Like I said, I wanna express my sexuality and be part of this community, but I'm mostly a softie. Here's my k¡nk test results:

Turn ons: Praise, degrading (with my consent), basorexia, vanilla, dacryphilia, choking (with my consent), lingerie (either me wearing it or a sub), size k¡nk, brat taming.

I'm somewhat okay with masochism, spit, exhibitionism, bondage, DDLG/B (pet names can be discussed), predator-prey. This is because of my past trauma, which goes on with the sexual stuff, sadly.

Turn offs! : Feeding, any other fluids, fauxcest, dub-con (for me it must be heavily mutually consented), r4pe (that one I just can't, it triggers my past trauma), basically anything that goes beyond my limits and consent line. Any other I forgot you can ask and I'll let ya know.

You'll probably won't see me post this type of content as much, but just so you know, I'm not a minor safe blog!

Blinkies by @b4rk1ng-l0t

tags: #amy's poetry #amy's rambles

[istherewifiinhell]

Okay okay. last one..... for now .... 😈 trans robot also trans in a human way. remember?

[VD:  A clip of transformers: Earthspark of Nightshade Malto, a young terran transformer, speaking with a human on a roof top at night. Now with their owl alt mode, dark green plating, lighter coloured limbs, very large green eyes, swooping pointed shapes on their shoulders and helm.

Full transcribe below

Full moon in the sky, owl hooting. Nightshade bursts into frame with a screech, holding the human in their talons.

They fly down to a roof top, the human making noises and saying "OH! Put me down, put me down!". Nightshade transforms into bot mode, parts of their helm folded inwards, and covering their lower face with a mask like plating. They lean into the light and unfurl their plating.

The human has a bob with bangs and a blue streak, and wears glasses, and is hiding behind a held up bag, afraid. The bag has rainbow handles, and several ennamel pins, including one that says "She/they". 

Nightshade tilts their head: Oooh! I like your pins! [The human looks confused, Nightshade smiles] I am Nightshade, my pronouns are they/them!

She smiles cautiously and lowers their bag: Thanks, I'm Sam. [They approach Nightshade] I'm... She/they... but you already know that. [Laughs awkwardly]

She walks to the edge rooftop, looking over the city. Nightshade leaps ontop of the water tower. Eyes big with awe, camera rotating around them as they take in sight: Wow, what an amazing city.

They leap down the half wall Sam stands infront of, balacing and walking across it. Sam watches this: I'm sorry for how I reacted, its just. [They lean again the wall, looking down to the city] Sometimes the world can be... a scary place. It's hard to know who's dangerous or not.

Nightshade sits, legs dangling of the roof, humms: That's true, though disapointing. [Looks down sadly]

Sam, encouragingly: Hey... its okay! I know I'm safe when I'm with my friends... or other non binary people [She gestures to Nightshade]

Nightshade, looking interest: Non binary?

Sam: People who aren't female or male. [Nightshade looks away. Sam off screen] Awww I'm sorry... I shouldn't have assumed.

Nightshade smiles, joy in their voice: I always knew my pronouns felt right but. [Flicks eyes ups, looks down. Cut to wide] What a wonderful word, for a wonderful experience.

END