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anhedoniashoujo · 1 year ago

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i need an 18 month coma that robs me of all muscle and fat and everyone forgets about me

#i want to start over #i want to be held #i dont just need consistency. i need to physically be close to someone.#i need to burrow into your flesh. i need to be able to curl up in your lap on the couch whenever i want.#i need a nesting partner #i am surrounded by people who love me and i feel alone #it's so fucked #i just want to crawl into bed and sleep #i miss my space heater #i want to go home #but home would be a person

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marc--chilton · 6 months ago

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(mgv) wilson still helps house with his heats if he comes to him for it. he won't seek house out but if he comes to wilson, especially if he's looking extra pathetic, it's hard for wilson to turn him away even if he's actively still furious at him. having been so protective of house for all these years, wilson's hindbrain floods him with stress at the idea of pushing house away to deal with his notoriously painful heats alone. he can suppress it just so long as he doesn't see house's sweaty face and glassy, red-rimmed eyes, or hear is completely pitiful whimpers.

even if he does help, though, wilson makes it immensely clear that doing so doesn't automatically make them okay. he's still mad, and house still isn't forgiven. it's incredibly bittersweet and agonizing on house's part so having experienced before means he's more inclined to apologize and seek forgiveness from wilson sooner

#house md #hilson #mgv #house mgv #reminder i tag these posts for u to block if you don't wanna see omegaverse. cough #sometimes if they're having a huge fight and house goes into heat while they aren't talking he'll just suffer through it alone #without talking to wilson about it as punishment to himself #wilson (if he helps while still fighting) is painfully civil. he doesn't take care of him like a partner or as his alpha but more like #hired help. he withholds as much affection as he can while satisfying his own alpha habits #and it absolutely kills house. it would be easier if wilson just tore up his nest and berated him for being an omega who needs help #but he doesn't do that either. so house is in a purgatory of his own design and it KILLS him inside

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slutcore-starships · 4 months ago

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shocking twist: the disability,,,,,, is disabling

#anyways . todays one of those days that feels v lonely #and i . wish i had nesting partner(s) or roommate(s) bc i need to make a shower happen but no energy

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endreal · 4 months ago

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I just made the most perfect over easy egg of my life

#normally I just stop at sunny side and don't bother #But ALSO I'm in a mostly-vegan household so I haven't cooked an egg in literally years #But my nesting partner is away so I've been comfort baking bc I don't know what to do with myself 😅#and a dozen eggs is way more than I technically need so I guess I'm cooking the rest #food

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jianqzai · 1 year ago

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pov: you're cssr and are about to get a lot of ammunition to tease your future son-in-law endlessly

Art for one of my friend's threads, because the mental image wouldn't leave me alone. You can read here

#wangxian #mdzs #omegaverse #it isn't obvious in this art but the thread is about omega lwj and alpha wwx just to warn you in case you wanted to read #are we allowed that in here?? I don't remember lmao #anyway #omega lwj #alpha wwx #nana's thread reminded me of this omegaverse manwha I'm reading where the guy does the same #so I REALLY needed to have that in drawing with lwj. I just had to #nesting with your partner's whole closet?? a giant yes from me. specially if it's just for comfort jk #rip to wwx who needed to fold and hang everything back lolol #milo art

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beepbeepmfkr · 1 month ago

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If you know someone in your life who was controlled a lot growing up - authoritarian/abusive parents and childhood or that sort of things

You've gotta get comfortable with letting them do shit by themself. Okay?

You've gotta get comfortable being uncomfortable with their decisions. Their messes. Their fuck ups.

You've Gotta Get Comfortable Letting Them Do Things By Themself Or You Are Going To Continue To Stress Them Out With Your Desire To "Help"

#my nesting partner always feels the need to “fix” stuff #mainly by moving things around and cleaning my areas of the apartment or by taking control of my stuff and doing his best #to make sure i don't lose things #it is genuinely very sweet #but it can also be frustrating and borderline triggering to go look for something and find that its nowhere near where i left it #or to go looking for something thats MINE and find hes made a decision about what to do with it that i Definitely Would Not Have #or just made a decision that i would have appreciated being able to make on my own #basically if you know someone who never got to make their own decisions #you need to get comfortable either asking about what they prefer #or leaving well enough alone and letting them figure it out #you might mean well but its frustrating and sad sometimes

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theshadowrealmitself · 2 years ago

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I’m just gonna say it

Not enough omegaverse in spirk

#this is gonna sound weird #but one of my favorite things is nesting #not necessarily just for mating #but it’s really fun to read about #maybe it’s the autism that wants all of us to accept soft large bedding as the norm #anyways #wanted to read about how pon Farr would work with omegas #like all that anger and fire and stuff while your partner is rolling around a blanket like ‘babe we need more pillows’#AND THERES NOTHING #I just want softness in my life y’all #and I think it would be an interesting thing to explore #sorry to be a spirk omegaverse fan on main 😞 I know some crimes can never be forgiven #omegaverse #spirk #Star Trek #s’chn t’gai spock #jim t kirk #james tiberius kirk #Jim Kirk

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lovethytendytenderly · 6 months ago

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Thinking nesting thoughts but primarily thinking about wordlessness and nesting. Obviously consent is sexy and so is the ability to communicate but there’s something so compelling about being overwhelmed by instincts and shutting down until words are the farthest thing from a goalie’s mind. It’s selective mutism but instead of being a burden it’s something to be soothed and accommodated and depending on the fic even celebrated (if nesting itself is something good for a goalie or team). It’s knowing that the goalie doesn’t have to speak, can lay that burden on their partner or team, but also isn’t hurting to be understood. One side can do all the talking and it’ll end up fine because these two people trust each other and are determined to take care of each other.

#thinking fic thoughts #hrpf #goalie nesting #idk like yeah nesting is an altered mental state but despite most goalies being reduced to wordless cooing growling or purring #there’s no misunderstanding or lack of comprehension #they manage to get their point across very clearly without words #and the lack of words isn’t a problem for their partner that needs to be fixed or solved #words will come back when the goalie calms down and the nesting period is over #idk I’m rarely fully nonverbal due to overstim but I’ve been around a bunch of folks so like I know why this fantasy appeals to me lmao

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raccoonfagdyke · 10 months ago

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i need to get fucking laid -_-

#specifically by someone other than my nesting partner #like i love her and i love sex with her but shes a side and i need to be fucked into oblivion #like i need to be beaten tortured and then fucked so hard i forget that im a human being

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junewild · 2 years ago

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is it unreasonable to expect “i want to stop living together” to be a statement instead of a negotiation?

#former nesting partner is upset that i didn’t offer it as an option instead of saying ‘this is what i need to do. this is what i would like #to do with our lease. what do you want to do about that?’#and i. just don’t feel good about that #i think ‘no’ is a full sentence?#idk. am i being unreasonable? do i need to reevaluate my approach to relationships?#if the answer is yes i very much will. but #this is already a relationship where i’ve had trouble saying no & i know some of that is my fault but some of it is definitely not #for clarification. they can (& have) move back into the home they own with their wife #so it’s not like they were suddenly homeless #k talks

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kimchicuddles · 2 years ago

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I amuse myself far too much (don't worry; I know the spoon trick)! This is an excerpt from the "five years later reflections" booklet I keep talking about. I still have some copies of Love, Retold left if you want to be part of the going out of print sale and get a signed copy with the reflections booklet, original sketches, stickers and whatnot. Details here: TikvaWolf.com/books

#pickle #opening jar #maybe I do need a man #oops I'm doing everything wrong AGAIN #nesting partner

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cyberneticdryad · 1 year ago

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WOW i have time to have a life with this dental receptionist job without feeling completwly burnt out and it is still blowing my mind

#dryad speaks #i rly need a raise to be in this position long term but holy shit is this what a work life balance is??#my dad has always made work out to be this endless grind demanding your whole life #and i knew there had to be a different way!!#but holy shit i was starting to think i would never find it #and my partner started a new job last month too!!#so we can finally look into moving for realsies!!#we were both so nervous about moving in i don't regret living in this house with others #but i am so so ready to have our own space and nest

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oglegoggle · 2 years ago

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It bothers me when folks insist that there are literally no good reasons to surrender pets because it destroys their hearts. Like…. My dude…. That evil fuckin cat that slashed my literal eyeball should be surrendered. I found new homes for my three cats because I couldn’t take having multiple panic attacks triggered every single fucking day because they’ve got claws and I’ve got a new dose of fresh PTSD caused by that demon slashing my eye. I still can’t sleep well because of the nightmares about it. The pain and the blood and the temp blindness in that eye and the extreme fear. It’s been months. My life was fucking destroyed and my love of cats ripped from my soul. But I’m the villain? No. Needs drastically change sometimes and it sucks for everyone involved. It wasn’t good for me having cats around. It wasn’t good for my cats to have their only human destabilized and constantly rejecting their affection. They’ve got a new home where all three miraculously got to stay together and are dearly loved again as they deserve to be.