#hinted at transphobia

[butchdykekondraki]

okay well fuck me for trying to talk about being queer with my fellow queers I Fucking Guess lmao

[steakout-05]

i think there is a very special category of "most dense mfer in the world" for people irl who somehow misgender me (and continue to misgender me) despite me wearing multiple layers of men's clothing, cutting my hair short, not shaving, binding my chest and wearing a very visible and big he/him pin on my bag. disrespectfully: how the actual hell did you fuck up that badly.

[uncanny-tranny]

I've seen some trans people who are almost in this doomerist mindset about cis people ever respecting or loving them, and I understand what that feels like and I understand where they're coming from. I remember, though, just how many cis people I know who are not only capable of respecting and loving trans people, but do so enthusiastically, and it really just makes me remember that transphobia isn't inherent to being cis. Cis people are entirely capable of learning and growing and allowing trans people into their worlds. There are always going to be those cis people who aren't at that point and might never be, but that is on them, not their cisness.

I think this small shift in viewpoint has helped me reframe my emotions about this topic. It's helpful for me to be able to take a step back and remember that being cis isn't a reason for people to not accept trans people, you know?

[opossumanon]

woke up and went "lemme check my tumblr real quick" and found a radfem following me.

her url had "wombyn" in it

one of her most recent posts was a terrible-looking strawman character of a trans woman with a chicken (the meat that you can find in the store, the whole thing, but not a living chicken) on her crotch meant to represent a penis and testes and shit and having her with terrible makeup and bad hair while crying "Please call me a woman" with a bunch of "pretty" (cis) women telling her "No"

Radfems are fucking disgusting, like genuinely gross and creepy. If any radfems followed me and I somehow didn't notice then yall need to gtfo now.

[maxisanangrywell]

Winter's Heart

Jessie still remembers the first time she walked over the frozen lake. How it cracked beneath her feet, and instead of it freezing further like it did with her brother's touch, how it melted instead. The cracking and groan of ice, before she fell through to the freezing water below. She remembers how her brother had scrambled to help, pulled her out of the water onto the land, crying out for their mother.

She remembers it all. The worried lines in her brother and father's face as her mother pushed through, taking her into her motherly embrace with a soft smile. She had laughed, pushed the wet hair from her daughter's eyes and kissed her forehead. The clouds cleared, sun shone, and Jessie had felt warmth. The bone chilling freeze, had lifted so quickly, and she felt so warm, she fell fast asleep in her mother's arms, listening to her father laugh, and felt brother's silent stare.

She doesn't know when it happened. The screaming. She just knows that since she was a child her parents had fought. The wind howled and picked up with her father's wrath. Dust devils that they once had played in now turned into violent clouds, whirling and destroying anything in their way. Her mother brought the moon with her cries. Jessie was left to herd her siblings, Jack, Dawson and Danielle into the storm shelter as she braved her way to the altar.

She would watch as the two tore themselves apart. She watched in detail how the glasses would shatter. The beautiful chalices celebrating each momentous occasion starting to crack with each hurl of hail, each gust of wind. The darkness made it impossible to catch before they fell. One by one, ruby chalices fell off the altar, ground into nothing but dust and anguish.

Jessie doesn't remember much. She's the embodiment of Spring. She has to help somehow. That's all she remembers thinking. Naivety, childish. But good hearted. She should have turned, and should have comforted her siblings in the storm shelter. But her parents, what would happen to them if she didn't stop the arguing? The altar would be ripped from the ground, and then? What would happen next?

So she cries out, pleading with the deities that formed her. Why? She cries, begging for a glimpse of sight into what made them so angry. To see if she could fix it. Only the tender age of eleven, and already trying to be a healer. She had been one unknowingly since she was 6, but she hardly remembers it.

The Gods turn to her, and focus their attention. The child is watching. Her mother would say, but her mother and father's anger persisted. The tornado would leave, but as would her Father. The morning would rise as her father returned, but it was always tense. Always unsteady. The atmosphere too humid, too thick to truly breathe in that sigh of relief she craved.

She would be lying if she had said there were no good parts. There had been. Simply too many few and far between. Of course, mother and father would blame her absence for it. She often sought comfort in the Primordial beings that controlled the Void. She spent more and more time there.

One day, at the tender age of 15, she was outcast. Her father's tornadoes and hail, the ones she was weary but admired turned on her. The very things she tried to study, threatened to consume her. Leave her for dead. She felt a shift, had been feeling it for years. Now, threatened with her father's yells and mother's tears, she felt herself truly snap. The air turned frigid, and she felt herself scream. The very foundation shook and crumbled. Her chalice gifted to her slammed off the shelf, broken and cut her arms.

She had returned to the Void, the Rulers had laughed until they saw the wounds upon her arm. They turned onto her parents, but it was too late. Spring fell into Winter. Everything shifted. Her brother that was Winter, forced to adapt. He is now Spring. They didn't visit Jessie often, too afraid of her frigid temperatures, her growing blizzards. Afraid of what their parents would say.

Years pass, and the apologies taste rancid in her mouth. The Void is pushy, and she must apologize to the Gods who smirk. Wasn't it fun, pretending to be an adult, Spring? Her father grins. It's too wide. Too happy. Happy without her, happy without Winter in their lives, fucking it up. She's broken, shattered. Jessie forces a smile, nodding. She doesn't trust herself to speak. How can she? For years she had been told to be quiet. For years she was put on the burner.

There's no apologies for her, but she must apologize for her transgressions. She's the child. She's the one constantly in the wrong. She's the problem. She manipulates people into believing lies. She's the pagan heretic coming to destroy their family built upon honesty. She screams, telling them their altar is misplaced. Their light does not shine on every corner of their kingdom as they claim. They are LIARS. They don't deserve her.

She's forced to apologize. She feels horrible. Constantly dragged into their orbit when she begs to be set free. Communication between them is less, but not as much as it should be. She screams, and shouts, and her Gods mock her. Now, she suffers in silence, with anger brewing inside. The pressure hissing like boiling water in a kettle. She can feel herself winding up like a toy, about to pop about to scream.

She falls.

The joyous Spring now turned to eternal Winter. Threatening to freeze anyone who goes near. Cold, windy. Violent. Like the man who had raised her. Complacent. Like the woman who stayed. Broken. Like the girl who tried too hard to catch the chalices that fell.

She doesn't want to be this way. She's told by the stars above that she is kind, sweet and caring. But how can she be when every time she looks in a mirror she sees the amalgamation of all her father's anger. The negligence of the Gods who had promised to watch her, protect her, then never showed up at all. We were busy! Her Gods scream. We were trying to work the harvest, to provide for you. She understands, but to Jessie it won't ease that hurt. Won't ease the fact that the Gods had shown up at Jack's first prayer. To Danielle's breakfast. To Dawson's aid when he cried out.

Jessie was left alone. Like she had always been. She was strong, she suffered through and prevailed. But she was constantly looking through the blur of wind and snow. Trying to grasp onto any light with scrabbling hands as it faded out because she grabbed onto it too quickly, or held on for too long and tight. So now, she doesn't even walk towards the light. Turning the other way. It's better this way. She says to herself. Being lonely isn't bad all the time. She longs for something to be a part of, to love and be loved in return.

It won't happen. People say they love Winter, but do they? They don't like the ice she brings. The kind where they slip and break bones. They hate the frost, call it annoying. They hate the snow. It's never the right texture to do what they want. Never enough to build a fort, or it's too much. Too watery, or won't pack together for a good snowball. Most of all, it's too cold. It causes joints to inflame. Noses to burn, and people to shiver.

People say they love Winter, they love Jessie. She tries to show them the beauty in the frost. The intricate and elegant designs rival the lace that lined her mother's wedding dress. She tries to show them the ice. How they could fish even still, or skate upon it and play games. She tries to show them how to keep warm. She's good, kind.

Then blizzards come. Light gets low, until it's extinguished altogether. It hurts each time. She's gotten better, doesn't hold the light too close. She doesn't try to save it anymore. She knows it's a lost cause. No one stays after apologies.

She sits, at the lake. Her toes touching the water. She watches it ripple. It doesn't freeze. Not immediately. She sighs, looks up at the Stars. They beckon her to join them. She longs for it. Wants it more than anything. But she turns away. She wants to build an altar of her own. Maybe that would fix her. If she has an altar, if she grows her own harvest.

She looks up at the Stars, and she feels herself melt. Just slightly. Her heart flutters, and she feels a small warmth. She stands, and she uses the water to build a bridge. A Star reaches out, and their fingers brush against each other. She smiles, her eyes wide, reaching for something she always thought was unattainable.

[dead-inside-demiboy]

Accidently stumbled upon a detransition rad fem account (didn't interact, just blocked them) but my reaction to their main take was just like

Account: Taking masculinizing hrt can potentially harm a female body really bad because it does permanent changes to your body and there is potential for permanent harm that would still exist even after you stop.

Me: yea that's a fair point, you should read the risks and do the research, to make sure you know what you're getting into and that you're sure beforehand. Also doctors should do more trans research cause our current knowledge isn't the bes-

Account: And that is why hrt should be completely banned for all afab people and also if you want to take testosterone or are currently taking it as an afab you're anti feminist and hate women :)

Me: wait what the fuck

Account: also trans men are just masc lesbian girls, you're pretending to be a man cause it makes dating women easier. You should just let yourself be a queer woman and stop taking those nasty hormones :>

Me: ....

[coridallasmultipass]

I am once again begging online shop payment processing companies to allow me to enter a separate name for shipping and separate name for billing!!

It's the same address, I'm just trans and have not legally changed my personal name, but I still prefer to receive mail as my preferred name! Like it's literally my professional name, I do business as my preferred name.

Annoying as fuck, and I don't want to chance my bank rejecting the payment (though I'm sure someone at my bank has put a note to allow it on my account by now, since I've contacted them a couple times before when I realized too late that the billing section didn't let me input another "address/name" section, and they said the payment was fine in those cases.)

Anyway, legal name changes should be free and non-advertised for everyone. Tbh, you should get a free name change every time you file your taxes on time as an incentive for good citizen behaviour. Once I am elected pres-

[1eos]

it really pisses me off that any attempts to discuss how misogyny statistically leads to violence against women at the hands of men and then defended by everyone brainwashed by patriarchy regardless of gender (re: mothers protecting sons who assault their partners) is immediately derailed by mras claiming it's terf rhetoric???? trans women are part of the women facing the violence what the fuck are you talking abt? it boggles the mind that half the time when ppl are trying to 'combat' transmisogyny they're fucking being transmisogynistic

[st4rkissedwebz]

Ols!Founder [priest] tried to force charlie to grow out his hair because 'thats not what he is suppose to looks like'

[dreamquestofunknownkadath]

There was this post I saw a while back whose general gist was something along the lines of “Autistic men totally have it way worse than autistic women because there’s no female equivalent of the ‘neckbeard basement dweller’ stereotype!’,” a statement that is absolutely baffling to me because…were you on the Internet in the early tens at all? 

The Making Fun of Awkward Nerds Industrial Complex absolutely did not spare women in the slightest. You could go onto the image boards, or encyclopedia dramatica, or later on, reddit, and find hundreds of posts and articles and threads mocking female nerds for being “cringe,” having interests like anime and cosplay, lacking social skills, and, because the extra layer of misogyny was at play here, the ultimate crime a woman can commit, being fat, “ugly,” or otherwise unattractive to the people mocking them… many of whom were fat awkward (male) nerds lacking in social skills themselves, because that was just the nature of the userbase of these sites. Have you never heard the name “Pixiteri”? 

To refute OP’s point more literally, yes, there was a female equivalent to “neckbeard,” and it was “hambeast.” Yeah. And all of this was just what was directed at cis women— not even touching on the profound transmisogyny that permeated these spaces. 

[aroacedavestrider]

Trans women talking about misogyny doesn’t mean they hate trans men, cry harder to ur terf friends

good job dipshit youve successfully demonstrated to the class what the strawman fallacy is. how is it that youre able to recognize that trans women talking about transmisogyny isnt an attack on trans men but not vice versa

you really gotta be plugging your ears and ignoring the shit out of trans men if you think that anybody with a brain is arguing what youre accusing us of lmao. which lemme check my Transandromisia List, oh shit

talking over us, erasure of our experiences, purposeful misconstruing to make us out as the Bad Guys (thats you!)

calling us terfs and grouping us in with actual dangerous oppressors (also you!)

othering us in some us vs. them type bullshit (you did that!)

dogg i dunno how to tell you this but youre an s-tier example of why trans men are fed up to the point where theres a brand sparkly new movement that pisses you off. maybe youre pressed cause were trying to dismantle the oppression olympics and you think youre winning. too bad sunshine, nobodys a fucking winner when it comes to any flavor of transphobia. pull your head out of your terminally online ass and go interact with somebody. go think about why trans men discussing their struggles is such a fucking issue for you

[dead-or-lie]

🌙 for Mikan, Gundham, Kaede, Celestia, and Hajime

“Papa was just like all the others..just another one my bullies..he hated me just like everyone else..I don’t care for him..” she pauses before squeaking. “I-I..m-maybe I went overboard..”

“Ark! Such a sinful demon who should be eradicated from this world entirely!! Have done the ultimate sins and has no rightful power to do so! Despicable creature he is!”

“Oh! I haven’t talked to father in so long! I should talk to him soon! He is really great! He and mom bought my first piano and whenever I fell asleep after playing he would carry me upstairs to bed. Sweet huh?”

“Hm. Father is quite impressive. He is oversees in his home of France doing this noble duties. Haven’t seen him in quite some time as he was usually busy. Perhaps soon I shall call..” ..Mostly a lie naturally.

“I gotta be honest..I’m pretty distant with him. He and mom probably think I’m dead by this point..well..we weren’t close. He wasn’t as rough as mom was, but still pretty strict. Always called me by the wrong name which was..annoying. Can’t say I’m eager to see them..ever.”

[cosmicdenro]

it should be needless to say but nobody's going to kill you if you've got cishet hcs on characters but if you're transphobic you can suck my dick and you're going to get loads of trans RHM n Reg hcs and art from me 😋

[x-neurotoxin-x]

Can you rank some MHA characters in order from the most likely misgendering Dabi/Touya to the ones who would absolutely never do that according to your headcanons? Common list for trans Dabi and regular Dabi, but write how you exactly see these interactions.

*Both intentional and accidental misgendering counts.

Oh geez... Im gonna make some people mad, ain't I?

Putting this under a cut. These are hcs, not canon, not a personal attack on your faves, just my personal hcs and y'all can take em or leave em

Not really ranking since that's too complicated so in no real order

Majority of heroes/cops/etc are a give away for likely to misgender him. Looking mostly at Gran Torino since he legit deadnamed Big Sis Mag in canon. That wrinkly old geezer.

Endeavor would say he's supportive (mostly bc Touya started transitioning young and Enji wanted a boy anyway) but he'd misgender him "on accident" or when he's mad. Or when he's projecting Rei onto him. Good ol' "you look just like your mother" "You remind me so much of her" etc etc

Rei straight up calls him a girl when she's having an episode. Pry Bad Mom Rei hcs from my cold dead hands. I have mommy issues.

Hawks maybe wouldn't straight up misgender him (depending on hcs/ship concepts) but he'd femininize him for sure. Those dead dove toxic dabihawks concepts though? Yeah, for sure.

Tomura 50/50. A chill Tomura protrayal that's closer to fanon Tomura, no, never and he'd kill somebody if they did. But the fucky nasty Tomura that i like in toxic shigadabi concepts? 100% would misgender him and probably do some forced feminization shit, threaten to out him, blame it on All For One's influence, etc. I've been real, real into fucked up Shigaraki.

All For One and Ujiko, yeah, also would misgender him from time to time, but they also gave him top surgery.

Wanna say the majority of the league wouldn't, but I like when sleazy Giran portrayals femininize him. So like it's a toss up.

A while ago on a writing server with some homies we talked about Dabiten with Trans Dabi and Geten outting him through posting a sex tape and then Spinner fucking up Geten bc he was quirkist to him so he already hated him on top of being a dick to Dabi, and for spinnerdabi in general. <33 but yeah. Geten. I could see him misgendering him.

I wanna say the majority of the todosibs would respect pronouns and all but some might forget/accidently misgender him, mostly like Fuyumi and Natsuo since Shouto probably didn't know him before he came out.

[butchladymaria]

Sorry Percy but you can’t say the post and especially people in the notes of it are lesbophobic when it isn’t and just think people are gonna believe everything you said like that without explaining a bit. Don't make up things not nice for the people in the notes

But i understood you don’t wanna look at it. You right it’s better not to if it make you uncomfortable.

if you do not recognize this as both blatant undisguised lesbophobia AND transphobia, it is 10000% your problem. i am out of patience. get out of my inbox.

[fslurusami]

this is kind of nitpicking but i saw somebody say "ienaga might have done gender affirming surgeries on herself" 1st of all none of those were invented in 1907. 2nd of all its not only dangerous but extremely difficult for someone to preform surgeries on themself, ienaga has common sense and wouldnt be preforming cosmetic procedures on herself like that. and 3rd of all you can literally see her flat chest and cock outline on a manga page. do you hate women with big dicks and small tits