#i feel this is like discourse within discourse

[nofallentitans]

this is so me 2018/19 seeing all the "girls shouldn't engage with yaoi" discourse online and being so genuinely upset because I felt as though I was fetishizing mlm relationships (13 years old btw, maybe let's not create an environment where literal children are afraid of fetishizing others because they like to read mlm fluff on ao3, but that's a separate discussion).

there's really something to be said about how insular individual identity communities within the LGBTQ+ community as a whole can be. Lots of people change labels in their lifetime. If we are more accepting of that and create a wider LGBTQ+ community where people feel as though they can move through it freely and without judgment, I think I lot of people would be a lot happier.

where’s that article by james frankie thomas where he says like “prior to my transition there was only one kind of sex i wanted to have. and i thought i could never have it” because i am about to blow these people’s minds

[sosheblabbed]

i see the actions as more than crass, but hollow. to be wanted is great, no matter which way, and there are certainly sensualities within the context of this type of sexual treatment, but to be degraded is an extension of the patriarchal tradition; to be made to submit rather than to be loved in a way that makes you crave submission.

i believe that there are soooooooo many things wrong with the current concept of love in modern society, but something i cannot stand is the notion that butches themselves are immune from being influenced by the patriarchy that controls and allows our existence.

maybe i am positing an inquiry into WHY so many women enjoy this kind of thing? i dont want to feel like i am speaking to someone that cannot perceive me in any other way besides crude, or objectively. i, innately have 0 of this type of gropey nasty intention, maybe it is because i am me or autistic or trauma or what ever that may be. but this is seemingly SO confusing for me because i like women because they are NOT as ferociously apathetic men. the entire idea that you WOULD treat someone this way if they signaled that they wanted to be treated that way IS PROOF! that you even have worries, is what makes you different from the crudeness i am speaking of.

I DID SAY I WAS KINK SHAMING SO I CANNOT COMPLAIN FOR THE DISCOURSE but i do not want to fight because i didnt even think a lesbian would see this let alone respond. i am sorry, sometimes i speak before i think and form actual thoughts? there is nothing wrong with liking, wanting, or giving this type of love, and i apologize for implying that, but i do still feel as those you missed my point a tiny bit whenever it came to the "male centered" thing but maybe i worded it wrong

hate arguing and fighting and this modicum of discussion but i appreciate your willingness to have it

Not here to kink shame but its wild how many femmes dream of a possessive, dominating, handsy butch to sweep them off their feet when a sizable chunk of the butch population are constantly worried about being perceived as predatory and a threat when meeting women.

The butch of your dreams is out there, just very conscious about making women uncomfortable.

[dafpork]

dafpork is like a modern day speakeasy to me because everyone comes in like it’s forbidden but since it’s the modern day it’s perfectly normal. Little secret club

LMAO YES!!! THIS IS A REALLY GOOD ANALOGY.. AND SEE IT'S SO FUNNY because i'm like I DON'T WANT IT TO BE FORBIDDEN... i'm such an accidental hypocrite in that regard because i'm like "i want more people to talk about them i want people to be loud and proud it makes me sad to hear that people might have been initially embarrassed to ship them there's so much to love :(((( anyway here's my SHITTY ART of these people i HATE i'm so EMBARRASSED thanks for putting up with me in my SHAME CORNER UGH i'm so EMBARRASSED they're so EMBARRASSING i SUCK they SUCK it all SUCKS" LOL and i do mean it in a joking manner... mostly... but i'm kind of now at the point where i'm like. Okay well you're going to have to put in some more legwork if you want people to talk about them. (but, again, just the fact that people talk about and support them enough is so great! it's so weird and wonderful to me that people are calling it on dafpork on platforms other than this one, people who may not know i exist... it's cool hearing a term you and your friend came up with in a private discord be used, it shows how much growth there HAS been since there really used to be nothing!)

a dafpork speakeasy sounds so cool though oh my god can you imagine Porky and Daffy themed cocktails...............

COME JOIN US AT THE DAFPORK SPEAKEASY. which, you are not supposed to advertise that a speakeasy is a speakeasy. but it's subversive. like Daffy. or something. this is your sign to play pig and duck with us. yes you

[antiparticular]

not going to respond further on the actual post because I don't want to start an argument in my mutual's comments and also the person who left the comment clearly doesnt actually care about it but the experience was so baffling I've got to talk about it. this was said about caitvi

ok so the cop argument, I've heard it before that's nothing new. don't get me wrong I hate cops as much as the next self respecting person, but I don't think it's a valid argument. not going to get into it, I think cait haters just need to get over themselves. yeah she does bad shit. EVERYONE does bad shit in arcane. the enforcers are not portrayed as a good organisation.

the part that really had me ???? was 'one of them is british'. hello??? neither of them are british, britain doesn't exist. does this person not watch anything with british actors??? I know that people have done a 180 after the anglophilia or whatever of the 2010s and yeah that's funny. but dismissing a canon lesbian couple who have complex characterisations, grey morality, and their own individual arcs, with their lesbianism being incidental (this NEVER happens anymore), because one of them has a british accent is wild.

[rat-rosemary]

Hey do you think people get offended/feel sad for being blocked for their dni?

[dr11ft]

don't think I ever clarified this but I genuinely don't care if people use my art as headers, icons, etc, anything really. As long as you credit me somewhere accessible from the location it's being displayed it's literally fine. You don't have to ask me and honestly I think it should be normalized to display art on the internet without personally contacting the artist for approval. Obviously if you're profiting from whatever it is that's a different story

[bigeloo]

conversation about oomf oc's actions having consequences in modern times had spawned a cursed discussion which in turn created them

Bonus: their disguise bird of choice

[himbopunk]

anyways potential headcanon ideas aside i do think like. to me the idea of 'it does feel violating sometimes but the fact of the matter is this is the other guys body as much as yours at this point, you have to learn to walk a balance of both being aware and responsible for what other guy does and also separating yourself from it to feel normal to any degree. your body is both yours and his, it belongs to you except for when it doesnt, but you both are always culpable for the actions taken with it' is not the vibe that people are running with w lucanis and spite never occurred to me cuz its the reality people do live with and its one thats familiar to me. is this making any sense

[tothequeerphenomena]

Mouthwashing fandom normally: Full of children (Me included) and people who do the "holier than thou" type shit

Mouthwashing fandom when you disagree with someone's ship:

i cannot tell what the tone of this is help

[welcometoteyvat]

been half typing up too many complaining posts lately I need to actually finish a fic and then i'll have something with actual substance to post

[aroaessidhe]

2024 reads / storygraph

Exit Plans for Teenage Freaks

YA contemporary + a little sff

follows a boy who suddenly finds himself able to teleport when he walks through doors, often against his will

and has to figure that out while dealing with a new crush, the end of high school and the queer club, and figuring out whether he definitely wants to train to be an ASL interpreter like his father

[supercantaloupe]

if a jew writes or creates something about Current Events specifically through the lens of judaism (particularly religious judaism, not simply cultural judaism) i think that's within their right even if i disagree with what they've written/created. but it makes me really uncomfortable watching it get spread around by goyim

[tokencisgirl]

i'm not sure if i really want more online friends outside of the people already inside my circle atp honestly because tldr; Discourse

[selfship-nyx]

So many anti rq proselfship blogs :(( why is there such a chasm of people I can’t follow within the somewhat limited community of people it’s safe for me to follow as a proshipper

[foxmulderautism]

a new lesbian character has entered the dallon literary universe/lover boy sphere