#hypergamytips

[misshyperglam]

💕 You deserve to be cherished and loved the right way

💕 You deserve to be taken care of

💕 You deserve to feel secure and protected

💕 You deserve a man who helps lighten your load

I get so many messages from women who feel like a relationship filled with what they DESERVE, makes them some kind of burden. Can you imagine?

Baby girl...

Your energy is in INFECTIOUS

Your love is GENEROUS

Your body is SACRED

Your womb creates LIFE

Your heart is WARMING

You are actually PRICELESS!

Don't let a dusty man bargain you down.

The very LEAST a man can do is honour you (and pick up the tab).

It's very simple. When you mope through life like you are less than, guess what type of experiences you're going to attract? I think It's time you start doing the opposite, don't you?

Stop romanticising the games that dusties play and settling for boys who are under-qualified for the role of men. If he's not doing the fore-mentioned he's a leech of your precious time and energy.

Stop thinking you owe men ANYTHING, or that you need to prove your self sufficiency by way of expecting and accepting less.

The right man is not going to waste your time, play games, and show up unprepared. The right man is not going to make you feel like a burden. The right man will recognise your value and your value as a woman. The right man is going to step up as a man because your respect as a Queen is important to him.

And that's on.. I Deserve (Momma Dee voice)

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[mademoisellehypergamy]

hello! i adore ur blog and what u preach so much, its really inspiring!! would u be willing to give advice for a wealthy woman who wants to spoil maybe a not so money affluent bf? he's really sweet and kind and i could see myself w him permanently in the future but im not sure how to introduce him to old money sort of events and the lifestyle ive grown up with! for context, my family is quite prestigious and we're well off but i want to be at my best with my bf and most feminine

My dear,

I say this with only pure love towards you: don't do it

With your family's background, your opportunities are endless. Don't do this to yourself, sis.

Drop the boyfriend, level up mentally, and date hypergamously only.

Men are notorious for using women to level up, and when they have money and power, they switch her out for a new girl who will enjoy all the luxuries.

Now, you are free to do whatever you desire, but know that my blog is a hypergamy blog for women. The advice I give is to help other women because I truly care about you all, and want you all to live the best life possible.

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[mademoisellehypergamy]

Which lesson should I release next?

Hi loves! 

Before I go off for Valentine’s Day weekend, I wanted to leave you all with another lesson. Please read through these lessons, and let me know which one you would like to be released this week. Please only choose one. You can do this by either commenting on this post, or go onto my blog and anonymously submit which lesson you would like through the “Ask” tab.

- “Wake Up” - A lesson on why women fail on their hypergamous journey, and how to avoid setbacks and achieve your goals.

- “Exposed” - A lesson on the femininity and hypergamy community, scam “coaches” and “gurus”, and how to develop yourself on your journey without wasting money and being scammed.

- “Age & Hypergamy” - A lesson on how your age plays a part in your journey. Whether you’re 19 years old and curious about hypergamy, or 37 years old and don’t even know where to begin, I will discuss how to maneuver hypergamy at any age. 

- “Sugaring vs. Hypergamy” - Although these two communities are entirely different, they do overlap in some areas. This lesson will be focused on which path is best for you, and how both communities can help you with your goals.

- “Persona” - This lesson will focus on how to create a new image/persona to help you date hypergamously. I’ll cover topics like reinventing your past, cultivating a new look, and deciding which image will be best for you.

Have a lovely week, loves ❤️

[spoiledblackgirls]

There’s nothing to chase, nothing to attract. It’s all you, already. Decide that this is your truth and start acting on it. The sooner you fully understand that you are that which you seek, the sooner you fully realize the version of the person you’re trying so hard to be. You are everything - literally. Your perception of what’s going on is what gives it its meaning so why not perceive all things as working in your favor? You are spoiled in every way! Step into the state & mindset of the woman who HAS IT ALL. It’s very possible! How would someone who has it all think about abundance? Love? Opportunities? Health? You are that. You are! ***** Join the party! Click on our instastory for polls, questions, & discussions on the daily. Make sure to also follow @spoiledblackgirls on Instagram & head over to our YouTube channel or click the link in our bio for more. . . . . . . . .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #levelupjourney #highvaluewoman #selflove #blackwomen #blackfemininity #hypergamylifestyle #relationships #levelup #highmaintenance #blackelegance #clubhouse #blackculture #glowup #luxurylifestyle #blackgirlmagic #blackluxury #hypergamous #femininewomen #goddessenergy #highstandards #hypergamytips #affirmations #blackgirlmanifesting #manifestation #lawofassumption #femininestyle #blackexplorepage #explorepage #spoiledgirlfriend #spoiledblackgirls (at Nobu Downtown) https://www.instagram.com/p/CKt7zAIFR7s/?igshid=6glsc1fks3gj

[spoiledblackgirls]

This a ✨Roley✨ not a stop watch, shxt don’t ever stop! There’s been some “minor” adjustments to the list (thanks Hurricane Ida! 🥴) but time will not be wasted whatsoever. What’s on your to do list for the month of September? ***** Join the party! Click on our instastory for polls, questions, & discussions on the daily. Make sure to also follow @spoiledblackgirls on Instagram & head over to our YouTube channel or click the link in our bio for more. . . . . . . . .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #levelupjourney #highvaluewoman #luxuryliving #blackwomen #blackfemininity #blackqueen #relationships #nofilter #highmaintenance #blackelegance #instagood #blackculture #brownskin #luxurylifestyle #blackgirlmagic #blackluxury #hypergamous #femininewomen #goddessenergy #highstandards #hypergamytips #affirmations #blackgirlmanifesting #princesstreatment #melaninpoppin #buyblack #blackexplorepage #spoiledprincess #spoiledgirlfriend #spoiledblackgirls (at Brooklyn, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CTXtl9lpn3y/?utm_medium=tumblr

[spoiledblackgirls]

Girl, some guys think that it is such a compliment to their struggle love story to finally bestow upon a woman marriage and/or a relationship after years of neglect, unfaithfulness and mind games. DO NOT LET THAT BE YOU! You are not a back burner bae! Stop underestimating a man’s power to decide on what he wants. He’s not “confused”. He’s not “going through so much right now”. He’s not “waiting for the right time”. He’s looking for access to better! Girl, if I have to shake some sense into you I will. You deserve to be more than a placeholder! More often than not when a man leaves and comes back, it’s because he tried to get access to the girl he really wanted and got DENIED. You know this, so why do you keep making excuses? It’s an ego blow, I get it, but it should be even more of an insult to you to allow some guy to SETTLE on you. (“Well she was always around and there for me even when I treated her like gum under my shoe.. isn’t she dreamy?” - said no one ever) Where they do that at?? That’s not the mentality of a Spoiled Black Girl. You are a prize! And I don’t mean consolation. You are that shiny gold trophy that people train fervently and practice for. You are never to wait around for a man, and if he takes you and your efforts for granted take his ass to the curb because he is trash and for the streets! 🚮 Basura! ***** Join the party! Click on our instastory for polls, questions, & discussions on the daily. Make sure to also follow @spoiledblackgirls on Instagram & head over to our YouTube channel or click the link in our bio for more. . . . . . . . .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #levelupjourney #highvaluewoman #selflove #blackwomen #blackfemininity #hypergamylifestyle #relationships #levelup #highmaintenance #blackelegance #divinefeminine #blackculture #glowup #luxurylifestyle #blackgirlmagic #blackluxury #hypergamous #femininewomen #goddessenergy #highstandards #hypergamytips #coaching #manifesting #manifestation #manifestingcoach #femininestyle #blackexplorepage #explorepage #spoiledgirlfriend #spoiledblackgirls (at Atlanta, Georgia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CHqMyqQF4R3/?igshid=1iws3fgsvvejj

[spoiledblackgirls]

There’s a war on black women and it starts with a constant attack on how she feels about herself. The pride and joy a black woman expresses in journey, accomplishments and material wealth is often met with disgust and repugnance (distaste or objection) from the masses - including her own peers. There almost immediately always follows the attempt to “humble” her back into whatever level of confidence they deem appropriate and claim that her pride is offensive and unbecoming. Ladies, do not allow ANYONE, not even yourself, to humble you into a version of you that doesn’t take pride in who you are or feels ashamed for progressing. Whether you’re posting about your new car, talking about a promotion you’ve received or if you’re just excited about getting another degree, it is possible for you to be fully appreciative and proud. Humility is an act of self-neglect used to shame ourselves into mediocrity, low importance or subservience. FOH! We don’t do that ‘round here. ***** Join the party! Click on our instastory for polls, questions, & discussions on the daily. Make sure to also follow @spoiledblackgirls on Instagram & head over to our YouTube channel or click the link in our bio for more. . . . . . . . .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #levelupjourney #highvaluewoman #selflove #blackwomen #blackfemininity #hypergamylifestyle #relationships #levelup #highmaintenance #blackelegance #divinefeminine #blackculture #glowup #luxurylifestyle #blackgirlmagic #blackluxury #hypergamous #femininewomen #goddessenergy #highstandards #hypergamytips #coaching #manifesting #manifestation #manifestingcoach #femininestyle #blackexplorepage #explorepage #spoiledgirlfriend #spoiledblackgirls (at London, United Kingdom) https://www.instagram.com/p/CHiw_HRlGWl/?igshid=1s0spiq6hq210

[spoiledblackgirls]

Girl, I know you not about to pay for that!? *sips tea and stares in black girl judgment*

What are some other things we won’t be paying for?

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Join the party! Click on our instastory for polls, questions, & discussions on the daily. Make sure to also follow @spoiledblackgirls on Instagram & head over to our YouTube channel or click the link in our bio for more.

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[spoiledblackgirls]

Listen, don’t be saying that nobody’s mama is down in the gutter, chile, but when you say something always stand on it! Even it it’s a promise you made to yourself. You said that you eat healthier? You said what you said! You said that you weren’t settling for low value experiences? You said what you said! You said you’d get out of your comfort zone & take more risks this year? You said what you said! Take ownership of the things that come from your mouth and hold yourself accountable against others and even your own thoughts and habits. Persist in the vision that you have for yourself, don’t backpedal! You said what you said, right? So that’s what it’s gonna be. PERIOD(T). ***** Join the party! Click on our instastory for polls, questions, & discussions on the daily. Make sure to also follow @spoiledblackgirls on Instagram & head over to our YouTube channel or click the link in our bio for more. . . . . . . . .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #levelupjourney #highvaluewoman #selflove #blackwomen #blackfemininity #hypergamylifestyle #relationships #levelup #highmaintenance #blackelegance #clubhouse #blackculture #glowup #luxurylifestyle #blackgirlmagic #blackluxury #hypergamous #femininewomen #goddessenergy #highstandards #hypergamytips #affirmations #blackgirlmanifesting #manifestation #lawofassumption #femininestyle #blackexplorepage #explorepage #spoiledgirlfriend #spoiledblackgirls (at Atlanta, Georgia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CMR2sXdlf5n/?igshid=1wtxotj1jpj3l

[spoiledblackgirls]

We heard that if you said these everyday they would activate your inner Spoiled Black Girl, but that’s just what we heard. It’s not about them, it’s about you. Who are you in relation to what you want? You’re irresistible, that’s what. It must come to you. Push those tits up and stand up straight. It’s your world, baby girl! ***** Join the party! Click on our instastory for polls, questions, & discussions on the daily. Make sure to also follow @spoiledblackgirls on Instagram & head over to our YouTube channel or click the link in our bio for more. . . . . . . . .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #levelupjourney #highvaluewoman #selflove #blackwomen #blackfemininity #hypergamylifestyle #relationships #levelup #highmaintenance #blackelegance #divinefeminine #blackculture #glowup #luxurylifestyle #blackgirlmagic #blackluxury #hypergamous #femininewomen #goddessenergy #highstandards #hypergamytips #manifesting #manifestation #manifestingcoach #femininestyle #blackexplorepage #explorepage #spoiledgirlfriend #spoiledblackgirls #affirmations (at Atlanta, Georgia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CJK1UKiFMP0/?igshid=ygqzqgmr57iz

[spoiledblackgirls]

Agree or disagree? ***** Join the party! Click on our instastory for polls, questions, & discussions on the daily. Make sure to also follow @spoiledblackgirls on Instagram & head over www.spoiledblackgirls.com or click the link in our bio for more. . . . . . . . .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #levelupjourney #highvaluewoman #selflove #blackwomen #blackfemininity #hypergamylifestyle #relationships #levelup #highmaintenance #blackelegance #divinefeminine #blackculture #glowup #luxurylifestyle #blackgirlmagic #blackluxury #hypergamous #femininewomen #goddessenergy #highstandards #hypergamytips #coaching #manifesting #manifestation #manifestingcoach #femininestyle #blackexplorepage #explorepage #spoiledgirlfriend #spoiledblackgirls (at Calabasas, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CHbWLHDFEyP/?igshid=1cz0zpxgkoj3b

[spoiledblackgirls]

Ain’t nobody dope as me, I’m just so fresh & clean 🤍 ***** Join the party! Click on our instastory for polls, questions, & discussions on the daily. Make sure to also follow @spoiledblackgirls on Instagram & head over to our YouTube channel or click the link in our bio for more. . . . . . . . .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #levelupjourney #highvaluewoman #luxuryliving #blackwomen #blackfemininity #blackqueen #relationships #nofilter #highmaintenance #blackelegance #blackgirltiktok #blackculture #blackluxurytiktok #luxurylifestyle #blackgirlmagic #blackluxury #hypergamous #femininewomen #goddessenergy #highstandards #hypergamytips #affirmations #blackgirlmanifesting #princesstreatment #melaninpoppin #buyblack #blackexplorepage #spoiledprincess #spoiledgirlfriend #spoiledblackgirls (at Atlanta, Georgia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CTImO9DFRVE/?utm_medium=tumblr

[spoiledblackgirls]

Ew, what a turn off. Definitely not husband material 🤢 Do you want a man that knows how to cool? Would you prefer him in the kitchen, barefoot & pregnant? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ***** ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Join the party! Click on our instastory for polls, questions, & discussions on the daily. Make sure to also follow @spoiledblackgirls on Instagram & head over to our YouTube channel or click the link in our bio for more. . . . . . . . .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #levelupjourney #highvaluewoman #selflove #blackwomen #blackfemininity #hypergamylifestyle #relationships #levelup #highmaintenance #blackelegance #clubhouse #blackculture #glowup #luxurylifestyle #blackgirlmagic #blackluxury #hypergamous #femininewomen #goddessenergy #highstandards #hypergamytips #affirmations #blackgirlmanifesting #manifestation #lawofassumption #femininestyle #blackexplorepage #explorepage #spoiledgirlfriend #spoiledblackgirls (at Houston, Texas) https://www.instagram.com/p/CMQae75F09V/?igshid=1smmewlxeug5g

[spoiledblackgirls]

Girl, some guys think that it is such a compliment to their struggle love story to finally bestow upon a woman marriage and/or a relationship after years of neglect, unfaithfulness and mind games. DO NOT LET THAT BE YOU! You are not a back burner bae! Stop underestimating a man’s power to decide on what he wants. He’s not “confused”. He’s not “going through so much right now”. He’s not “waiting for the right time”. He’s looking for access to better! Girl, if I have to shake some sense into you I will. You deserve to be more than a placeholder! More often than not when a man leaves and comes back, it’s because he tried to get access to the girl he really wanted and got DENIED. You know this, so why do you keep making excuses? It’s an ego blow, I get it, but it should be even more of an insult to you to allow some guy to SETTLE on you. (“Well she was always around and there for me even when I treated her like gum under my shoe.. isn’t she dreamy?” - said no one ever) Where they do that at?? That’s not the mentality of a Spoiled Black Girl. You are a prize! And I don’t mean consolation. You are that shiny gold trophy that people train fervently and practice for. You are never to wait around for a man, and if he takes you and your efforts for granted take his ass to the curb because he is trash and for the streets! 🚮 Basura! ***** Join the party! Click on our instastory for polls, questions, & discussions on the daily. Make sure to also follow @spoiledblackgirls on Instagram & head over to our YouTube channel or click the link in our bio for more. . . . . . . . .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #levelupjourney #highvaluewoman #selflove #blackwomen #blackfemininity #hypergamylifestyle #relationships #levelup #highmaintenance #blackelegance #divinefeminine #blackculture #glowup #luxurylifestyle #blackgirlmagic #blackluxury #hypergamous #femininewomen #goddessenergy #highstandards #hypergamytips #coaching #manifesting #manifestation #manifestingcoach #femininestyle #blackexplorepage #explorepage #spoiledgirlfriend #spoiledblackgirls (at Atlanta, Georgia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CHqMnnJlkTX/?igshid=1bqfnm3erbb20

[spoiledblackgirls]

What’s all the fuss about Lori Harvey & how does her dating history compare to Rihanna’s? Are these women even hypergamous?! This is your chance to find out! Tune in this Tuesday at 8PM EST on The Spoiled Black Girls Club on #Clubhouse! ***** Join the party! Click on our instastory for polls, questions, & discussions on the daily. Make sure to also follow @spoiledblackgirls on Instagram & head over to our YouTube channel or click the link in our bio for more. . . . . . . . .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #levelupjourney #highvaluewoman #selflove #blackwomen #blackfemininity #hypergamylifestyle #relationships #levelup #highmaintenance #blackelegance #divinefeminine #blackculture #glowup #luxurylifestyle #blackgirlmagic #blackluxury #hypergamous #femininewomen #goddessenergy #highstandards #hypergamytips #LoriHarvey #manifesting #manifestation #Rihanna #femininestyle #blackexplorepage #spoiledgirlfriend #spoiledblackgirls https://www.instagram.com/p/CKKcGL_lqiWuS8CXPYg_ZwEX1orzSrVtTtPoFc0/?igshid=nb5jiqcaviyh

[spoiledblackgirls]

Save yourself the energy, honey. I’m sure there are much better ways to use your lips. ***** Join the party! Click on our instastory for polls, questions, & discussions on the daily. Make sure to also follow @spoiledblackgirls on Instagram & head over to our YouTube channel or click the link in our bio for more. . . . . . . . .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #levelupjourney #highvaluewoman #selflove #blackwomen #blackfemininity #hypergamylifestyle #relationships #levelup #highmaintenance #blackelegance #divinefeminine #blackculture #glowup #luxurylifestyle #blackgirlmagic #blackluxury #hypergamous #femininewomen #goddessenergy #highstandards #hypergamytips #coaching #manifesting #manifestation #manifestingcoach #femininestyle #blackexplorepage #explorepage #spoiledgirlfriend #spoiledblackgirls https://www.instagram.com/p/CKPUA-Ul53G/?igshid=11dg9ujbjjucn