#i need a weighted blanket

[melodyatlas]

forcefully reminding myself today

you're allowed to do nothing sometimes youre allowed to do nothing sometimes you're allowed to do nothing sometimes

[venomouslilith]

tomorrow is the day, the date day, I'm SCREAMING, I even talked to him about it, he's equally nervous/excited which somehow didn't help at all, still absolutely loosing my mind

[saintrocklee]

kisame coming home from a long day and just collapsing onto you, a gruff ‘m fine mumbled into your neck as you take on his sagging weight against the couch. you had tried to ask what’s wrong but now the hulking mass of man you call your husband is slowly crushing your windpipe so all you can do is wiggle around underneath him until you can breathe comfortably and start to rub his head. this always turns him into a pitiful mess, groaning and burying his face harder into your skin as you hum into his hair and massage his scalp with your nails. one of two things always happens; he’s either out like a light which makes moving impossible which is why you always have a book nearby to skim while he catches up on some much needed sleep. or his groans turn into moans and there’s a whisper of shit darlin’ before he’s dry humping your thigh and nipping at your throat, your jaw, anywhere his mouth can reach without moving until it’s too much and he’s in your ear again shit let me feel you you’re so fuckin pretty and before you know it he’s pushing inside you gruff voice turned into something needy as he pants, so exhausted he can barely pull himself up but he’ll gather the rest of his energy to make you cum at least once before collapsing on top of you again with a short laugh and a kiss on the forehead.

[deathsweetblossoms]

I've ruined my entire weekend with my lightbulb moment of theorizing Elain's necklace is a talisman that she activated in the same way Nesta created her own Trove. Now I am going to fixate and obsess and not get anything done.

[angfdz]

oh my god why is having a crush like this i’m going to DIEEEE

[obviousyoutube]

girl you are not plus size you are my size now get over here

[skellydun]

who wants to lay on top of me like a weighted blanket and fix me

[tam--lin]

The thing is, you don’t have to have a diagnoses to make simple “unmasking” changes that make your life easier. You don’t even have to self-diagnose! You are not appropriating anyone’s culture or struggles or hijacking anyone’s movement by allowing yourself to sway in line at the grocery store or buying a weighted blanket or using study or household hacks intended for people with ADHD. If you start favoring the needs that make your brain and body unique over the arbitrary norms of society, you’ll be better off, and you’ll be expanding the norms. It’s a win/win.

[exowitch]

in order to stay sane this week I need someone sitting or straight up lying on my legs or torso for at least two hours a day. its prescription

[itsaspectrumcomic]

I need to be wrapped up tight like a burrito no that's not enough I need to be vacuum sealed

[lavendermin]

lounging in bed with foxian jing yuan as he lays on your chest and when you scratch his ears and head he starts purring loudly

[myaoiboy]

Anyways, if you're curious about why it's shitty to constantly and exclusively put all of the onus for making up the communication gap between autistics and allistics on the autistic person, I recommend reading about the Double Empathy Problem:

I recommend reading the article, but the short version is this: autistics aren't inherently lacking emotions or empathy or anything else. We simply think and emote differently. We speak a different language, one that we're expected to forego to learn the neurotypical standard of "empathy."

But that same empathy is rarely extended back towards us. We're expected to build up "empathy" to understand allistic social cues, and also the "empathy" to make ammends when we inevitably fall short. But when allistic people hurt *us* by not understanding *our* behaviors and scripts, we are *also* supposed to extend them "empathy" because they simply couldn't understand us or didn't know how to reciprocate (how could they? We're so strange!).

Hence, "double-empathy." Autistic people are supposed to just take it on the chin, coming and going. It's our fault, whether we misunderstand or are misunderstood. Whether we disengage or are disengaged-with. Whether for reasons we can or cannot control.

And it is. Fucking. Exhausting.

[waywardstation]

Draw Ingo being given a weighted blanket or a proper sleeping bag or both! give the man some comfort!

Gliscor makes a good substitute weighted blanket, until Akari can find a proper one in a space-time distortion!

[teaktty]

i want to be squished

reblog to lay on prev as d squish them

[lynnleesblog]

Hope I'm getting the hang of it on here

[illmasc]

i need the hairiest warmest heaviest individual with the most fucked up gender to just lay on top of me. we don’t even have to fuck i just need that specific weight on me rn