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To be clear: don't call me either. I see it as insulting.
If you are neurodivergent (including all psychological conditions, neurological conditions, and developmental conditions) I have a question for you and pls elaborate in the tags if you feel comfortable
#i wouldn't care if someone identified as such because power to you and go embrace yourself#but don't call me either because my neuro“divergence” isn't something to be singled out for as a major identity feature#i have ADHD and it's actually disabling so bad and just because I can go off on a topic doesn't make me “spicy” or “sparkly” it's because -#- i can't control myself and I'm actively struggling to perform tasks everyone else around me considers “basic”#don't go sugar coating me with cute/quirky terms because you're uncomfortable recognising I'm disabled.#it honestly just feels like my issues are getting made less of by calling it a cute/quirky/funny name. that like I'm not actually-#-suffering a major issue here that makes my life extremely difficult.#reblog#adhd#neurodivergent
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hi hi! i thought your eddie headcanons were super cute, and i really love your writing so i had to request: would you be open to doing headcanons for billy x fem!reader who struggles with anxiety, depression, etc? how would he (or try) to help out? thank you love <3
you got it, love writing billy. also thank you for the compliment :)
tw: depression, anxiety, self harm, panic attacks, mentions of abuse.
family.
oh billy. so complex.
billy himself is perceived as an asshole, because that's what he wants people to see. he does it on purpose; it makes him untouchable.
y'know, if he's mean to everyone, on constant defense, people won't get close. he won't get hurt. so voicing feelings, putting them out there for someone (you) to hear, he isn't really good at it.
he's been on constant defense since he was a kid. i mean, having feelings besides angry ones wasn't really an option. he had to protect himself by being strong. had to stand up for himself because he didn't have anyone to help him.
and the cherry on top of the cake? the only figure to raise him was the one he's getting abused by. so. he's got a lot of issues.
this being said, i will say he understands what you're going through. maybe all too well.
but the way that he was raised has prevented him from identifying these feelings within himself as well. so for him to see them in you, it's a struggle to,,, learn to be nice about it? idk if that makes sense.
it isn't to say he doesn't try. because you being open with him about your struggles with anxiety and depression, opens the doors for those kinds of conversations and i think he would also eventually tell you his baggage. therefore creating a more communicative environment.
i think you'd be trepidatious to tell him. i mean he's hard to talk to in the beginning. things are just now opening up for you two to get serious.
so he wouldn't find out until you're already in the thick of it.
ignoring his calls, shutting yourself in the darkness of your bedroom, refraining from eating because it takes too much energy. he's worried; also pissed because he doesn't know what's going on and you're not talking to him.
he'd come over, the roar of his dumb engine spiking some anxiety in you, worse than it already was because you have a feeling he's gonna bust in like a bat out of hell.
he'd be kind of hostile at first - spurring you into a panic attack. and then he realizes he's pushed too far (he does this a lot)
i will say, the best goddamn thing about billy, is how bracing he is. his hands on your arms, they stabilize you in the blink of an eye. altogether his presence alone is just,, powerful. in that moment. he commands (very gently ofc) your attention. away from the panic, and onto him.
his eyes cut into yours, intense and there. and his voice is strong, you listen to it.
he doesn't want to overwhelm you, but it almost scares him to see you freak out like this so he'll bring you into a tight embrace mostly for his own comfort.
it is nice though. suffocating and soothes your senses.
"i don't care what the fuck i'm doing. you tell me when you feel like this and i'm there, okay?" says it while holding your face in his hands firmly.
the panic attack is a great doorway into conversation about your mental issues though.
you tell him about your depression and anxiety, he hums and listens. but won't tell you his own stuff quite yet.
the type to let you wallow a little bit. he'll lay in bed with you and nap for as long as you want. his only way of getting you out of your funk is to get you in his car to go on a drive or offer a date night to get you out of the house.
lets you play your mixtapes, holds your hand while he drives. buys dinner of course, whatever you want.
"you uh, you like candles right? what about we go get some."
"i don't know how to make chocolate covered strawberries but i know you like them. is this the right chocolate?"
he tries! it's really cute.
pays attention to the things that make you happy.
billy takes up braiding. learning to braid your hair when you're in deep in the depressive cycle to get your hair out of your face and get you feeling fresh.
surprisingly gentle with braiding too.
he has nice hands, knows you like the feeling of them on you. so he'll always be touching you, holding you - whatever you want.
billy is so the boyfriend to get you up on your bathroom counter to take your makeup off.
helps you get up there and puts your makeup remover on a pad and rubs it off - he's good at that too. he focuses really hard when he does it too, takes this job very seriously.
"what moisturizer do you want tonight."
helps you get undressed and dressed.
a shoulder to lean on in those trying times. he takes his role pretty seriously.
"you smell nice." you inhale, holding him on your bed.
"i wore that cologne you like."
on the topic of self harm, if you do it, or tell him. he only talks about it when you bring it up first.
can tell it's sensitive for you.
that's kind of like everything with him though; he doesn't normally ask about things unless you bring it up first. then he'll ask more questions or ponder deeper.
when he tells you about his struggles, his childhood, his dad, all that. it only strengthens your relationship i think.
more trust, more communication, more help with his anger. just more tender moments, softness. vulnerability.
he really is a lot more excellent than you'd expect i think.
overall, with anxiety. he listens, reminds you of what is true and what isn't. not as tender with it as eddie or steve might be, but he tries.
with depression, he remains a faithful presence. slightly encouraging to get you up doing things. will lay around with you, reminds you he is there.
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YOUR EYES TELL | JJK (11)
Summary: You live in a world where people see in black and white. The solution to finally see the colors? It’s simple. You need to meet your soulmate and look at him in the eyes, but what if the person bound to you is already contented with the monochromatic world? What if…Jeongguk, your soulmate, is already in love with someone else?
Alternatively:
“A future without you is a world without color.”
Genre: soulmate au, e2l, slow burn, ANGST, fluff, roommate au
Pairing: Artist!Jungkook x Lawyer!Reader
Word Count: 2.2k
SERIES: CHAPTER 10 | CHAPTER 12
"You don't have to pay me, Guk."
Jeongguk shook his head instantly. Yoongi was being absurd. How could he not pay his older friend?
"I know you have the money, but I can't just take ten thousand dollars from you, hyung." The younger boy pouted his lips.
Yoongi should know by now that Jeongguk hated owing people something.
Debt of gratitude sucked. It couldn't be paid. Ever. Jeongguk didn't want that. He hated sleeping at night thinking that someone out there could manipulate his feelings—this was how he perceived debt of gratitude: a manipulation. It was because he felt like he was bound please the person who helped him. It was as though he needed to act in accordance to the likes of said person.
"Fine." Yoongi shrugged his shoulders as if he didn't care about any of this. "Pay me whenever you want,"
Jeongguk snorted as your voice echoed inside his head. If you were here, you would tell Yoongi that he couldn't just tell his debtor to pay him whenever he wanted. This wasn't how it was supposed to go.
Civil obligations like this one was only enforceable for ten years. If Jeongguk couldn't pay within the said period, the obligation would then become a natural one—something that would only be paid out of conscience.
Jeongguk shook his head. Why was he thinking about the stupid law? Why couldn't he stop imagining your pretty smile as you talked about certain provisions? Why was he hesitating to accept his hyung's money?
And most importantly, why didn't he want to leave you now?
Your soulmate loaned thousands of dollars from Yoongi just so he could pay the down payment for the apartment that he wanted buy. He promised himself that he would terminate the lease of contract with you after four months. He just couldn't live with you anymore.
You were supposed to be temporary in his life; however, with the way you were invading his mind even though you weren't around, Jeongguk realized that you were his constant.
You were the only person who could tolerate his bratty attitude. You were the only person who couldn't get mad at him. You were the only person who made him feel special and needy—Jeon Jeongguk needed your attention so much that he felt like had to run.
He didn't know when it started, especially because he believed he was not over Red yet.
Red.
Was Red the reason why Jeongguk wanted to leave you?
This was what you thought while clutching the paper on your chest.
It hurt, but as usual you had to pretend like you were okay.
"Your parents are back in their hotel," said by Jeongguk the moment he entered your apartment.
He was back from the thirty-minute drive.
Your parents were scheduled to fly to Jeju Island tomorrow morning.
"That's good." You discreetly wiped your tears away, trying so hard to make your tone sound enthusiastic.
Your back was facing him since you were afraid to let him see you crying.
You didn't want to pester Jeongguk regarding his plan to leave. You felt like he wouldn't appreciate the drama you would obviously bring.
Jeongguk didn't deserve drama—not when it was clear that he was exhausted. He took care of you these past weeks. The only thing you could do was to give him a damn break even if it meant sleepless night as questions like 'why am I not enough?' clouded your mind.
"Thanks, Jeongguk. Goodnight!" You hastily added, refusing to look at him as you made your way to your room.
"Wait," he stopped you like the way he did earlier today. This time, however, he stopped you by breaking your heart even more.
"C-Can I sleep in your room tonight?" Jeongguk swallowed the lump in his throat; his heart was beating so fast.
You flinched.
How dare he ask something so insensitive?
"Why?" Your lips trembled as you finally found the courage to look at him. It was a wrong move, though. You couldn't do it. You couldn't look at him without tears filling your eyes.
Looking at Jeon Jeongguk made you realize what you could never have: him.
You were grateful he's averting your gaze. Jeongguk couldn't meet your eyes as well. He was embarrassed and afraid. What if you rejected him? He didn't have any reason to cuddle with you tonight. Jimin was right. Your parents were the solution to help you get back on your feet. It was as though they had some kind of power. You didn't look like you needed your soulmate to make you feel better anymore.
You were back to your old self.
Sadly Jeongguk had no idea that you were just pretending. He didn't know that you were forced to be okay once again. He wasn't even aware that he was one of the reasons why you're acting like everything was fine.
"I just want to make sure you're alright," his voice was barely audible.
Jeon Jeongguk was a liar. The truth was you weren't the only one getting used to cuddling with each other. Jeongguk was also craving to embrace you—to listen to your controlled breathing and raging heartbeat.
"Really?" You suddenly huffed, causing Jeongguk to flick his gaze at you.
Your soulmate was a good liar, you were not.
There's a point where pain was too much to handle.
Jeongguk was staring at you with puzzled expression. His mouth went agape upon seeing the tears streaming down your face.
"You want to make sure I'm okay so you can finally leave?"
"What?" He furrowed his brow, clearly not understanding the words you just said. How could he focus on anything when all he could see was your tears?
Jeongguk wanted to wipe your stupid tears, but you weren't letting him.
You took three steps backwards when he tried to reach for your face.
Anger, frustration, and pain. All of these are visible in your eyes. Your thoughts were poisoning your mind—making you imagine what you thought Jeongguk felt.
"You...called my parents b'cause you're t-tired of me, right?" You slurred.
You wanted to run to your room since you knew you couldn't stop speaking your thoughts anymore. This wasn't right. You told yourself you weren't going to make this hard for your soulmate, so why couldn't he do the same thing for you?
Why was he cornering you? Why couldn't he just go away?
And why couldn't you stop the venom in your words?
"You don't want to deal with me anymore. You want to leave but you're guilty. You feel like you are responsible for my pain," this must be it. You kept thinking what triggered his sudden change of behavior. It couldn't be because he finally realized that he liked you too.
No. That couldn't be right. The only plausible explanation for this was because of the guilt he felt. He only started to act like he cared when you told him that he hurt you too.
"That's not true..." But Jeongguk was quick to dismiss the negative thoughts inside your head.
You inhaled deeply. Fresh tears stained your cheeks.
"What's the truth, then?" You picked up the paper that would prove his intention to leave.
It was too late to stop now. You were already acting pathetic in front of him.
"Why didn't you tell me you bought an apartment?" You continued to ask despite knowing the reason.
You didn't. You were imagining things. What you think was different from what Jeongguk felt. Admittedly, his eyes widened. He wasn't expecting you to confront him about this. Hell. You weren't even supposed to find out this way.
Jeongguk was planning to simply sign the contract to terminate your lease agreement with him, leave your apartment in the middle of the night and never come back.
Guess he couldn't do it now, huh?
"I-I," he trailed off instantly. How could he explain this to you when he himself didn't know why he wanted to leave?
Jeongguk wished it was easy to face his emotions. He identified them, but he still didn't know what to do—not even after spending weeks cuddling with you.
He needed to be alone, he needed to figure out what he felt and what this all meant to him on his own.
"Is it me, Gukkie?" You sobbed and your soulmate's heart clenched.
Your back was against the wall, Jeongguk was standing so close to you to the point that he could literally see the tears forming in your eyes.
It broke him more.
"Did I cross the line? Am I being too pushy? Annoying? Hard do deal with?"
Jeongguk could only bite his bottom lip.
You proceeded to list the things your former maids despised about you.
"Is Miri too much too handle? Am I picky with the food? Is it hard to wake me up in the morning?"
Jeongguk avoided your eyes, his Adam’s apple bobbed up and down.
You noticed that he couldn't speak. Why? Was it difficult to admit the truth?
"Or am I not buying you enough things?"
The conflicted boy shook his head vigorously. You did not understand anything.
"Do you need a new laptop? New clothes? Art materials?" You sounded so desperate. "Tell me, Gukkie. I'll do anything you want."
"I don't need you to do anything." He said coldly as he moved away from you.
Pain attacked your chest when you saw indifference dancing in his face.
"You're still leaving me?" You quivered in fear. You were really pathetic. You said to yourself that you wanted him to go away, but the thought of him actually leaving made your stomach turn upside down.
"Yes."
It felt like an arrow shot you in the heart.
How could he not stutter? Was he really decided to leave you?
Jeongguk saw how his answer affected you, so he immediately defended himself.
"I mean it's about right. I told you I'm gonna stay here for a few months. It's over now. I don't want to be your tenant anymore."
"But why!" You whined. This wasn't fair! How could he decide without consulting you first? This was a reciprocal obligation. You deserved to know his reasons.
Jeongguk scowled. He wanted to leave now. It was getting unbearable to see you cry—it was as though his chest was going to explode.
"Do I really need a reason?" His frown deepened. "Can't I just leave because I don't want to be with you anymore?" A lie.
"You're lying." You refused to believe him even if you knew he was telling the truth. This wasn't you. You weren't like this. It was unlike of you to keep pushing Jeongguk. You teased him all the time, but you didn't mean to make him uncomfortable. His happiness was your top priority.
You swore you just wanted to know the truth. You deserved a reasonable explanation. He couldn't just say he didn't want to be with you. If he couldn't love you, then he should at least be able to respect you like a normal person.
"Why would I lie—"
"Because I'm your soulmate!" You cut him off. Your emotions were overflowing.
Why couldn't you just let him go?
"And I love you, Jeongguk." You cried. The table had turned. Just a few breaths ago, he was the one begging to touch you. Right now, however, it was you who was desperately trying to latch on him.
Jeongguk pushed your hand away. He couldn't have you touching him. It would only make it harder for him to leave.
"I love you so please don't leave me—"
"You don't." He cut you off, flinching so hard because of how much he hated your confession. He felt like he was gonna puke.
"I do, Guk. I love you—"
"No!" Jeongguk insisted otherwise. He was being stubborn and it was irritating you.
Who did he think he was to tell you what you felt?
"You don't love me, okay!? You are wrong in all of this!" He took a step back. He was acting as if your touch was going to burn him.
"You are delusional. Too caught up with the idea of soulmate that you failed to see the truth!"
Jeongguk was shaking in frustration. He hated that he had to be mean just to make you understand things—similar to what Red did.
"I can see the truth! I know the truth!" You carried on.
He was the one being blinded here, not you.
"You're just ignoring the signs, Jeongguk. The universe wants us to be together!"
This wasn't a coincidence. You couldn't be wrong—not when he could see colors because of the love you felt for him.
But he used this against you.
"I am not your soulmate." His jaw clenched. "Your eyes can tell."
You stopped breathing.
"Your eyes tell." He repeated.
Your mouth felt dry.
It felt like you had been stabbed straight in the heart.
If he was your soulmate, if he ever loved you—or cared, you would see colors by now.
But no.
You still see in black and white.
Your eyes would not lie because Jeon Jeongguk was right....
Your Eyes Tell.
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Good Bi Love: The Unexpected Thing That Keeps Me Going When I'm Tired Of Being Bi
By Zachary Zane
January 15, 2018
This isn't something I care to admit, but it's the truth: I sometimes get tired of being bi. I get tired of justifying my sexuality to naysayers. I get tired of explaining to people that even though I primarily date men, I'm still bisexual. I get tired of feeling the need to justify or prove my sexuality, even though I know I don't have to.
The idea of settling down with one person frightens me, but not for the reasons you think. It has nothing to do with commitment. (If I do decide to be monogamous in the future, I believe I'll know and be ready.) It's because I know that if I do settle down with one person, folks will assume I'm gay if I'm married to a man or straight if I'm married to a woman. I don't like the idea of having these assumptions made about me. I don't want to appear straight or gay when I've embraced my identity as a queer, bi man.
In fact, I wonder if I do settle down with one person, whether I'll be quiet about my (bi)sexuality. Should I reaffirm my attraction to other genders, when I'm with a person of one gender? Wouldn't that make my monosexual partner feel insufficient— like they're not enough— if I'm constantly reclaiming my bisexuality? If I do decide to be monogamous or committed to one person, I want them to feel like they're enough. So constantly correcting people, telling them I'm bi, seems like I'm repeatedly reminding my partner that I'm attracted to other folks. That doesn't seem like the courteous thing to do to the person I love.
I'm exhausted from telling people that bisexuality doesn't perpetuate the binary. That the two in bi stands for genders that are your own and genders that aren't. I feel upstaged and out-queered when I say I'm bi and someone else says, Oh, I'm pansexual. Given that I'm attracted to all genders, I ask myself why I don't tell people I'm pan instead of bi. Isn't that the younger, hipper, more inclusive label that millennials are using? Why am I clinging to this older label, when there is another label, right now, that fits me?
I sometimes wonder if it's even worth it to date women. I'm currently more comfortable around men and I love gay male culture and spaces. I feel less awkward flirting with men and being myself around men. I don't question if I'm being too aggressive or too effeminate. I also get rejected significantly less by guys. So why do I put in the effort to meet women, especially straight ones? Besides, research has shown that most of the time straight women won't date me because I'm bi. So why do I try to date them?
I hate feeling part of gay culture, while simultaneously isolated by it. I hate feeling like I have this community, only to bring a girl I have a crush on out with my gay friends and to feel like a pariah and fraud. I hate how quickly gays turn on me when I simply talk about a woman, in a way that shows I'm sexually attracted to women too.
Wouldn't my life just be a hell of a lot easier if I identified as gay? If I only spoke about, dated, screwed, and loved men?
Yes, I believe it undoubtedly would be... if I were gay.
But I am not. I'm not gay at all. I never have been, and I never will be.
And while at times I may question whether it's worth it— so to speak— to claim the bi label, I always come to the same conclusion: Yes, it really is.
And it's something somewhat unexpected that brings me back to this conclusion. It's not that I want to live my life as my most authentic self (although that's part of it). It's not my desire to claim my own identity for myself and not to give other people that power over me (although that's part of it, too).
It's my exes.
I have been blessed to have dated some of the most incredible people in the entire world. From my first love, Sarah. She taught me that I have the capacity to love and care for others more than I love myself. She also helped me with the self-esteem issues I struggled with when I was 16. She saw the diamond in the rough before anyone else did.
To Jenny, the genderqueer/transgender bi dominatrix who I dated for a year after college. She was the first person to unconditionally accept me for who I was after coming out as bi. She pushed me to question myself and others.
To my most recent ex, Jason. He introduced me to polyamory, helped me overcome my issues surrounding jealousy, and encouraged me to explore myself more. We were one of the most compatible couples that have ever existed. I shared many of my happiest moments in life with him. In fact, many were directly because of him.
It's clear that each one of the people I loved helped me grow as a person. They all challenged me. They've all taught me things about myself, others, society, culture, history, art, and everything else imaginable.
They were also all folks of various genders.
It pains me to think that if I forced a route of being gay or straight or anything else other than bi, I wouldn't have had these experiences. I wouldn't have had these lovers. These people who shaped who I am. If I forced a monosexual route now, I would be forgoing intimate relationships with future partners too. Nor do I ever want to deny the important role these relationships played in my life. I'm only 26. I have my whole life ahead of me. Many more partners to share my life with. Many people to love and to love me.
I believe that we were put on this Earth to make meaningful connections. To have loving relationships. Being bi has allowed me to connect with more incredible people. Thus, only in embracing my bisexuality, and my attraction to all genders, can I live my life to the fullest.
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Ninjago Jaya ~ Blanket Forts
Cross-posted from FF.net, because why not? Just a quick little Jaya oneshot taking place right after Skybound.
She can’t breath – can’t… Something is wrong… she feels like she’s dying. Like someone has thrown acid directly onto her. Her chest burns. In the distance, she can hear someone screaming her name. Sobbing. What’s going on? She’s gone numb… Why can’t she – It’s then that Nya wakes, sitting up, breathing so sporadically that she’s on the verge of hyperventilation. Just a dream. Just a dream… But, oh. Why does this have to be so hard? She's safe. Alive. The poison can’t hurt her anymore, and neither can that djinn. She knows that. But it doesn’t stop her from reliving every last sucky detail of what she faced less than a day ago (in fact, it’s not even midnight yet, so…). She almost… No, it’s best not to think about that… Maybe if she just. Doesn’t sleep? She supposes. But that’s not really a great option, cause then, she’ll be stuck up all night with nothing but her own thoughts to distract her. And she’s not sure she can handle being alone right now. She needs Jay. It’s funny, she thinks slipping from her bed, how she’s gone from actively avoiding the master of lightning, to being desperate to have him near her as much as possible. Love is weird like that. The hallway is dark, quiet. A stark contrast to the locations she’s spent the past few weeks. First, on the run, then stuck in jail, or on an island, then on the run again… Being home is nice. Sort of. Except for the lingering trauma from the past few days. Yeah, the sooner they can recover from that, the better. And for now, the others don’t need to know about how close everything came to being… The master of water quietly slides the door to Jay’s quarters. But… He’s not there. In fact, if his bed still being tidily made means anything, he hasn’t been in the room at all since they finally returned from Styx earlier. So, then… Where is he? Not the kitchen or living room, apparently, Nya discovers upon further searching. Sighing, she makes her way out into the deck – the only other place left to check. And it’s a good thing she does, as it turns out, cause there he is, looking out over the railings, posture tense. A light summer breeze plays with his ridiculously curly hair, making it an even bigger mess that it usually is. Honestly, it’s actually a pretty beautiful night. There are no clouds in sight; she can see millions of stars scattered across the sky.
“Couldn’t sleep?” She asks softly when she reaches him. Jay flinched slightly at the sound, before realizing that it’s her.
“Y-yeah… I couldn’t stop thinking about how…” He says so quietly she almost misses it.
“Me neither. I-even after I scrubbed every last inch of my body, it feels like the venom is still there. Like, I keep forgetting how to breath.. And remembering how much it hurt… And…”
“Oh, Nya…” He breathes, wrapping his arms around her. She bites back a sob as she snuggles into his embrace, reveling in the comfort it brings her. They rock back and forth for a few minutes, trying not to completely break down.
“I'm so sorry we had to go through all of… that. I-you died. It was horrible. And it was all my fault!”
“No. Don’t you dare try to take all of the blame for this. I mean, yes, you definitely made some really stupid choices, but if anyone’s gonna take the responsibility for what happened, it should be me. I started all of this a long, long time ago when I - ” Nya angles herself so that she can see his face.
“Nya, you don’t have to-” He begins to cut her off, but doesn’t get very far. She smiles softly, saying,
“Look. I chose you. I want us to work out, for us to be happy, but in order for that to happen, there are some things that need to be said. First of all, I come with baggage. A lot of it.”
“So do I.” He agrees, still not sure where the conversation is going. She bites back a chuckle.
“I’ve noticed. But… The thing is, before… During the whole fiasco with the perfect match machine? It was never about you. It was about me. For the record, I never stopped having feelings for you… I-I just…” Dragging Jay down beside her, she sinks onto the deck, leaning her back against the railing. It’s going to take awhile to really explain. To lay herself bare like she knows she needs to. Because Jay deserves the truth. They may as well get comfortable.
“I’m not the best at… Being open about my feelings. I’ve always hated feeling vulnerable, and back then? I didn’t really get why… Not until a lot later. When I was forced to become the water ninja, in fact. I was so awful at it, and it made me so uncomfortable – but it also helped me identify some of my self image issues.” She takes a deep breath, reaching for his hand as she continues, “So much of my life, I’ve felt like I had to prove something to someone. In Ignacia, Kai and I both had to prove that we could take care of ourselves. There wasn’t another option, unless we wanted to be saddled with some sketchy babysitter or sent to an orphanage. Then came Kai becoming a ninja, and, suddenly, I got it into my head that you guys wouldn’t take me seriously if you realized that I was samurai x.” She ignores the disgruntled look on the master of lightning’s face – she already knows now that it was a stupid sentiment, “So I didn’t tell you. Even though it probably just made things more dangerous. When Sensei started training me, I felt like I had to prove something there, too. That I was worthy of my mother’s element – even if I hated it and just wanted to go back to being a samurai, something that I was already good at. I got so frustrated that I tried to quite. And that’s when it first started to click. Because maybe some part of me thought that by doing all this impressive stuff, I could prove that it was a mistake for my parents to-to…”
“To leave you behind?” However Jay managed to guess her thoughts, she’s a little grateful she doesn’t have to say it herself.
“Yeah… So, anyway, back when we were still together, you were always so open and sweet about your feelings for me. And somewhere in the back of my head was that part of me that felt like I could never measure up to the person you thought I was and-”
“I'm so sorry! I didn’t realize… I-I only wanted to show you how much I cared. Because I thought that if you realized how special and loved you were… You wouldn't…" Leave me? The words aren’t spoken aloud, but the implication is there.
“I know. I just… I was feeling so overwhelmed, because I did want to be able to tell you how I felt about you – about the whole situation, but I kept talking myself out of it and thinking that if I just added a few boundaries until I reached the point where things felt safe again that… But then that stupid machine came into the picture, and I dunno? It scared me, because what if I was wrong? What if you didn’t really love me and left…”
“I would never.” He assures her, squeezing the hand clasping own. She brings her spare hand up to touch his cheek.
“You wouldn’t. And I was awful to let myself think that. Everything got so out of hand, and I had so many opportunities to fix things, but I didn’t. Even after the fighting calmed down. I didn’t wanna risk hurting you by ruining another relationship attempt. So, I stayed quiet. I came so close to confessing everything on Chen’s Island – but I didn’t have a chance to before we had to run off and save the world.”
“Will it ever not be that way?” Jay ponders. She shrugs.
“The world saving was very distracting. For a long time. Once I finally felt like I was starting to come to terms with what had been going on mentally, having the media get involved dealt me another blow. It was like the world no longer valued me as anything more than a token – an object to be won… But I didn’t want to completely give up on at least being friends with you, so I started trying to talk. But in the end, I just ended up pushing you away even more because I was so concerned about fighting my public image and not letting anyone else decide what I could be or do with my life. And to be honest? It freaked me out how sure you were that we were meant to be. I needed to regain control, and you ended up paying the price. And I can never tell you how sorry I am for being such a jerk! I died! You almost got killed several times because I refused to stop being stubborn and let someone else take the wheel, even for a moment! I-I…” A soft kiss prevents her from saying anything more. How is it that such a simple gesture has always had the power to relieve her pain?
“I forgave you a long time ago… And I never stopped caring about you, either. Even when I was fighting with Cole-which was a pretty dumb move in hindsight. We were both being idiots. And I’m sorry too...”
“I-Okay. Yeah, we kinda were… We’re a hot mess, aren’t we?” Nya exclaims, snuggling against her boyfriend. He smirks slightly.
“Well, we’re definitely hot!” She shoots him a look, which he pretends not to see, instead kissing her forehead.
“And we are a bit of a mess. But we’ve both grown so much. I really think we’ll make it this time…”
“Mm… I love you, Jay Walker.”
“And I love you, Nya Smith. Just don't ever die on me again. I don’t think I could handle that…” They both shudder, moving even closer together, as if afraid that they’ll be torn apart.
“I’m not handling it now…” Nya admits, “I’m sure sleep would help, but… That’s not happening any time soon…”
“Same here. So, what do we do, then?” Jay wonders. She doesn’t answer right away, but then, inspiration strikes her.
“When I was little, Kai used to build these super elaborate blanket forts whenever one of us was upset. Like ones that spanned entire rooms, and had lots of junk food hidden inside. And then, we’d stay up and watch as many movies as it took to calm back down. Do you think, maybe…?”
“Sure. If it’ll help. I’ll grab the cushions and blankets, you get the movies and snacks.” The master of lightning quickly agrees. It doesn’t take long for them to construct their fortress against one side of the deck, using every last spare sheet and pillow they own (and maybe snagging a few from Kai’s stash-that’s what siblings are for) . One and a half movies later, they finally give in to their exhaustion, falling asleep with their hands intertwined. Their joint presence keeps the nightmares at bay until Nya’s brother finds them the next morning. Though concerned about what exactly they’ve been doing all night, he’s honestly just relieved that they’ve finally figured things out. One less source of headaches for him, as long as they don’t go making a habit of public displays of affection like yesterday’s kiss… Which they probably will, but he can yell at them later. They do look awfully cute like that…
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