#i also think tbh that Ideally i would much prefer for my home to be specifically organized

[moodr1ng]

i used to think i didnt have any of the restricted/repetitive behaviors of autism like lining up things or organizing them in v specific ways (esp bc im messy as hell and not v particular about my organization at all) but the more time passes the more i think its just limited to such very very specific things that its not noticeable to other people. when i take ice cubes out of the tray i have to take them starting from one end by pairs of two and i always must leave at least 4 in the tray. same applies to taking pills out of their packaging (and if i take an uneven amount of pills it sucks). when i fill up my little pinterest board each board and each subsection must have a number of pins ending in 5 or 0 (if possible the main board should be a multiple of 10). when i put my laundry to dry clothes must be separated by type and underwear goes on the bottom rung with undies in the back and socks in the front. when filling up a grocery bag there is an ideal order in which each type of item goes in the bag and its very frustrating when i dont have the time to achieve that order. i also try to make purchases of a certain value so that the amount of money in my account ends in 5 or 0. etc etc. all of it is very minute and is just stuff that im consciously thinking of very often but which isnt really disruptive or noticeable so i thought i just didnt do it lol but then my friends will take an uneven number of ice cubes and i go ?????? you cant do that.

[the-roo-too]

karina fluff alphabet when? 😭😭

now? 🥲

candy -> yu jimin ver

aka the fluff alphabet

admiration (what does she absolutely adore about you)- i can’t say you whole because that would be too cliche, but it’s kinda true. she looks at you with those heart eyes like you build her world brick by brick

body (what’s her favourite body part of yours)- karina the typa girl who’d poke your lip a little lol. running her thumb over it—she loves that shit. you have so many lip balms because she says they remind her of you

cuddling (how she likes to cuddle)- i think she likes looking at you when you’re cuddling. just because you look so cute up close, yk? (with rizz 🫦) so she loves you laying your head on her lap, or you cuddling up to her chest <3

dates (what’s her ideal date)- cat cafe typa person. you’re eating yummy pancakes AND a cute little cat is purring on your lap? alternatively she’d love to hear some classical music for a late night outing, like going to an opera just for the sake of it. she’s a sucker for classical music i’m telling you 😔

emotions (how does she express her emotions around you)- with that, she doesn’t really hide. you’re her girlfriend, you both should communicate your emotions to ensure a happy relationship:)

family (does she want one)- maybeee..? she’d like kids at home but not maybe all of the time. i think you two would be the rich gay aunties who spoil their little nieces if anything

gifts (what about gift giving)- she’s not to big on that tbh. in the love language section i get more into the details, but karina prefers acts of service over gifts, she’ll also love if you do it back!

holding hands (does she like to hold hands)- not in public!!! but at home? she has to hold your hand while you’re watching movies or she’ll just spend the whole time looking at you with a pitiful pout on her face

injuries (what would she do if you got hurt)- hurt=papercut: kisses it better and runs to get you a bandaid. “wounds heal better when you kiss them”; hurt=broken leg: when you get the cast, she carries you around everywhere 😭 you’re like a backpack now, glued to her back. now imagine the muscles she’ll build with that workout…

jokes (does she like to joke around)- dry ass dad jokes and you can’t convince me otherwise. karina would use bad pick up lines on you, the ones you’d find on tiktok or smth. she’d be so proud too 😭😭😭

kisses (how does she like to kiss you)- i’m thinking hand on your cheek, caressing your skin gently when she leans in to peck your lips <:)

love (what’s her love language)- acts of service. brings you coffee in the morning, offers to give you a massage when you come to her tired after a long and busy day. she thinks gifts are nice, but not personal enough. karina wants you to feel how much she adores you

memory (what’s her favourite memory together)- seeing you on the street one day 😭 first time you two met it was raining heavily and she won you over by running to you with her umbrella, mustering up all of her rizzing nature 😔 the memory still makes her stomach flutter

nighttime (how does sleeping with her look like)- big on being the big spoon, then cuddles up to you like a cat in the middle of the night. she just needs to be warm ok. you think you’re in a relationship? you’re her personal heat pad

oddity (what’s one quirky thing about her)- karina is a massive loser i am telling you

pet names (what does she like to call you)- ‘babie’, ‘my cutie’, ‘dearest’. maybe also variations of your name like ‘y/nnie’, ‘y/nny’ etc

quality time (how does she like to spend time with you)- imagine for a second that you play some instrument, like piano. now stay with me, she absolutely adores it. wants you to play her silly pieces, like parts of their songs or chopin’s waltz’s.

rush (does she rush into things)- after that previous relationship? no thank you 💖

secrets (how open is she with you)- tells you about how she stole a pencil from her best friend in third grade, a secret she promised to take to grave with her, but refuses to tell you her parent’s names until you’re together like a year. silly things > personal info

time (how long did it take her to confess)- you tricked her into confessing ☝️ girlie wasn’t picking up on your ‘subtle’ signs (visiting her every two days for a month straight) so you talked about hot idols you’d have a crush on until she admitted to hating when you spoke about others because she wanted you to be hers 🤙

upset (what’s her reaction when you’re upset)- karina needs help then lol. she won’t know by herself what to do. maybe if you’re upset over something minor, like her forgetting to give you a kiss when she was leaving in the morning, she’s just kiss you to apologise when she’s back? otherwise the whole aespa is recruited as a rescue squad lol

visibility (is she afraid of the public opinion)- terrified 👍 we all know how fans reacted to her last public relationship so… idk if she would wanna come out with you until you’re like getting married 🥲

warrior (how often do you fight)- i think she’s a little scared to fight honestly. she thinks fighting would make you see her weak sides and she’s just scared to loose you :(((

x-ray (is she able to read you)- yes but also, karina is a loser trapped in a hot body let’s be honest. she just doesn’t pick up some clues :( poor baby thinks you’re coming to their dorm just because and it takes a lot of convincing for her to understand your one on one late night hangouts are in fact dates

yes (how would she propose to you)- in the most corny ass way you can think of. sappy love confession under the moonlight OR maybe she’d propose if dispatch somehow caught whiff of your relationship lol. then it would be rushed tho

zen (what makes her feel calm)- hear me out, driving around. especially, driving around a motorcycle. i don’t think she has a motorcycle license lol karina just gives me the vibes of someone who, when she’s stressed, would ask you to get with her on her bike. also, wrapping your arms around her waist ☝️🤓

part of [the fluff series]

[doubledeadstudio]

Hihi! So like a couple questions for the romanceable of reanimated heart. Feel free to skip any really I have too many and have thought about this game for hours desperately trying to find content of this game with exactly my aesthetic and type inside of it.

1. What is everyone’s ideal date? Like the best date ever in their opinion?

2. What are the character’s ideal after date? Sex? Being able to go home together and snuggle? A little time apart? Like what?

3. What would the Mc need to wear to drive them crazy? Is it weirdly specific or?

4. Would the Mc be allowed to play with the characters’s hair if asked? Braiding or otherwise?

5. This is specific to me so please don’t judge but how do the characters feel about you wearing their clothes? Or them wearing yours? If you’re femme would a character be fine with you putting them in your clothes you commonly wear or would it be too much? Would they let you wear their clothing in public as a mild showage of partnership in a weird way?

Sorry if that was too much! I just can’t stop thinking about these characters!!

Hmmmm, I'll try to answer in a way that isn't too spoilery, but this is fun to think about.

Black - Concert, Vincenzo - Museum visit or visiting historical sites, Crux - He likes doing anything... I think he'd have the best time if you do something unique that he's never seen before

Black - He'd like to go home and lie down in bed with his SO, Vin - He'd want a private dinner, Crux - Well, yes, sex, but he'd want sex before or during so...

Black loves really punky/grungy looks with tats and piercings, Vin loves formal wear or classy lingerie... but also MC covered in blood LOL, Crux likes sexy goths

Yeah, all of them is fine with that, though Vin would get irritated if you give him a deliberately ugly hairstyle. But Vin wouldn't mind cutesy pigtails and braids. As long as it's nice.

They'd all be fine with you wearing their clothes. Black and Vin would be delighted tbh.

They'd be fine with you dressing them up too... Vin and Crux would play it up, but Black's just kind of "okay" with it, though if you asked him to act more feminine for you, he'd dislike it because he'd get dysphoria.

Yeah, they're all fine with that! Vincenzo and Crux are both really into that. Black would get really flustered in a good way if you did that. I think Black would lowkey prefer you both wear something matching... One scene I'm considering is getting matching tattoos when you're deep in his romance?

[ukit4m4]

How would bi han confess to reader and what would he's type be(Sfw or nsfw)

★┆HOW BI-HAN WOULD CONFESS TO U & WHAT HIS IDEAL TYPE IS !!

my Bi-Han is cold ok I'll try to keep his canon personality 🙏🙏🙏 slight warning for cursing. not too much though :P

Tbh I don't think Bi-Han would actually, like, meet you in person or confess face to face ??

You've been friends with Bi-Han for a few years now, and he DOESN'T admit it, but you kinda caught his eyes. Your personality, the way your movement is always full of grace when you're training. You also catch up quickly if there's a new combo or somewhat. Bi-Han.. is surprised.

This feelings has been bothering him ever since he saw you interacting with Madam Bo. You were helping Madam Bo with retrieving some vegetables, and you seems.. so.. beautiful/handsome while smilling even though the day was hot that sweat trails down your forehead.

At first, Bi-Han tried to ignore the feelings, but you KEPT. APPEARING. IN. HIS. MIND. while he's training, about to sleep, showering (😊), when he's doing paper works, etc. Your smile is literally buried in his mind. Your voice.. fuck.

'K!ll me already...' Bi-Han thought to himself as he rolled over in his bed, still unable to sleep. He knows he have to do something about this. After counting sheeps, crocodiles, birds,.. he finally fell asleep at like 4 A.M.

That morning, He was all grumpy, because he's NOT morning person, and he only got 3 hours of sleep because he had to wake up at 6 A.M to continue his training routine. As he walked to the training hall, he'd walk past you. You made eye contact with him, but didn't really say anything, and continued talking with your friend. Bi-Han, on the other hand, wanted to smash the wall. Why? He didn't even want to know.

As he enters the training hall, he'd lean against the wall, waiting for his brothers and other warriors. He'd close his eyes, his jaw clenched as thoughts about you appears in his mind again. In the hallway, his hand almost touched yours, and his fist clenched once again. Why the fuck can't you just leave his thoughts alone ?????

After that, he'd make a decision to ignore you for as long as it can, until this weird feelings finally leave him. He'd purposely use another route just not to find you. He'd purposely eat a bit late in the cafeteria so that he won't bump to you. He'd purposely walk away from his brothers if you walked up to them.

Still, and of course, he still can't put away the feelings. He knows now's the time. He overheard that your schedule is empty today, so he wrote a letter to you. Too flustered to talk and confess to you face to face.

" Dear Y/N. It is Bi-Han, and I want to talk about something that has been bothering me for a few.. months, for now. It is about you. The thing is, I've been getting weird feelings everytime you're around, and I do NOT like it. Though I am not sure what you think of me, but it is what it is. I like you. That's all, I guess. And don't even think about showing this letter to my brothers. I'll be waiting for a response soon."

WHAT I THINK HIS IDEAL TYPE IS

note : I'll try my best to be accurate as possible and idk no offense to anyone ok !!!!!

Personally, I'd think he like, like...... submissive partner??? like, some1 that will obey his commands without no question. I mean, he's the grandmaster after all. He expect obedience from everyone, especially his partner.

ehh probably he'd prefer having short partner. not that heights matter much to him, but he'd make sure and will always know that the dominance in the relationship is his.

if he really loves u, he doesn't rlly care if you're a loud ass person, as long as u don't bring down his reputation and annoy him when he's working or sumwhat

he's THOSE typa husbands.. expect u to cook breakfast, lunch, dinner etc. he expect u to wait for him at home after his training with your arms open, greetings and such. (and maybe open your legs too idk)

[willowser]

I have a thought and I’d like to share (if you don’t mind) - Bakugo with a pro hero partner. Like I feel as though all I ever see is civilian!reader or assistant!reader and that’s great, but I need me a girl boss who kicks ass and Bakugo’s head over heels, like I imagine this person to be so adored and loved as well - like the ideal “celebrity” so kind and sweet, well-spoken, but Villains hear her name they go runnin’ - everyone’s low-key got crushes on her, Katsuki’s wondering what the hell he did to rizz her up and because they’re both public figures, in spite of how naturally private he is, I think he’d feel more comfortable off-handedly making comments about her every now and then, showing up to events together.

Idk it’s just in my head

hello dear !! it's so interesting you bring this up, bc i feel like i actually have a lot of thoughts on this and i guess i've never mentioned them LOL

i think bakugou could have such a flourishing relationship with another pro hero.

like, i really do. i think that it's hard for him to meet people outside of work LOL so meeting/working with another pro hero is, i think, a very natural way to come together. i also think that bakugou would really appreciate reader's hard work ! their passion ! their motivation ! i think that would genuinely be such a draw for him ??? i absolutely think a pro hero relationship would really work out for him, and i have one pro hero reader wip and the dynamic between them is my favorite i think i've ever written, bc they just fit so well.

but i will say that this is not typically a reader i picture for him ?? as my go-to ?? it's always assistant reader aikhfaha LMAO and. i really don't think i have a good explanation why, but. something like—i like to imagine bakugou having a break from it all, and i just don't think he'd get that with a pro hero partner ??

idk !! like, if one of you isn't on patrol, the other probably is, like 90% of the time, and i imagine it's hard to get just free time to be together, bc you both would probably be so busy !! and if you were working together at the same agency or partnering up at random points, i feel like it would be so hard to come home from work and not. bring it with you 🥺 as a pro hero i feel like that's impossible, and were the two of you both bearing the weight of that responsibility, i feel like it would be hard to have a relationship outside of that ?? if that makes sense ?? and i also personally believe that bakugou has had too much pro hero at the young age of SEVENTEEN, so i like to imagine a life for him where he can put it all away, even for a little bit 🥺

you could definitely argue that having an assistant reader would be similar, bc you would still be involved in the hero world, but. idk. i think being there on the sidelines and being in it are different, and i like to imagine bakugou coming home from a long shift and getting to hear about what you did at your regular job or what you did in the garden, where you went shopping, etc 🥺 just. give him some normalcy 🥺

but that's just my personal preference !! though i definitely enjoy the pro hero reader angle !! please katsuki wondering what the hell he did to rizz you up LMAOOO tbh, i think if we ever were fed some kind of love story for bakugou in canon, they would give him a badass pro hero partner, bc i really think he would have a lot of respect for someone that can handle it, not to mention does it well. like. i think he definitely has the loserboy hots for them LOL

[plasmasimagination]

Heyy girl hows it goingg! Congrats on ur amazinggg milestone. Totally deserved 🪼🪼 I was wondering if i cld get a matchup for genshin and hsr ! I totally loved the others u did.

I go by the she series and id love to be matched up w a hot man 🤤 my mbti is enfp and im a gemini! Im around 5’3 with tan skin and hv super grown out long dyed brown hair. I have 8 piercings total on my ears and i know im gna cop more next summer bless up. I wld say i def have a more summer oriented aesthetic i loveee me a tank top n shorts and bikini.

Im not surr what kind of personality i have .. but i think im a freak. I love to party nd go out w my friends obviii but i absolutely love spending time by myself bc im chill like dat. I think im pretty funny but i also follow my heart a lil too much and do whatever i want when i want, so i cant set boundaries w myself.. im def tryna work on that and have a healthy grindset and balance. Im down to do anything w my friends BUT im also a lil bit of bitch ngl… a lil bit of a hater if i see some weird activity in front if me

I love the beach and summer and drives with loud music playinggg. My ideal day is a warm summer day on the beach with some Js and scrolling thru the x reader tag on tumblr on my ipad.

My interests are surfing and paddleboardinf!! Im super into gymming and looking up wikipedia horror movie summaries. Im pursuing health rn too 😜 and i try to write in my free time but it never works out LOL. I also love thrifting and flea markets and im down to rage if u are 🤙

If i had a short life id probably honestly spend it at home w the fam and w my dog and w all my friends. Id love to do some epic in state road trips or have bonfires by the beach. i think itd be sick to be surrounded by all the simple things i love.

When it comes to my love life…. Erm… i definitely can be attracted SO easily but im quick to find icks tbh. I dont think i fall in love easily but i definitely get high on the possibility of it. Lets just say im hard to get and hard to want 😈 My ideal type is someone whos athletic and good at math and is FINE AF. My lovr language is quality time (i LOVE ft) so someone whos willing to do stuff w me is a plus. I think i also like someone who can match my speed and humor bc i hate miscommunication and awkwardness

Thanku sm if u decide 2 do my req! ⭐️⭐️

Hello there fellow darling >:)

As for your request, I would say I found just the right manz for you, but i didn't, so work with them a bit and they'll be vibing with u in no time(ㅠ﹏ㅠ)

So let's go

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AL HAITHAM

Smart collected calm and rational, just to balance you out

introvert x extrovert

He's definitely impressed by your carefree attitude, and often gets dragged into your small adventures, he might complain around a bit but he doesn't mind as much as he says he does

Hes confused as to how you have the energy to go out to parties and surfing and everything, he's just way too tired to even think about such things, so he'll prefer to watch you from the distance, in the comfort of a chair and a good book

Listen listen, I know I know, he's pissy and awkward, but I like to think he wouldn't be like that in a relationship, and is actually very good at communication and explaining his struggles and emotions

It might take him a bit to trust you but when he does, he's a good partner

He might not be able to match your humour, but he can match your speed, he's very efficient.

And if that relationship doesn't work out, do try with kaveh, because that could work out more (and yes i did just recommend to get with with your matchups roommate)

MR.RATIO

Nerd x his cool partner

This one is more to match your vibe kind off

He's a sassy and confident dude

He'll definitely be a fan of your bitchy attitude , he likes dealing with bests

Can match your energy, occasionally, sometimes not sometimes yes, but most of the time he'll just follow you around and watch you do your hobbies and interests while reading something

Cold colour dressed boyfriend x summer dressed partner, just perfection

He's an ambivert after all, so he can keep up with your trips and enjoyments, but sometimes will distance himself off to a corner to recharge his energy

Generally he's the first that came to mind when I saw your request so consider it fate

[haljathefangirlcat]

By the way, what are your thoughts on Glaumvor and Kostbera, if you had to include them in your "ideal" version of the story? Especially Kostbera. In terms of being difficult to get along with, much less remain married to, I would rate Hagens on a scale of Rosengarten Hagen > Nibelungenlied Hagen > Wagner Hagen > Volsung Saga Hogni > Thidrekssaga Hogni > Ballad Hogni. And of course Waltharius Hagen is the prequel where he isn't quite so intense, murderous, or scheming. And especially in the Continental sources, where there's no mention of a wife, it's hard to imagine him finding the time to get married with how much he's stuck babysitting his lord or friends. So if Kostbera exists, is she just clearing out of the room so Walther or Volker can take over and deal with Hagen's bad moods?

I've actually never tried to mix the canons, so to say, when it comes to these two.

As you said, Hagen never gets a wife or even a passing love interest in Continental sources -- he really seems like the sort of guy who'd always be too busy fixing up everyone's messes (and then, sometimes, contibuting to making even bigger ones, lol) to even think about that sort of thing, but to me, there's also the way he just feels almost removed from women and their whole sphere, in a sense. In the Nibelungenlied, he remembers Helche fondly, but she's already dead by that point and doesn't even figure in that story; he seems to like Gotelinde, but when they do meet in person, he really only talks to her due to the shield of another man, her dead brother, and then, that whole interaction between them serves mainly to set up the pretext that later allows him not to fight Rudiger; he seems to agree with every other man in Bechlaren that Dietlinde is lovely, but rather than appreciating her himself, he's more concerned with setting up a marriage for Giselher (and thus, an alliance for the Burgundians), while from Dietlinde's point of view, he seems to be the only strange new man in her home to intimidate her; Kriemhild clearly trusts him and feels comfortable with him in the beginning, but the one scene where we really see that dynamic between them is already the one where he's using her to find out how to kill Siegfried without any apparent regret even while addressing her in fairly affectionate terms, and their relationship only goes downhill from there; he goes from calling Brunhild a devil to passionately swearing he'll avenge her honor, but tbh, to me both of these things seem more like they're about Brunhild's shifting relationship to Gunther, rather than about Brunhild as her own person. And even in the Waltharius, his interactions with (the woefully underutilized) Hildegund pretty much boil down to a "hey, Walther, tell your girl to pour us some wine." I'm not saying that I see him as incapable of having significant relationship with women (on the contrary, I'll cling with all my strength to the scraps we get of his affection for Helche, the possibility of a pre-mess positive-if-deteriorating relationship with Kriemhild, and that one source of the story of Walther that's eluding me rn but where Walther apparently wants to flee with Hagen but Hagen stops him and is all like "wtf, no, Hildegund is great and she deserves better than you abandoning her like this"), or even that I don't ship him women (I do!), but when it's so much easier to build on his relationships with men (as much as those are still, ofc, influenced by hierarchies and alliances), imagining a stable straight relationship of any kind, much less a marriage, for him is just something that always feels a bit too much of a hassle or even too out of left field to me.

When it comes to Gunther's wife, too, I prefer to go with the Nibelungenlied/Klage version, where Brunhild doesn't kill herself but rather stays alive at least until the coronation of Siegfried Jr., her son with Gunther. I actually like to imagine she took on a role as Siegfried Jr.'s chief advisor, with a good chunk of Worm's best knights dead in Etzel's court and Ute being presumably grief-stricken. My girl can (try to) put the entire mess behind her and be a well-respected and influential Queen Mother with a son to shape as she pleases guide and no husband to answer to, as a treat. But that leaves little room for a second marriage...

On the Norse side of things, on the other hand, I see both Hogni/Kostbera and Gunnar/Glaumvor as complex relationships. The former because what little we see of them involves Kostbera repeatedly trying to warn Hogni off the journey to Hunaland and Hogni outright dismissing her fears (to reassure her? To reassure himself? He just kinda snapped at her because he had a lot on his mind? All plausible options, imo) but, at the same time, they worked well enough together to have three or four kids; the latter, because they essentially have a repeat of the warning scene between Kostbera and Hogni, except Gunnar concludes it by admitting he actually agrees with Glaumvor but will face the danger anyway, but also because I can't imagine Glaumvor never heard anything about the whole thing with Brynhild and married Gunnar with a light-hearted, optimistic attitude. I picture both as arranged marriages, with no big "I'd leap through the flames for you" moment, and I think that, while Kostbera may have married Hogni pretty readily around the time Gunnar married Brynhild and Gudrun married Sigurd or shortly after because marrying into the Gjukungs was probably looking like a great prospect at the time, Glaumvor may have been pushed into Gunnar's arms by relatives trying to inch their own way closer to Sigurd's gold. I don't see either Hogni or Gunnar as the type to mistreat his wife (... well, beyond the occasional deception) but I imagine both relationship as relatively detached in the beginning, then warming up slowly and gradually through the years, especially in Glaumvor's case.

If I had to mesh those two visions together, I think I'd have Kostbera and Hagen as two sharp, strong-willed people who do have some things in common yet feel distant and slightly awkward around each other nonetheless, with Kostbera either slightly lonely and resentful of Hagen for being more dedicated to his duty and closer to his male friends (or "friends") than to her but also slightly grateful at the same time for the chance to mostly just do her own thing without her husband sticking his nose into her business, or having her own tightly-knit and kind of dramatic circle of female friends (or, again, "friends") as a contrast to his own dynamics, or a bit of both. As for Glaumvor and Gunther, I'd imagine the same uncertainty and shyness I usually pick for Glaumvor and Gunnar... only taken even further and a lot more difficult to grow past, what with Kriemhild still being in Worms for a while after Siegfried's death/being seemingly sent off to a land of pagans after having her husband murdered. Yup, Glaumvor would really be like "oh god, what DID I get myself into" about it.

(Btw, I sort of cackled a bit at seeing Wagner!Hagen in the middle of that ranking, tbh. Not that I don't love him a lot (<33333) but my boy is self-loathing on legs plus generalized misanthropy to go with the usual murder plus a horrible sleeping schedule probably plus terrible family dynamics no matter where you look... and just the thought of Wagner!Alberich as a father-in-law is, imo, terrifying. XDD As for Waltharius!Hagen, he literally waxes poetry about the human condition and needs to be comforted with hugs and kisses when he's upset. I want to pinch his cheeks and ruffle his hair. <333)

[napping-sapphic]

yo how're you doing?

I just realized I never asked you your ideal date

Like, fancy or cozy? Outside or inside? City or seaside/mountains/lave/cliffs? Ushhh tell us !

Have the nicest of all days!!!

-✨

“Also, would you rather organize a date for your s.o. or having your s.o. organizing it for you?

Forgot to add this question to the date question”

Not to worry as i added it back for you haha😌

I’m doing okay! Not a lot going on lately tbh which is neither good nor bad i suppose! Thanks for asking and I hope you’re doing well too :)!!

This question actually kind of threw me off since I don’t think I’ve ever thought about what an ideal date would be honestly. If it’s an established relationship I’d probably prefer just to stay home and have a day in with them lol - to no one’s surprise.

But if it’s a first date we’d definitely have to go somewhere! It’s a little basic but I love bookstores so that would probably be the most fun place someone could take me though thinking on it I’m not sure how much conversation I’d give if I’m too busy looking at books🤔

Idk! I’m not a very exciting person so I don’t really have an interesting answer to this question lol, I like staying home and going to places in my orbit, I’ve never even been to the seaside/mountains/lava/cliffs lol

I don’t think I have a preference for who organizes it either! I love doing things for other people but I’m also usually the one who has to plan things with my friends so someone else doing it for me would be really nice I think :)

[welcometogrouchland]

Amphibia and The Owl House for the ask! also hope your stomach gets better :(

Yippee my shows!! Also yeah I feel better now I just had to lie down for a while and drink a lot of water 👍

For TOH:

The first character I first fell in love with: ooh that's a toughie! I binged the first season right before s2 started airing so my memories are fuzzy. Maybe...Lilith or Willow? Luz hadn't quite cemented herself as my fav until season 2 and subsequent rewatches

The character I never expected to love as much as I do now: probably Amity? I went into season 1 knowing she had a redemption but when I saw her in her first appearance it was on SIGHT. I really warmed up to her though over the course of the show, and now I enjoy her a lot! I'm proud of how far she's come. Also probably Caleb bc we knew so little about him at first that I didn't see how he could become a fan favorite for anyone. Then Hollow Mind happened and. You get it. OH WAIT LAST ANSWER FOR THIS- Camila! Not because I ever thought she was a bad mom but because I didn't think they'd give a parent character so much depth. I love what they did with her in seasons 2 and 3 so much

The character everyone else loves that I don’t: uhh maybe Belos?? In certain circles at least. Interesting guy but I don't have much fondness/affection for him, y'know? Or Alador. He's aight but clouds on the horizon made him a bit...flat, for me. Also this is less of a thing now but not too long ago BOSCHA oh my god. Ppl acting like the show not spending time on her was a failure like. Okay! Sure! Let's just say things now, ig! I much prefer what they did with her in ftf. It's not redemption exactly but it's acknowledgment that she's just a kid. A shitty kid but still

The character I love that everyone else hates: KIKIMORA MAN. I know I know I'm also mad they spent all of follies at the coven day parade building her up as potentially sympathetic only to steer away from that route again and again as if they changed their mind BUT. I fucking love this horrible fail creature. No backbone, no morals, no prospects, no bitches. Beefing with teenagers and exiled from her family home and place of business. Pathetic. Get her ass!!!

The character I used to love but don’t any longer: oh that's a complicated one. I know I also said she grew on me unexpectedly but the answer to this one might also be Amity. Not in the sense that I stopped liking her, but in the sense that other characters caught my attention more as time went on. Rip to Amity, still love u. I am just a Willow and Luz girlie

The character I would totally smooch: most of the women I am being real with you this show is overflowing with cute character designs

The character I’d want to be like: honestly? Eda. Yeah she's got problems and she's not the ideal mentor you'd expect but she's just such a cool confident older woman who doesn't let ppl control her life

The character I’d slap: I'd say Belos but that'd be too obvious (and rewarding). Instead imma say Boscha. This is not the right way to deal with highschool bullies but I do not care. This isn't about her. This is about me. And I wanna slap her just a wee bit. It's fine I'm not that much older than her I'm allowed to

A pairing that I love: sigh. Hubtlow

A pairing that I despise: b*schlow. Bully/victim ships I hate thee. Loathe thee, even. Also I definitely don't despise it but can I please stop getting l*nter jump scared. I don't go there let me out. Stop putting it on my feed

NOW FOR THE FROG SHOW AHAHA!!!

The first character I first fell in love with: unsure tbh! Maybe Polly but I know she definitely wasn't as violent/funny at the beginning of the series. Probably Anne or (depending on how fast I binged, I cannot remember) maybe Sasha

The character I never expected to love as much as I do now: Anne or Sasha I think! Both start off as like. Semi-unlikeable characters (Sasha more so than Anne), which I appreciate now in retrospect, but at the time I couldn't picture myself getting as invested in them as I got. Also. How would you guys feel if I said andrias (I DIDN'T WANNA LIKE HIM. EVEN WHEN HE WAS BEING A JOLLY GOOFBALL I KNEW THE OTHER SHOE HAD TO DROP AND I WAS PREPARED TO HATE HIM. AND THEN THEY INTRODUCED DARCY AND GAVE US THIS NEW DYNAMIC AND CONTEXT AND JUST. MAN!!!)

The character everyone else loves that I don’t: okay, it's not that I don't love her, but Marcy is definitely my least fav in the calamity trio. Again, not because I dislike her, I just like Anne and Sasha a lot more, y'know?

The character I love that everyone else hates: tbh I'm not in the fandom enough to know who is and isn't hated. Was Sasha ever hated? Maybe by some but idk

The character I used to love but don’t any longer: don't think this one really applies to anyone in amphibia? A weird one that kinda matches is I used to think valeriana was like. Mysterious and cool and then they didn't do much with her after the second temple and I was like. She's just kinda there now, huh?

The character I would totally smooch: IDK MAN THE SHOW IS 90% FROGS AND PRETEENS!!!! I AM NOT KISSING THEIR ASSES THEY ARE SLIMY (THE PRETEENS INCLUDED!)

The character I’d want to be like: again, 90% of them are frogs or preteens. Maybe Anne? I like how far she's come and how far she's still willing to go at the end, turning down ultimate power in the name of keeping the world safe and staying with the people she loves. Also I want cool anime powers /j

The character I’d slap: Sasha but only if it was s1-s2 Sasha bc I love her and I feel like she needs it. Girl. Get a grip

A pairing that I love: hehehe sashanne <3

A pairing that I despise: DON'T SHIP THE HUMAN GIRLS WITH FROGS. THAT FEELS LIKE THE EASIEST THING MAN!!!

[its-a-hil]

k time for our regularly scheduled sleepy oversharing time (answering all the questions from this ask game)

(1) Do you have freckles? nope ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

(2) Do you drink tea or coffee? How do you take it? sometimes i drink tea if im sick or chai socially but thats basically it. chocolate is the closest thing i have to a regular stimulant

(3) What was the last song you listened to? this lagtrain edit idk i really like just. semi-chaotic noise that sounds out of place and a bit incongruent. probably why i like pokeloid

(4) Do you sleep on your back, stomach or side? diagonalish but mostly on my side. i alternate sides though in fact i used to sleep on my stomach until i read a newspaper article that said a plurality of ppl sleep on their side and then i got scared and completely changed the way i sleep in like 6th grade in case you somehow needed more evidence im autistic

(5) Do you sleep with a stuffed animal? blåhaj!! !!! !!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i love her need to clean her though also i stream with my hello kitty velvet and i think that's kinda relevant

(6) Do you prefer drawing or writing? i like both but i am so so so much less bad at writing so that's more fulfilling i need to do both a lot more though ive been procrastinating a lot of tales of luminaria writing and art that i feel a compulsive need to make since the game was shuttered

(7) What’s your ideal number of blankets to sleep with? currently i sleep with blanket/comforter/blanket but i am still so so cold so i either need another blanket or one of them to be heated

(8) What’s your favorite band/artist? i mean there are a bunch that are all kinda at the same tier but i think inabakumori is at the top their vocaloids are just so. emotions

(9) When is your birthday? not gonna answer this but if you wanna check my bio every day for the next year until you see it flip to 23 i guess thats a thing you can do

(10) How tall are you? 178 cm (5'10") aka too tall please someone let me give you my height i dont fucking want it except in rock climbing it's useful for that but other than that the dysphoria is just not worth it hate hate hate

(11) What color are your eyes? brown, a bit darker than my skin but ive been complimented on my eyes by strangers more than like any part of my appearance combined so i am always confused like. theyre just my eyes! theyre pretty but only in the way that ppl eyes generally are idgi

(12) Who are five (or more) people you want to hug right now? i dont really want to hug anyone tbh like id be happy to hug a friend if they needed it but im just not feeling touch atm

(13) Fears? that samsara isnt real enough for me to defer all the experiences i dont want to miss out on to a different life also climate change also being at parties where im not super close with most of the people

(14) What’s your favorite color? the sky! i know everyone is probably tired of me saying it but i dont like the idea of picking one 'color' since that allows for so much variation, so i instead choose something that is constantly varying and always beautiful at every instant ive ever gazed upon it

(15) What’s your favorite season? summer summer summer summer summer summer summer summer summer summer summer summer summer summer summer summer summer summer please it's so cold i want to be able to feel warm when i go outside and not feel like im killing the planet when i consider turning the thermostat up a degree

(16) Want any tattoos? What of? oh i absolutely want tattoos definitely one for outer wilds (the hourglass twins), and id be open to the berseria title card with velvet's hair flowing into the letters i just think that game is neat

(17) Want any piercings? Where? im happy with my recent earlobe piercings but it would be desi as fuck to get a nose ring so that also sounds pretty cool

(18) Who is the last person you texted? my parents telling them im coming home from work

(19) Do you have a best friend? How long have you been friends? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ closest thing is probably my college roommate for 3 years but he went to grad school in a different state so ive barely seen him since

(20) What/who do you miss? oh well that's a question and a half i miss my ability to just get a crush and imagine cute and unrealistic fantasy stories where i went out with them now a combination of adult™ realism and the couple years i spent beating myself up for ever feeling romantic attraction have made doing both of those things so much harder so i just stick to projecting myself in established plots i mean its better than it was near the end of high school but. not as good as middle school when i actively loved going to bed just so i could imagine whatever i wanted in the hourish before i fell asleep

(21) How was your day today? tired. slept too early last night and thus the day had no sense of urgency and my head felt very bleh the entire time

(22) How much sleep did you get last night? 8 hours which is kinda the problem i function best with having had 9-10 hours two nights ago and 4-6 hours the night of and whenever i try to get a regular person sleep schedule™ it just makes me feel bad

(23) Do you believe in aliens? not like conspiracy theories or anything like that but. the universe is so BIG and we're finding so many planets that it feels impossible for there to not be life elsewhere also $20 europa has whales in it

(24) When was the last time you cried? Why? idk crying is hard and has barely ever happened since i felt bad about crying at a book in 6th grade and hammered it out of my brain. clearly my masking behaviors have never once been self destructive and i am an extraordinarily well adjusted girlie more recently my parents probably said something that made me feel bad and i semi-succeeded at crying in the shower and forgot about it the day after

(25) What’s your favorite decade? is it really possible for me to answer anything but the present? theres only been one decade where ive been a girl for part of it theres only been one decade where i fell in love with the sound of my voice theres only been one decade where i lived for myself and not for who i expected myself to be

(26) What are some seemingly childish things you like? i mean. i watch cartoons and eat sweets and enjoy going outside and getting distracted by everything i see there not sure what it means for something to be 'childish' tbh

(27) What’s your favorite book? Or just one you’ve read a few times? favorite book is the raven tower by ann leckie it's just. such a wonderful story in such a beautiful world that i feel like i was made for book ive read the most is probably son of neptune though, i know i spent a few months just kinda picking it up at a random page and rereading a few chapters every couple of days

(28) How are you, really? not answering this it's cliche and boring

(29) Does it take you a long time to make decisions? yes and no if a decision is right in front of me i'll make it fairly quickly if a decision is far away then i will procrastinate it to the point of absurdity ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

(30) What are you looking forward to in the near future? getting on injections! estrogen time :d

(31) What are you looking forward to in the distant future? 2024 eclipse!!!! !!!! !!!!!! !!!!!!!!! i know with how much im hyping it in my head it'll definitely be covered with clouds at the place i go to but i! do! not! care! the 2017 eclipse is the most beautiful thing i have ever seen in the entire world and i need to see it again

(32) If you could go anywhere right now, where would you go? i want to see the aurorae other than things like that im pretty comfortable sitting in my room, but the idea of viewing something so magical is just incredibly appealing

(33) Do you sleep with your door open or closed? closed otherwise my parents would see how messy my room is and the airflow would be wrong and its brighter in the hallway and just. no

(34) What’s your favorite flower? is it too cliche to say cherry blossom? i grew up near washington dc like going to see the cherry blossom festival is a part of my core identity

(35) Do you currently have a squish? not really but also my brain has a taboo against verbalizing any kind of attractive feelings so it's difficult to overcome that enough to process my thoughts without hating myself so i dont try

(36) Do you like your middle name? no it's just my dad's name, which already feels old-fashioned in indian terms let alone the fact that it sounds vaguely like a mildly off-putting (to me) phrase in english

(37) Do you prefer dogs or cats? i love seeing them both outside or in friends' homes and i am unlikely to ever adopt one so that's the extent of it

(38) Do you have any phobias? i dont think so

(39) Do you stay up late? not late enough

(40) Do you like the beach? Do you prefer it sunny or cloudy? a not-sunny beach is definitely cold so. yeah. the last beach ive been to was in gdynia though so i might be unfairly projecting how cold the baltic sea is onto other beaches that are reasonable temperatures

(41) What’s your favorite cartoon? if we're counting anime: bna if we're not: amphibia actually now that i think about it i need to rewatch kipo and the age of wonderbeasts that was good

(42) Tag 5 of your favorite blogs no

(43) Do you have siblings? How many? one older sister

(44) Who was the last person you said “I love you�� to? probably my parents

(45) Is there anyone you would die for? oh absolutely. loads. the more interesting question would be 'is there anyone you would kill for' and that is far far more difficult to answer

(46) What do you need when you’re sad? patience

(47) Have you memorized your phone number? ofc i have it has interesting math properties associated with it that i sadly cant say here bc saying all the properties, even in a relatively cryptic form, would narrow it down to like 10 options if someone knew my area code

(48) Who’s someone you can trust with your life? this question is ridiculous when cars exist. i have to trust pretty much every driver near me with my life whether im in a car or walking near a road so i dont view it as a particularly meaningful level of trust nor do i view my life as something particularly worth guarding so like. whatever, yknow? (note: this isnt a mental health thing it's a samsara thing dw) if this body dies it dies and i wouldnt want anyone i care about to feel responsible no matter what

(49) What does your last text say? already said it

(50) Wild Card. Any question, ask away. my favorite font is alegreya sc

[supercantaloupe]

okay. my review of That New Opera A Composition Student Wrote At My University. short version: SO GOOD! genuinely one of the best english language operas i’ve seen yet tbh. i think it could use a little polish here and there but the foundation is solid. the production was very workshop, so i forgive it for being a little rough around the edges in spots; i would love to see it get fully staged at some point!!

i think the story is nice for what it is, and it was clearly written with a lot of heart. i don’t think it’s anything particularly groundbreaking but it does its job well, and reasonably affecting. it’s not a comedy but it has a decent number of jokes which i always appreciate. the staging was of course sparse -- barely a set, just some tables/chairs/a couch moved around here and there and a projected backdrop -- but again, workshop production in a rehearsal hall. this did affect how easy it was to even the actors at times (especially if you sat even only a couple of rows back, or when the actors were sitting or on the floor); it’d be better if it was on a stage in a theater with raked seating. but even if i couldn’t get a seat up front, i am not complaining, because the room was PACKED! the show literally started late because the crew was squeezing in extra rows of chairs in the back to accommodate how many people showed up to watch. the show did not get that much advertisement (at least that i saw) so the fact that SO many people showed up to support the company and the composer is so heartwarming. seriously so many people brought flowers and the cheers and applause at the top of the show when the composer introduced himself were overwhelming, and there was a big standing ovation at the end...rightfully deserved!! i think there were a few spots where the singers were a little out of tune with the orchestra (again, workshop production, less-than-ideal-performance space) or where the music sounded just a little bit Off, but by and large the music was really nice. genuinely i wish there was a recording i could download and listen to. the recits/ariosos were engaging, the arias were lovely, and the real highlights were the group numbers. the standouts for me (in ascending order of preference) were the act i trio, Rest My Child, A Banquet in Honor of Abel, and We Will Build a Home (boy do i wish you guys could’ve heard them)....i will seriously be humming that last one for the next week straight i think. the music definitely feels modern but not at all dense or unapproachable; i can definitely hear influence from the realm of musical theater, especially in the arias. i’ve heard or played a few things from this student before now and i’ve liked his prior work but woow he’s good. especially his multi-part voice writing. i want to hear him write more for chamber voices, because he knows how to use voices together. the cast was good, if a little quiet and hard to hear sometimes (again, the hall was not helping them out, and supertitles would’ve been nice), and the musicians were great -- it’s can be so daunting to play new music like that and they did such a great job (also i’m biased bc they’re all my friends from orchestra lol. but they seriously did great).

anyway, give this comp student his master’s already, he deserves it for REAL. what an accomplishment!! genuinely so impressed at the work he and the rest of the company put into everything, and i think the work has real potential outside of tonight’s premiere. to start with i think the university really ought to fully stage it, give it a proper production with full lights, sets, costumes, theater, etc. multiple performances. the whole shebang. and gd it is so nice to hear a new opera (and one in english!) that actually sounds good, and has heart and soul and poetry, and loves what it is, and is made by people who obviously love what they’re doing

[jmtorres]

@rhyperographer the context of an ideal of a "right to garden" is that most legal/landlordly/HOA restrictions on residential gardening is bullshit like "you cannot grow a food garden (it's gauche)"??? or demands that grass be mowed short (resulting in limited ecosystems for... anything, including important pollinators). Tbh I would not trust a city council to identify "noxious weeds" if their lives depended on it, they're more likely to ban (common! native! edible!) stuff like dandelions as a "weed" because they think they're unsightly.

and like. I live in an area with high wildfire likelihood almost year-round, where fire abatement practices (clearing dry brush to a specific perimeter around your home) ARE a regularly discussed and enforced legal requirement and that has fuckall to do with gardening. By chance, my area also has very limited local laws or HOAs (due to being an unincorporated area full of strident individualists--apparently if you want more government, you go to Big Bear) so people can grow whatever the fuck they want, outside fire abatement clearance zone. There's not a cabin in these woods that doesn't have verdant greenery surrounding it.

frankly controlling the spread/sale of invasive species should be an import/export matter, not a fucking personal garden restriction, like don't let nurseries sell it if you don't want people to buy it??and as for "environmental hazards" idk, what, you don't believe in poison gardens? guess what MOST people prefer not to plant shit that's hazardous to their health, this is not a major issue.

to the extent that anything you brought up intersects with the idea of a "right to garden," it's much better addressed by education/public information campaigns. If you explain invasive species right, people will go ham murdering every instance they can find.

and honestly the only environmental protection law I think is relevant, you didn't bring up at all--that you can't uproot endangered species. Like saguaro. Did you know it's fully illegal to kill or even vandalize a saguaro? You have to get a permit to move one. So there, that's one caveat to right to garden: you can grow anything you want that doesn't interfere with conservation of protected species.

"restricted species lists" honestly kill the cop in your head

in my opinion it is essential to make a "right to garden" law that means no one can stop you from growing whatever you want in your yard.

I think it should even apply to renters so a landlord is required to allow you to have a garden

And I think this can become a reality

[darkfighterofblackshadowdeath]

Lately I've been wondering if I'm antisocial. I find the office culture at my job so strange. Most people seem to love being at the office. I was never a fan of commuting, so spending 1-1.5 hours every day to get to the office is not an ideal way to spend my time tbh. I wonder if I hated going to the office less if it was just 5 minutes away.

But then there's also this open door culture. I hate leaving my door open. It's noisy, it's distracting when people pass by and rooms never really warm up because all the warmth is going to the hallway.

People also have such little understanding for everyone who prefers to work from home. They complain a lot that allegedly not enough information is being passed around because they don't see each other that often. But we have ways to communicate. Just shoot someone a message. It's not that hard.

But what I find especially strange are boundaries or lack thereof. I'm not saying being friendly or even finding friends at your job is a bad thing by any means. But bringing your newborn child to the office while being on maternal leave is fucking weird. Are you just raising the next generation of workers? Am I the only one who thinks that's weird? You're on maternal leave. Stay the fuck away from work.

Also so many people are complaining they can no longer see their emails on their private phone. Calendar I can understand, but emails? I was pissed I had to use my private phone for 2FA. Fortunately I could just use free OTP which was already on my phone instead of downloading the Microsoft authenticator. I don't want to be reminded of work in my free time. So wtf would anyone want their work emails on their private phone? Stop working in your free time.

To my surprise I like company events even when they're outside of working hours. Like Christmas parties or a company BBQ. That's a type of bonding I can live with. But somehow it's considered rude not to be there even when you're on vacation??? I was asked why I wasn't at the Christmas party - apparently other people who were on vacation were there. I'm sorry??? I have better things to do when I'm on vacation. It's been two weeks since the party. How is this still on your mind?

It's like people are married to their jobs. It makes want to get to know them less. It's great that people don't hate their job, but imo they're taking it too far. I've talked with family about it and aside from my husband people disagree with me. I don't get it. Am I supposed to choose my job over my free time? It feels like sacrificing myself, so my colleagues like me more. But I don't really value my colleagues' opinion of me that much. I don't hate them. I just don't want to be surrounded by work when I don't have to be.

[leaving-anorexia-behind]

12/04/24

Yesterday evening I met with the clinical lead. I was straight to the point and asked if they would reconsider their decision with the 28- day notice. Apparently they feel my risks are just too high and reconsideration wasn't an option. I felt sad and disappointed, but relieved to have been given an answer.

In several ways I know I need to leave. I'm not progressing much and am losing my much cherished independence, the majority of the support workers don't have a clue on mental health yet alone EDs and I find myself getting increasingly frustrated with them. It's also not helped that I'm not receiving the treatment I should be.

That doesn't make leaving easy.

Afterall, I've been in this service since July 2019 and have good rapports with a few staff. I've made my room my sanctuary, have a routine and on the whole feel safe here. Most importantly, it's the only place (aside from IP) that has helped me manage my ED well enough to stay in the community.

Back to the meeting with the clinical lead. She said some strange things to me. For example; if my home team in Kent haven't found me somewhere to live within the 28 day notice, they may have to admit me to a medical ward to keep me safe... I found this bizarre given I'm medically fit and have no need for one.

I reminded her it may take a little time to find the right placement for me, she said that my home team should respect the 28- day notice. They're doing their best! The oddest comment she said was that I need a safer placement to keep me safe such as an EDU with a good psychiatrist. I am not in need of a bed so how she thinks I would be funded for one is beyond me.

I'm not sure if it's because I'm leaving or because nothing makes sense anymore, but I'm definitely disengaging (and so are some of the staff!). If I'm being honest it's making managing my ED really difficult and I'm struggling to remind myself the importance not to slip backwards.

I've decided that if my manager agrees to letting me work remotely (a massive ask I do realise), then I'll go to the rehab house in Kent. This is the ideal situation. If not, I'll move to a placement (preferably my own flat with support) near where I work. This option will take longer to find and tbh I just want to get the move over with so I can adjust.

[dreamofdawn]

Hi I saw your requests are open and since I’m new to this and I like your work I thought I’d ask for a simple hc with the luxiem boys and their ideal Christmas date?? If it’s too complicated you don’t have to do this, tbh I don’t know how I came up with this😅 ❤️🧡💛💙��🎄also I wish you Merry Christmas and a happy New Year 🎄🎄🎄

✧✧You ask and you shall receive✧✧

Main pairing: Luxiem x Reader/You (separately)

Au: none

Genre: fluff

Type: [HEADCANON], One shot, or Series

Characters: Vox Akuma, Ike Eveland, Shu Yamino, Mysta Rias, Luca Kaneshiro, Reader

A/n: Heyo! Merry Christmas and a happy new year to you too, and don't worry it wasn't complected at all. Thank you for the request and don't worry you will get used to this eventually!!

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Luxiem and their ideal Christmas date.

VOX AKUMA

A romantic night out in a restaurant

I see Vox taking to a restaurant after the Christmas party! Just imagine sitting on each end of the table with some candles lit and dinner being serve to both of you! Vox is very romantic so he'd like to take you out where the place is very romantic.

He could also take the dinner home, and by that I mean he would set up a table with candles with delicious food and some roses around the place.

Overall like I said Vox Akuma is very very romantic.

"I hope you enjoy this dinner my dear, and merry Christmas to you."

IKE EVELAND

A cafe! Ike would take you out for a cafe date for Christmas, because the atmosphere is so warm and cozy imagine just sitting there while taking a sip of your hot drink of choice with some desserts.

Ike loves the atmosphere in the cafe and especially loves it since his with you spending Christmas together!

Also he will bring some books so both of you can read together your favorite books or some novel he made.

Overall it's so wholesome.

"Älskling, thank you for spending this Christmas with me, merry Christmas."

SHU YAMINO

Shu Yamino would take you out for an ice skating date!

He doesn't know how to ice skate but his a fast learner! If you do know how he would love for you to teach him how to skate, if you don't then don't worry he would help you. (Although you both slip many many times.)

It was fun but romantic for both of you because you both managed to skate together. Overall very Sweet and fun.

"Spending this Christmas with you is the best thing that happened this year babe."

MYSTA RIAS

Mister Rias would like to just stay indoors with you!

He just like being with you so anything you would like to go, he would of course join you. But if you'd ask him, he wyjust like to stay indoors.

Imagine just sitting near the fireplace, all cozy up and maybe playing some games or watching some YouTube with snacks on the side.

Overall very cozy and warm.

"I know staying isn't really that much, but I hope that this will be a special Christmas to you love."

LUCA KANESHIRO

I think Luca would also take you out for a romantic dinner date, and after that he would take you out for a nice night walk.

He would take you to a very fancy and expensive restaurant, ordering your favorite food with lit candles and a very calm and romantic atmosphere. While waiting for your food both of you would talk about things.

After dinner he would take you to a nice walk, either in the park or just strolling around the city whatever you prefer.

At the end of the beautiful night he would cuddle you in your house while the fireplace is lit.

"I hope you enjoy this Christmas. This was a very POG date, thank you for spending this Christmas with me, honey."

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A/n: sorry its short and for any grammar mistakes.

[proudfreakmetarusonikku]

was about to go to bed when it hit me why I don’t personally think c!dream can be classified as morally grey and the reason is this- all the good and ideals he’s working towards he’s doing without the Knowledge or Consent of the people he’s trying to help, and therefore doing much more hurt.

because, to simplify things, a morally grey character is a character who can’t be fully defined as a hero or a villain. this includes anti-heroes and anti-villains, along with characters who genuinely don’t fall under either category. it’s not just, like, a catch all for anyone who isn’t cartoonishly good or evil, else it’d just be every character ever. even bowser shows love for his kids, and is a good boss and leader to his minions. should that be enough to classify bowser as morally grey? no, of course not. he can be sympathetic and likeable in certain entries, but you’re certainly not meant to look at him and question whether he’s Really That Bad.

now, c!dream is a much more complicated character than bowser, obviously, and he’s definitely not as card carrying a villain as him (though I think it’d be funny if he wanted to do that, I’d support him). but i’d argue he Also has done far too much willing harm to be in any sense Morally Debatable, and that’s again because his actions are done without Knowledge and Consent. no matter his goals, violating these things is traumatic in and of itself.

now, this could be of a debatable morality If c!Dream Had No Other Option- and this isn’t the case. because c!dream went Well Beyond anything necessary. even if he needed c!tommy to Not Interfere for a while in the case of exile, for instance, he could have done so many other things that were of lesser harm. he could have just. Asked. for one. if it was That Important to c!dream. c!tommy is a troublemaker, but he’s usually not a malicious one. failing that, he could have created some sort of distraction, or he could have been the one to leave the server. even if all that failed, conditioning and abusing c!tommy was blatantly unnecessary for any noble goal.

and what noble goal is worth such harm? I would argue that a Big Happy Family would not be worth the trauma. if you asked me if i’d be happier living life as it is now, or living a completely Peaceful life, but only after my home was destroyed, my friend abused, and myself horribly traumatised in a mock execution, i’d say i’d prefer what i’ve got now, and i imagine c!tubbo would too. but he was never asked, and put through immense amount of trauma for something that would ultimately not make him happier. same with… basically everyone on the server but maybe c!punz tbh. even if all of his actions were 100% necessary for a big happy family, and he was going to completely stop with the abuse and shit the second that happened, the harm would still vastly outweigh the good for most server members.

and there’s a caveat. it’s If he stopped- but who’s to say he would, if he thought these disproportionate solutions were necessary in the first place? what if he sees any perceived flaws in his ideal to need correction too? what if his big happy family isn’t so happy (because of the extreme trauma)? how would he resolve that? what if someone decided they didn’t want to be a part of this? would he let them leave? what if they didn’t want to leave their home? c!dream has Consistently responded with a disproportionate level of action to even Minor Threats before- why would he suddenly stop doing it? achieving your ideal isn’t exactly therapy.