#grievingdaughter

[sineadshinelight]

When grief comes to us suddenly and unexpectedly it can take the ground from under our feet? Whether it be a parent, friend or child When someone we love ends their life, it can feel like nothing makes sense anymore. How is it they couldn’t see all the love, life and promise in, and surrounding them? How could they leave us? What did we do wrong? What should we have done? When you lose your child, you lose the future you were helping them work towards. They were the future which would continue far beyond ours. Death comes to us all, but generally we expect to die before our children Grief can turn everything on its head, so it’s no wonder the future can appear so scary Beliefs we held before, can be turned on their heads. Things that helped us feel safe previously may now be useless If grief has made your world feel scary, be kind to yourself as you navigate the new world you live in You are not alone in this ⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #griefshare #healing #loveneverdies #grievingdaughter #sayinggoodbye #widowsofinstagram #griefandloss #griefprocess #lifeafterloss #healingjourney #grieving #griefsucks #losingaparent #griefrecovery #grievingmother #mentalhealthmatters #lossmama #childloss #saytheirnames #youarenotalone #lifeandloss #griefwork #grievingprocess #grieftherapy #griefjourney #lossofalovedone #growthandgrief #traumahealing #loveyourself #heavenandearth https://www.instagram.com/p/CoJ0Y0OMucd/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[thegriefbutton]

My dad passed away unexpectedly in September 2021. Without going into detail, we weren't close for the last 8 years due to his own actions and I struggled to show him I still loved him.

I'll never get over the guilt I feel. He wasn't a well man - Parkinson's Disease is an awful curse - but his death was unrelated to that and didn't give me any chance to say how I felt. It's funny, the week before his passing I'd finally got to a point where I wanted to talk to a professional so I could finally mend the bridge between us.

My aunt, his sister, bought me a photo frame with a picture of him in it... And I can't stand looking at it. When his wife uploads a picture of him, I scroll last quickly. I'm just not ready to see him again, which is crazy because I'd do anything for him to knock on my door again.

I've never felt so lost before. Seeing his pictures reminds me he's not here anymore and I get irrationally irritated when other people upload photos.

Does anyone else feel this?

[lifeoutsideofmyillness]

Everything sucks.

Grief sucks. Addiction sucks. Guilt sucks. Anger sucks. Disappointment sucks. Sometimes it feels like all of life just sucks, even though I know it doesn’t. Allowing myself to process death and begin grieving is hard. It’s been over a month and a half since my mom died. Nobody checks on me anymore. Nobody calls me. Nobody texts me to say they’re thinking of me. The world is still spinning and…

[pixie1013]

Red lip with fun flair, messy fresh cut hair, and eyeliner like I just don't care! 😛 I just tried to have fun with this one. No real aim or goal, just expression. The other day, when I got my hair cut and the big flowers etched in it, my hubby suggested I do makeup and take pics like I normally would. I wasn't really feeling it but it was a nice little kick start to get my creativity back online. Once I started I felt a little creativity flow,, and once I had it on I realized I actually was enjoying myself. Moments on hope. ♡ I'm grateful to have @comradb0ne in my life to point me towards light. ♡ @makeup #makeupideas #makeuplooks #graphicliner #art #glitter #lips #haircut #stripedlips #graphiceyeliner #avantgarde #eyeliner #eyeshadow #eyeshadowlook #meandmyhusband #grievingdaughter #betruetoyourself #makeuplook #fullfacemakeup #mascara #lashes #hazeleyes #stuffeddinosaur #photoedits #makeupforfun #creativityishealing #becreative #PixielandArts #beexcellenttoeachother #facemakeup #lipgloss (at S. Diane Rapp of Pixieland Arts) https://www.instagram.com/p/CS-xCuiL0-p/?utm_medium=tumblr

[writerpyre]

I don’t know how it’s almost been six months now since Mum passed. The estate is being sorted and the house will be valued to go on the market when restrictions ease. The things us kids have got from Mum since her passing are so fucking bittersweet and traitorous in how they’ve only been gained because she’s gone. I’m grateful for what they represent, but in the end, I just want her back. Selfish, because I told her if she was ready to go and she was, but it doesn’t stop the fact that every single thing she left behind has to be dealt with. How has it been six months? #Repost @thegrievingdaughter with @make_repost ・・・ • I love that I have ‘things’ to remember her by and of course, in her absence, I am unbelievably grateful for them. But I would trade them all for one more day with her ❤️ • Anyone else ever look at something their loved one left behind and think that? • Thank God we’ll see them again one day ❤️ • Miss you mum X • #grief #grieving #loss #griefjourney #grievingdaughter #thinkingofyoualways #mentalhealthsupport #grievingdaughters #motherlessdaughters #motherlessdaughter #griefrecovery #griefandloss #griefislove #griefwork #griefsupport #igpoetry #bereavement #quotes #livingwithgrief #griefandhealing #missingyouquotes #thoughts #writing #griefprocess #griefquotes #sadqoutes #lovequotes https://www.instagram.com/p/CGAP7PyDxar/?igshid=10x1pelx1ryqh

[writerinprogress315]

Mom would write a note each 1st day of school & put it in my lunch box, which would also be the only day she made me lunch. Can’t believe I still have the one from #senioryear 2008. Not to mention the most epic #keepsake & #personaltreasure —my baby ID bracelet 🤯 Confusing date...I was born on 3/15, I came home on 5/17 (mom’s bday)...so where does 3/17 come from? 🤔Ok, enough of the cleaning for now, but a nice way to end the 24 hr #anniversary ritual of #walkingdownmemorylane w/ #reflection 💚 Until the next trigger moment. #missingmom #grievingdaughter #memories #writersofinstagram #teachersofinstagram #bloggersofinstagram #readersofinstagram https://www.instagram.com/p/CCGHh-FHej0/?igshid=1so2b2il5nf53

[sineadshinelight]

Even when the world looks cold and unwelcoming And it feels like no-one has your back Remember the world needs your light even more because without you it will be even darker And you are loved, even if you don’t feel it right now Let these feelings pass and tomorrow you can tell a friend all about how terrible yesterday was Because tomorrow you may remember where you feel safe, and that you are loved and find hope again Stay Repost from @sara_rian_books • everything misses you. ♥ 𝚋𝚘𝚘𝚔𝚜 𝚊𝚟𝚊𝚒𝚕𝚊𝚋𝚕𝚎 𝚘𝚗 𝙰𝚖𝚊𝚣𝚘𝚗 ♥ 『𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚔 𝚒𝚗 𝚋𝚒𝚘』 #grief #grieving #griefsupport #heartache #normalizegrief #parentloss #griefjourney #loss #lifeafterdeath #loveandloss #lostlovedones #imissyou #losingyou #griefquotes #motherlessdaughters #motherlessmoms #bereavement #deathanddying #griefandloss #motherlessmothers #poetry #writersofinstagram #poetrycommunity #poetsofinstagram #griefclub #poetryofinstagram #griefhealing #suicidelosssurvivor #suicideloss #grievingdaughter https://www.instagram.com/p/CnoZM_aMenL/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[2heavencards-blog]

Dad in Heaven waterproof memorial site card to order click on profile link or go to www.2heavencards.com #bereavementcards #bereaved #sympathygift #uniquegifts #empathy #etsyforall #etsyshopowner #etsyusa #flowers #gravesitedecoration #griefjourney #grievingdaughter #handmadecards #Instagram #kindness #love #neverforgotten💕😥💕 #shopsmall #sorrow #supportsmallbusiness #waterproofmemorialcards🙏 (at Beaver, Pennsylvania) https://www.instagram.com/p/CA_P5nhJsdL/?igshid=101lmwc523ugs

[yourfotofeed]

Photo of the day 303 by @maya.louhichi · Work in progress . #void #loss #grievingdaughter #maghreb #archives #tunisia #analogphotography #35mmfilm #photooftheday #filmphotography #everydayeverywhere #lensculture #yourfotofeed #fivesixmag #photo_void #myfeatureshoot #ongoingphotoproject #doubleyedge #burnmagazine #fisheyephotography #vimptfreeprint #storytellingphotography #justifiedmagazine https://www.instagram.com/p/CAyWcciI18u/?igshid=10whfm7q36nmn

[felitaslove]

If only women would pray for each other like this instead of tearing each other down. It's not a competition. What God has for you is YOURS! You are more powerful than you could ever truly know. I pray God's protection around you! May you tap into your purpose and the true woman of God you are. PrAy for your sister don't PrEy on your sister. #knowthedifference #P2P2019 💙 #felitaslove #paintopurpose #grief #griefisuniversal #griefisreal #griefempowerment #lifeafterdeath #grievingdaughter #grievingson #grievingchild #childloss #miscarriage #grievingmother #grievingfather #widow #widower #coloncancerawareness #coloncancersucks https://www.instagram.com/p/B0TcIa4lV08/?igshid=1tivd5dt4lx4x

[singlemamamarried]

This picture was taken on #May3rd My husband dragged me out the house because he knew I needed it after a confirmed phone call and it’s crazy how the universe works because just the day before I posted about #MentalHealthAwareness month.. I was excited to share with you all the content I had plan for everyday of the month of May and how important #MentalHealth is and why we need to #BreakTheStigmaOfMentalIllness but on this day about 2hours earlier I receive some terrible news that Im honestly still completely shocked. I had to start all over. I had to focus on my own mental health. I can share with you all I was damn near falling apart. . . They always say that you cant help others if you can’t help yourself. I partially agree because the Thing is I have drugged myself out of number 3 #Depression hole plenty of time, my #PpD hell I’m a #PpdSurvivor all the #Trauma I’ve endure being a #SingleMom but I would advise against going that route. Doing this alone is hard and you’ll find yourself in it deeper and longer and harder to get out of. If you can find support go out and get it! . . This go around I have my husband and a few of my best friends who check on me daily to make sure I’m ok, by having our normal everyday conversation. I appreciate them soooo much. This coming Sunday would mark 4 weeks of the #heartbreaking news I receive. And in all fairness I’m still healing from this.. but who’s to say I can’t help others while I’m still healing from my own hurt. We can all help one another. . . On May 3rd I received a call from my sister that our father passed away from a sudden #HeartAttack I felt completely helpless as I’m 3k miles away. And for those who knows me know the special bond I have with my father. I’m still #grieving I’m still #Hurting and I’m still #Indenial nothing can prepare you for losing a love one this close #MyFirstLove #LosingMyDad If you have ever lost a parent you were very close with I would love to hear how you cope with this heartbreaking loss. . . #Grief #GriefSupport #GriefJourney #GrievingDaughter #LosingSomeone #CopingWithGrief #Anger #Sadness #5StagesOfGrief #Covid19 (at Philadelphia, Pennsylvania) https://www.instagram.com/p/CAtdaFxgQny/?igshid=1pua8bmm92emj

[sharonfacinelliactress]

#film #filmstills #onscreen #grievingdaughter #onfilm #actress #filmactress #twfrs #filmmakers #amomentintime #screentime #dvd #throwbacktuesday #filming https://www.instagram.com/p/B9SMKLmpYY-/?igshid=v29utns7htvn

[ebonyrae]

Today would've been my Mom's 60th birthday! ♋ She's celebrating her 2nd heavenly birthday 😇, but at least I know she's at peace. 🙏 So, instead of being sad and spending the day crying, I'm choosing to celebrate FOR HER by listening to her favorite songs, eating her favorites foods (fried okras from Churches), and dranking some sangria in her honor! 🍷I miss my Mom more than anything, but I know she would want to see my beautiful smile instead of my tears! ❤️ 😘 #happybirthdaymom #cancerseason #missmymom #choosehappiness #celebratelife #smilingthroughthepain #grievehowyouneedto #grievingprocess #griefjourney #griefsupport #grieving #grievingdaughter #motherlessdaughters #griefblogger #sandiego (at San Diego, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/BzLwjbXHbr9/?igshid=1tfpi1zt0os1h

[sarahphoenixrising-blog]

#grievingmother #griefawareness #babylossawareness #miscarriageawareness #multiplepregnancyloss #pregnancyloss #miscarriage #srruggling #grievingdaughter #mother #mothersday #grief https://www.instagram.com/p/BxZLG9Njpkt/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=3v1yva4hftcj

[writerinprogress315]

Sometimes when you can’t sleep you clean & you find memories at just the right moment, say an anniversary that makes you miss you sad. I found, in order: 1. Mom saved a piece of her work shirt with the quote from the movie she knew I loved, 2. Ticket from when mom took me to see HP3 straight from picking me up from my Europe trip bc I was behind & she needed me to see it so we could talk, 3. The Ren Fair ticket from when mom took me for my 21st & the ring she bought me that I haven’t taken off since, 4. Ticket from when mom took me to see the Lion King Musical a 2nd time right after grandma died bc she knew we needed it, and 5. The last fun outing we had—the ticket to see the live-action Beauty & the Beast for my 27th (yes, that was 3.5 mths before she died). #missingmom #anniversaries #grief #lionkingmusical #darkknight #beautyandthebeast #harrypotterandtheprisonerofazkaban #renaissancefestival #memories #memoriesforlife #keepsakes #personaltreasures #movies #grievingdaughter #teachersofinstagram #bloggersofinstagram #readersofinstagram https://www.instagram.com/p/CCGGgVUHR1r/?igshid=1eou1m5xquo6g

[sineadshinelight]

There are so many things I miss The big things and the small The plate left on the settee The tissues that would drive me mad cos they would be left wherever she sat Diva would even purposefully leave one on the settee when she would go back to Uni, cos obviously, I missed picking up after her, and this was done with the intention of helping me feel like she was home The text messages that never came alone, but would arrive with a sound of urgency, often just to tell me that someone was sitting on her seat on the bus, or that a work colleague held the wrong views on the world The things that were just a part of normal, every day life that I never saw coming to an end #Repost @sara_rian_books with @use.repost ・・・ home. my new book 𝑳𝒐𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝑮𝒐𝒏𝒆 coming soon✨ 𝚋𝚘𝚘𝚔𝚜 𝚊𝚟𝚊𝚒𝚕𝚊𝚋𝚕𝚎 𝚘𝚗 𝙰𝚖𝚊𝚣𝚘𝚗 ♥ 『𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚔 𝚒𝚗 𝚋𝚒𝚘』 #grief #grieving #griefsupport #heartache #normalizegrief #missingyou #griefjourney #loss #lifeafterdeath #loveandloss #lostlovedones #imissyou #losingyou #griefquotes #griefislove #bereaved #bereavement #deathanddying #griefandloss #griefshare #griefpoetry #poetry #writersofinstagram #poetrycommunity #poetsofinstagram #griefclub #poetryofinstagram #griefhealing #grievingdaughter https://www.instagram.com/p/CqSA206sr12/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=