#hyperro

[angeltism]

kinda sorta hate being hyperro because I will actually feel Empty if I do not have an outlet to give romantic love or am not receiving romantic love . like I love love !! in general !!! but my need for romance is so annoying like I can't just Force someone to want me :(

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Hyperromantic Symptesque Holder

[PT: Hyperromantic Symptesque Holder /End PT]

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Hyperromantic Symptesque Holder/Hyperrosínt: a symptesque holder subterm; an headmate who presents one or many hyperromantic symptoms when the system/plural/the body isn't hyperromantic.

Etymology: hyperromantic symptesque holder/hyperro(mantic), “sínt(oma)” spanish for symptom

not a gender, please don't tag as such ^^

@radiomogai

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[lexidius]

Welp, I guess I'm a... Demi-pansexual Hyperromantic Objectum then? That's... certainly a lot of syllables to remember.

So... demi community, I need some advice while I'm questioning my identity.

Pansexual here (28, they/them). I have a complex question about the demisexual spectrum, hyperromantic attraction and neurodivergence.

Is it possible to be both demi and hyperromantic at the same time?

Like... how do I describe this...

DISCUSSIONS OF 18+ TMI, NSFT SEXUALITY AND MENTAL HEALTH QUESTIONING BELOW. MINORS DNI.

I do experience sexual attraction and seek that out in a partner, especially if it's intimate and passionate and I get a good hard frenzied *ahem*, you know what, out of it. But... I also prioritize that emotional connection as the important factor in the relationship and the physical intimacy is a secondary thing. Still heavily important, but there's gotta be the emotional connection there otherwise I feel cheated out and not fully *ahem*, satisfied in bed. I can't really do casual hookups and feel averse to one night stands etc because it doesn't feel like there's any emotional intimacy in "a quick root". This a demi thing, right?

But on top of that... I also fall so hard and frequently for my friends, especially new friends, that... could I possibly consider it a heavily infatuated form of hyperromantic attraction? Is this something that can coexist with the demi spectrum?

Or am I just experiencing these attractions through a neurodivergent lense or something I'm diagnosed Autism/ADHD combo, but also questioning BPD and if these crushes fall under Favourite Person or not? Because like... once I feel rejected by that FP, or like the intense heavily-romanticized infatuation I have with the person comes to an end for whatever reason... the attraction to that person just... is that when a person splits from their FP? I'm not familiar with these terms, btw, so forgive if I'm using them wrong at all. But essentially... once I end up crushing on someone else, the former attractions to the previous crush fizzle out pretty quickly.

I want a long term relationship though, a deeply emotional and intimate romantic companionship that may involve physical sex, so if I do crush on someone heavily I tend to go in throwing my whole heart into it. Fearfully, sometimes, worrying that it's just a rebound, but if there's nobody around for me to feel that attraction to it's like I get this jaded aroflux thing going on. Until the next person comes along and it spikes again with the same intensity as before, and the yearning for love and commited relationship is like it never left.

So like... what do I call this? Is this like... Hyperromantic Neurodivergent Demisexuality? Is that a thing? Are those labels that are compatible with each other? Do they conflict and contradict each other? Is there some bigger umbrella term label that fits? I don't really feel comfortable with calling myself arospec, for some reason, but is it a form of arospec???

Help???

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[imoga-pride]

Hi, so I’m asexual and have been comfortable with it for like a year and a half. However, I keep changing my romantic labels. It always stays on the aromantic side though. I have been using greyromantic, but lately have been wondering if my “crushes” were actually just queer platonic or alterous.

So my question is, if you’re aroflux could that include feeling like you’re lithromantic one week and then greyromantic recipromantic the next? Or is there another term for feeling like your romantic orientation changes? Also, would this make sense for my not being able to tell if my “crushes” are actually crushes or just a combo of alterous, aesthetic, and sensual? And can my attraction towards the person change from me liking them romantically to not liking them, but then liking them again after xyz?

My last question, is aroflux technically under the greyromantic umbrella?

Sorry if any of this was confusing at all!

I believe aroflux includes all arospec identities, not just grey areas. It also means fluctuating in intensity of attraction. There's abroromantic, sometimes some distinguish the two as abroro includes alloromantic identities. But arospec terms don't exclude "alloromantic"/non-aromantic identities (e.g. demipanromantic). Aroflux can fluctuate to a black area/null state, dark grey and light gray. And for intensity, it can go to high (hyperro?/perissosro), low (hyporo?) and absolute (euromantic)/regular (alloro?/zedro?) attractions too.

Not sure if there's a fluitic/multi-attraction equivalent for crushes/squishes/etc.

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[bunga-reclaimed]

Hyperro just isnt a thing... hyperro is obviously based off of hypersexual which is a mental illness. Comparing really romantic to a mental illness that can ruin peoples lives is gross. Just say a character really likes romance

Im.. Literally hyperro due to mental illness. Please, please shut up.

[angeltism]

"uu need to learn how 2 move on" my man I am TRYING but it's kinda HARD when uu have to WAIT FOR TIME TO HEAL and I have nobun trying to KISS ME RN to HELP ME MOVE ON

[angeltism]

actually i think the fact people may not like you romantically doesnt take away that you are still precious to other people in many other ways so you should uhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm idk what to say fuck

uwaaaa thank you,, :(( idk my brain for some reason likes to go You Don't Have Someone Pining Over You At This Moment . 1000 Pain Forever And Ever . You Will Never Date Anyone Ever Again . Perish . but yea !! i'm happy i still have friends . friendly lil friends . sadly I'm just Ill I guess

[angeltism]

platonic pining feels so damn weird

[angeltism]

Can I not be hyperse. Can I just be hyperro. Please. I do not want this I mean I don't want either of these but at least it's more socially acceptable for me to post about wanting loooove. Less acceptable for me to post about ermmm. I shan't say.

[angeltism]

anyways ignoring hater mc haterface anon . actual goodnight . hyperromantics and hopeless romantics I love you and you're valid forever and ever . talk about love bc god knows the world needs more of it . gn <3

[angeltism]

haha oopsies sawrry that i keep rbing yearning stuff randomly . am i still hot ^_^

[angeltism]

someone should make out with me i think

[angeltism]

if I have nobody to make out with in 13 days I may actually lose my marbles

[angeltism]

the layout of the new editing blog is so kyute rargjfhjr . . . . if I were to actually use it I'm nawt sure if I'd want to keep it separate from here or nawt considering I'd be acting much more affectionate n such and I wouldn't want my perception from uu all to be altered . but also . kyute account I wanna share it rargrhrg