#i didnt want to go overboard with being affectionate in a romantic way or anything

[catmemey]

newness? maybe.

[anyhao-archived]

@fishpun replied to your post “JINYOUNG. I SAID JINYOUNG. IM NOT EXPLAINING WHY IN AN ASK BC...”

well what i originally said was, this ask meme as hard for me because i don't know any group as intimately as i know bts. natalie was easy because of this but i couldn't match anyone else up because no one else suited someone from bts (at least imo). like i said before i did initially think taemin for you but i quickly changed my mind. then i obviously set my mind to got7 because you love youngjae but yeah i don't know if it would be a woolly beneficial match up...

then i thought of jinyoung, mainly because natalie and i have been having conversations lately about how Savage(TM) he is and how we feel like he does kind of have a tendency to go a little overboard with fans with that kind of savage attitude... but at the same time i have seen him being genuinely sweet with fans and he's always really shy during it so i guess all this is just a kind of defence mechanism but ANYWAY,

the thing i said i might be wrong about is that what i've discerned from you is that you really don't like being seen as vulnerable or rather, you don't like asking for help... like you'll ACCEPT help you just don't like having to ask for it. and i don't think someone that's Too Soft or overly soppy/romantic would be something you'd enjoy either. like it'd just be overbearing and annoying after a while. well,

i think jinyoung would 1.) be pretty intuitive on when to be snarky/playful and when to be affectionate, and also when to engage with you in conversation about any emotional burdens and when to just leave you alone, 2.) he'd also be the type to take you to art museums and all that fun stuff, 3.) you work with kids and have doges both of which he seems really good with (ok kids seem to be scared of him BUT HE LIKES THEM SO THAT COUNTS FOR SOMETHING..!!)

and 4.) he's an actor and you really dig kdramas... THE FIRST POINT IS THE ONLY ONE I ORIGINALLY THOUGHT OF BUT THE MORE I THINK??? the more i think this match up is a good idea. you're welcome

holy shit amy u didnt need to write a goddamn essay lol NO BUT I LOVE THIS i love when people tell me about myself bc idk who the hell i am?? ok im gna try to reply to all of the important posts so this might be a long answer lol

yeah i was kind of curious on who you’d pick for me bc i know the only groups we both know a lot about is basically bts and a little bit of shinee/got7 but ive got to say you rly blew me away with this bc didnt you tell me you were bad at this stuff the last time we did it? its funny u should pick jinyoung tho bc ive been noticing him more and more every day lol

but you’ve rly picked up a lot of my personality. i absolutely hate asking for help or going out of my way to do something (i.e. if a restaurant gives me the wrong food i dont do anything about it) especially when it comes 2 mental health(TM) lol but youre right i do take it when offered, only if i believe itll actually work

also it’d be rly rly bad for me to be with someone else that is emotional/sappy/sentimental because hoo boy im enough for both of us n i get tired of myself being emotional lol i would need someone stable to balance me out

its also hard to be in any sort of relationships when people cant pick up on my hints like thats what broke a lot of my friendships n romantic relationships .. itd be so nice just to be... understood you know? bc no one ever does and ok its making me emotional thinking abt being w/ him and how honest 2 god nice it would be i hate u for making me think about this

ALSO YES IM A BIG ROMANTIC i think he is as well, just a bit more shy about it... hes the type to want to take his gf to a drivein movie theater, an actual date on a restaurant, all the cliche ones and well thats me!!

when i first got your ask and all it said was jinyoung i was like ??? we r so different how would that work, but then you explained all of this and Now I See and i will never get this thought out of my head ever again whenever i see jinyoung im going to think about how good of a boyfriend he’d be this is the worst