#has been emailing / texting me

[thelaurenshippen]

oh! also! while we're on the subject of pride month and Damien and A Neon Darkness, that character of course would be NOTHING without the incredible voice behind him - Charlie Ian. the audiobook of AND is sO GOOD CHARLIE IS SO GOOD and also Charlie is a trans woman and uses she/her pronouns and she and I both thought people might like to know that!!!!

[carcarrot]

well that was a shortlived good feeling about my job

[dashingwishes]

I have an interview tomorrow for some reason I don’t feel like going at all like my energy is so drained.

[mildmayfoxe]

hahaha hey you guys guess what. you'll never believe it. got the guy who's in charge of my fraud case on the phone and he was like "who'd you give one-time security codes to yesterday" and i was like "the guy who called me from the fraud department after they noticed a weird login in florida??" and he was like "that was the fuckin hacker. you got got. IDIOT!!!!!!!!!!" i handed my entire savings over to a fucking guy on the phone on a silver platter. like some kind of fuckin rube. bro

[i-mode]

idk where else to go twitter sucks bluesky sucks. Why cant i just have a diary for my friends to read Urgh

[knifegremliin]

hey do you guys want to see the new fucked up cat i bought off ebay

[salsflore]

everyday i wake up and have to start a new boss challenge called dealing with my mother

[robertsbarbie]

okay officially not going to my weird ass five year high school reunion, because i am “officially” shooting my first concert that night :)

[pkbeamgamma]

resisting the urge to yell and cuss out my landlord

[izzy-b-hands]

today should be a t break day

bc I'll need it to be more effective in the coming days if we see family, and then I'll have the survey shifts

but since late last night i keep randomly nearly breaking into tears and thinking abt the stupidest shit that needs to stay in the box in my brain

so idk. maybe it will be. it is thus far. but I'm not leaving my room without a container of some edible or another in my pocket either

[thenightisland]

my impulse decision for the night was to just pay off my student loans out of spite which means i will wake up sometime in the next couple months to a news story about the sweeping student loan forgiveness they tried to give us a couple years ago going into effect bc that would be my luck

[hua-fei-hua]

at church reading the hymn lyrics like "hey i learned that word from genshin!" and "hey i learned that word from genshin!" and "hey i learned that word from translating song lyrics so that i could write genshin fic!" and "hey i learned that word from genshin!" and finally "omg i learned that word from the king's avatar"

[goingtothebes]

literally the worst day. thee worst day. the worst day. i have canned wine and good mythical morning and enough weed to kill a large grasslands animal though.

[bugmistake]

ive gotta. get it together a little bit i think. holy shit i really did not mean for the tags to get THAT long

[dummerjan]

haunted by so many unreplied messages

[fortes-fortuna-iogurtum]

ANYWAY people aren't a commodity, they're unique precious individuals who deserve to be loved and cared for, and that means that we shouldn't treat them like a product to be used and then thrown out AND THAT INCLUDES FRIENDSHIPS.

people talk a lot about how our society doesn't acknowledge the pain of "friendship breakups" and it's TRUE and it's because we tend to treat interpersonal relationships like business transactions or, worse, like subscription streaming services that we just discontinue whenever we don't feel like paying the money to watch those particular shows anymore. because no!!! relationships with other human beings aren't subscriptions that we pay into for their presence in our lives!!! that's objectification of living breathing people and it's WRONG!!!!

you DO have to invest in your friendships, that's very true, and sometimes relationships break because one party or another wasn't respecting the terms of the relationship (this means that boundaries do exist and sometimes if someone is hurting you in ways that simply aren't acceptable you have to move away from that relationship). but in our modern age it's really easy to see relationships of all sorts, especially friendships, as only existing for what you can get out of them. how they make you feel. and that's really bad and harms everyone involved, including the person buying into the lie that those friendships exist for what they can get out of them.