#hopefully helpful

[foldingfittedsheets]

is it somewhat common to feel kind of grossed out by yourself after turbating?

not gross bc of secretions but rather grossed out by the act of it in the aftermath?

I’m trying to figure out how to phrase this properly, because Im pretty sure this isnt what most people feel

I don’t think it’s a guilt or a shame thing either?

And i didnt think it was related to my asexuality? Since im on the more sex-neutral to sex-positive side of the spectrum

Idk, Ive sort of lost my focus

I just feel regret after i get off usually and i never know if what i feel about things is typical or not and you’re the resident turbating specialist (/silly) so i thought i’d ask

However, i understand if you elect to ignore this ask due to no clear question or if ive phrased things so poorly as to be unwittingly disrespectful (if that is the case, i apologize /gen)

There’s a lot that could be going on here. Internalized feelings about sex in general, asexuality manifesting in a way you didn’t consider before, or possibly a dopamine crash.

There’s some folks who experience a huge downswing in mood after sexual activity and it’s a topic you can find out more about. It doesn’t have a known cause but I’ve personally found it affects me more if I haven’t been sleeping well, if I’m not hydrated, or I’m very stressed in general.

[enby-dressmaker]

Didn't want to hijack someone else's post that was just a joke, but in all seriousness, if you feel like you're correcting autocorrect more than it corrects you, editing your dictionary to include slang or uncommon words that you use in your day-to-day life might help.

Some examples of other words (besides aromantic) that I added on my phone:

Allo (as in short for allosexual or alloromantic)

Boop

Cishet (as in cisgender and heterosexual/heteroromantic)

Nonbinary (spelled as one word, as opposed to "non binary" or "non-binary")

Quagsire (the Pokémon species)

Reblogged

Stimming (for some reason "stim" was fine though)

Zofran (brand name of a medication I'm on)

In many cases on a computer, and I believe on android phones as well, you can right click or long press on a word that's been flagged as wrong and it will give you an "add to dictionary" option

On an iphone, you can fix it in settings under general > keyboards > text replacement. This will bring up a list of words already set up as shortcuts or added to the dictionary. Press the + on the top right. Type the word/phrase you want to add in the "phrase" field and leave the "shortcut" field blank. (You can also use the shortcut field to create abbreviations that will be automatically translated when you type them, or to add corrections that your phone doesn't do by default. For example, I don't spend a lot of time talking about fir trees but I accidentally type "fir" when I mean "for" all the time, so I set my phone to correct "fir" to "for" unless I specifically tell it not to)

[fourbirdsinahoodie]

Yes, I am tired. Why? I'm currently using all of my energy to keep my psyche in a state where I do not break down. No, I cannot (activity).

Wrote this a while ago, hope this helps!

[ghosty-busta]

Ghost, I can't believe it... no one likes my drawings... I try hard to be good so no one sees it... when other artists post something... it gets 200 likes or even more..

I think... No one really likes me...

I feel so abandoned...

All I can really recommend for this is, don’t give up!

You are a developing artist and that is admirable, I think if you just keep on, you’ll get to having alot of likes

Hell, I don’t even get that many likes, highest I’ve gotten so far is like- 74? Not giving up though

Stay strong, your art is good :))

Plus, if it helps, usually the more fandom media you post, it’s more likely to get likes more than ocs- as sad as it is

[frogkunlit]

A Database of Curiosities: A Hyouka Literature Review

Hyouka is my favourite anime of 2012. It’s also the anime that introduced me to the blogsphere at large. For various reasons, I hold it close to my heart. So, as a tribute both to this series and to the excellent bloggers who have poured their time and energy into writing about it in detail, I’ve decided to write a post that analyses, well, other people’s analysis. Continue reading Untitled

[potatopep]

so far the download links are computer only + apple phone but this seems very useful

Tumblr is doing some stupid AI shit so go to blog settings > Visibility > Prevent third-party sharing.

[macdenlover]

it came to my realization that 99% of my fandom related headaches would be cured if everyone understood this

[oatmealspet]

Over 800 TAG members marched on Netflix & delivered a petition demanding the AMPTP keep #animation jobs #union, agree to AI protections & more. Show the AMPTP that you #standwithanimation. Sign your name next to the people that make the shows you love.

[aur0raaura]

Yknow what- you're so right...

[black-quadrant]

on my knees begging you to please look up “squick” if you don’t know it and help bring it back to fandom space by using it. it’s a valuable word we’re missing that through normalizing could solve some of the more prevalent communication issues.

[nowaytoheaven2]

Also look out for anyone calling themselves Natsarim.

119 ministries is a big group for this so watch out for them.

Another big thing is instisting that only they, who uphold the Saturday "Sabbath" (Not sure if you can use that word in that context), will be saved in the rapture.

Many of them will also be really weird about circumcision? Like really weird, discuss it all the time kind of weird.

Some I have met insist on praying in the direction of Isreal and wearing head coverings when praying...

Weirdly a lot of them are also young earth creationist and flat earthers.

Propaganda about the "Pagan Feast" such as Christmas/easter/Halloween etc.

Not Jewish btw, just ex messianic.

What are some things you look out for to make sure you’re not accidentally engaging with Messianic resources? We’re working on putting together a quick guide for folks unsure of the red flags.

[fourbirdsinahoodie]

fOr ThE tRoLlS

cOnSuMe MeDiA fRoM tHe 90S! tHe 00S! tHe 10S! cOnSuMe OlDeR mEdIa!! MuSiC eSpEcIaLlY fEeLs MoRe Me WhEn It'S oLdEr.

[vocabulary-altering-posts]

CHARACTER ADDED TO PARTY!

[my-autism-adhd-blog]

Hygiene as an Autistic and ADHDer

A.J’s Brain

[naomigojo]

self moodboard

search up on pinterest : lyrics, color, character, place, outfit, and aesthetic.

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