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As the Easter Season comes up, I have a small reminder to give everyone.
Please, for the love of God, do EXTENSIVE research before going to get a bunny. A bunny is NOT an appropriate pet for a child. They are a massive commitment and require freedom, expensive care, and a lot of patience.
If you are one of those people who will go buy a bunny for Easter because it's cute (without doing proper research), you can go fuck yourselves. You are part of the problem of hundreds of bunnies being abandoned year after year.
I say this as someone who has a bunny and loves bunnies more than people at times.
Some things to consider:
- Bunnies can live up to 12-13 years. With bunnies becoming more popular and people learning how to properly care for them, the age keeps going up. When we first got our bunny, the minimum age was 6 years.
- They are animals who like to run and explore. They require SIGNIFICANT room to be comfy. Do not keep them in a cage!
- They require SPECIFIC veterinary care from a doctor who specializes in exotics. And even at that, you need to advocate for your bunnies. It is also important to get them fixed ASAP as it will prevent health problems in the future.
- THEY ARE PREY ANIMALS!!! They are hardwired to think everything wants to eat them. They will not be comfortable with you picking them up and snuggling them! I have had my bunny for almost 10 years. He has only JUST started snuggling up to me and only in SPECIFIC circumstances. It is EXTREMELY rare for a bunny to come up to you right away. It takes weeks of bribing them with treats and toys, getting down on the floor with them, and just giving them space and patience to explore and grow to trust you.
- They require A LOT of care and maintenance. This means brushing, clipping nails, bunny proofing everything (because they are masters of chaos and will chew everything).
There's a lot more I can say about bunnies. If you've read all this and are still considering adopting one, do your due diligence. There are PLENTY of resources available online. They are A LOT, but they can also bring so much love and joy into your life.
Bunnies are forever, NOT just for Easter.
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y'know every time i feel guilty about bothering someone by singing along when i'm listening to music, i just remember that i have to tolerate my dirtbag brother screaming at his ps5 for hours every day so listening to muffled off-key fall out boy is probably preferable
#ramble#it's not loud btw it's just like. singing along in the car volume#not to get on my soapbox but there's a literal dent in his wall from his controller. and we're in the uk you CANNOT punch through walls#idk about anyone else but i've NEVER yelled at a video game?? like i'm absolute dogshit at 80% of them#and i've never had a PHYSICAL reaction beyond maybe 'ughh' then turning it off#if you're getting that angry maybe you just need to play different games because you're clearly not having fun#also added bonus that i didn't realise until adulthood. as a former daughter#cis son privileges are CRAZY#i don't even swear in front of my parents and my dude is just screaming actual slurs next door with NO consequences#like you wouldn't do that in public why is it ok to do it here#i think i've said fuck in front of my mum ONCE and i literally couldn't look at her the entire day#this is a box i am not ready to unpack yet akdhdh#is this just a my family thing or is this common
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with my whole heart i truly think elwing/eärendil is the most sweepingly romantic ship in the legendarium. like. what if we were the only two people like us ever in the whole world yet by fate and chance and tragedy we found each other. what if we built a home and a life at the ends of the earth and against all odds it was good. what if we knew no help was coming. what if we chose to live anyway. what if i flew through the storm to find you. what if i knew you and held you even in another shape. what if you told me not to follow and i did. what if i let you make the choice for us both. what if you gave up even the touch of the world you loved so we could stay together. what if we saved that world but not for us. what if our love--for each other, for the world--was so strong that it rent the fabric of the universe. what then.
#do not text!! i am thinking about Them.#i have such a weak spot for couples who jam sticks in the wheel of time for each other. hashem yishmor.#the professor’s world#brought to you by me#every day i wake up + i get on my little soapbox#the silmarillion#elwing#eärendil#elwing/eärendil#peredhil
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INFURIATING that for like the entirety of Jason’s time being dead IRL the only person invested in giving him and Dick an actual relationship was…
CHUCK DIXON.
I MEAN.
“Little Wing”?
Dick Grayson kills the Joker?
Spirit guide/hallucination?
JEEZ.
INFURIATING.
Sources are Nightwing (1996) #106, Joker: Last Laugh #6, and Nightwing Secret Files #1.
(Technically Scott Beatty also worked on Nightwing: Year One and Joker: Last Laugh but ISN’T credited on Nightwing Secret Files #1 so I’m inclined to think that Reminding Everyone That Jason Todd Existed was one of Chuck Dixon’s babies until Judd Winick came in with his Under the Hood plans.)
#Jason Todd#Dick Grayson#Robin#Nightwing#…Discowing#Joker was there too.#side tangent but one of my favorite and least favorite things about DC is the thing where one person clearly has one thing…#…they really care about…not necessarily a soapbox but a character or event that they always want to reference...#or a piece of continuity they want to address.#on the one hand—you can get champions of characters who didn’t get a lot of love…or reminders of interesting continuity.#on the OTHER hand—if their fave thing is something you don’t like or wish would be forgotten you’re stuck in reminder-hell.#comic panels#i am begging some other writer to use Little Wing again PLEASE.
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it is beyond infuriating how anne rice seems to insist on marius being a positive force in anyone's life ever. like she can't fully commit to exploring the fact he groomed armand and has repeatedly taken away his consent for what marius thinks is best (take the end of TVA as an example) and just kind of flatly puts it in the narrative. there's not really much interest in how these horrific events make marius come across as the worst because EVERYONE loves him. for gods sake, lestat learns from armand exactly what marius did to him in TVL and then proceeds to go find marius and be super friendly to him in the same fucking book. even armand and pandora, two of the people who have MORE than enough right to hate him, do not. it doesnt feel like shes trying to explore the toxicity of the abusive dynamic he traps them in, it just is there. and like yeah ofc the toxic vampire romance series but i think that this should be handled with more care. and it is not ever really framed in a way that she is interested in exploring how marius should easily be one of the most horrific characters in this series because it kind of feels like sa/rape/grooming/other things of that sort are just put there to further plot and not to really get the respect that they deserve in a medium.
#twist rambles#vc posting#grooming mention#for blocklist sorry im on my im really mad about this fucking series soapbox again#to be fucking honest she treats slavery similar. like its just THERE and the characters doing it dont really feel bad about it (much like m#rius doesnt seem to.. feel much if any remorse for arm.and) and it is just like... ok heres another bad thing with no examination. this isn#a super coherent post but i went a bit forward to see how b&g was handling the arm.and stuff and oh my god. oh im so mad. like i just... i#wish so badly that arma.nds abuse was taken seriously other than haha its sooo quirky that mari.us is in a position of power over him and#provides housing money sex comfort etc for him and is abusing him but hes sooo happy with himmmm. like he fucking sold him into sex slavery#and we are supposed to root for him#ask to tag#sorry this is just. its a very triggering part of the books but its something that i kind of keep returning to to mull over because it is#handled really badly. like i think she was trying to go for a lo.lita vibe (iirc she did actually mention nabok.ov as an inspiration) but#didnt really care enough to examine WHY that is an interesting take on the subject matter. not even to get into pan.doras stuff bc its just#really bad but at least he waited until she was an adult i suppose. like i will give anne one thing that she has characters and (poorly han#led) writing that makes you really think and analyze. which i think is where i enjoy media that is like... this kind of sucks at points but#u can tell the authors viewpoints soo transparently. and u can examine it thru this. like i think thats why i find the gr.ell run of GA int#resting too bc u can telll that man is a libertarian and doesnt respect women. and then claims to do so. its interesting to me. anyways#did u guys know she defended bill clin.ton when the monica stuff came out and victim blamed her. just a funny coincidence.#sorry for the really long tag rant but i am sooo fed up with how she treats this topic forever and ever. bc its been this way forever.#anyways back to reading had to get that out. lmk if u need me to tag this bc its a lot of tws :)
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you ever peruse zevran's wiki and just...
" He is the only companion whose default initial tactics is set to assist or "rescue" the Warden during combat by engaging any enemy attacking the main character. "
#ooc. i am the end of everything.#tbd#( don't get me stARTED#i am absolutely feral about him and his penchant for putting himself between others and danger#zero regard for his own life? maybe#confident in his own abilities? absolutely#very aware that his worth is trumped by the warden's? oh yeah#i just.. !!!!#someone get me my soapbox i need to taLK )
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tags so good i had to take a screenshot of them and send them to myself so i can find them later (the ashley/hannah parallels)
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*sniff* i'm so flattered omg heheheheheh
seriously though!!! idk if i'm just not looking in the right places or what, but i see so few people bringing up the parallels between the two of them despite how CRAZY they make ME slkdfjksd
they're both presented as girls with huge, embarrassing crushes that lead them to sometimes not make the best choices; both a little geeky and on the meeker side; both fully capable of turning around and lashing out at the people who wrong them; and, coincidentally, they're both really close to josh
idk. idk!!!!!! i just think that, of all the blackwood kids, ashley would be the most likely to sit and really stew over what happened to hannah (and by extension, beth) because that prank could've been played on her. it wasn't. but it could've been. and i think it would've gone exactly the same way, honestly. the others feel guilty because of the parts they played, but ashley? oh, oh i think most of her shame comes from understanding how easily it could've been her out there in the snow
#samgiddings#asks#queenie rambles about supermassive#sdkljfklsjdfklsdjflksdjf i'm so glad this resonated with someone else XDDD#im not even gonna get into fan reception of the two of them because i'm old and i am so tired but.#the parallels. are there. too. i would say. lmaoooooooooo#i don't think a universe exists where chris would've gone along with being the bait for that kind of prank#nor do i think a universe exists where like. any. of the others. felt. possessive(?????) enough of him to carry it out against ashley BUT#if that fucking note on the kitchen island had been addressed to ashley. and signed by chris. it would've happened. exactly. the same.#and now i carefully step down off my soapbox and return to the cave from whence i came askdljfklsdjf hahahahahaha
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people conveniently like to leave out the bit where nesta tried to go after feyre in acotar when they talk about her not doing anything for the family. the fandom discourse is sooooo funny.
#and by funny i mean disgusting and hypocritical#’rhys did what he did to feyre under the mountain to survive!! so feyre could survive!!’#sorry and what part of nesta’s behavior pre being made is any different and need i remind you she was a fucking CHILD#rhys was 500 years old and assaulting a 19 year old ‘because she’s his mate and he loves her so!!!!’ be so fucking fr#no i’m never getting off my soapbox and i am once again tellin you that acotar is literally from feyre’s pov#its a one sided story we have no idea about any nuance to the sisters’ childhood we don’t know shit except what feyre tells us#shes an unreliable narrator at best!#anyway lets just acknowledge that all three archeron sisters are bitches but we can love that about them#the end case closed bye bye
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Ok I know I’ve said this many a time before BUT. The way the narrative has no problem with Tamlin's abuse, but rather his seeming lack of a good reason for it, hence why Rhysand's abuse is excusable (he has reasons and HAS to abuse Feyre for the greater good) while Tamlin's isn’t (he does not have reasons and therefore is not abusing Feyre for the greater good). The way Tamlin is unwittingly and seemingly accidentally given canonical reasons to act as he does, with nearly every conscious abusive choice he makes having a legitimate concern behind it. The way this is almost barely touched on in the narrative because it undermines the differences between him and Rhysand and makes it so that they BOTH are abusive (because once you acknowledge they both have reasons to act as they do, the conclusion is no longer ‘Rhysand's abuse is ok because he had reasons but Tamlin's isn’t because he had no reasons,’ but ‘They’re both shitty and abusive and Feyre needs to dump them both for thinking it’s ok to abuse her if they have ~good intentions~.’) The way it’d be a stronger testament to the themes of this series if both of them were simply called out and if Feyre ditched both rather than the text running in circles around itself. The way, the minute you think about this series for longer than two seconds, it all falls apart because of the endless hypocrisy. UGHHHHHHHHHHH
#Y’all know I get angry and must rant when I write ACOHAS. I am back on my ‘both men are trash’ soapbox#ANYWAY#i said I’d be posting LESS not completely avoiding posting at all#ACOTAR analysis#tamlin's abuse#Rhysand's abuse#Anti acomaf#anti acotar#anti sjm#Anti rhysand
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Heyyyy, I stumbled upon your blog just a few hours ago and I'm already hooked, but I am wondering about something.
So, if your Link is transmasc... uhhhh how did his top surgery go down? I don't think "ye olde medieval fantasy land" Hyrule has anyone (alive by the setting's present day) with the tools or skill to do it the modern way, and I also don't imagine magic methods would leave scars.
Sorry if I'm overthinking this, I'm just genuinely curious if there's an answer.
honestly, there's any number of answers to this. i tend to go with whatever's funniest to me (i've seen lots of "shake r stick to remove tits" jokes in the tags of that rauru drawing, which make me laugh) but i take it you're looking for a serious answer here, so i'll take off my jester cap for a moment.
i see this question a lot: "how would he have top surgery in an old time-y setting? they didn't have surgeries like that back then", and i feel like this kind of disregards the fact that this is a fantasy setting. sure, surgeries like that didn't exist in our ye olden times, but we also didn't have giant murder robots stomping around on tentacle arms, or fairies that can make a crop top deflect a sword, or so on. maybe he got purah or robbie to do it with sheikah tech! maybe, due to the fact that there are huge monsters stomping around everywhere attacking people, hyrulian medical technology is far more advanced than we realize, and they have even cosmetic surgeries (done somewhat differently, obviously, but still). maybe he got a great fairy to do it with magic, and just asked them to leave scars because it looked cool and/or he wanted to be openly transmasc. maybe, as some comics have joked, he just did it himself with the master sword, because he's built like that.
okay, i'm getting into joke territory again, but i'm sure you see my point. zelda, and most fantasy, plays by its own rules-- why do we have to return to the 'standard' rules of realism to place trans people in it? why not have fun and get creative with it, you know?
TL;DR: i don't really have a set headcanon 'this is how link got top surgery' in mind when i draw him, but there's basically infinite ways it could have happened by nature of fictional fantasy.
#sorry to kinda soapbox at you but youre not the first person to ask this and i figured id just hit the whole spread#hopefully this makes any sense my brain has been a little fried from my sleep schedule LOL#sparks speaks#stryker324#and obviously more realistic depictions of transgenderism and bodily autonomy can have their place in fantasy! i am by no means saying that#that should never happen. but in colorful fairy magic zelda world i think getting creative w it#fits the setting yknow?#ask#hope this answered your question! and also hopfully this doesnt come across as condescending i promise#i do not mean it that way i am aware you are being genuine and curious. hopefully#long post#?
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submitting mysteries by the yeah yeah yeahs for phil (seems like his alt rock vibe)
there's something about this song that i think 18-22y/o phil particularly would really enjoy. just the certain pettiness that comes with that age ig, but also the energy of "i can't imagine not coming back to you but also idk who i hate more me or you" is so,,, it's fitting, is what i'll say. i like this submission
#amazingphil#phil lester#dan and phil#dnp#songs for phil#asks NOT for phil#i hesitate to call the energy of the song immature both bc i am that age and bc the word immature has a negative connotation#naive might a be better word choice. unwise.#just the energy of somebody who has not gained the perspective that the things they think are so important right now are not that serious#very teenage energy#which genuinely !! is not a read at all just an observation !!#anyway getting off my soapbox now
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MODERN DAY DORIAN GRAY RETELLING WHERE DORIAN AND BASIL ARE BROTHERS???? NETFLIX WHAT THE FUCK
#the cryptid speaks#dorian gray#caps tw#sorry guys im havin a fit in a bad way#they cant be fcking serious#basil?????????? dorian's brother???????? did u not read the book????????????????#listen i believe in adaptation and change and retellings and not keeping everything the same with every version#but the changes have to make SENSE#they have to be TRUE to the ORIGINAL MEDIA#basil being in love with dorian- as a *gay man* in a time when that was a *crime*- is Vital to the story. to wilde#that isnt smth u get to change. that isnt smth u get to take out.#and it's a Stupid choice anyhow#orughoruhgouh . ok off my soapbox For Now bc i am . at work#i had to get this out there ok it had to be said . loudly and upsettedly
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whenever i talk about collecting physical media & someone replies by saying “yea but…. the clutter” i feel my soul physically exit my body
#it’s not clutter if it is something you love & thoroughly enjoy!!!!!!!#today i walked into my therapist’s office & soapboxed#(can i use soapbox as a verb. idk. i am anyway)#about the evils of streaming services & subscription models#& she was just like. but the CoNvEnIeNcE#which like. yea. i get it but also. no.#i <3 owning things forever#& i hate being advertised to & i hate having to pay in order to not be advertised to#& i hate the reliance on wifi & internet connection &…..#n e way. i found some good movies at the thrift store this week :-)#find of the week was probably spirited away.#i get so excited whenever i find a studio ghibli#still looking for ponyo though…#i’m hoping to draw more this weekend!!!#it’s been a very busy week so i have made no progress on drawing OCs but#i have a few days off so… yea. fingers crossed.#ok bye#rainyrambles
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y'all ever randomly get mad all over again over some random stuff from an old fandom? anyway, fuck once upon a time for completely misunderstanding ariel's character
#the little mermaid is my favorite childhood movie#and still my fave as an adult#i had to restrain myself from commenting on all the posts that criticize ariel for giving up her fins 'for a man'#like there wasn't a whole goddamn song about how she wanted to be part of the human world before she even met the man#but i am not going to get up on my soapbox in the tags
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ThriftBooks I can literally buy this new on Amazon for $18*, why are your algorithms so stupid.
*I am not going to pay $18 for it, which is why I set up the alert on the website that literally markets itself by name as being thrifty, but the point is you absolutely do not have the upper hand here and it's hysterical that you're pretending you do.
#i hate dynamic pricing so bad y'all#p.s. just for fun I put the ISBN in to their buyback form to see what they are offering people for something this Rare and Special#and it said 'sorry no sale; we have enough of that item!' which. clearly you do not??#just want to make it clear to everyone that in 99% of cases ThriftBooks is no longer the cheapest place to get your books#it offers some deals on popular brand new books to compete with Amazon. But otherwise? go to eBay. i promise TB's 'rewards program' is#a lateral move at best when you add up what you save by buying cheaper items from sellers who also offer free shipping and#oftentimes discounts when you buy 3 or 4 at a time#this turned into a soapbox post but seriously every time I look at their site I am ASTOUNDED how downhill it's sped in the last few years#can't even trust ThriftBooks' grading system (AND their policy is no refunds or returns for any reason if the book cost less than $15#even when they flat out lie to you that a book is in Like New condition so you pay the extra $2...to get a book with torn and bent pages#and since my rant keeps spiraling: i still have alerts on for relatively scarce items just in case#but the last one they sent me was for Blood and Treasure season 2 on DVD (yay!) and it was...like $40 for an EX-LIBRARY copy lmao
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btw, from a canon-purist perspective, adjectives are not valid slugcat titles. this is the pettiest pet peeve ever, but. no canon slugcats are shown with adjective titles; though adjective titles are grammatically correct there is no evidence to support them being canon-compliant.
(this is not against adjective titles, btw, i am an active advocate for messing with or ignoring canon rules where it's fun! but they are not canon-compliant. that's not a good thing or a bad thing but it's something that i see a lot of people be mistaken about. tahnk yoy for coming to my ted talk)
#DO NOT START DISCOURSE OR DRAMA ABT THIS BTW#i literally do not care if you use adjective titles i just felt the need to get up on my soapbox and be a buzzkill for one (1) second#<- mandatory disclaimer because good lord is the rw tumblr fandom trigger-happy with these things. i've seen discourse start over much less#and as such i am mildly scraed#thumbsup#spire rambles#rain world#posts that maybe should've stayed in the drafts
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