#hes also an asshole (affectionate)
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I don’t understand it when people say that Carrie was also the problem bc she was anxiously attached bc like …. maybe she had a moment or two but for the most part it was absolutely Big being such a selfish prick and then justifying it w “ohhh I have commitment issues bc my last marriage fell through” umm ur a 45 year old BABY actually
#and like at every turn Big was so awful to her and she would justify it w “I’m also the problem”#Girl no#like when he refused to show her in public for the longest time#Or when he literally dropped a bomb that he was going to Paris out of NOWHERE#Refusing to meet her friends#Talking to her on his schedule and his schedule only#Being like “I wanna do things at my own pace” okay but that’s not how a relationship comprising two ppl works#And then marrying a brown eyed brunette socialite#The antithesis of Carrie#Was a transparently bad Big moment in the show but still#The show treads around in circles w regards to how to view Big#Bc they obviously wanna paint him as an unhealthy avoidant and also downright selfish asshole#But they also wanna be like “he’s j too scared to give her the keys to his house bc of his other relationships”#Like he literally played her like a FIDDLE#only to have them end up together ????? I will never understand that ending#I think it’s such weak writing#In real life avoidant men who also don’t want u that much won’t end up w u I fear#I don’t really understand the narrative weighing Carrie w the responsibility of adjusting to Big’s “trauma” and fixing him#He did that for her maybe once in the show but even when he’s being affectionate to her it comes from#A selfish place#Like he wants her attention or wants sex or whatevs like it’s never bc he’s truly in love w Carrie
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12AM late night danyal al ghul propaganda to consider (that is funny to me): this little brat being meaAN. nice twin danyal al ghul: great, fun, we love opposite twins. wonder where he's learning that kindness from, but it's a good dichotomy! but also mean danny fenton. this little shit can make an adult CRY. he is on par with Damian for most venomous barbs. he is a smarmy little motherfucker. he's nice to his people and HIS people only. everyone else can screw off for all he cares - he's gotta learn to care about other people. his canon sarcasm and wit goes from level 2 to level 10. he is a sarcastic, smarmy, witty little asshole and i could go on but the idea of danny fenton being a mean little menace to people is very very fun and amusing to me
#dpxdc#dp x dc#danny fenton is not the ghost king#dpxdc crossover#dpdc#danyal al ghul au#because then it means *I* get to explore how he obtains specific traits from canon while also staying true to that 'mean' characterization#exploration of personality traits and how they can be conveyed in different ways#how does this little jerk (affectionate) become similar enough to his canon self to the point where he's still recognizable but not a copy#also morally grey danny fenton whose actually like. on the darker side of morally grey and isnt just#'lightly grey shaded but only to the “bad” people'#because again see above ^^ exploration of personality traits and how he obtains specific canon traits and how they manifest differently#danny fenton with the orange-blue morality#and he never really STOPS being mean to people either he just mellows out. but he will swing at a hornet's nest with a metal bat#him and damian being remarkably similar but still individual to themselves#asshole with a heart of gold danny is what im saying#this isnt a super serious take im just having fun#if someone comes at him. like if you bare your teeth at him he's going for the throat immediately#'they go low i go lowER' also consider: mean danyal al ghul being a menace to vlad masters#late night starry posts that they think are funny#creating multifaceted characters comes with realizing that you need to treat your characters like people and realize that they will react#differently to situations depending on what it is and who they’re with/who its about#the ‘jokester kinda annoying’ character is never going to be joking and annoying all the time. what happens if someone they love gets hurt?#or they’re put in a situation where they realize they need to be serious? what makes them cry? what makes them angry?#what is a character like beyond the little trope label they’ve been shoved behind?#thats just an example but its one that helped me quickly understand characterization better
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All I have to say is that as a Tonkla fan, I just keep winning.
#SAMMON LET ME KISS YOU#WHAT AN EPISODE HOLY SHIT#I am ECSTATIC right now nobody touch me#we only got him for 5 seconds again this ep but it was the best part of the episode so I don't care in the slightest#it will only go downhill from here :D#Also special thanks to Bible for giving me the Great of my DREAMS#He was SUCH an asshole (affectionate)#keep up the energy king <3#4 minutes#tonkla 4 minutes
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“Of course you have an Other Brother,” he says, waving off her denial as he opens some nearby cabinets. “Who else would I be if I wasn’t?”
Small WIP sketch of the Other Brother from IDKSomethingClever99’s fic “Mari in the Pink Palace”!!! OMORI and Coraline are my two biggest interests ever so this fic was like winning the lottery for me. Not to mention how good it is… please go read it ragh
#omori#omori au#omori sunny#coraline#this fic cured my artblock and writing block partially too is there anything it can’t do#Idksomethingclever99 what are you PUTTING in this thing it’s like a drug in the best way possible#Anyway this is a really lazy and terrible other brother design… I had so many other ideas for his outfit#I had wanted to keep the bug motifs the other mother has in her outfit as well as referencing the recital#Cause. You know#mari’s perfect world#Where he gets good at the violin lmao…#But I got lazy so here was a very simplified design I made#Fingers yearned for rest couldn’t draw complicated ideas I had…#Anyways anyways love this fic#So much#god#i fucking love how mewo is portrayed too#She’s like a weary mother trying to give some tough love to her kids landkrk#She’s such an asshole but I say that affectionately#Not to mention the fact that she didn’t info dump like the cat did in coralline to mari because she was more focused on getting her home-#-and safe from the beldam than actually telling her what he was doing… christttt#And yes I will still call him the beldam#Them??? Idk djdjdjej#I also love how all the other friends are gahhhh… I can’t WAIT to see their other forms when mari’s getting the eyes#Fun fact this drawing was originally meant to be a redraw of that one scene with the cocobugs#Since it’s super pretty and I wanted to draw it#But it’s not in the fic yet (next chapter I think?) and the author takes a lot of creative liberties which I LOVE so I wanna read the scene#First before attempting to draw it#But I really hope they lean into the uncanniness of Sunny of all people surrounding himself with bug imagery#Since that goes against what mari knows about him a LOT and will further cement that something is NOT RIGHT with this guy
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this arc has me clawing at the walls istg
#phantom rider arc my beloved#phantom rider sonic is my favorite thing actually#he’s such an asshole and it’s amazing#and i’m eating up tails and amy working together#i love that duo so much. they’re so funny#grabbing mimic by the throat and throwing him off a building /affectionate#also surge and kit experiencing praise for the first time. ough those poor kids#idw sonic#idw sonic spoilers
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Spider David moment cause I was thinking about him ❤
#what a sick fuck /affectionate#dhmis#two of us au#two of us!red#two of us!david#spider David#murder#spider David usually keeps his victims alive as long as possible while he turns them into puppets sohe really does think he's being merciful#the magnus archives#tma#comic#art#doodle#he has a very complicated relationship with being kind to people#as in he is desperately lonely but is also *physically* addicted to serving god that's feeds on fear torture manipulation#he's in so deep that trying to be less of an asshole would literally kill him
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The fact that no one has asked about kankri is surprising
So kankri for bingo
#ask game#ever since ive started writing the ultkri au and his backstory ive become more and more obsessed with him#that bastard *affectionate*#“he was a bootlicker of opressive system” no he is a VICTIM of an opressive system hes a mutantblood the lowest of the low#how do you think he was treated on beforus bc for sure it wasnt pretty#just like with karkat and him fantasizing about proving himself to be useful to the empire so he wont get culled#he as well was trying to reason with why he was treated the way he was and WANTING to be accepted by the society#the only way he thought he could was to kiss ass like omfg#also being stuck as 18-19 ghost for thousands of years will do shit to your psyche#i highly believe all the alpha trolls werent such a fucking assholes when they were alive but being frozen in time#and stuck with the same people in the same environments for millenia will make you a little bit of a dick#doesnt change the fact that yeah he IS a shithead and his opinions ARE wrong#but he also WAS a victim of oppression and those two statements can coexist together#rant over LMFAO
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Hi I saw another post basically saying "how can you stand jiang cheng" and there are literally so many reasons in my humble opinion but I'm gonna attach ss of other people reasoning why (aka I can't be bothered to rewrite it when someone else already did it right)
He was a fucking boy thrown into politics and was hurt. If he hated wwx sm and was so selfish why didn't he land the final blow to wwx. Either at the BM or on the edge???
He had multiple chances to kill wwx after reincarnation too. Mo Xuanyu's body wouldn't have been able to defend well against Jiang Cheng.
As far as just killing demonic cultivators, I'm pretty sure we lack direct characterization with that claim. It's hearsay at beat, if I remember correctly.
Yeah he was an asshole for taking anger out on other people. But it's also not like he found a random person and went "you're the current whipping boy tysm"
Some people are just assholes, I can't really defend him here.
Of course, there are reasons. Despite how flimsy wwx's status was, Jiang cheng was given an inferiority complex because of his parents comparing him to wwx. He went through a fucking war. Where he, at one point, was ready to die because he trusted wwx to take care of jyl. (Special mention of the core transfer and then wwx making the wen brat eat his own skin. That was fucked, but creative. WWX would definitely be a theatre kid)
If he was so awful, how could JL defend him so readily and earnestly?? Why would he spend so long w/o assistance to get wwx out of the cave, knowing he might have been dead???
Thank you for coming to my random tedtalk about how even though JC did some kinda shit things from wwx pov, he wasn't free to do what he wanted. (I wish I had the ao3 comment name) (sorry for not tagging the tumblr users, but you did get credit)
#jiang cheng#hes an asshole#but credit where credits due#HE ALSO REBUILT LP#RIGHT AFTER A WAR AND DID SO FUCKING WELL THAT JL COULD THROW MONEY AT SPIRITUAL NETS#hes a hard man#made from hard times#(and wen qing)#(and/or lxc and/or nhs)#hes a brat#(affectionate)
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Junior Investigators + Villains in this picrew because I needed something to do while procrastinating at work
#the lack of sunglasses in this picrew... heinous. nanami needs her asshole sunglasses#it's just kareem and a punch of pale ass mfers.. poor guy#also yes i know i fucked up the eyeshine on angelina i could not be bothered to go back and remake her. cope#nobody question how valentine grew a whole luscious mane of hair in like four months. he got extensions or something idk#sims 4#ts4#legacy challenge#sims 4 legacy#cash legacy#pocket change#aphrodite cash#valentine cash#nanami ito#allie wallace#angelina wang#kareem thomas#allie wallace my beloved... literally top 10 characters who could do no wrong#u just know she's read homestuck#but i mean that affectionately
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yo what. first you made me struggle and work for you at 80 pity then you're just gonna obediently come home??? right after you JUST came home??? fuck you.
#honkai star rail#honkai blade#honkai star rail blade#also yes high i play star rail#wtf at 0 pity??? HE'S AN ASSHOLE (affectionately)#i have nowhere to post this i'm still in disbelief
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unflattering photo for the cat who bullied me by sticking his whole ass tail in my mouth.
#asshole (affectionate) (deragatory) (there's fur on my tongue)#i was telling him i love him!!!! i was singing his praises!!!!! and he BETRAYED ME!!!!!!!#also just went through my camera roll to move photos into my album that's just my two idiots and there are.#1256 photos and videos in that album. and all of the photos are under 2 years old.#bc i started the album when i first moved out.#lmaoooo#anka the banshee#shh ac
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i dont know if i ever shared this story but washing my hair and thinking of my dad reminded me of it
when my dad died, he had his hair pretty long and in a ponytail and we asked for his ponytail to be cut so we could save his hair
it might seem weird and it hasnt been done in my family before in my knowledge but we all consented to his hair being cut and it wouldnt have been something he opposed
when his funeral was coming up i was debating cutting my hair the same way, just forming a ponytail and having my cousin cut it but before the funeral when i was messaging my cousin to ask her, i felt a warm tingling pressure on the top of my head
i dont know if i believe in ghosts and never physically interacted with ghosts (i guess you could say ive "felt" them before, like feeling a towering but gentle male presence in my grandmas house that matched with her father's description) but ive never physically seen apparitions or heard voices or felt touches
it felt like my dad was placing his hand on my head and it was so weird and comforting that i decided not to cut my hair and only once that thought crossed my mind and i deleted the message to my cousin was when the sensation stopped
call it a hallucination brought on by grief or a supernatural occurrence but it definitely sticks with me now and id like to believe it really was my dad telling me not to cut my hair for his sake
#also in the same week#i had gone out by myself at night to smoke and was just chilling#then i hear my dads voice say 'ross' like so fucking clearly from the direction of the cars#like it was so vivid that i stopped everything and started going towards the cars#but then i was like 'wait. could be an sw' (shapeshifting spirit not a sex worker) and just quickly went inside#im not native but considering i live in america and am superstitious im always gonna be wary of the spirits here#also hence why i dont say the name out of fear of summoning one#that was crazy i still have no explanation for that#it was like 1am no one was outside but me#my dad wouldnt have blamed me for not investigating if it was him#he hated when my mom told him about her personal ghost encounters#he was just really freaked out by it#what an asshole honestly being freaked out by ghosts but doing that to me#he prolly laughed too#dickhead (affectionate)
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not that this means anything to anyone but v4 (yellow) I'm rly proud of finally fucking getting at the gym today its taken me 3 visits over the last 3 weeks to nail it. woof......
#the start is NASTY i do it with one foot crammed in the top corner of the right semicircular one and wedge my hands as firmly as i can-#backwards against the top of the other dual tex on the left n push until i can reach the middle n bring my left foot up..#lemme tell u now. those starting holds are higher off the ground than u think 😵💫 theyre above hip height for me#dual tex is slippery hard plastic rather than the usual sandpapery texture of indoor holds btw. see the light reflecting off it? yeah.#fucking death trap for sweaty or chalky hands but in order to use the top of the volume later u 100% need chalk#so i have to start without it n chalk up halfway#also im relatively short (for a climber.. not short generally lol) so i cant reach the volume w both feet secure. was giving me hell 😭#cuz it means i have to put my whole weight on a CURVED DUALTEX SURFACE!!!!! theres not even rly any good spots to smear#so scary. and yeah the finish is a pain without crazy reach too i had to get a whole elbow on top of the black volume before i could#on my like 4th? try today i got one hand on the final hold and my friend watching said out loud wouldnt it be sooo annoying if u fell rn#and i slipped just as he fucking said that bc he put the idea in my head but luckily JUST caught myself w a smear. ASSHOLE (affectionate)#i need to get someone to film me doing it next week i wanna start recording stuff so i can see what i need to work on#n also remember things im proud of getting!!!!#this is my 3rd v4 at this one gym i think.. theyre a little softer abt grading tho i only have 1 v4 under my belt at the other one#some truly disgusting v3s today too. someone got a great pic of me grimacing on one bc i only got one hand to the top#ill fully send it next week my legs were just killing me by that point n theres some weird twists n pushes u have to do#but so close...argh!#anyway damn its wayyy past my bedtime and i have to be up for work in 6 hours 🙃 gonna shower and zonk out gooooodnight#.diaries
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I judge aloof loner male characters based on how funny they are on meta level vs how annoying their fandom is to me
#empty thoughts#Like Sahed for eg loser ass dumbass (affectionate) i adore him so much#And the only fandom of his i interact with is my beloved mutual <3 so this guy is a fucking winner#(though i dont know if he counts as aloof.#Like he does keep is his distant from others but also more of a smug bastard? Than reserved?)#On the other hand Keith loser asshole (derogatory) literally a self insert and not funny at all#And his fanbase is annoying. God it is so bloody annoying#Bottom of the list
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okay but Dexstar being Guy’s pet cat that he saved from some sort of experimentation that discolored his fur and now let’s him transform into a saber tooth like giant cat
#he’s a major cat dad but no one knows because he has a reputation to keep up so he hides it#and Dex is a little asshole but also the most affectionate cat#he may or may not have eaten one of the made men but that’s fine#crime syndicate au#tough guy 💚
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i think i finally put my finger on what bugs me about saying that ougi wants to make araragi alone
because like, she doesn't. not exactly
in the owarimonogatari light novel (and in the anime!) she's genuinely disgusted when araragi mentions he had no friends back in freshman year. this is not the reaction of someone who wants someone to be all alone forever
there's nuance to it, i think-- in owari when araragi says he's going to wait for kanbaru, she responds: "so you're counting on being saved by others?"
recall her words in the avant of kabuki: "people think they're being watched by god when they're going under these streetlights" (when really they're not totally free from danger)
under that philosophy, putting all your eggs in the basket that someone will show up for you is too hopeful. what if no one ends up showing up? then you'd be sitting there helpless. better to learn how to stand on your own two feet before you wait for someone to pull you to them. that's what i think the idea is: "you can't always rely on the people around you, so it's best to be able to rely on yourself if you need to." being able to help yourself, in other words
of course, asking for help could be a form of self help. but just don't bank on it, is what ougi suggests here. (and not even that adamantly i might add. she's not pushing for it very hard-- this is just one point in her criticism, not the whole itinerary. which is why it confuses me when people say getting him to be alone is her goal. because it's really not)
the tsukimonogatari scene is a little different-- ougi criticizes him for relying on a "little girl" (ononoki, whom she knows is not truly a "little girl"), calling it pathetic. i think the ethos is ultimately the same here: "really? putting your problems on a little girl? why don't you learn some self-sufficiency and take care of it yourself?" araragi relies on people a lot, so it's only natural that it would be a recurring point of criticism for ougi. i think the "little girl" thing might either be to rhetorically make araragi's reliance more of a heavy thing-- corpse dolls might not be bothered as much by the weight of your problems as a little girl would. perhaps it calls attention to the idea that oddities changed based on how they are perceived-- calling ononoki a little girl makes her seem just a little more incapable, a little less able to deal with araragi's issue. or perhaps it's to produce more of a sting when ononoki designates herself clearly as a monster to araragi, create more of a rift between them (that she admits she is hoping for). but it's not clear cut, and i'd have to rewatch tsukimonogatari probably to be more sure
either way, the through line still seems to be "don't count on other people or god to help you. do it yourself." which isn't exactly bad, but again since araragi relies on people a lot, ougi criticizes him more for it, and also is just overly critical in general, so it starts to become pushing him away from his friends as a result of that. but my point is it's not "isolate yourself" for the sake of it, it's isolate yourself so you know you can help yourself by yourself
which of course would make hanekawa and meme's appearances in ougi dark all the more baffling to her. she'd been trying to get araragi to not count on a miracle, but because he decided to stay open to one, one actually did happen.
#there's more i could say here#about how ougi is generally aware that this isn't even the most correct or best way of thinking a lot of the time#the convo in kabuki goes “don't cross the street if you don't want to face danger” “but you could get hit on the sidewalk tho”#“yes that is true. but someone should point it out anyway”#ougi is generally there to serve as an adversarial force and is perfectly aware of this#i'm reminded of what araragi says in zoku-- that he (and by extension ougi) tilts at windmills#referring to romanticized or idealized fights that are not actually real or important#and its kind of funny and sweet like.#ougi going “yeah actually we need MORE assholes and critics in this world. we dont have enough”#that's really silly (affectionate)#i think no one does it like them anyway so they're right but in a different way#we dont need more assholes and critics we need more ougis who will be thoughtful and self aware about their assholery and criticism#and also like. important to acknowledge that ougi does genuinely care about the betterment of the world. like a lot#just saying#ougiposting#oshino ougi#monogatari
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